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Post time 17-6-2020 11:17 PM
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sayacantik replied at 17-6-2020 05:46 PM
Saya tk mampu nak cerita.. sedihnya tuhan je yang tahu.
Tp after 9 months struggling with the hear ...
Mcm mn bole kantoi sis tau? So ade brp madu ni?all the best iols doakan, kuat sis kan |
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Klu rmhtangga u bahagia takde yg kurang sana sini..u rasa suami u nak ke berkenalan dgn pompuan lain? Mmg akan rasa tawar hati klu dpt tau laki main cinta dgn pompuan lain..cer TT slowtalk dgn laki tu.. sebelum nak cerai bagai.. |
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Ape slhnye tt tnye kat sini sekalipun....bknnye kt kenal dia sape....atleast blh dia bace pndpt2 org lain...slebihnye keputusan kat tgn sndiri.... |
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Post time 28-6-2020 11:10 PM
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myakayina replied at 26-6-2020 01:39 AM
Klu rmhtangga u bahagia takde yg kurang sana sini..u rasa suami u nak ke berkenalan dgn pompuan lain ...
Tu la mayb iols rasa ok dia x rasa ok n bahagia, ble tanye mati2 ckp just kwn borak2 minum ,iols pon cuba move on tp it hurtsla |
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Post time 28-6-2020 11:13 PM
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Xim replied at 26-6-2020 01:33 PM
Ape slhnye tt tnye kat sini sekalipun....bknnye kt kenal dia sape....atleast blh dia bace pndpt2 org ...
He he betul2 sbb nak tanye pendapat org yg kita x kenal so x bias, kang luahkan kat kwn ke adik beradik mesti backing kita |
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Fur replied at 30-5-2020 03:50 PM
Knp semua org marah TT?
TT kalau seorang muslimah, aku cadangkan buat lah solat istikharah.
Setuju dgn komen ni.. Nk meruntuhkan mmg mudah.. Nk membina hub mmg makan masa.. Bertahun lamanya..
Faham tt dah hilang trust.. Rasa dipersiakan etc.. Tp kena ingat hidup mana xada ujian.. Anggap ni satu ujian utk rumahtangga tt.. Bukan terus give up.. Tgk diri sendiri dan suami.. Have talk heart to heart.. Muhasabah.. Cuba tgk apa yang kurang.. Mungkin ada terlepas pandang kat mana2..
Kadang suami tu just test minyak.. Lelaki xgatal tu xnormal.. So for me, jangan amik keputusan melulu.. Lihat blk setakat mana perhubungan dia dgn andartu tu.. Klu dh smpi atas katil.. Tu mmg kes serius.. Tp klu xmelibatkan makan luar.. Jika rse masih blh dperbaiki, cubalah dlu.. Ingat anak2 yang tgh membesar tu..
Semoga urusan tt dan suami dpmudahkn. Amin |
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Apalah laki ko goreng pmpuan tu kan
Buruk2kan ko..apa lg grooming laaa ... |
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Post time 29-6-2020 03:46 PM
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Normabaru replied at 29-6-2020 02:15 AM
Setuju dgn komen ni.. Nk meruntuhkan mmg mudah.. Nk membina hub mmg makan masa.. Bertahun lamanya. ...
Tq sis cuma i terpikir kalo x kantoi apa jd skrg?mesti still berhubungan kan?lama2 nanti?sampai mati kena tipu tah2 kang kawin, so iols x puas hati n selalu pikir nak puaskan hati ceraila biar padan muka dua2 |
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Post time 29-6-2020 03:50 PM
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makadek replied at 29-6-2020 06:24 AM
Apalah laki ko goreng pmpuan tu kan
Buruk2kan ko..apa lg grooming laaa ...
Dia kata iols x pandai masak kemas umah bagai, maybe dia nak tahap hotel kot ,mmg x la, dia melingkar komplen kat org lain y not ckp face to face?
Bab cantik eh dia kata iols 10x cantik gitew propa, bitch tu gelap2 desperate pangai bengong ha gitew ko rasa? Ye la bitch pon 40an bkn muda |
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jongos replied at 29-6-2020 03:50 PM
Dia kata iols x pandai masak kemas umah bagai, maybe dia nak tahap hotel kot ,mmg x la, dia meling ...
And laki kau sebenarnya gatal felammm kebosanan ...hack je fb dia .. Rampas hp
Ko mogok |
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jongos replied at 29-6-2020 03:46 PM
Tq sis cuma i terpikir kalo x kantoi apa jd skrg?mesti still berhubungan kan?lama2 nanti?sampai ma ...
