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Kaedah IVF-volume 3

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Post time 26-7-2011 03:54 PM | Show all posts
Reply 59# sh|nobu


    shin, camne shin boleh hadapinya dgn tenang.. i don't know if i hv that strength. semoga kesabaran shin akan Allah balas dgn bagi shin baby yg comel, amin.

masa shin gugur tu ada keluar apa2 ke selain dari blood? tadi i rasa berdenyut2 di vagina, bila i pergi buang air kecil just now ada satu ketulan kecil keluar. warnanya merah kehitaman, texture mcm limpa. saiznya kecil sikit dari hujung kelingking i. kat hujungnya attached s'thing white. itu janin yg tak menjadi ke? ya Allah, i'm not ready to give up this fight yet...

semalam i tanya dr kenapa i bled, dia kata ada a few possibilities.. implantation, 1 embryo gugur, atau my uterus contracting. lepas apa yg terjadi just now,i rasa it's the second possibility huhu..
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Post time 26-7-2011 09:06 PM | Show all posts
Reply 60# kikilalat

kiki, this is my first time miscarried. memang depressed. sebab shin memang suka ramai anak. i want at least 5 kids.kite semua kat sini memang nak sangat sangat anak kan, sebab tu kite memang depressed bila jadik macam ni.

tapi shin try tak fikir sangat. kalau difikir mau nangis lagi....huhu...
dr menon cakap sometimes kite gugur sebab uterus kite reject baby maybe sebab baby tak sihat or ada gen problem ke. sebab body kite tau. so shin try to always ingat macam tu jadi taklah terok sangat depressed. Sentiasa ingatkan diri sendiri baby tak sihat kalau dilahirkan so sebab tu uterus reject awal-awal.

shin ada left 4 embryos. tapi dr menon kata aritu kalau buat FET maybe masuk 2 embies je. sebab bila thawing nak kene tengok kualiti embies tu balik. so percentage nak dapat twins 1% je i really hope dapat twins...
dr menon cakap die tak fikir sangat pasal twins ke, yang die nak is to get me pregnant! memang betul la cakap die.
but still, hati ini memang kuat nak twins....

tak pasti lak berapa harga FET ek...
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Post time 26-7-2011 09:43 PM | Show all posts
Reply 61# ziara


Ziara, ziara masih bleeding lagi ke? banyak ke ziara? ke spotted je?Shin masa sebelum bleeding miscarried tu shin takde penah bleeding, tapi bila scan 1 sac je and dr menon cakap lagi 2 embies tu diserap oleh uterus. means die tak kuar as darah kot. yang ziara ni shin pun rasa maybe 1 embryo gugur kot. lagi 2 tu masih ada. harap-harap ziara dapat twins! itulah shin pun ada baca2 bleeding kengkadang sebab implantation gak..

masa shin bleeding miscarried tu, shin taklah nak dikata bleeding banyak sangat. i think it was less than my period.
Tapi ada 2 kali shin nampak ada something different kat atas pad kalau tak silap pada hari 3 and 4 kot.

yang first time tu macam setompok darah gelap2 campur2 lembut2 je rupe die. macam jeli gitu. tak perasan lak ada ketul ke tak dalam tu. yang 2nd time tu sama jugak tapi kecik sikit dari yang first time tu.
entahlah, mende tu baby sac kot? the whole thing kuar kot? and darah shin cepat gak habis. macam period jugak. dalam seminggu dah clean. tu yang pelik tu. sebelum jumpa dr menon untuk scan uterus dah clean ke tak last week, dalam hati shin cam berharap actually shin bleeding bukan keguguran sebab sikit je, maybe something else ke, harap2 bile scan actually baby is still there and siap leh harap lagi bile scan eh eh nampak 2 sac la pulak, yang 1 lagi tu selama ni hiding hahahahaa....ble plak camtu.

but after scan, its completely gone. rasa memang sedih.

hmmm ziara, shin ni actually veru sensitive. ape2 benda yang sedih shin cepat kuar airmata. tengok cite sedih skit mata dah berair. kalau nampak orang nangis, shin pun bleh ikut nangis tau. so masa dr menon scan and sac dah tak ada lagi tu, shin rasa sebak kat dada. tapi masih bleh tahan sebab takde orang yang menangis. kalau ada orang menangis memang shin pun dah ikut nangis. Masa duduk balik kat meja menon lepas scan, tengok muka dr menon yang simpati kat kita and bila die cakap i'm really sorry this thing happen to u bla bla bla...shin masa tu dah bergenang air mata and i cant look at his face. or hubby's face. i tried to control my feeling at that time and rasa nak cepat2 kluar. nasib baik gak tak nangis lah just bergenang air mata.

