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How to Stop Procrastinating
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am on a bout of proscrastination...save me...... |
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no one can procrastinate like me.. |
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sometimes it has its benefits when you procrastinate because there might be last minute change of plan...so you have not wasted your time and energy on duties that are no longer wanting...but be aware of doing things in the eleventh hour...that would be the bad of procrastination... |
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Heheheh......Right now I am guilty of that too. |
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Procrastination is the theft of time ...
[ Last edited by pink_lavender at 15-5-2008 02:56 PM ] |
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i'm a chronic procrastinate |
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A motivation.
Do your work don't be stupid. |
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just do it
stop making excuse, alibis, reason etc.
just do it
so what if u died? at least u had try
just do it
what else?
just do it
shut ur mouth.....
JUST DO IT |
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simple solution..
don't think, think, think...but..
do, do, do.
bagaimanapun, kena cari yang paling seimbang.
balance, itu yang paling baik. |
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decide and do
decide is doing
doing is knowing
and later u will learn the art of life...
experience is the best teacher
there is nothing immobile as there is nothing to be feared except ignorance |
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ermmm....are we procrastinating when we want to think something over...when we can't decide whether what we are about to do is good or bad?? |
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Originally posted by cekman at 30-8-2008 01:34 AM
ermmm....are we procrastinating when we want to think something over...when we can't decide whether what we are about to do is good or bad??
there is time to think and time to act..
dont confuse symbol for sign and vice versa
never underestimate the power of brain to deluding oneself..
minda ni bukan soal baik or buruk or btul or salah..camna u nak guna dia..cam tu ler hasil nya..positif or negatif..u ask for it gitu
u ada plan..it is a goal or aim u..contoh by end of the year u nak simpan duit 1000 inggit mesia.
so tu project u.
itu aim u.
so what are the action need taken? u kene fikir dan buat, maybe no tenguk wayang every week. tenguk wayang every 2 months maybe. tu action u must take to reach ur goal tuh.
so apa jadi misal u tenguk gak wayang weekend then duit lebur takleh save. so u gagal kan? but gagal sekali bukan makna gagal seterusnya. gagal is the part of success. the other side of success. so u just decide and do it again. repetition is the mother of HABIT. kalo u berulang2 buat decision ..lama2 it becomes automatik..u become DECISIVE PERSON..always look at solving solution rather finding REASON cannot do, instead u find solution to do it.
i rekemen u tenguk cite macam FOREST GUMP tuh..it is one of the best example of throwing caution into the wind. I think role mak Forest bukan kecik dalam filem tuh. |
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tolong....
procrastinating tu apa...? bertangguh ke...?
sy tak paham......cari dlm kamus tak der pun.... |
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Reply #15 ajinomotonosuga's post
what you posted doesn't really answer my question....anyway let's take this statement as an example....
so what are the action need taken? u kene fikir dan buat, maybe no tenguk wayang every week. tenguk wayang every 2 months maybe. tu action u must take to reach ur goal tuh.'
"U kene fikir dan buat" = is the word 'kene fikir' consider procrastinating?? to me it does because you don't make decision straight away, rite?? |
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Originally posted by cekman at 31-8-2008 04:32 PM
what you posted doesn't really answer my question....anyway let's take this statement as an example....
"U kene fikir dan buat" = is the word 'kene fikir' consider procrastinating?? to me ...
why 'kene fikir' consider procrastinating?
would u consider buying anything on credit as taking a rain cheque?
kalau u berdepan MASALAH BARU or new problem..lojik lah u have to think it over..kan?
kalau u berdepan masalah lama..history pun ada mengenai nya..kenapa u masih indecisive? kalo belum ada jawapan, kenapa tak pi tanya yang tahu jawapan or yang pakar or yang ahli? sebab u RATIONALISING..that is why ok?
kalau selama ni u makan gaji..kene retrenched..dan u berminat nak niaga or self employed..ini new venture u, new things to u so wajar tak u need to think it over? kalo u mahu di kawinkan oleh ibu bapa dengan somebody u tak penah jumpe, tak kenal, u need to think it over ke tidak? kalo u mau kawin with galpren u selama 10 taun..u think many times ka?
selama kita idup akan ada pekara 'baru' kan? kalo pekara baru ni libatkan hidup kita, wouldnt it be wise to think carefully? would u call this as procrastination? i dont think so.
what held us is our FEAR , sebab mende tu baru, unknown territory, what if something bad threatened our NYAWA? so DISCLIPINING IMAGINATION is very important. it must full of positive values, deep understanding of every thing we capable to understand
so how to make decision straightaway? learning the attitude of a child..look at their eyes ..so bigggg and full of interest into knowing NEW THINGS..btui tak?
or maybe u can keep on saying to urself in term of autosuggestion, 'what the worst to happen anyway? it is not the end of the world, as long it does not kill you, do it then'
i recommend u study a bit about 'what is cybernetic' and learn about emotion detachment. Bukan i suruh u jadik totally emotionless or macam plastik or robot..but u need to understand 'how to balance' sense and senseless..bila dan macamana.
sebab saya orang islam, saya kene fikir manusia lain dan kejadian lain jugak, saya tak boleh totally self absorbed gitu k? this is what we called Iman |
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