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Author: green~tea

Sexless marriage, stay or just build new life?

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Post time 18-6-2021 02:28 PM | Show all posts
So I am late to the party but this is a great topic.

Basic reason orang kawin nak halalkan sex. So to me sexual satisfaction tersangat la penting. Great sex to me boleh buat i positive because i'm happy..

kalau ada suami yang pandai bagi kepuasan tapi membiawak yang best nya sejam lagi 23 jam sakit hati baik tak payah.. kalau anak2 and duit belanja semua isteri yang urus dan tanggung, hmm baik tak berlaki.. cari laki lain..

kalau sexless marriage tapi life you stable because laki tu bertanggungjawab pun isteri tetap rasa sunyi because sex in a marriage is not just about sex. it is an expression of love and connection between two people.

kalau boleh cari la yang cukup serba serbi.. kalau laki tu bertanggungjawab tapi tak kaya sangat takpe, asal stabil. kalau isteri nak lebih dari kemampuan suami kena usaha sendiri la kot.
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 Author| Post time 18-6-2021 02:44 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ramaramu replied at 18-6-2021 02:28 PM
So I am late to the party but this is a great topic.

Basic reason orang kawin nak halalkan sex. S ...

Betul tu laling.. each of us has different keperluan.. yang paling bertuah are those yang dapat jumpa pasangan yang complement each other.. tak perlu perfect semua pun
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:29 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Cerita uols buat i bersyukur kejap dgn hidup yg x ada la mewah smpai mampu beli henbeg 20k, tp x ada la susah klau setakat nk beli henbeg rm200. Spouse ada, sex ada, ank ada. Kdg2 tgk life org lain lg best. Little that i know, depa ada problem yg maha besar mcm ni
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:35 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 11-1-2021 01:29 PM
i have seen this with my very own eyes... kawan i tak terurus dah rupanya sbb kena urus semua send ...

Hmm klau iols kan, jgn marah jgn kecam tau, klau it happen to me, agk susah jugak sama mcm porumer yg takut nk cerai sbb dia kuat sex. I rasa i akan cerai, tp i xyakin i akan xbuat zina. Hopefully not. Tp kalau keinginan tu dtg , mmg susah nk tolak. Sementara nk tggu another right person tu, silap2 terlanjur dlu. Tp boleh taubat klau sempat. Tp klau dpt laki cmtu n pilih utk stay, kesian ank2 terkesan dgn hidup mcm tu.
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:36 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
pakletop replied at 11-1-2021 02:10 PM
Sexless marriage? Then buat apa kawin?

Kes pertama tu mcm kes Kat Ipoh yg aku kenal. Rasa ya hubb ...

Perangkap maksudnya? Ank tu ank dia ke ank jantan lain?
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:42 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
ifanonline replied at 11-1-2021 07:11 PM
love and sex is strongly connected...sebab tu ada istilah 'making love'...tidak ada manusia berkahwi ...

Klau andartu masturbate, trigger so much hormon x?
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:49 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
hidet replied at 13-1-2021 03:37 PM
adoiiiii..hahahhah..iols xsanggup bela biawak..biarpun anu nye berjam jam tanak turun...kahkahkah
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Entah2 bila uols dah merasa, uols pon akan stay jalan terbaik adalah elakkan dari awal. Takut dah merasa sekali, xboleh tinggal
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:52 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 13-1-2021 11:10 PM
Ada probability the guy makan luar.. atau mungkin tak makan luar pun... maybe dia masturbate je  ...

Iols malang sikit sbb dpt laki libido xkuat smggu xdpt pon masih ok sbb heols ckp penat. Tp bab2 lain ok la. So malas nk fikir byk
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Post time 19-6-2021 05:53 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
sambaldurian replied at 14-1-2021 06:51 AM
pmpuan yg sexless tu try jela angan2 nengok vid xxxx. nengok la versi dibuat utk woman taste , roman ...

Xmungkin akan jd. Kalau laki tu xnk sex, goda mcm mana pon mmg dia xnk
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 06:50 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Edited by green~tea at 13-4-2022 10:49 PM
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:35 AM
Hmm klau iols kan, jgn marah jgn kecam tau, klau it happen to me, agk susah jugak sama mcm porumer ...

If we know how to please ourselves okay je, even dpt jenis suami yg low libido.. tp dari segi nafkah lain, layanan anak isteri, family in laws yang baik... mmg kira takde push factor langsung lah kecuali libido dia jenjs seminggu sekali, sedangkan kita nak 2-3 kali seminggu..

