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Atas kesilapan ibu bapa, budak lelaki ini dibesarkan sebagai perempuan..

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Post time 18-7-2012 10:57 AM | Show all posts |Read mode


A combination of a rare medical condition, a mother going blind and an absent father has resulted in a boy in China's Sichuan province, who was born with an unusual physical defect, to be mistaken for a girl and raised as the parents' daughter for most of his childhood!

Thirteen years ago, Xiao Ying was born with a severe condition called perineal hypospadias, a birth defect that caused his scrotum to resemble a vagina. "He was born at home and there were no doctors around, so when we couldn't see his genitals, we thought my wife had given birth to a girl," said his father Chen Shiming.
After Xiao Ying was born, Chen left their home in Xinguan village to find work some 600km away in Chongqing city, leaving his wife Wang Li to take care of their child. But a year later, she lost her eyesight to glaucoma and continued to raise their "daughter" on her own.

Xiao Ying grew up playing with dolls and wearing skirts, and no one thought anything of it—until October 2010, when Wang Li was giving him a bath and was shocked to discover "an odd organ" around his crotch. Chen rushed home and they sent their child to the local hospital, but doctors were unable to diagnose his condition with their limited resources.

It wasn't until months later when they sent Xiao Ying to the children's hospital at Chongqing Medical University when doctors there were finally able to conduct chromosome tests and confirm that he was their son!

Since then, Xiao Ying has had to endure three surgeries to correct his physical condition. And since his "gender reassignment" therapy began last year, the confused and embarrassed 13-year-old boy has hid himself away from people and the world. "He's even scared to go to the toilet. He doesn't know which bathroom to use, the boys or the girls," said his mum.
Worried that he would be subjected to ridicule and bullying by his schoolmates, his parents transferred him to a new school in another town where no one would know his situation and he could have a fresh start with new friends. However, his mum says, "He's still not happy."

"He was very cheerful before this, always playful and sociable, going out with his friends," she said. But now he refuses to meet strangers and doesn't talk as much as before. His mum added that they would have to decide on a new name for their son when they change the details of his birth certificate.
Dr Liu Junhong from Chongqing Medical University said that Xiao Ying needs one more operation, perhaps his last, in the coming months. After that, he would be "just like other boys" and none of his sexual functions would be affected.

credit : daily chili

p/s - adeh, mesti confuse giler budak tu pasal identiti diri dia..

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Post time 18-7-2012 11:35 AM | Show all posts
aduh...kesian plak dgn budak tu
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Post time 18-7-2012 12:35 PM | Show all posts
kesian.....
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Post time 18-7-2012 12:42 PM | Show all posts
Kena bawak gi kaunseling ni agar dia tak terus terkeliru.
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Post time 18-7-2012 01:13 PM | Show all posts
ape da..sian bdak tuh..
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Post time 18-7-2012 01:21 PM | Show all posts
siannyer...
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Post time 18-7-2012 02:47 PM | Show all posts
kesian dia..
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Post time 18-7-2012 03:33 PM | Show all posts
kesiannya budak tu.....dah besar baru tahu dia lelaki......camne lah dia nak hadapi semuanya  ni.....tentu susah dia nak adept diri dia sebagai lelaki.
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Post time 18-7-2012 04:08 PM | Show all posts
xde pic ke??
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 Author| Post time 18-7-2012 04:10 PM | Show all posts
Reply 9# amyainsamad


    kan ada pic kat atas tu.. muka budak tu x nampak ler.. malu, berselubung balik selimut.
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Post time 18-7-2012 04:59 PM | Show all posts
masih sempat lagik nak ubah nie!
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Post time 18-7-2012 05:46 PM | Show all posts
mmg trauma... dari kecik dh jadik pempuan tetiba jadik lelaki maunya tak tension
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Post time 18-7-2012 07:13 PM | Show all posts
moga2 adik ni dpt kembali normal semula..kesiann
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Post time 18-7-2012 09:17 PM | Show all posts
kesian adik ni, bukan masalah dalaman tapi fizikal luaran je. mesti dia awkward dari dulu sebab dididik sebagai perempuan rupa2nya dia lelaki. so kepada lelaki yg jadi maknyah ni memang tak bersyukur langsung la. org dah didik betul2 jadi laki, rasa terperangkap dalam badan lelaki la, rasa tersilap lahir dalam badan lelaki la. menyampah betul
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Post time 18-7-2012 10:36 PM | Show all posts
berat dugaannya
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Post time 19-7-2012 12:01 AM | Show all posts
kesian
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Post time 19-7-2012 12:07 AM | Show all posts
tak faham.. jiran2 lain takkan tak tau??????????????or kawan2 bdk nih.. ? die x p sekolah ker???
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 Author| Post time 20-7-2012 09:32 AM | Show all posts
Reply 17# lonso


    lonso, masa dia dilahirkan pun, xde rupa 'benda tu'.. nampak mcm perempuan punya.. ayah pulak kerja tempat lain, jarang balik.. mak pulak ada masalah penglihatan.. bila dah besar, belek2 baru perasan kenapa ada scrotum agaknya.. tu yg baru tau lelaki.
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Post time 20-7-2012 09:40 AM | Show all posts
kesian...da besar baru tau masalah sebenar...
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Post time 27-7-2012 04:11 PM | Show all posts
Maleh nk bace, pix xde?
Pics or didnt happen..
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