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Kos Majlis Perkahwinan makin tak masuk akal
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Post time 12-2-2020 03:03 PM
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yuki812 replied at 12-2-2020 01:17 PM
ala..tak semesti kena jadi retis..baru leh demand gitu..
sekarang ramai je rakyat m ...
Menyediakan rumah tu under nafkah zahir.. cemane masuk under hantaran or mas kawen plak.. and usually org laki beli rumah pakai hutang je unless dpt dato kertu duit byk.. tu pun, nak ke org tua tu kasi rumah cash hahahaha |
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DatinAxia replied at 12-2-2020 03:03 PM
Menyediakan rumah tu under nafkah zahir.. cemane masuk under hantaran or mas kawen plak.. and usua ...
Setahu i Dato' kaya ni dh kawin br dia nk bg apa2. Mksdnye dia dh betul2 secure.
Kdg2 psl harta ni i hv mix feeling, suke nk suami belikan itu ini, tapi dpt laki kaki ungkit, bingit la. |
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Ikut la kemampuan masing2 TT... klo org nk bercakap, buat pekak je, tak susah pun. Mmg wedding ni 1 industri, if u nak murah, berpatutan smua tu, pndai2 la survey. Nak ala2 wedding of the century pn boleh, if duit berkepok2. Sbb hakikatnya, pengantin tu sndiri yg menanggung.
Tp mybe kita tak perlu terlalu bitter kata pemain industri wedding ni mcm scam (unless ia terbukti scam / menipu duit client). Sama mcm bisnes lain2 jgak. Biasa org yg jual skill ni plg kesian, mcm pekerja rencam yg org tak nampak behind the scene. Ada yg ambil kesempatan tu yes, mmg ada. Tapi the others mmg bkerja mcm org2 lain yg bkerja cari rezeki. Sama mcm org nak beli food yg sama, ada mahal, ada murah, ikut tekak masing2 kan.
Pengantin pn ramai gak, selera tinggi bkn main, tapi bila msa nak bayar liat, beralasan, minta murah. Ada yg anak dah 2 pn smpai ke sudah hutang tak byar2.
Up to msing2 pnya preferences & fulus nya.
Benda senang nak fikir, tak susah mana pun.
Kehidupan berumahtangga tu lebih penting. |
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atas diri sendiri jgk la
agak2 mampu buat la mewah skit
apa2 pon ukur pada bdn sendri
jgn lps kawin menaggung utang
smpi beranak pinak pon utang x settle2
x mau2...x mau 
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Post time 13-2-2020 09:43 AM
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fifie_olin replied at 13-2-2020 07:43 AM
atas diri sendiri jgk la
agak2 mampu buat la mewah skit
apa2 pon ukur pada bdn sendri
I always see that organizing a wedding reception usually an EMOTIONAL DECISION... that's why some businesses take advantage to the newlyweds and families...
Usually masa orang buat decision based on emotion ni laa orang hilang common sense and clouded their judgement.... |
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Masa kawen Husband bagi rumah dan kereta cash. Wedding aku buat simple je.. buat kat glass house with 350 je invitations. So costs aku utk glass house rent and food. Aku beli baju siap je, make up by mua artist.. adik aku sponsor. Basically im ok je sbb i dont do much but mine exclusive la. |
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i mmg suka private and intimate event camni... my wedding pun buat for 200 guests je... and although i didnt dictate the guest pakai baju apa, tp from invitation card tu warna tiffany blue, end up most of my guests pakai baju hijau & biru tone... so pretty masa hari kejadian tu... mak suka!!!!
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pilihan ditangan kita
tp kdang2 kite xde pilihan gak sbb yg nk kontol wedding ni slalunye org2 tua. ahaha
been in that situation, mane yg bole jimat tryla utk jimat
tak worth pon nk berabis dlm mase sehari tu
ni quotes iols jumpe dkt fb:
Jika majlis kenduri kita telan belanja RM25,000. Majlis bermula jam 12.00 hingga jam 3 petang.
Kita sedang habiskan duit RM8,333 sejam. Bersamaan kita berbelanja RM138.00 seminit.!
Jika kita kerja partime di Pizza Hut, kita hanya dibayar RM7.80 sejam.
Jika RM25,000 ini ditukarkan pada waktu kerja Pizza Hut RM7.80 sejam.
Ia memerlukan kita bekerja selama 3,205 jam bersamaan 133 hari bekerja selama 24/7 baru dapat nilai tersebut.
Jika kita bekerja selama 8 jam sehari, dengan kadar bayaran itu baru menjana RM62.40.
Ia memerlukan selama 401 hari bekerja di Pizza Hut untuk nilai Raja Sehari kita.
