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mbhcsf

yep if u were to highlights or to cite her for example but then hehehe it's quite unprofessional lah kot  but the instances given are ok to me as i am not the person being quoted hahahahah....but then again it is what i shall say a subjective opinion and if everyone is ok with it then it's ok i guess..

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by my-alja at 29-7-2008 03:49 PM
i have to say sorry to aji....

sorry for the mess, tapi sengal tu memang ada masalah dgn i sejak i tegur dia being so.."...".....dgn raoul2 nyer

tak per...no need apology.. saya pahamm

setiap oang ada pride..and work hard to protect his or her dignity walo di mana dan setiap saat pun

kebenaran tak bersekutu dengan yang pelesu so worry not of anything k?

maybe it is a painful experience kalo manusia tak bisa merasai persahabatan yang tulus ikhlas..

life is an illusion to an uneducated mind. putting one's word to other ppl mouth,  so narrrow minded . never expose to what is being open minded, accepting what is as what it is, presumption taking over examination in details, thinking is hard labour indeed.

tina^^

kenapa certain orang kalau masuk interbiu terketar2 nak jawab ek?

ku tgh interbiu orang, org yg ku interbiu nie sampai tertelan2 air liur nak kuarkan pekataan....

how does this relate ngn kompiden level?? and how to help them, kalau masuk interbiu tue tayahler takot sgt...pasal kitorang bukannyer nak makan worang....hehehe

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by tina^^ at 29-7-2008 04:11 PM
kenapa certain orang kalau masuk interbiu terketar2 nak jawab ek?

ku tgh interbiu orang, org yg ku interbiu nie sampai tertelan2 air liur nak kuarkan pekataan....

how does this relate ngn  ...

ketor2 tu bab 'over correcting'

body and mind..body tak ready gitu

cam contoh oang tua2..dalam otak dia penuh ilmu but body dah tak kuat doh

cam oang parkison disease..brain control musles tu dah osak..dia leh paham oang tanya, dia leh jawap but in his mind jek cam md ali tuh..kalo nak jawap with gesture  tokleh..dan body dia salu ketor2..

pada aku sebaiknya..kalo penemuduga tu 'rela', molek dia cool kan keadaan, cakap bagus2..positif..misal cakap seme oang ada peluang dapat keje ni..or tanya mende2 bukan berkenaan keje tu..tanya ko tenguk akademi semalam tak??? so nak buang fokus (ketakutan tak dapat keje misalnya..mana lah tau budak tu sangat2 perlukan keje tuh ke kan?)

so penemuduga being very rapport gitu kat yang di temuduga..macam bertaun dah kenai..so baru budak tu leh ikhlas, cakap ikhlas dan truly tunjuk diri dia sebenar , cakap what is the mind sebenar..then u bleh decide..setidaknya dia puas hati pi intebiu cakap apa dia nak cakap dan bukan pura2 itu ini kan?

makin tua kita makin konpiden banyak hal..kalo mati pun puas hati bila hidup telah terpenuh sedaya mampu kita.  budak2 muda nak cepat matang tu yang isap rokok rempit buat2 mende tak pekdah..the young turks gitu.

jenna

Originally posted by tina^^ at 29-7-2008 04:11 PM
kenapa certain orang kalau masuk interbiu terketar2 nak jawab ek?

ku tgh interbiu orang, org yg ku interbiu nie sampai tertelan2 air liur nak kuarkan pekataan....

how does this relate ngn  ...

hehehe... masa mula2 aku masuk kerja aku rasa mcm bontot aku ringan sgt2 masa kena interview dgn HR mgr comp tu.... rasa kebas satu badan.... kontrol tak ingat.. cakap tu rasa mcm sebutir2 kluar... sayup2 jer dengar kat telinga.. anxiety attack kot... maklumlah... first interview... aku baru abih ngaji...  

lps few years kerja, aku dpt naik pangkat (naik sket jer...) dpt lah access employees' personal file, tak sangka bila aku ushar evaluation sheet aku rupanyer aku dpt high marks utk poise and communication....  

so skarang bila aku plak interview org mesti aku imagine mcm mana perasaan org tu.. nak nak yg fresh graduates.... so aku pun try to make them feel at ease...

sometimes, when ppl do not know what to expect, their confidence level tend to be low..

mbhcsf

basically u just treated the interviewer as u know a person whi wanted to know u ,kan? so u let yourself show lah kan, relax and treat the interview as a dialogue session becoz it is! they employer wanted to know you as a person so u know relax

ajinomotonosuga

Originally posted by my-alja at 28-7-2008 08:25 AM
ermmm....byk gak term baru2 yg tak pernah jumpa

aji taknak bagi ringkasan sket ke?.....
kalo rajinlah....esp bab brain system, eyes and brain

adus cik kakkk oiii..kalo itu ko kata banyok..itu pada aku WARM UP pun idokk..tauu..belum the game lagik tuh..

