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hati ada pada 66 yrs ole man? gila ke aku ni
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all the best TT..moga bertemu kebahagian..inshaaAllah |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 26-9-2016 06:08 PM
know what you want
know ho to go about it
and i guess at your age now - u tak payah nak intai intai atau berasa kena korek be upfront about things yg you tak sure
and you always have the upper hand in saying yes i want to pursue therelationship or vice versa
i tengok dia honest tang bab anak dia and condition anak dia...dan niat dianak anak dia hidup independent boleh je tolong, tolonglah tu bagus tu
sebab i rasa dari posting you ni , u dah lalui learning process yang memang u dah macam tahu dah riak lenggok orang...u dah ada pengalaman suka duka ..so pemgalaman itu mematangkan
the question is only about you u and him
and seek divine intervention solat akhir sepertiga malam tahajud and then sebelum subuh
ni u buat je hari hari doakan sekiranya ia jodohku dekatkanlah dan sekiranya bukan ...maka ....
doa je
ask Allah...
ask parents
sebab i tahu niat you baik , sebab nak help each other nak baiki hijrah diri
so well teruskan itu kalau benda ni membuatkan u dekat dengan Allah dah pun well alhamdulillah well done, sebab you pun menyatakan hasrat nak org bimbing etc - nothing wrong with that tapi kalau org tu tak ada pun , you can mencari ilmu tu sendiri on your own...
u know teruskan benda yg dekatkan you dengan Allah maka insya Allah ...apa apa pun you senang dengan apa apa aspek kehidupan
tu lah dunia
Allah jadikan
perfect imperfection
cantik , kan ?
benda ni minta aje dialogue aje dengan allah waktu malam...
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sngt menarik apabila banyak juga pendapat yg prejudis terhadap lelaki 66 thn yg tt ada hati tu hanya semata2 umur lelaki tersebut..
apa kaitannya umur seseorg lelaki tu dgn niat baik/jahat??
katakanlah sekiranya dibandingkan antara dua lelaki, muda dan tua datang cuba pikat tt..
lelaki 1 (ciri-ciri yg dpt dilihat: baik, beriman, sopan, peramah, muda)
adakah komen2 yg tt terima seperti begini?
- wow.. congrats tt dah jumpa pasangan sepadan..
- tahniah tt.. berjaya jumpa lelaki yg baik dan beriman pula tu..
- akhirnya setelah lama tt mencari.. bertemu juga dgn cinta suci.. tahniah tt..
lelaki 2 (ciri-ciri yg dpt dilihat: baik, beriman, sopan, peramah, tua)
adakah komen2 yg tt terima seperti begini?
- baik2 tt.. jaga2.. org mcm ni berpengalaman, ayat manis, pandai ambil kesempatan..
- hati2 tt.. entah2 dia cuba ambil kesempatan supaya nanti ada org boleh jaga dia masa tua kerepot nanti
- bukan boleh percaya org mcm ni tt.. dia pandai mengayat dan memikat dgn ayat2 manis...
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sama ada lelaki tersebut baik atau jahat tak ada kaitan dengan umurnya.. sekiranya dia seorang yg masih muda, dia boleh jadi seorang yang baik atau jahat.. begitu juga sekiranya dia seorang yg sudah berumur, dia juga boleh jadi seorang yang baik atau jahat..
ya.. lelaki yg sedang berkawan dgn tt sekarang ni ada kemungkinan boleh jadi seorang yg ambil kesempatan terhadap tt.. tapi tu xde kaitan pun dgn umur.. kalau dia seorang lelaki muda yang sudah ada anak atau yang masih belum ada anak pun boleh juga jadi seorang yg jahat yang mengambil kesempatan terhadap tt dalam apa jua bentuk kesempatan sekalipun..
sekiranya nak dikatakan tiada keserasian antara tt dan kawan lelaki tt tu, mungkin dari segi fizikal kerana tt masih lagi antara muda dan tua manakala kawan lelaki tt tu sudah berumur.. tetapi sekiranya tt boleh terima kekurangan dari segi keupayaan fizikal dan utamakan kualiti yg lain seperti baik, sopan, berpengetahuan berkenaan agama, tt mungkin sudah menjumpai lelaki yg tt idam2kan selama ini..
apa2 pun, berbalik kpd tt untuk menilai samada kawan lelaki tt tu adalah seorang lelaki yang benar2 baik atau tidak sebelum ambil keputusan untuk berkahwin dengannya.. dan sama ada baik atau jahat sesorang tu, tak ada kaitan pun dgn umurnya
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Thank you i appreciate ur reply.