Ala.. Kenapa sis nk overthinking sgt.. Complicated sgt nnt u blk yg stress
Hidup ni simple je sis..
I tahu, mmg sakit...mmg pahit.. tp alam rumahtangga yg mana xde badai..
If i were in your shoes, i just take that event as a reminder that some things need to be spice up a lil bit and maybe its time to reflect on each others company
Mungkin ada yang sis/husband patut improve..and this is the starting point.. To communicate to each other BETTER
Bykkn lihat kebaikan yg ada pd pasangan.. Lihat blk berbaloi ke perpisahan dgn hanya terjadinya 1 'event'tu..klu bkali2 tu lain cerita lah
So u ask urself and take it from there and move on..
i tau ckp mmg senang.. Tp just remember that Allah xkn uji if u xmampu..He knows u better..so that's why!
Sis..guys can cheat in so many ways..and if ur husband did and still didn't stop.. u cant even affort to control pon
So.. Kita buat je apa Allah suruh, insya Allah Dia akan jaga kita dan family kita in ways beyond our imaginations =) just try to have some faith and be patience..
Ingat sis, life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass it's about learning to dance in the rain=)
So kenapa nak sakit kepala fikir benda bukan2 aite? Just be the best version of urself.. If he still xappreciate ur sacrifices, then its his loss.. Not urs..
So chop.. chop...stay safe and smile always! =)
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Post time 29-6-2020 08:23 PM
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makadek replied at 29-6-2020 03:58 PM
And laki kau sebenarnya gatal felammm kebosanan ...hack je fb dia .. Rampas hp
Ko mogok
Mmm fb laki iols dah delete silap iols x sempat baca semua fb messenger dia sbb nak tau content tu, yg iols bole hack bitch tu punyela, tgh carik pakar hack hu hu bg iols puashati |
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Post time 29-6-2020 08:31 PM
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Normabaru replied at 29-6-2020 04:25 PM
Ala.. Kenapa sis nk overthinking sgt.. Complicated sgt nnt u blk yg stress
Hidup ni simple je s ...
Mmg iols overthnking sis sbb x suka menipu n ditipu so iols nak justice n fair for me, somi ckp sekali je kan buat b4 ni x penahkan, so ade beza ke buat sekali 2x 3x, hati tetap sakit
Now iols bole katakan hubungan kitorang toksik, mmg x la cam dulu, ckp ble perlu n kalo iols keluo just ckp nak keluo, x ckp g mn, malas, dia pon x berani tanye lebih2, berbual mesra jauh sekali, kdg terpikir sampai ble camni n jd berdosa derhaka
Iols puashati kalo bercerai kot padan muka dua2, i nak bebas |
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jongos replied at 29-6-2020 08:31 PM
Mmg iols overthnking sis sbb x suka menipu n ditipu so iols nak justice n fair for me, somi ckp se ...
Sis ada anak kan.. Sanggup lepas ni kejap pass anak kat ex pastu kejap kt sis.. And everytime raya kena bergilir2? If u have decided to proceed.. Then i hv nothing much to say..
U know urself better.. Ur life ur choice=) |
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Post time 29-6-2020 10:33 PM
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Normabaru replied at 29-6-2020 08:37 PM
Sis ada anak kan.. Sanggup lepas ni kejap pass anak kat ex pastu kejap kt sis.. And everytime raya ...
Org kata time will heal kan?brp lama iols nak tunggu makan hati?jap i sayang jap i benci, iols dah puas pujuk hati muhasabah etc tp ble teringat iols meluap2, so apa iols got to do? Mmg x logik seorang iols akan lupa n act cam nothing, adakah iols seorang pendendam?tolong advise |
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jongos replied at 29-6-2020 10:33 PM
Org kata time will heal kan?brp lama iols nak tunggu makan hati?jap i sayang jap i benci, iols dah ...
Just sharing..
Ikut kajian..kebanyakan rumahtangga bermasalah bila suami isteri xsolat jemaah di rumah..
U and husband cuba check this part..
Bout advise, I think ramai dah bagi dlm ni.. And u pon an adult yg boleh fikir.. So give urself sometimes utk hadam and digest point2 yg diberi.. Take care sis!
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Post time 30-6-2020 02:21 PM
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Normabaru replied at 29-6-2020 10:55 PM
Just sharing..