kalo dah ilmu tu alja..manaaa ada bab banyok..tak terkire laah kan?

ringkas isu eyes tu..bab illusion k? eyes and brain. aku dah tenguk dokumentari bab ni. yang masalah kita manusia selalu PERCAYA apa kita tenguk. walhal mata main silap mata..tu kita sebut silap mata..salah satu nya sebab 'terlalu laju' cam pilem jon travolta tu bab 'diversion'

ahli silap mata tu..dia SUH PENONTON CONCENTRATE TANGAN KANAN DIA..so seme fokus tangan kanan tapi tangan kiri dia cilok mende dia semunyikan..so tup2 ada dove kuo topi..esp KANAK2 depa suke..but kalo sampai besor depa PERCAYA dari topi kuo dove..masalah ler kan? tapi ramai dari kecik sampai besor percayaaaa dan yakin mende silap mata cam tu..tu kene tuko..btui dak?

tenguk lam tv..semeeeee bleh..kona lipat..hero kene tumbuk seribu kali tak mati..lompat stunt seme tu..mostly silap mata walo ada stunt pun tau..ni pun ada lam dokumentri

ko kenai david copperfield kan? masa dia mai mesia dulu aku baca kecohhhhh esp 'parti islam' pasal che det sambut ahli sihir, kecohhhhhh kutuk che det percaya sihir, promot sihirr..kan sihir tu haram di praktis but harus blajo? so ni otak singkat kalo takmo jauhkan pemikiran..tup2 pembantu peribadi david copperfield buat buku..teknik2 silap mata copperfield..even bab dia hilangkan statue liberty tu kee..bab dia tembus tembok besor cina kee...seme tu silap mata..

saya tak amik pot langsungggggg cite2 cam tu..saya tak tenguk pun sebab saya tau helah silap mata jek..ok? apa u percaya akan jadi. kalo percaya mende buruk pun so mende buruk tu jadik. ur system di pandu oleh conscious mind..so education tu wajib ok? so u need strong mind, strong brain..u need to exercise the brain...buat puzzle or maths solution tu exercise brain tuh, bila tumbuh baru maka tumbuh yang lebih kuat dan power so skop u luass..banyak rahsia terurai..lam NET banyak website percuma bab exercising the brain..percuma jek..type jek 'brain exercise' ok?

u percaya mata rabun boleh kembali normal dengan certain exercise jek? percaya tak?  kalo ur brain letih ur eyes letih, kalo ur eyes letih ur brain letih ..ok? so kalo eyes letih misal depan pc lama..glaring problem tu seme..u cekup mata dengan telapak tangan tu..tapi ur eyes kene bukak ka..supaya dia nampak gelap jek..ni nak relaxkan muscle mata..buat beberapa minit..tekup kedua mata dengan kedua tapak tangan, bio btui2 gelap..untuk mata jek. Mata saya very sensitive to light, doktor mata pun cakap. Saya jarang pening2 dah. dulu di malaya salu pening sebab too much light gitu. eyes become strained gitu so ur brain becomes strained gak so tak mustahil salu pening2 gitu. body kene always menten room temperature or suhu badan tu..tokleh kureng or lebih..walo luo tu panas camna or sejuk camna. around 21 celcius kut.

ni baru cite sikit2 jek pasal eyes and brain cik kak..sikit2 jek..saya lom cite intro pun ok? warm up skit..letih tauuu hihihihi

bila u makin tahu banyak mende..u makin konpiden harungi apa saja. bab u mahu itu persoalan diri kamu k? yang penting korek as much pengetahuan as u mau..ur brain power is limitless..sejauh mana u tolak dinding otak tu membesar ok?

my-alja

kekadang lagi seronok baca sinopsis org drp baca sendiri...alasan org malas

baca benda2 camni kena masa tenang...anak pi sekolah, rumah kemas, nasi dah masak....kalo tak, tak paham habukkksss...
tgh duk baca buku dr. murphy nie pun menarik gak....tapi rasanya, lambat lagi nak habisss....hehee

aji pernah baca buku a mind at time.....i suka buku tu, pun blum sempat nak tgk....ku baca buku lompat2

pasal eyes tu, i shud try laaa....TQ

calamine

lemme quoted some of the wise words

Pride
The quality or state of being proud as either inordinate self-esteem or a reasonable or justifiable self-respect

Proud
To be proud, on the other hand, means to be natural and to do what is correct in any given situation

mbhcsf

Pride and Prejudice

tina^^

SIS, eloborate sket pasal buku tue....