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Happiness?

Pink_Purple replied at 16-6-2017 08:06 AM
babi la jantan2 malaysia ni..haha pagi jumaat dah kumaki orang..

jantan yang bertuhankan kebendaa ...

I like ur words, so true! Memang bertuhankan kebendaan, hilang kasih sayang. Itu yg i rasa selama ni tp org xfaham. Kwn i mane yg tau mesti pelik and think i am stupid because since I marry him, i can get anything i want, but they don't know the other side of the story. They don't know how i need to swallow everything. My husband don't respect me most of the times. He always make fun of me. Tahlar, kalau cerita org xkan faham. Kene tinggal sekali dgn dia baru org tau mcm mana rasanya. Thank you for ur kind words.

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Mnahwitty replied at 16-6-2017 08:21 AM
semoga u ketemu bahagia dan semua urusan u dipermudahkan.
Dekatkan diri pada Pencipta kerna Pencipt ...

Aminnnnn, amin3, inshaAllah. Semoga dimakbulkan doa2 yg baik ini. Aminn..

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tunangku replied at 16-6-2017 12:53 PM
Kalau isteri yg minta fasakh, mmg boleh minta n tuntut ya?
Kalau gitu tt minta nafkah tertunggak
N ...

I pn krg pasti bab2 ni. X berapa arif but i'll liaise with my lawyer to get things done.  

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jue10 replied at 17-6-2017 10:42 AM
aku pn dh brcerai hampir 9 thn bru jmp lelaki yg sgt baik. kami blm kwin lg. knl hampir 1y. sblm ni  ...

Omg, scarynye i baca. Kemanakah menghilang semua lelaki baik dalam dunia ni. Semoga u bertemu bahagia dgn si dia, inshaAllah. I pun harap i dpt jumpe dgn someone yg serasi dgn i, yg boleh sehidup semati dgn i. Sedih mengenangkan nasib diri kan. Ya Allah, permudahkanlah semuanya. Sudah terlalu lama menderita.

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sally03tomato replied at 19-6-2017 02:57 PM
boleh tuntut harta sepencarian la... kalau ada transaction bank keluar duit pun lagi bagus

Transaction bank tu mmg ada. Nnti i akan kumpulkan.

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natberry replied at 19-6-2017 02:58 PM
memang tanggung seumur hidup.. tp x pe la,, moga Allah gantikan yg lebih baik :-)

InshaAllah. Semoga u dikurniakan sesuatu yg boleh membahagiakan u despite all the troubles.  

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caritegar replied at 21-6-2017 12:15 AM
Sabar ya.. Ai pon dalam verge of breaking.. My husband slept with other woman.. Everything just happ ...

I feel sorry for u. My heart just can't take all this nonsense. How can a woman be so cruel like that? If I know my husband slept with another woman, i'll take the same steps as urs. From what i know, my husband still in the texting stage with another woman. Other than that I don't know because he always went for outstation, so i don't have any idea what he did behind me.

He always accused me of having someone else because many single and married men approach me but for god sake, i never did anything behind him, i am being loyal to him all this while. He accused me just to cover himself. I can betray him with all those guys once i know about his affair but i am not gonna stoop to his level. I'll do it in my own way, the proper way. But that's not the only reason i ask for divorce, a lot more.

I hope u can stay strong. Well, it's difficult i know. Because i'm facing the same situation too. It aint easy, sayang. That's why i post it here, just to keep my sanity by reading all the supports. Just to know that i am not alone fighting this kind of battle. 2/7/17 my case will be read at the court. I hope everything went well.

Things not gonna be the same again after this for me. And i know, it's gonna be so tough living as a widow. Allah, this is heartbraking. May Allah show us the way and ease everything for us. I really hope something good happen after this. Amin. My hug to ur little one.

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NurAlia14 replied at 21-6-2017 09:06 PM
Kau beruntung at least laki kau nk divorce..jgn jd mcm aku...aku dh xde ht tp die xnk divorce.bnyk k ...

Husband i xnak lepaskan i. I dah jumpe dia explain and minta dia lepaskan i secara elok, tp dia still xnak. Dia email i. Dia kate i can ask for a divorce in a court, but he will never divorce me. I berharap sgt sebutan case 2/7 ni akan berjalan lancar dan dia akan lepaskan i dgn elok.

I terpaksa buat tuntutan fasakh memandangkan dia nak complicated kan keadaan. I pn sama mcm u, x happy living with him, hati dah tawar, xde rasa apa2. I doakan semoga urusan u dipermudahkan dgn segera. Semoga kite same2 beroleh kebahagiaan yg kita cari selama ni. Amin.

