Coping With Loss of Love One..

rifa0710

I just lost my abah on the last Sunday , 20th of January 2008 due to hypertension and heart attack... He's actually not my biological parent.. He's just someone who live with my family and the one who take extra care of me since I'm little .. Losing him is very much devastated.. And.. being in a family , with my parents whom don't quite understand me is not much helping...

Please.. if there is someone out there that care , I'm reaching for a bit support coz to be frank , I don't know what to do......

auntie_girl

Originally posted by rifa0710 at 24-1-2008 11:21 PM
I just lost my abah on the last Sunday , 20th of January 2008 due to hypertension and heart attack... He's actually not my biological parent.. He's just someone who live with my family and the on ...

takziah yang:hug: :kiss: :hug:

sedekah bebanyak fatihah pada dia k....

macam girl dulu,time arwah opah ke sedar meninggal, time tak tenang giller tu,either nangis or amek yassin.....

girl leh paham kesedihan awak tu...

tapi nak cakap lebih2 maybe girl tak nah alami...

maybe yg berpengalaman leh bagi pandangan:flower: :flower: :flower:

hBk

innalillah...

errr...ko muslim ke?
kalu muslim,sedekahkn la ayat2 suci byk

LostSoul

rifa.... sorry to hear about your lost... i myself lost my atuk whom i regarded as my abah when i was in form 5. it was devastated, coz i cannot believe that he will leave us so soon... and i was at the most crucial year of my high school. the 1st few months, it was difficult. keep thinking about him, and cried for no apparent reason. however, i keep on thinking that he will be there.. at a better place. for me, just reminisce the memories you have with him keep him allive in your heart, and pray for his soul always...

we can never gain whom we lost, but we can always keep him in our heart n mind.. always..

[ Last edited by  LostSoul at 28-1-2008 12:43 PM ]

rifa0710

Thanks so much you guys... Really appreciate it.. Insya-Allah , I'll always pray for him...

aw76

takziah..

part of life, death is the end of it and everyone has to go thru it...especially hard of it's someone you care about and plays an important role in your life..

he may be gone but he will always stay alive in you. always remember the good things about him..and be strong.

my thought are with you during this difficult time.