Setahun lebih kerja, untuk meraikan majlis selama 3 jam sahaja. |
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ah yes, i lupa nak brag.. LOL... it's actually a surprise for me lepas kawen my husband mmg usaha provide the best for the family...
he bought landed house (corner lot, double storey) for us in the heart of KL... dia beli way before kitorg kawen and dia tak duduk situ pun... masa kitorg bertunang tu, baru dia start renovation for us to stay there comfortably,... my husband owns 5 residential properties (dia sendiri usahakan, bukan family inheritance)...
lepas 3 bulan kawen, he surprised me with downpayment kedai (commercial shoplot 2 storey)... he bought 2... satu nama i.. satu nama dia.... and dia carikan tenants so that both of us will have passive income bila retire in the future...
now, he is in the midst of usahakan our 2nd resort... 1st resort tu inherited and family owned (my brother pun ada share dalam ni)... the 2nd resort (25 rooms and 4 shoplot) solely belongs to me and husband...
sorry ya if this sounds like bragging... it's just that... bukan kitorg tak mampu throwing a massive luxurious wedding reception.. it's just that we chose not to... i rasa membazir.. and i wanna get married dgn simple and having a private and intimate event....
dari habis puluh2 ribu, baiklah i beli handbags and berulang kali pergi honeymoon, itu lebih berfaedahhhh... actually weols gi honeymoon 3 kali last year.. Bangkok, Bali, and Japan... this year weols nak honeymoon repeat bali je kot... sbb too busy utk ambil long leave so many things to do in our schedule... |
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wow... really make sense dia punya calculation tu... i love your quotes... semoga orang2 yang ada perception throwing a lavish event just utk jaga air muka ni terbuka laa minda diorang...
i tak suka pembaziran, but no doubt i also have my way of membazir.. hahahhaha
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dalam majlis kenduri no doubt msti akan ade pnye pembaziran secara tak sedar. huhu
my wedding dlu pon kalau boleh diundurkan masa, bnyk yg sepatutnya xpayah buat tapi lesson learn la for us
quote tu actually i baca from investment motivator
kalau dia xbreak down mcm tu, kita pon xpnah terfikir kan
once dah calculate mcm tu, terasaaa sngt setiap saat itu berharga..
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it's okay... lessons learnt kan.. lepas ni we look forward to build our life... in fact dalam investment, kita still kena reward ourselves once in a while to keep on motivating us to further invest and improve our financial..
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mekap nikah dan sanding rm500 2005...masa tu... MUA skang yg letops Kasih Cici bru nk up...kami hang out sesama dulu tp dia mmg baik...thanx cici... |
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amboi...
jgn arr sapai lagu tu.
sian family nak hadap onion army hokehh. 
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wow, DatinAxia ada resort.
boleh arr anjur our love n emo bod gath sana  
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himun_hino replied at 18-2-2020 08:16 AM
amboi...
jgn arr sapai lagu tu.
sian family nak hadap onion army hokehh.
hahaha...
sok dah dapat umah sebijik..kita bagi cantik kebabom..pastu buat ler makan2..undang tu sume uncle aunty army segala onion bg ler makan puas2 sampai bule tapau bwk blk...
tanggapan kena kawin ngn dato baru dpt umah sebijik dah berlalu. kadang dato skrg pon misekin. ramai je rakyat marhaen yg pandai gunakan financial tools tuk generate income. contoh..emas..saham...asb..overdraft. kalau ada rumah boleh refinance tuk cash. kalau 8-10 thn dulu memang mewah sebab emas murah..tak sampai 80pergram. refinance dulu juga untung..sbb tuk cash leh sampai 20-30 thn loan. overdraft guna asb juga untung dulu. buat secara personal. skrg kena ada biz..baru boleh buat. finally..boleh lah main lah umah lelong..huhuhu. tapi jangan main yg scam..tidak sama skali. |
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Post time 18-2-2020 03:24 PM
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himun_hino replied at 18-2-2020 08:23 AM
wow, DatinAxia ada resort.
boleh arr anjur our love n emo bod gath sana
Ha ah... been operating my resort part time since 2014... tp tempat tu okay laa tepi pantai 23 chalets /rooms... honestly tak kaya pun owning that resort sbb masa tu bina pakai duit cash simpanan... very stupid decision.. tp the bright side of it, i takde menanggung hutang...
A few forumers sini dah dtg duduk kat resort i... |
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Post time 18-2-2020 03:25 PM
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Edited by DatinAxia at 18-2-2020 03:27 PM
yuki812 replied at 18-2-2020 08:46 AM
hahaha...
sok dah dapat umah sebijik..kita bagi cantik kebabom..pastu buat ler makan2..undang tu ...
Dah kawen bukan takat rumah landed.. kedai, kereta apa sume dpt... tak perlu tunggu cekau dato pun
Yg penting jgn terlalu materialistik.. pilih lelaki yg bertanggungjawab... |
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Post time 18-2-2020 03:35 PM
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Edited by DatinAxia at 18-2-2020 05:03 PM
Alaaa my intention here bukan nak brag...
I nak highlight kos majlis kawen sgt tak masuk akal...
Contoh cam frame dekat entrance door wedding reception... kalo tempah purely solely utk "welcome to our wedding bla bla bla" jadi RM1200... tp i boleh je design bodo2 pakai microsoft power point, print kat achik melawati RM35, beli frame ikea RM79 size A1... udeh..total dalam RM114 jeeee vs tempah thru wedding planner what not jadi RM1200.... tak ke cekik darah tu benda yg sama jee???? |
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Post time 12-2-2020 01:17 PM
choose wisely. 
Post time 18-2-2020 08:16 AM
