CLUB: AKU PUN NAK PEKNAN Vol 1

teddystar

salam to all...aku tau,masalah ni common sgt...tp aku xtau cmne nk handle menda niee...b4 kawin,bnnnyykk ja tnya bila nk kawin..bila dah kawin,bnnnyyykkk plak tnya bila nk ada baby..n aku baru sebulan ja kawin..awlnya,x rasa stress pn..sbb rasa awal je lg..if x preggy lg,kira blm ada rezzeki lg..tp skrg dh mula ada rs stress skit2..sbb asik soalan 2 je d tnya..n en suami pn ada gak tnya soalan yg sama..tlg laa aku..cmna nk elak rs x best nieh...

freekey

"TTC - Do we have to base on facts or do we just need to believe in Allah's fate?" - status aku kt facebook..

Tp haram takda sapa pun yg response huhu..

So kepada yang faham.. Apa komen anda?

Abbreviation In This Thread
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AAMOF As a matter of fact
AF Aunt Flow (period)
AFAIK As far as I know
AFK Away from keyboard
BAC By any chance
BAK Back at keyboard
BBL Be back later
BD Baby dancing
BF Breastfeeding (or boyfriend)
BFN Big fat negative
BFP Big fat positive
BIL Brother in law
BRB Be right back
BTW By the way
B4 Before
B4N Before now
CMIIW Correct me if I'm wrong
CU See you
CUL See you later
DD Dear/Darling daughter
DH Dear/Darling husband
DP Dear/Darling partner
DS Dear/Darling son
DW Dear/Darling wife
EWCM Egg white cervical mucus
FAQ Frequently asked questions
FIL Father in law
FITB Fill in the blank
FWIW For what it's worth
FYA For your amusement
FYI For your information
F2F Face to face
4U For you
G Giggle
GMTA Great minds think alike
HHOK Ha ha only kidding
HTH Hope this helps
HV Health visitor
IAC In any case
IKWUM I know what you mean
IMHO In my humble opinion
IMO In my opinion
IOW In other words
IRL In real life
IUI intra-uterine insemination
IVF In vitro fertilization
IYKWIM If you know what I mean
IYSWIM If you see what I mean
J/K Just kidding
JM2C Just my two cents
K OK
KOTC Kiss on the cheek
KWIM Know what I mean
L Laughing
L8R Later
LO Little one
LOL Laughing out loud
LMAO Laughing my a**e off
MC/MMC Miscarriage
MIL Mother in law
MMC Missed miscarriage
MOTD Message of the day
MW Midwife
MSG Message
NN2R No need to reply
NP No problem
NRN No response necessary
OH Other half
OIC Oh I see
OMG Oh my god
OPK Ovulation Predictor Kit
OT Off topic
OTOH On the other hand
OV Ovulating
PG Pregnant
PI Politically incorrect
PITA Pain in the a**e
PM Personal message
PMSL Peeing myself laughing
ROFL Rolling on the floor laughing
ROFLMAO Rolling on the floor laughing my a**e off
SAHM Stay at home mum
SICS Sitting in the chair snickering
SIL Sister in law
TC Take care
THX Thanks
TIA Thanks in advance
TMI Too much information
TTFN Ta ta for now
TTC Trying to conceive
TY Thank you
YSR Yeah, sure, right
YW You're welcome
YWIA You’re welcome in advance
WB Welcome back
WTG Way to go
1WW/2WW 1 week wait/2 week wait (after having IUI or IVF)
2L8 Too late
2U To you

nuryakmal

its 50% usaha 50% tawakaltuallah....
saye da 3 kali gugur... try and try again.. positive positive positive

aaz

"TTC - Do we have to base on facts or do we just need to believe in Allah's fate?" - status aku kt f ...
freekey Post at 7-9-2011 14:37

    tak der org respond sebab tak de org faham apa itu TTC kot

ruffleen

tak der org respond sebab tak de org faham apa itu TTC kot
aaz Post at 7-9-2011 14:47

aku pun tak paham....Teh Tarik Crew aku tau la

aaz

aku pun tak paham....Teh Tarik Crew aku tau la
ruffleen Post at 7-9-2011 14:48

    TTC ni akronim utk few things, incl Trying To Conceive

aaz

Awat adik freekey nih asik stressful pasai nih.. kalo u suami tensen macam nih, tak leh nak imagine macam mana level of stress yg wife terpaksa hadapi. Stress ni pun halangan gak utk conceive

freekey

its 50% usaha 50% tawakaltuallah....
saye da 3 kali gugur... try and try again.. positive positive  ...
nuryakmal Post at 7-9-2011 14:42

i feel sorry for you..

but to make you feel better.. at least there's already hope for you in fact you already conceived... but not us

   

nuryakmal

somi takleh tunjuk dia stress to his wife................................ kesian bini tu.. nanti dia feel worthless.. can u take bill rancic as an example.. how he treats giuliana.. tak pon khloe and lamar odom.... keymon.............