So bg i.. dari berlaku zina, baiklah beli toys pelbagai online tu... senang je sbnrnya nak masturbate.. iols sendiri time husband outstation for negotiation, minimum dia away is 10 days..  so i bgtau la dia i nak masturbate sbb horny.. dia ok je... or time husband tooo tired sbb byk kerja, so susah nak beraksi, so i masturbate je la or time dia tido or bangun tido ke BJ je la dia.. janji jgn biar air dia lama bertakung, kang kena sondol

Toys byk sgt options okay.. ni contoh sex toys set ann summers i dpt as wedding gifts beli online from cult beauty pun byk option.. kawan2 i yg sexless marriage tu mmg kitorg open je bincang pasal ni, sbb nak elak zina tu... sexless marriage ni 2 je option yg bagus... 1 cerai and start new life.... 2. If nak stay sbb sayangkan marriage, learn how to please urself

Kawen baru pun tak semestinya dpt yg ngam ngn kita... in my case alhamdulillah i jumpa my soulmate...
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 06:56 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:53 AM
Xmungkin akan jd. Kalau laki tu xnk sex, goda mcm mana pon mmg dia xnk


I believe this too.. laki ni kalo tanak mmg takleh buat apa.. terkapai2 kita sorang je nakkan perhatian dia... i dulu 6 bulan pun rilex je tak disentuh.. tp i mastubate je la and tengok porn sendirian.... still dgn sexless life gitu bila i mintak, dia ckp i gila sex.. marah2... siap dia suruh mak dia tido ngn kita sekatil sbb nak elak i raba dia... lebih 6 bulan i kena tido ngn mak dia tau.. it crossed my limit lah...  
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 06:59 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Vivagirl replied at 12-6-2021 09:53 PM
I don't understand sape yg kahwin xnak ml, kwn I ade dua yg dlm dilema .
1) lelaki , wife xnk make  ...

Yang number 2 tu.. heols gay kot? Wife dia tanak check ke..  i dulu kawan2 i yang gay bg tips cara2 utk check out rogayahs
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 07:00 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:42 AM
Klau andartu masturbate, trigger so much hormon x?

Dia tengah triggered la tu   
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 07:06 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:29 AM
Cerita uols buat i bersyukur kejap dgn hidup yg x ada la mewah smpai mampu beli henbeg 20k, tp x ada ...

Yes.. kita selalu je comparing others sampai terlupa kita sendiri byk je kelebihan dan kebahagiaan... hbag 20k bukan ukuran bahagia, bahagia yg sekejap time kelek beg tu je sambil catwalk, lepas tu habiss..

Bahagia sebenar bila anak2 and suami ada bersama kita and diorg pun happy living together and look up to us... sapa je yg betul2 syg kita genuinely melainkan spouse yang ngam boleh tolak ansur, tak toxic and of course, anak2
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Post time 19-6-2021 10:48 AM | Show all posts
green~tea replied at 19-6-2021 06:56 AM
I believe this too.. laki ni kalo tanak mmg takleh buat apa.. terkapai2 kita sorang je nakkan pe ...

ni ex shuben you dulu ke kakak Green? ayoooo.nape teruk sangattt..mmg patut  sgt you tinggalkan dia..
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Post time 19-6-2021 10:49 AM | Show all posts
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:52 AM
Iols malang sikit sbb dpt laki libido xkuat  smggu xdpt pon masih ok sbb heols ckp penat. Tp bab ...

xpe chuols...yang lain2 heols ok..dah cukup baik dah... hidup bukan utk sex je semata kan..
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Post time 19-6-2021 10:50 AM | Show all posts
anony-mous replied at 19-6-2021 05:49 AM
Entah2 bila uols dah merasa, uols pon akan stay  jalan terbaik adalah elakkan dari awal. Takut d ...

hahahh..nasib baik tak terkena...
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 11:05 AM | Show all posts
hidet replied at 19-6-2021 10:48 AM
ni ex shuben you dulu ke kakak Green? ayoooo.nape teruk sangattt..mmg patut  sgt you tinggalkan di ...

yes.. masa awal2 kawen tak perasan dia tak suka i sampai camni sbb 7 tahun duduk berasingan... dia keje oversea.. i duduk sini je...

bila duduk skali tu baru i realized... ya Allah i married the wrong person.. takpe lah... i jadikan tu sbg pengalaman and move on... susah nak move on dari marriage yang terbina 12 tahun... emotionally and financially, sementelah i yang tanggung kereta, bayar rumah yg kitorang duduk.. byk betul i berkorban utk previous marriage... cuma bila jumpa current husband, i rasa all those pengalaman takde la jadi penyesalan... and lebih hargai apa yang i ada sekarang...
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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 11:06 AM | Show all posts
hidet replied at 19-6-2021 10:49 AM
xpe chuols...yang lain2 heols ok..dah cukup baik dah... hidup bukan utk sex je semata kan..

terlajak kuat libido pun penat jugak weii.. rambut tak dan kering.. hari2 mandi wajib

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 Author| Post time 19-6-2021 02:07 PM | Show all posts
ramaramu replied at 18-6-2021 02:28 PM
So I am late to the party but this is a great topic.

Basic reason orang kawin nak halalkan sex. S ...

yes.. tujuan bernikah adalah utk menghalal kan sex, and to ensure the partner abide dgn responsibility, bukan cret merata then tinggal.. it's for the good intention pun tujuan bernikah ni.. tp selalu orang skang treat marriage as just a ceritifate to show.. lavishly spend utk wedding... in the end, tujuan bernikah kelaut.. kewajipan to fulfil nafkah zahir dan batin tercicir....
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