masa duduk tunggu bil, shin jauh termenung sampai cashier staff tu pun tanye ok ke tak...die perasan kot muka shin yang lain macam ke.... but itula masa hari tu shin try to buat bende so tak terlalu fikir sangat. lagipun balik umah mak ada and borak2 lagi so tak rasa sangat, shin berpantang skit for a week gitu. habis pantang aritu shin entah tiba-tiba cam baru berasaaa sangat benda ni happen. tatau la apesal. macam tiba-tiba je. masa tu mak masih ada kat KL. hubby plak away. nasib baik dapat chat ngan hubby. He was in Johannesburg masa tu. He told me it was post traumatic stress. This was his exact sentence "dont worry, its normal. Post traumatic stress. Every human goes thru it after a shocking incident. Just dont take it too hard, relax urself".


I try to relax myself, try to get my self together...its not that easy. Kakak sulung shin pun bagi kata2 semangat, she's one person yang memang paling faham perasaan depression sebab she miscarried if I'm not mistaken 5 or 6 times. She has a son and a daughter but throughout all the time banyak kali gugur and latest masa shin preggy my son at 5 months, kakak shin ter-preggy jugak (die dah 40++). So kire ter accident la. But in the end miscarried again...

Panjang plak citer shin. Skarang pun kalau diingat2 memang shin bleh nangis. Ziara rest bebanyak tau and doa banyak2. When is your next scan? Skang ni masih bleeding ke?
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 Author| Post time 26-7-2011 11:18 PM | Show all posts
Reply 61# ziara


    *Hugs* ... Be strong k ziara... InsyaAllah masih ada rezeki tuh...
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 Author| Post time 26-7-2011 11:22 PM | Show all posts
Reply 62# sh|nobu


    Shin muda lagik. Kalo tak dpt twins this time round, masih ader peluang lagik later kan, insyaAllah...

I pun ader twins craving! Tapi simpan sorang jer la... I dah cakap kat dr. Menon i nak 2 girls lagik baru bley stop baby making process...
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 Author| Post time 26-7-2011 11:34 PM | Show all posts
Reply 63# sh|nobu


    I was visualizing the scene kat bilik dr. Menon tuh...

But I have read about the causes for miscarriage, mmg mcm apa dr. Menon cakap tuh la.. Allah Maha Mengetahui Shin... InsyaAllah, rezeki yg lebih baik Allah beri nanti...
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Post time 27-7-2011 11:32 AM | Show all posts
Reply 63# sh|nobu

shin, i think it's ok to feel sad, angry, disappointed. after what you've been through, it will take a while for life to get back to normal. org sekeliling hanya boleh nasihat kita bersabar, tapi peritnya hanya tuhan yg tahu.

my bleeding tak lama shin. i first noticed it ard 3pm last sunday. ard 5.30 nurse ER bagi i proluton jab. mlm tu bleeding stop, agaknya sbb proluton kot. kiranya i sempat stain 2 pantyliners, setiap satu stainnya lebih kurang saiz 10 sen coin.

then pagi isnin dr scan, dia kata tak de bleeding atau blood clot dlm uterus. alat scanner yg masuk dlm vagina tu pun bersih, tak de darah langsung. i rasa lega bila dr ckp cam tu.

tapi dr tak nampak sac pun. he said it's still very early.. entahlah.

anyway, tiba2 semalam keluar ketulan tu, without any bleeding whatsoever. lepas tu a couple of times bila i pergi buang air kecil, ada sedikit lendir warna coklat, sikit sgt.

dr nak scan i next monday 1 august. mean time, i tak tau apa nak fikir, i masih follow his advice to rest, tapi i don't know if it's too late now? huhu
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Post time 27-7-2011 11:37 AM | Show all posts
Reply 64# kikilalat


    thanks kiki. terus berderai air mata bila baca your msg. semalam i tenang je.. bila ckp kat hubby pasal ketulan tu pun i cool je. tapi last nite i tak boleh tidur langsung. entahlah.. i'm praying for a miracle.
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Post time 27-7-2011 12:14 PM | Show all posts
salam semua......wah dah ada rumah baru.......and dah lama bella tak masuk forum ni....

tahniah kepada yang berjaya pregnant......rehat banyak2 ye ziara........

