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Post time 2-12-2007 06:32 AM | Show all posts

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Originally posted by truly at 29-11-2007 08:23 AM
hi semua

saya orang baru di board ini, baru nak berjinak dengan family discussion. walau di sini forumners tak mengenal saya, harap tidak ignore thread saya....

salam perkenalan.:handshake: ...

The simplest answer is yes we can...but it is not right to do so...love someone for who they are not for what you think you can mould them into..
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Post time 2-12-2007 09:31 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by truly at 1-12-2007 01:59 PM


thanks for the warm welcome eva

and thanks for sharing your expericences.......boleh di jadikan panduan...dan memberi hope pada orang yang punya pasangan yang ada ciri ciri tak menepati ...


kadang2 kita kena compromise ngan org tersayang... tak rugi kalau nak berubah kalau benda tu bwk byk kebaikkan ;)
honestly dulu kalau ckp ngan org.. ntah apa2 tetiba pipi i jd blushing n i mesti terkelu sekejap. So my darling nie encourage jumpa orang, get involved dgn org yg less fortunate dr kita dan belajar byk benda2 yg takder kena ajar kat skool. alhamdulilah semuanya mendtgkan hasil.
ciri2 tak menepati tu maybe harsh sikit .. setiap insan ada kekurangan tp tak salah kalau kita encourage insan yg kita sayangi supaya perbaiki kekurangan dia dgn cara positive

jgn kecil hati bila pasangan ckp apa yg terbaik utk kita.. kita cuba, kita usaha.. dan kalau kita sabar insya Allah akan dpt hasil juga. Yg penting sama2 berfikiran positive
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Post time 2-12-2007 01:01 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by truly at 1-12-2007 01:10 PM


salam posh......sure boleh kenal.......:handshake:

Posh apa kabar? adakah seposh orangnya? hehe

salammm...
hehehehhe..saya posh la sikit
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Post time 2-12-2007 02:53 PM | Show all posts
hurm..for me..susah nak ubh sum1 melainkan urg tu yg nak..sebab anything pon from deep inside sum1's heart..
ape pun kalo urg tu dah betoi2 sayang kt, it's not impossible he/she can changes to be abetter person..
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Post time 3-12-2007 03:19 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 1-12-2007 04:11 PM


apa lak..aku bujang sonang... perabeh duitttttt jek kawin2 ni..kendian mengatal ngan oang lain..buang karen


orang bujang kata bujang tu sonang....coz nak buat aper pun tak saper nak larang or nak comment.....orang yang dah kahwin pulak kata kahwin tu sonang...can kongsi mengongsi mana yang terkurang atau terlebih..so which is which ni erk?...

aiseh abe aji....abe aji kan banyak pitih...sesekali perabih tu okay aper...duit bebanyak pun bukan boleh bawa masuk dalam kubur.....
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Post time 3-12-2007 03:34 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 1-12-2007 04:39 PM



tp kalu suh ubah dr +ve to -ve camner plak? bini malas kemas umah, tuh +ve ka -ve? mak dia ajar x yah kemas2 umah tuh bagus ka? semak tau..aku rimas umah sepah2...


penilaian whether it is +ve or -ve is very subjective bro....one person can say it is a +ve attitude but don't be surprised if for the same criteria it is observed -ve by others....

kemas rumah ni pun ada banyak tekniknya bro....and beribu tahap kekemasan...and one thing for sure...kemas rumah is not one of the technique teach to their daughters....it is more of observed and learn....a driving force within the human needs to be living in a well kept environment...

sometime kalau rumah terlalu kemas but you don't be able to find most of your stuff most of the time tak guna gak...but then if the rumah tak dikemaskan but then you can still live in it comfortably, I don't see a reason that it is an issue....

