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hati ada pada 66 yrs ole man? gila ke aku ni
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adila39 replied at 16-11-2016 12:49 PM
pandang macam mana? bukannya i xde hidung atau mata . Ole man pun sama. Kami takde pun berjalan ja ...
I tanye k.sarah  bkn u sbb for me.biasa la perempuan muda kawin lelaki tua. |
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Ooo hihihi nnt tgu k sarah jawab eh
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lama tak update, feel like sharing what i feel now.
TT rasa this relationship wont work out, i feel like its beyond my capability to help and knowing my ole man affects my life good and bad...dua dua ada kesannya to TT
Yes, i feel more calm dan the effort to improve is more than before this. But so far everytime we met only me belanja becoz he cant afford..so ni yang buat TT terfikir aduhaiii can this really work out
TT risau how he is going to improve his life when the way i see it ..so tough ..TT kesian pada Ole man sbb sejak kenal TT dia mmg bersemangat dan TT dapat lihat kesungguhan dia. But things are so difficult for him..reasonnya sbb pendapatan dia now hanyalah doing grab..tu pun share dgn anak dia yg dah 25 yrs
apa yg tt xfaham why anak dia tak take the responsibility and help the father..i just dont get it and for him to start all over again its going to be tough ... |
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He cant afford....
Baik lupakan sahaja hubungan ini.
Macam I tulis dulu, dia cuma looking for retirement house & nurse utk jaga dia.
TT sanggup?
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i try hard to maintain and try nak sustain how i feel like care and love tapi ada je benda yang buat TT feel annoyed. Its my fault giving hope pada dia. Takde masalah dengan dia , i mean dia personally but situasi dia tu yg buat TT rasa can i deal with this.
Before this...i feel like oo ada kesungguhan pasti ada jalannya but ...TT lupa to be realistik...sangat susah utk dia start all over again dgn keaddan dia yang terpaksa tanggung the son age of 35 so dia kena buat grab to ensure dpt rm50 and daily bagi anak dia 25. I find it...eh what is this la....sbb apa yg i selalu lihat pada seorang lelaki he should be a dominant player...meaning...xkanla u nak lead life based on daily income rm50
i find it annoying....
now i xtau how to tell him..i give up. I cannot continue...but i xnak dia give up on himself...i still nak dia be better and improve life...and i am still helping him in any way i can...i edit all proposal dia and cantikkan w power point so dia boleh start balik market training dia...but the way i look at it, he is busy finding money to give his son daily rm25 so i cant help it to feel bosan 
oh i am doomed for sayang this ole man
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Wise men memang tempting.. tapi setakat teman sembang je lah tt.. it will wear out after sometime if all he has is his intelligence.. this ole man of yours got so many issues ...takut nanti menyesal pulak tt sebab beban bertambah nak jaga dia n support dia.. money is a really big issue trust me..so my advise is U better help him as a friend je lah.. or if u really want to try.. just put him in the friend zone for at least another 2 years and see how it goes.. dlm masa yg sama luaskan radar u tu pada other potential guys jugak ya.. all d best to you |
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Edited by mbhcsf at 24-11-2016 10:52 PM
Hi Adila,
well alhamdulillah ala kulli haal..., i am sorry to hear that but it is okay , you as a mature lady - carry on with your goal to hijrah and your focus is Allah and herefter bit by bit and alhamdulillah jugaklah if he is the wadah untuk you grow and be a better person ...
it is okay
but i do hope u keep on being his friend sebab i guess he needs supportlah morally ...as a friend , and also he is being honest about his condition and dia tak pun bagi janji janji palsu , may be sebab dia ' jatuh ' he falls so hard kot , and i jsut curious whether he has underlying deoression - ada tak sign of lacking in motivation , lacking sleeps etc?
as a friend u might want to address this if you still want to be his closesnt confidante that is, really.
but i focused on the positive effect of this relationship on you actually... so carry on with the istiqamah and being a nice supporting buddy for him.
it is okay Adila. Doakan yg terbaik buat dirinya. you...? you move forward , okay...only forward. yups. be strong .
i hahaah tulis ni pun after a very commanding voice only produced when this mata hijau guy wants to emphasise something ... : you are with me!!! who is laura ? forget her!!! hahahahahaha
hahahahaha ( sorry konteks lain ni hahahah work..laura is another researcher .)
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hi babe.
i agree, memang very tempting knowing wise man ni . His knowledge mmg sangat menerujakan. But as time goes by...its not enaough. I guess so, it is a hard decision to make but afterall i have a son yang i xboleh take for granted.
So yes, i will continue be his friends. Cuma for me to tell him what i have decide tu i have to wait after our agreement of 6 months. At least biarla dia anggap i can be with him.
Ireally pitty him, and i really wish him can be what he supposed to be. Yes, dia ada banyak issues yang to me..too much to handel...all is money. Dia pun ada anak2 yg dah besar panjang. What i can do maybe be his confidante until he finds what is best for him to lead his life. 66 yrs old i rasa adalah masa untuk dia tenang dan enjoy life seadanya dengan lebih pikirkan akhirat dan pada usia dia i hope dia tak perlu mencari duit hanya utk bagi anak lelaki dia yg dah tua bangka tu.