NurAlia14

Happiness? replied at 22-6-2017 04:26 PM
Husband i xnak lepaskan i. I dah jumpe dia explain and minta dia lepaskan i secara elok, tp dia st ...

Same mcm my hub.die ckp i blh pg mahkamah tp die xkn lpskn..jhtkn niat mcm tu..ape motif agaknye..mb depa ingt kalo kte yg tntut fasakh, dorg blh tuntut duit dr kte kot...lelaki mcm ni pengecut xlayak jd pembimbing..sbb tu skng i mule kumpul bukti kalo die ade buat slh...skng otw balik rumah..tp ht xhappy...kenangkan anak2 je skng ni kt umah tu

estrelle

Takutnya nak kawen..biarlah single smpai bila2 dr dpt laki tak semenggah

munchkin

Kenapa dia minta slip gaji? Utk apa?

munchkin

Kalau gaji dia banyak kenapa dia minta u buat personal loan? Duit dia pun habis dah ke? Sorry banyak tanya pulak?

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NurAlia14 replied at 22-6-2017 04:33 PM
Same mcm my hub.die ckp i blh pg mahkamah tp die xkn lpskn..jhtkn niat mcm tu..ape motif agaknye.. ...

I think the same too. Maybe pada pandangan mereka sekiranya fasakh maka mereka berhak utk tuntut segalanya dari kita. I am not sure though. Today i still kerja lagi, ahad raya. Along the way from the car park to my office i cried. Sayunya hati rasa pagi ni. Mix feeling. I am not that strong. But i will keep trying. Ada hari rasa kuat, ada hari rasa lemah longlai. Beza i dgn u ialah i belum ada anak with him. Alhamdulillah. U, kita sama2 cuba bangkit ya?

NurAlia14

Happiness? replied at 23-6-2017 08:25 AM
I think the same too. Maybe pada pandangan mereka sekiranya fasakh maka mereka berhak utk tuntut s ...

kne kuat..mmg ade hr2 kte rase down..xde tmpt nk cerita nk luah sbb org sekeliling its either laugh at us atau pn diam..ape yg kne pk skng is kalo xde die hidup kte will be so much better. keep that in mind. kemon, jantan bkn seekor..

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munchkin replied at 23-6-2017 06:24 AM
Kalau gaji dia banyak kenapa dia minta u buat personal loan? Duit dia pun habis dah ke? Sorry banyak ...

I am not sure why he asked for my pay slip. Dia ni sejenis suka hutang card credit sampai byk2 kdg2 sampai x mampu nk bayar. Gaji byk, tp lagi banyak hutang card credit. From what i know dia ckp dia nak kurangkan tanggungan card credit dia, that's why he asked for my pay slip. Dia nak i tolong dia but i said direct to him, sorry u lupa ke u dah halau i?

Masa u halau u fikir mana i nak pergi dgn barang i yg banyak tu. Xde rasa nk tlg i langsung. And now u want me to help u? He must be crazy. Tp i xnampak apa kaitannya dgn slip gaji i and hutang card credit dia tu. I speculate, there must be hidden agenda. In fact, card credit i pun dia guna dan sekarang i yg tanggung hutang tu walaupun dia tahu i sgt xsuka guna card credit, sampai bergaduh2 pasal card credit ni.

kaseh80

Cut your ties with him immediately

Block his fon no


Move on and dont look back

munchkin

Happiness? replied at 23-6-2017 08:32 AM
I am not sure why he asked for my pay slip. Dia ni sejenis suka hutang card credit sampai byk2 kdg ...

Terminate lah credit card tu or block report missing. Or bagi tahu u dalam process and minta depa block. Aiyooo

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kaseh80 replied at 23-6-2017 09:56 AM
Cut your ties with him immediately

Block his fon no

Hari ni 2/7/2017 i sah diceraikan dgn talak 1 di depan hakim.

Hari ni, tamat tempoh i jadi isteri seseorang selama 2 tahun 7 bulan

Lagi beberapa hari birthday i, hadiah birthday barangkali

Hari ni dalam sejarah. Tinggal kenangan

Pink_Purple

Happiness? replied at 2-7-2017 10:01 PM
Hari ni 2/7/2017 i sah diceraikan dgn talak 1 di depan hakim.

Hari ni, tamat tempoh i jadi ist ...

bersabar la akak,

ada hikmah allah uji sebegini, sayunya rasa..

kesat air mata akak, move on, xpayah toleh kebelakang..ingat la allah ada bersama kita, tentu ada jalan kebahagiaan..

caca_eric

sedihnya dgr cerita tt
bgkit lah
mmg ada lelaki sebegitu rupa
dahbuang tp keepmengata n berkira