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Post time 3-12-2007 03:59 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 3-12-2007 03:34 PM


penilaian whether it is +ve or -ve is very subjective bro....one person can say it is a +ve attitude but don't be surprised if for the same criteria it is observed -ve by others....

kemas  ...



rumah kita cemana nak kemas luv, dah kemas, kita gomoi balik, dah kemas, ada tarian tiang balik... huish... tak berkemas le akhirnya
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Post time 3-12-2007 04:00 PM | Show all posts
aku berjaya mengubah somi aku to be more lomentik dari kayu
masa berchenta.... kayu pon lomentik aku rasa.... boleh lentuk2
kenapa aku nak ubah somi aku?.. jawapannya sbb aku ni manja... tak bole idup kalo serius 24jam

dan sikalang aku tgh cuba ubah laki aku utk jadik rajin mengemas....
stakat nie... boleh ler 10% berubah
aku pon tak expect lelebih sbb aku pon pemalas
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Post time 3-12-2007 07:03 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by dianthe at 3-12-2007 03:59 PM



rumah kita cemana nak kemas luv, dah kemas, kita gomoi balik, dah kemas, ada tarian tiang balik... huish... tak berkemas le akhirnya


tak berkemas ek rumah kita tu??....laaaaaaa bila ngan lu kan...tak perasan langsung situasi rumah....color dinding pun gua tak perasan.... ......
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Post time 3-12-2007 10:13 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by truly at 1-12-2007 12:42 PM


hi oshin

thanks for the warm welcome...hari tu takut takut jugak nak merantau board, tapi kata danhill masuk saja....happy to see you here.

kenapa nak ubah...ntah la oshin. ...

Bumi CARI ni luas Truly, best tahu berjalan2 dengan jari kita ni kat forum

It's human tendency to show only their best part when they first met, first impression is vital towards attracting the person
that you want to get along with, along the way some people tends to show not their true side in frienship/courtship

while it's acceptable to be just a little bit nicer at the first stage, and show only our best side, sooner or later, it's going to back fire

so pada oshin lah yer, kita harus jujur dengan diri kita sendiri, kalau perwatakan dan cara pembawakan kita tu elok, tak perlu
kita hendak merubah diri kita atau pun orang lain

nice to see you here Truly
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Post time 3-12-2007 10:16 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 3-12-2007 07:03 PM


tak berkemas ek rumah kita tu??....laaaaaaa bila ngan lu kan...tak perasan langsung situasi rumah....color dinding pun gua tak perasan.... ......

kan rumah dah tak berkemas, patut lah hari tu oshin ke rumah mod cat, cat dinding dah terkopek2, nak tegur segan
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Post time 4-12-2007 01:05 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by OsHiN_hOnEy at 3-12-2007 10:16 PM

kan rumah dah tak berkemas, patut lah hari tu oshin ke rumah mod cat, cat dinding dah terkopek2, nak tegur segan


aiseh babe....that's the latest trend untuk cat dinding...gamaknya la...babe gua yang pilih....gua alright jer....for me whatever my babe choose...it is definitely the best....

tegur jer la...ngan gua lu nak segan aper??....kecuali lu tegur maser gua and my babe tengah guling guling kat lantai tu...baru la lu leh segan.... ....
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Post time 4-12-2007 03:21 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 3-12-2007 03:19 PM


orang bujang kata bujang tu sonang....coz nak buat aper pun tak saper nak larang or nak comment.....orang yang dah kahwin pulak kata kahwin tu sonang...can kongsi mengongsi mana yang terkuran ...


duit tu memang tokleh bawak ke kuboqqqqq...tapikk duit tu bleh terangkannnn masa ko dalam kuboqqqqq..

so nanti malaikat kasik ko kertas soklannn..ko nampakkkkkkk laa soklan tuuu , idak lah meraba raba macam ko di dunia raba bontot bibik dalam lift kah kah kah
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Post time 4-12-2007 09:05 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by truly at 29-11-2007 08:23 AM
hi semua

saya orang baru di board ini, baru nak berjinak dengan family discussion. walau di sini forumners tak mengenal saya, harap tidak ignore thread saya....