Artemesiaa

Ni mesti kes masa gi beraya orang dok sibuk tanya bila nak dapat anak sampai jadi tension

freekey

tak der org respond sebab tak de org faham apa itu TTC kot
aaz Post at 7-9-2011 14:47

yelah kot.. in fact mmg ada sorang member reply soh tulis dlm bahasa Melayu.. huhu..

tp mmg taknak make it very obvious.. so gunalah term TTC tu    

freekey

Awat adik freekey nih asik stressful pasai nih.. kalo u suami tensen macam nih, tak leh nak imagine  ...
aaz Post at 7-9-2011 14:56

my wife OK kot.. it's just mie

my reason sama dgn lelaki botak berbaju merah yang dapat anak kembar merdeka yg tunjuk kt Buletin Utama TV3 itu hari.. huhuh..

8 tahun dia kahwin baru dia dpt anak.. adik beradik dia semua dah kahwin dan ada anak.. dia pun nak mak dia dpt tgk cucu drpd dia.. huhu

but i guess that guy dah lama kahwin.. in my case only managed to get married at the age of 31, and my mom already 73

   

freekey

Ni mesti kes masa gi beraya orang dok sibuk tanya bila nak dapat anak sampai jadi tension
Artemesiaa Post at 7-9-2011 15:01

ermm tak juga..

ini semua gara2 dikelilingi dengan persekitaran yg penuh dengan kesuburan..   

   

nuryakmal

Reply 7# freekey


    losing a baby pun pedih jugak...takpelah.. right now tuhan tahu apa yang u guys rasakan.. kalau u guys da pegi jumpa doktor and he confirmed that both of u are fine so its just a matter of time.. mind u that people over 30'sh are prone to have twinsso SABOR.................

AbukRokok

kat facebuk aku faham...AAK je.....

aaz

tu semua rezeki masing2.. tell you, my neighbor - kawin ngan his wife at the age of 19. Very young. Masa depa dok ngaji kat US nun.. Sepatutnya time ni kesuburan at peak lah kan.. Tapi Allah Maha Mengetahui apa yang kita tak tahu. What we think best for us, tak semestinya baik untuk kita. My neighbor nih VP kat renowned company kat malaysia nih. Pendekata duit bukan halangan. Tapi dia tak de anak. Puas nak conceive. Nak poligami, mak tak kasi. Tapi tu lah, kadang2 Allah cuma nak duga kesabaran dan syukur kita.. Kenapa dok asyik tengok nikmat yg tak de pada kita, sedangkan nikmat yg Allah anugerahkan lagi banyak.. Dan alhamdulillah after 18 yrs (bukan 8 tahun atau 10 tahun yer), akhirnya dia dapat anak yg memang comel.

Hidup ni untuk kita belajar.. u belajar syukur. u belajar sabar. U belajar redha. U belajar usaha. U belajar tawakal.
Kalau u asyik merungut, do u think Allah nak bagi apa yang u nak? Allah will let u learn, before He gives what u want in life..
Tu pun persediaan utk u jadi bapa.
Bayangkan, tak ada makwe mengeluh. bertunang mengeluh. dah kahwin pun mengeluh lagi sebab belum dapat anak. What if Allah kasi u anak? Ntah2 u mengeluh lagi.. Bukan senang tau nak jaga anak.. Anggap ajer lah, ni persediaan untuk Allah bentuk peribadi u jadi bapa yang hebat - yang sabar, yang tahu bersyukur dan menghargai. When the time is right, insya' Allah u akan dapat berita gembira yg u nanti2kan tu

liton

Kita kena usaha juga..bila semua usaha dah buat, barulah berserah tapi masih berdoa.

liton

Reply 11# freekey

Insyaalah..boleh tu. Dr kan boleh bagi ubat.
Tak pun buat ICSI (ivf)
TT dah start treatment ke?

marumaru

ttc punye facts nye ape?

BingkaUbi

ni thread citer kawin lama2 tak dpt anak ka? cam aku kan, klu duluk2 kawin terus dpt anak, sure anak aku skrg dh remaja dah, nak amik pmr dah thn depan........ tp takde rezeki org kata, kawin cepat pun tak dpt anak cepat.... takpe la, sabar ajelah kannn......