to shin.....i am so sorry for your lost.......insyaallah rezeki akan muncul tak lama lagi......
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Post time 27-7-2011 12:16 PM | Show all posts
Bella nak share ngan kawan2 semua......bella dah selamat melahirkan baby girl and sekarang tengah berpantang.......mudah-mudahan berita ni menjadi semangat for all of you....
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Post time 27-7-2011 12:56 PM | Show all posts
Assalamualaikum semua..
smlm mel mc arini amek EL
kt dlm pusat mel bekas drilling aritu bengkak n nanah
td pi spital..huh bengang btl ngan layanan doc muda kt situ
ala2 sombong gitu , pastu mc pon xmo bg
padahal mel sampai xlena tido sbb sakit
pusing kiri sakit, pusing kanan sakit
ni menaip pon sambil berdiri wakakaka
sakit bila duduk....mel rasa mungkin mel terlupa nk lap air kt dlm pusat tuh pas mandi
skang mel mkn antibiotik n doc ada bg ubt sapu
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Post time 27-7-2011 12:58 PM | Show all posts
nak update sikit.. ahad lepas i ada bleeding. masa tu i berdua dgn my daughter je kat rumah.. punyal ...
ziara Post at 26-7-2011 10:51



    ziara.. harap xde apa2 yg berlaku yer
moga baby dlm kandungan ziara tu kuat, sihat n selamat
doa banyak2 yer n ziara banyakkan rehat yer
moga segalanya selamat ...AMIN...
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Post time 27-7-2011 01:07 PM | Show all posts
Reply  mmelonberries

Wah tinggi nye mel! kalau terkene, macamane kesan nye kat Mel? macam gegata ...
sh|nobu Post at 26-7-2011 10:59


mel selalu bersin shin... wajib bersin hari2
mmg dh rutin tuh... 1 ari mmg lebihla dr 10x
ada skali tuh sampai 50x tau...
pastu idung slalu berdarah
skang ni xde dh idung darah tuh
habuk la yg mel paling allergic tuh, masa buat allergic test kt tgn tuh
habuk mmg naik lebar2 cam gegata doc kata 3++
yg lain dlm 2++ ngan 1++
mel risau gak nih kl pas nbuat ivf nnt camner
sbb mel mmg akn bersin setiap ari, bertalu2 kuat plak tuh
risau plak badan bergegar2 nnt huhu
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Post time 27-7-2011 01:25 PM | Show all posts
Bella nak share ngan kawan2 semua......bella dah selamat melahirkan baby girl and sekarang tengah be ...
Lucca_Bella Post at 27-7-2011 12:16



congrats bella....
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 Author| Post time 27-7-2011 03:16 PM | Show all posts
Assalamualaikum semua..
smlm mel mc arini amek EL
kt dlm pusat mel bekas drilling aritu bengkak n  ...
mmelonberries Post at 27-7-2011 12:56



    Salam...

Mel, nih yg drilling 2 tahun lepas tuh ker??
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Post time 27-7-2011 05:14 PM | Show all posts
Reply 69# Lucca_Bella

congrats bella. bestnya, dapat sambut raya dgn org baru

cepat masa berlalu kan. mcm baru je baca pasal pengalaman bella ... iyulah yg membuka pintu hati i utk cuba ivf sekali lagi.
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Post time 27-7-2011 05:18 PM | Show all posts
Reply 72# mmelonberries


    thanks for the wish mel. i tak tahu dah what to do, except for wait.. hopefully ada sinar di hujungnya buat i.

seriau bila baca pasal pusat mel.. hopefully cepat sembuh. apa kes budak dr tu nak bagi mc.. kerek betul.
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Post time 27-7-2011 07:41 PM | Show all posts
Salam...

Mel, nih yg drilling 2 tahun lepas tuh ker??
kikilalat Post at 27-7-2011 15:16



  haah kiki... tp mel rasa ni sbb infection
agaknya mel x keringkan betul air dlm pusat tuh pas mandi
doc td ckp xde kena mengena ngan operation tuh sbb dh 2thn
kiki nnt pas mandi lap betul2 tau
lubang pusat tuh mmg dh jd lebih sempit kn
ssh nk lap betul2, mesti ada jer air yg tertinggal kt dlm2 tuh
pasni mel ingat nk keringkan kt kipas lah hehe
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Post time 27-7-2011 10:17 PM | Show all posts
Reply 74# kuncisaya

Thanks kunci........ lama bella tak baca blog kunci......apa perkembangan treatment kunci sekarang?
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Post time 27-7-2011 10:22 PM | Show all posts
Reply 76# ziara

Alhamdulillah.....syukur sangat.....dah lama asyik raya berdua je...sampai tak de mood nak raya....puasa pun sebb wajib......bella syukur and happy dengan rezeki yang Allah kasi to us......

Ziara make sure la rehat bebetul....masa bella bleeding dulu.....my doctor said, normal bleeding bleding ni....but of coz kita risau kan........take care tau.....kurang kan naik turun tangga tu juga ye......


tu lah....pengalaman cucuk mencucuk memang tak dapat dilupakan....glad those experience jadi dorongan to orang lain....
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