Being fair. Thanks
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Thank you babe ur d best !
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Iolls rasa dia orang bukan tekankan baik & jahat dgn umur.
Muda boleh jadi baik, boleh jadi jahat.
Tua boleh jadi baik, boleh jadi jahat.
Muda, tak berharta, masih ada masa utk berusaha memperbaiki diri.
Tua, tak berharta, usia pencen, nak dapat kerja pun belum tentu ada yang nak beri.
Mungkin forumer lain fikirkan....
Muda, banyak tenaga, boleh berusaha, banyak peluang untuk ditambah baik, boleh diharapkan.
Tapi kalau tua, kurang tenaga, tak banyak peluang untuk ditambah baik, mengharap yang lebih muda.
Realiti hidup,
Suami, tempat bergantung hidup seorang isteri.
Isteri, bukan tempat suami bergantung hidup, sediakan makan minum, tempat tinggal dan keselesaaan sementara menghabiskan hari2 tua..
Teruk sangat ke?
Perkahwinan itu perjanjian jangka panjang yang diharapkan hingga ke akhir hayat.
Semuanya berbalik kepada penerimaan, ikhlas ke?
Selama mana?
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Good point jugak babe
Thats why tt take it slow.
At least i try to get few connections for him. To set up balik training dia. He is a consultant trainings so mana tau to keep in touch balik dgn his circle of friends
Itu je la role tt pd dia
My feelings for him is real still but yes tt start slow down xmau let my emotions control my decisions
So now tt relax jee
Tapi nampak dia sayang tt and nampakla dia bersemangat sikit
Good enaf kan?
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That ole man text me
i love u , sayang.
Huh not bad 66 yrs old to say that.
the only thing i donr reply...hmmmm i wonder....the sparks is gone or i think to much...still im buyingg him late lunch later after prayer |
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tiada yang luar biasa pon..laki berusia ini sudah matang dan romantis juga..pengalaman aku lihat kawan2 ku yang sominya berumur dari dia nmpak dia dimanjakan kerna kawan2 ku kebudakan dan sominya rajin melayan dengan matang lucu kadang2 aku lihat |
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dear adila
i think - it might be helpful kalau u nak explore sikit on developmenta; psychology bagi dewasa lanjut - golongan dewasa lanjut...
yups...
hmm...
still u know....dia suka companionship tapi tulah
awak pahatkan sahabat ini lillahi taala , u carry out the task ke apa sebaiik mungkin u know...doa doa kan yg terbaik...klau ye - dekatkanlah if not you know...
heheheh
u ni head over heels lagi ye
well dear cinta itu mengasyikkan di dalam lamunan itu but am sure you are a very well grounded , wise lady....
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Edited by adila39 at 1-10-2016 07:29 AM
Semalam tt hesitate sikit nk jumpa . Mula tu tt cancel kata buzy.. Tapi hati ni xsedap dan rasa i want to see him so call him back
Yes we meet up and as i guess so much dia belum lunch.. So makanlah kami di old town. Dia nasi lemak with ayam and tt mee wantan
From 3 to 6.30
Tt xnk balik bila jumpa dan berborak the sparks tu datang balik
I asked alot of things
1) kalau u ada intention to remarry so what is the plan.
2) how are you going to cope
3) how are you going to handle situation and ur not young physically mentally
4) how are you going to support the wife and can u handle wife with kid
Then tt cakaplah the point all lebih pada tt sb tt yg kena consider what if after 3 yrs kita kawen u sakit?