Ikut kajian..kebanyakan rumahtangga bermasalah bila suami isteri xsolat jemaah di ...
Tqvm sis will think n do ,wish me luck |
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jongos replied at 30-6-2020 02:21 PM
Tqvm sis will think n do ,wish me luck
Pleasure is all mine..
I doakan yang terbaik buat u, ank u and ur family.. Albaqarah 286
https://www.tarbiahsentap.com/2019/11/kenapa-allah-menguji-kita.html?m=1
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Edited by jazaa100 at 30-6-2020 05:03 PM
Tt...aku takbaca semua posting kau....cuma aku baca yg last tu, kau kata nk cerai...nk cerai...bior pada muka dua dua....
Bongok nya kau.....
Kau sebenarnya padankn muka diri sendiri.....bila kau bercerai, saham laki kau berdesup naik ....kau pulak akn bertambah serabai nk hangkut ank kesana kesini, ke sana ke sini....cari duit lagi...nak beli kopi pelangsing ifa raziah pun tak mampu nanti sebb susu ank lebih penting.....laki kau blh beli perfume mahal, kondom berbagai perisa sbb duit dia utk dia je.....ada le sikit dia bg nafkah ank setakat rm500, dia tak perlu dah tanggung kau mkn sampai bdn kau gedempol.....tak perlu byr sewa rumah kau ank beranak....dia blh sewa bilik je rm400 utk diri sendiri.....kau pulak kena kerja & byr duit sewa rumah, pengasuh, yuran tadika ke taska, api air etc....
Kau nmpak tak?....salah gaya andartu yg dah umor 40an tu yg huntung. ....tetiba dpt laki kau masa gaji dia dah tinggi....kau pulak lepas bercerai, blh tak dpt cekup laki yg setaraf laki kau atau yg lebih tinggi lg income?.....aku rasa, nk pikir pasal nk berlaki pun tak sempat.....tu blm kira tension jiran jiran mnjeling bila nmpak kau.....takut kau sambar laki dorang ....
Kau tak yah lah pikir sakit hati kau tu sgt....kau buat bodoh je...apa beza kau tau dgn tak tau?....sama je kannn.....laki kau serupa itu jugak...duit dia bg jugak....tak payah lah kau asyik nk pikir, laki kau dah tido ke dgn andartu tu ...iya ke dorang kuar gi minum minum je....tak buat apa ke ....buat semark kepala je.....
Lagi satu, kau jgn le nk tunjuk perangai sgt kat laki kau....ckp bila perlu....takut nanti pasni, kau dah susah nk berckp dah dgn dia sbb dia dah ada org lain....kau buat mcm tu, lg le dia ada alasan nk brskandal....dia akn bg ayat sedih kt pompuan yg bjni dia tak layan pun dia kat rumahh.....dia balik keja pepenat, bini buat muka ketat....mana ada laki tahan....bila mcm tu, bkn andartu, bini org pun nk offer kasih syg kat laki kau ....
Dah lah.....Allah dah bg kau rumahtangga, jaga je lah....nk runtuhkn buat apa?....klu nk ikutkn sakit hati, Fatimah ank Rasulullah pun blh sakit hati sbb saidina Ali nk madu kan dia.....tak de pun dia nk hentak hentak kaki mintak cerai......hidup dia lg sadis, hidup dlm susah, giling gandum dgn tgn, penat penat masakkn laki, tetiba laki nk kwin lg satu.....kau yg masak guna blender pun tak tau nk bersyukur.....
Tu aku blm sentuh bab anak anak kau lg....aku tgok bg pihak kau je dulu....berbaloi ke tak berbaloi klu kau bercerai
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Post time 30-6-2020 05:26 PM
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jazaa100 replied at 30-6-2020 04:55 PM
Tt...aku takbaca semua posting kau....cuma aku baca yg last tu, kau kata nk cerai...nk cerai...bior ...
Garangnye sis he he tersentap i tp x pe its ok bg nasihat keras camni, so wat bodo je forgive n forget?i mmg ade terpikir gak apa u kata, kalo dia kawin pompuan lain ok kot not that bitch yg molot hangsuang ha ha
Iols x pandaila fake2 ni sbb kalo x suka x suka la, x pandai manis2 muka, i try la ikut nasihat2 forumer ,tq sgt bg nasihat
Iols nak tanye what if kalo i yg skandal camni? Apa laki iols wat lak? Forgive n forget?
Tolong doakan yg baik2 utk iols n famili |
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