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hahahaha..
tunggu dan lihat |
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Hi babe. How are u?
I agree all. Btw mcm interesting je another story tu?
About me n my ole man. Yes we still in touch infact i just give him one of my laptop to ensure he can do something about his work.
I am planning to buy him some stocks of food too, yes i care about him. I think i look at him more like a dad afterall he is same age w my dad. Hahaha
Ntahlaa...i hanya doa yg terbaik utk both of us and yes i make a distance w him now. Just to make him get use to it. As for me i am ok and lead life normal. Agenda to find soul mate i serahkan pada Allah.
Recently my son nominated excellent student. Few remarks dari teacher make me feel...wow! I guess i almost lupa amanah yg ada pada i lebih important.
To my ole man i will still be with u..hoping dihari tua u. U dapat lead a better life at least i can do for u
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What do you mean by ha ha ha ha tunggu dan lihat?
It is easy to laugh i know
But sometimes what ever yang kita facing sometime reflects to our attitude and who we really are. If only u fahamla
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hahahaha tu habit taip..
tunggu dan lihat...
ketentuan jodoh, kalau ada ada, kalau xde ,nak buat lagu mana...
usaha mcm mana pun ..sama ada usaha elak, atau usaha ke arah jadi,ketentuan allah juga
betul la kata orang..
orang berusia ni kalau bercinta sakan, sbb depa dewasa, xde sapa nak berani larang..
kalau budak2..takut2 sbb ada penjaganya..(rasa nai taip hahah juga..adess) |
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tempoh 6 bulan tu camne?.. masih ongoing?
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okay...tak pa, u relax je Adila...focus on what you need to focus in life - jasmani, emosi , rohani , intelek.
u know... well kalau nak supporting him as in motivating him to improve on certain things ..then it is okay...
letak harapan kat Allah je...as long as u stay grounded , then you wil insya Allah okay.
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yes babe, still focus. Rasa kasihan tu yang menebal. xsampai hati lagi nak bagitau pada dia..yang we should change our objective of this reloationship. Kalau dulu the agreements..he to redeem balik his life and prove to me he can afford. But after awhile and the way i see it..it will be very hard. I pun x confident i boleh diam sahaja knowing his kids so selfish. For now, i make a distance. No longer whats app all the time. No more every week lunch meet. And i rasa he knows . Apa yg i bagitau dia..i need to focus on whats important now, and i advise he should too. Tido awal on time xpayah nak whatsapp sampai malam2 for his own good jugak.
True enaf the sparks has gone, when money is concern. Am i being selfish and bad?? i hope im not and i try my best to be calm and responsible to what ever yang i pernah berikan harapan.
My main aim now, is for him to at least get a stable income and he can have a proper life. And recently i belikan barang2 makanan utk dia dirumah. U imaginedla...umur mcm tu masih hidup by day ..ada cash adalah. How can a person yg ada a4, 5 buah rumah , overseas grad and fluently speaking about literature,fiziks,agama and all..end up like that...i hope he dont give up and yes i know he is not. Always pray for him and love him..i guess my love for him more to...nak dia lead a better life.
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adila39 replied at 28-11-2016 08:12 PM
yes babe, still focus. Rasa kasihan tu yang menebal. xsampai hati lagi nak bagitau pada dia..yang ...
Assalamualaikum TT,
Cinta tak semestinya bersatu, gitu  .
Pada i, tt terus lah menyokong dia. U all boleh jadi best friend. Free and easy mcm tu sbb best friend ni x de komitmen. I guess u kagum dgn dia sbb knowledge dia kot? Tapi ada beza ye tt sebelum n selepas kahwin. I percaya u lebih faham akan hal ni sbb u pun dah pernah alaminya dulu.
Bagus usaha tt belikan dia foods tu, itu lah amal jariah yg menolong tt kat sana nanti. Anggap aje la tt ni perantara yg Allah hantar unt menolong ole man tu. Buat masa ni kalo ole man jiwang2 ngn tt, tt jgn layan sgt. Takut la dia terlalu mengharap. Keep on buat baik pada dia, insyaAllah yg baik juga akan dtg pada tt. |
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waalaikumsalam.
bad me..giving hopes and yet confident je TT before this, but i guess allah pun nak TT sedar..so kalau manalah tau betul kawen and tak seperti TT harap Tt end up being a bad wife.
So still we are a good buddy and i will try my best to help him. Mana tau helping him will help me too 
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adila39 replied at 28-11-2016 08:32 PM
waalaikumsalam.
bad me..giving hopes and yet confident je TT before this, but i guess allah pun ...
Yes of course tt. Buat baik, insyaAllah dpt lah yg baik juga.
Jgn fikir tt over confident. Nak buat mcm mana, sbb kita merancang, tp perancangan Allah adalah sebaik2 rancangan. Sbb tu i cakap tt terus support dia. Terutama dari segi moral. Itu lah yg akan buat dia lebih kuat. Hopefully dia slowly boleh terima penolakan tt |
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