Dear syg mmgla kalau boleh i nak kawen dgn u skrg tp i faham ur concern and langsung takde i nak gunakan u u are like a gift dari allah to me so i will try my best to protect you
I will never touch you i will never use you and i care about you
I am doing my trainings and insyallah come out with some big plans
Kita merancang allah yang tentukan
Actually the point tu semua lebih pada t
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Ipad ni mengong pulak
Actually point tu semua terletak pada tt.
For now im helping him giving him moral support and setakat lunch and buy him suppliment
Helping him is like helping myself
Be a better person
I betulkan solat
I care and be more soft to my parents
I think more about future
I work harder
So influence knowing him setakat ni semua baik
And our dating is the simplest ever go and meet one place eat and talked
No holding hands or apa but we laughed alot while talkings
Life can be so weird
My intention is only to help ole man finding a better life and at least me be his moral support
Bab nak kawen tu kami simpan shaja dalam hati untill we both know each well dan kalau jodoh, insyaallah |
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adila39 replied at 28-9-2016 02:49 PM
Good point jugak babe
How kind of you to help him in his career. Baguslah gitu. Take it slow see where ot goes. Kalau ada jodoh tak ke mana. Continue to be good to each other. |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 2-10-2016 06:53 PM
i see...hahaha he 's being honest about his relationship with you ye. what interests me is that he is ble to communicate his understanding about your concern and expectation tu. see? bila u tanya all those questions, senang je dia jawab - about his current state of affairs, he is aware about your ideas, concern and expectations tu.
and i like the way he responded to your queries tu ( valid questiosn by the way ) and he is being groundedly honest about it.
okaylah - right now , u are pretty much clear that there is no ( insya allah and nauzbillah ) ill intent on his part
but if you think this companionship will lead to kebaikan for each othe doa and mohon allah. kalau dewasa lanjut ini - depa more to companionship - nak ada somebosy to talk to , being around with ...in normal couple lah. tak palah dalam konteks ini , the wife is not there ...well...hehehe
kalau nak tolong dia dalam ruang lingkup yang appropriate then, carry on.
Tapi apa apa pun teruskan hijrah diri with or without him for you have Allah - pemberi cinta.
well...okay.
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Soul never gets old TT, remember  |
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Somehow mcm tok kenal aje la tt ni
Tapi di mana ya
Im not him, the 60 plus man |
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Dia cakap i give him fire to move on
Now dia pegi gym yess he is not an ordinary 66 ole man |
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I think i am going to have a very exciting love story. Hahaha xtau la if its like an italian romance movie where ole man work hard to transform himself to the woman he loves
Or it can be a horror love melayu movie where half aged woman finding love with older man and end up being a day care wife or
True love with no bondaries end up spending a short 10 yrs together and after husband passed away and living his wife with his massive training legendary
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Edited by mbhcsf at 3-10-2016 05:38 PM
hehehe teringat citer marisa tomei and robert downey junior - duanne bradley on italian romance hahahahahah sorry ..itu film, i tengok back in 1997 
tak pe , whatever it is - if this is a platform for you to achieve anything that is positive ( and him as well ) just always doa and seek for Allah's guidance, mohon agar Dia protects you from harm, guide you to be a better person ...etc
in anything , just you know remember one thing - u always have Allah ...and that is okay already. sayang prg lillahi taala...tapi apa apa pun letak Allah dalam hati ..if anything just remmeber - Allah wont break you..but He gives you strength
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Bila sampai masa umur akak 66 tahun, suami akak baru 48 tahun. Kalau dia nak kahwin lain pun akak tak kisah, sekarang pun kalau dia nak kahwin lain tak kisah. Dia je yang kisah, beban katanya. Akak tinggal rumah orang tua pun takpe, tapi bukan rumah org tua yang free tu, mestilah cari yang selesa. Org kata, tenaga & sihat usia tua kita bergantung ms muda kita dan org tua kita. Mak akak masa umur 70 tahun masih drive kereta lagi, akak harap begitulah akak ms tu.
TT, cinta tak kenal usia. Follow your heart. |
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