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Mengapa 'andartua'terlalu sensitif?

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Post time 14-2-2012 02:37 PM | Show all posts
Reply 119# cmf_king_kong


    good then...what is that TWIT?
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Reply 121# midori888

Teenage Women In their Thirties

it's a new social phenomenon dekat UK sekarang ni
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Post time 14-2-2012 03:47 PM | Show all posts
Reply 122# cmf_king_kong

Hahaha...{:4_502:} Politically correct answer though auntie doubts it very much.....

Why don't both of u call it a truce today and celebrate the day together as peace offering?
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Post time 14-2-2012 03:51 PM | Show all posts
Reply 122# cmf_king_kong


    oic...tapi syg kat UK jer....kat sini applicable tak?
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Post time 14-2-2012 03:54 PM | Show all posts
Reply 123# auntieagony


    auntie...we are in peace....peace offering is not necessary lah....
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Post time 14-2-2012 03:56 PM | Show all posts
Reply 125# midori888

Sori... auntie ni orgtua yg tak menyabar.... nak mempercepatkan process jer!

Selamat Hari Berkasih Sayang...{:4_184:}
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Post time 14-2-2012 03:58 PM | Show all posts
Reply 126# auntieagony


    Selamat Hari Kasih Syg to u too auntie....
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Reply 124# midori888

ramai je TWIT kat malaysia neh...
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Reply 123# auntieagony

tanak peace offering..

nak virgin sacrificial ritual

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Reply 127# midori888

Thanks my dear....
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Post time 14-2-2012 04:03 PM | Show all posts
Reply 129# cmf_king_kong

Tak menyabar sungguh KK ni...

Boleh jer, dah siap duit maskawin, tok kadhi, 2 saksi dan sijil kursus perkahwinan? Jap auntie tanya Miss M (bukan nama sebenar) pulak....
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Reply 131# auntieagony


    org gelojoh memang camtu auntie.....
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Post Last Edit by auntieagony at 14-2-2012 16:23

Reply 127# midori888

What say you wz reference to KK's suggestion?

Hint : Pssstt...Pssttt... Minta pengeras dulu... No, not that...  Pengerasnya ialah duit maskawin, tok kadhi, 2 saksi dan sijil kursus perkahwinan... Hahaha

Sure TAK brani lah korang berdua ... Don't worry, all your excuses are in my pocket - bak kata lecturer auntie dulu.....
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Post time 14-2-2012 04:22 PM | Show all posts
Reply 133# midori888

Bukan gelojoh... cuma tak sabar dgn panahan asmara....  OMG, did I just type that - panahan asmara... Hahaha...{:4_500:}  Blame it on the day....
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Post time 14-2-2012 04:28 PM | Show all posts
Reply 133# auntieagony


    don't knw lah auntie...what do u think?
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Post time 14-2-2012 04:35 PM | Show all posts
Reply 135# midori888

Kalau tanya auntie..... auntie on jer.... But I'm just an old auntie, ngaku pun...

The decision is yours, my dear.... Hope u say yes.....

I'm a romantic fool, not twit yer! As in "Teenage Woman in Thirties".... Yolah tu.... Hihihi
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Post time 14-2-2012 05:32 PM | Show all posts
Reply 136# auntieagony


hmmm....decision...decision....this is rather difficult one....i think i go back to this in another....let say....next 5 years.....
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Post time 14-2-2012 05:55 PM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by auntieagony at 14-2-2012 18:12

Reply 137# midori888

Lamanya.... Nanti hujah2 kaum chauvinist bhw kaum wanita lambat membuat keputusan bertambah kuat.....  By then, auntie kena pakai tongkat kaki 3 utk ke majlis you (kalau dijemput ler!)....

Relax my dear... auntie nyakat jer....

Take your time to decide issues that gonna affect you for the rest of your life. Just go with the flow.... And ....enjoy life.... Don't think too hard... Life is easy, why make it difficult (ayat2 en suamiku)....

Back to topik -

Sensitiviti anak dara yg masih belum berkawin bergantung kpd perwatakan seseorang, cara hidup dan budaya masing2.... Tak boleh membuat rumusan di dlm one basket. Ada yg sensitif dan ada yg relaks jer....
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Post time 14-2-2012 08:28 PM | Show all posts
sebab tu aniss kena baca elok2...ilmu tuhan luas, kajian2 saintifik yg di buat tak bleh di sangkal...ini juga termasuk isu2 andartu...ada paham?
ifanonline Post at 14/2/2012 13:30


Salam bro ifan, terima kasih sebab rajin sangat memikirkan tentang isu2 andartu di negara Malaysia ni. Tahniah jugak sebab rajin buat kajian..i'm sure bro ifan dah jumpa pelbagai jenis andartu yang mempunyai sikap negatif. Sorry to say yang bro tak berapa bertuah sbb TERjumpa dengan pesen2 gitu. Kami2 kat luar ni banyak jumpa dengan andartu yang bersikap positif.

Saya tak kisah bro ifan benci, dengki, jeles, tak suka, menyampah etc dengan andartu tapi harap hentikan memprovoke & menghina mereka. Bro ifan lebih dewasa daripada saya dan saya pun tak faham nape bila tiba part andartu bro punya pemikiran & penulisan jadi pesen2 'sampah' gini. mustahil bro tak perasan penulisan sendiri yang nyata menyakitkan hati andartu sebab bro main pukul rata je. i'm one of your fan dulu..suka dengan pemikiran yang kritis dan ilmu best yang dishare dulu. i wonder why jadik gini...


anyway, lepas ni kalau bro ifan insist nak provoke jugak..silakan..
tapi saya akan jalankan tugas yang tidak berbayar ni & ambil tindakan yang sewajarnya..
harap bro faham.


thanks.
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Post time 14-2-2012 08:53 PM | Show all posts
Salam bro ifan, terima kasih sebab rajin sangat memikirkan tentang isu2 andartu di negara Malays ...
cinta_ungu Post at 14-2-2012 20:28


wow...the best reply from any forumer yet...kpd moderators dlm ATW, contoh mod yg baik dlm berforum...tahniah diucapkan...

mcm ni la saudari cinta ungu, ilmu tuhan itu luas, samada positif dan negatif, kesemuanya ilmu yg di beri oleh ilahi...sebenarnya isu andartu sudah lama bermain dlm pemikiran saya...mulanya saya malas nak letak topik andartu ni sebagai perbincangan tetapi i can see that andartu ni adalah future danger i.e. masalah yg bakal timbul kpd kestabilan masyarakat...semakin hari semakin ramai wanita tidak melihat kepentingan perkahwinan...melihat perkahwinan sebagai beban dan satu yg negatif...persepsi ini adalah negative...

ada yg mengatakan lelaki juga ada yg tak kawin...but the problem occur between men and women are totally different...lelaki mudah utk berkahwin berbanding wanita...hence, lambakan andartu akan berlaku dlm masyarakat...i pity them...

jodoh di tangan tuhan, tetapi manusia tetap perlu berusaha...termasuk juga andartu, jgn pasrah sahaja...jadi kpd andartu yg rasa terhina tu, sila berforum cara berhemah...dan tidak mudah terhina atau tersentap sana sini...maybe your point can change my point of view?
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