salam perkenalan.:handshake: ...

nak ubah perangai isteri/suami...just to share...jangan praktik pulak yer

Bolehkah Wanita Mengubah Perangai Lelaki?Dalam kebanyakan kes,isteri cuba mengubah perangai suaminya keranakelemahan suami itu mendatangkan masalah dalam hidupnya danmenggagalkan harapannya untuk mendapatkan sesuatu. Sekiranya suaminyaberubah perangai, isteri itu yakin bahawa keadaan rumahtangga akanmenjadi bertambah baik. Bagi kes seperti remaja pula, kekasih perempuanni pulak kekononnya nak bagi boipren dia berenti isap rokok supayadengan cara tu dia rasa boipren dia ikut cakap dia. Tapi lain plak yangjadi, bertekak, bertengar dan sebagainya

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Post time 4-12-2007 09:27 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 4-12-2007 03:21 AM


duit tu memang tokleh bawak ke kuboqqqqq...tapikk duit tu bleh terangkannnn masa ko dalam kuboqqqqq..

so nanti malaikat kasik ko kertas soklannn..ko nampakkkkkkk laa soklan tuuu , ida ...


....abe aji tau la gua belum makan garam sebanyak abe aji...tapi tak yah la nak goreng...duit boleh jadi lampu menngerlap dalam kuboqq tu nanti.... ...

bukan malaikat bagai ujian lisan ker???...sejak bila lak bagi kertas soklan ni....aiseh...gua kena pesan kat bonda gua...jangan lupa masukkan pen sebiji dalam kain kapan gua.....nanti jenuh nak cari.....
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Post time 4-12-2007 09:45 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 3-12-2007 07:03 PM


tak berkemas ek rumah kita tu??....laaaaaaa bila ngan lu kan...tak perasan langsung situasi rumah....color dinding pun gua tak perasan.... ......



luv. lu jangan lupa kutip bra and panty wa yg lu campak belakang sofa smlm
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Post time 4-12-2007 09:46 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by cantthinkofany at 4-12-2007 01:05 AM


aiseh babe....that's the latest trend untuk cat dinding...gamaknya la...babe gua yang pilih....gua alright jer....for me whatever my babe choose...it is definitely the best....

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cat dinding tu? hehe, lu lupa time kinki wa ikat lu ngan rantai kapal kat dinding tu?
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Post time 4-12-2007 10:29 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 30-11-2007 05:22 PM



tu laa..aku tanya ..persoalan boleh tu..mencarik jawapan jek..kuasa..ada lah ketetapanNYA

sekarang lebih utama kenapa ? why...why..why wont u wait por meeeeeeeeeeee..i am losing myself p ...


Sy tak pernah tak setuju dgn Sifuk..eh Abg Aji serasi namanya tuh   hehe
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Post time 4-12-2007 10:49 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by truly at 1-12-2007 01:54 PM


hi Sasha......bagaimana kalau kita tak boleh accept satu satu perangai tapi kita cinta. nak tinggal atau compromise. thats the issue


mindset & toleransi... that's him.. mgkin kita bole mulakan dgn mengubah diri kita utk menerima dia seadaanya..kelemahan dia adalah kekuatan kita..cuba tanya  dia..ada tak yg dia tak suka perangai kita...macm mana dia menghadapinya..
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Post time 4-12-2007 11:39 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by dianthe at 4-12-2007 09:46 AM



cat dinding tu? hehe, lu lupa time kinki wa ikat lu ngan rantai kapal kat dinding tu?


aiseh lu ni kan babe.... ....tu jawapan paling selamat gua untuk tetamu kita si oshin tu....kang kalau dia serious nak tau macam maner nak dapat trend macam tu...baru la lu citer.....kita bagi siap ngan demo sekali....tu kalau dia mampu nak stay around to enjoy la kan.....
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