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Salam para forumer,
its me again...huhu....
sekarang kita selalu dengar banyak berlaku kes2 penipuan...terutamanya perempuan kan...tak kira la ditipu duit ke, cinta ke, perkataan atau ape2 saja...ape kata forumer menceritakan PENGALAMAN ditipu, tips untuk MENGENALI penipu atau artikel2 yang boleh kita kongsi dengan para forumer yang lain...ok x??
saya pernah ditipu oleh kawan yang dianggap rapat...dia menipu duit saya sebanyak 1k...mungkin sikit bagi orang lain...dia kata dia perlukan duit itu untuk majlis perkahwinan dia...sampai sekarang dah tak jumpa muka dia...rupa2nya dia pakai duit tu untuk tambah deposit kereta...menyesal sangat bagi dia pinjam duit...selalunya penipu ni banyak buat cerita sedih...nanti saya letak video pamela meyers...pamela meyers ialah ceo calibrate, a leading deception detection company based in washington dc...
forumer boleh bercerita dan berkongsi pengalaman...silakan....
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spotting a liar
-Liars like to distance themselves from the subject. Taking Bill Clinton as an example, "I did not have sexual relations with that woman," has the two giveaways of "did not" and "that woman" help point out that it's a lie.
-Liars use qualifying language, like "to tell you the truth."
-Repeating the question before answering it dishonestly is a common indicator of a lie.
-Liars look you in the eyes too much. They don't fidget, but rather freeze their upper body.
-Liars will fake smiles.
-Liars like to offer details.
-When liars are the culprits and trying to avoid punishment for what they did, they're more likely to suggest strict punishments for the "real culprit."
-Liars are terrible at telling their stories backwards.
-Liars will often point their feet towards an exit.
-Liars will often put barrier objects between themselves and the person asking them about their lie.
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How to Spot a Liar
Dr. Phil asked two staff members to tell a story about the work they did on the show. One of them lied, and one told the truth. Can you spot the liar?
Dr. Phil suggests keeping the following points in mind when you're talking to someone who you think might be stretching the truth.
1) Too much or too little eye contact. Liars tend to avoid looking people in the eye, but if they are staring you down, they may be working hard at lying.
2) Over-emphasizes details. When people are trying to avoid telling the truth, they often pick some obscure point and talk about it a lot instead of focusing on the key issue.
3) Fidgeting. Is the person you're talking to very fidgety? You often see kids do this when they're telling a tale. That's a sign that someone may be lying.
4) Touching nose. Research shows that when people lie, they tend to touch the base of their nose a lot. "That's a dead giveaway," says Dr. Phil.
5) Mouth pursed. When people tell a lie, they can't get enough oxygen, so they tend to breathe through their mouth instead of through their nose.
6) Speech hesitations. Pausing, throat clearing, or other stalling techniques may indicate that a person is embellishing the truth.
7) Looking up or down. They may be stalling for time.
8) Answers questions not asked. Without even asking them a question, liars will defend themselves.
9) Other body language to check for to spot a potential liar include: excessive blinking, dilated pupils, pitch changes, less smiling, and shrugging shoulders.
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/228 |
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sesiapa nak baca cara melihat mata seorang penipu boleh baca dengan lebih lanjut di laman web dibawah yer...memang bermanfaat...sekarang kalau saya bercakap dengan orang saya akan melihat mata dan ekspresi wajah dia...
http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies_eyes.php |
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Aku penah... Wat personal loan 10k... Atas nama aku. Bagi dua ngan kawan aku ni. Janji nak byr bulan2 tp harammmm. Satu sen xbyr ko. Smp skrg dia msh hutang aku 5k blum masuk interest lg tue... Loan tu pun dah setle lama dah... Bughok perangai betul... Fobia aku klau ada org nak pnjm2 duit ni... Kita pulak yg segan nak Mintak padahal duit kita tu.... Aku tuntut kat sana nti. Loan tu thn 2000... Dah nak msk 14 thn hutang xberbayor... Hamlau sungguh lar |
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menjad posted on 16-2-2014 02:53 PM 
Aku penah... Wat personal loan 10k... Atas nama aku. Bagi dua ngan kawan aku ni. Janji nak byr bulan ...
menjad boleh ceritakan bahasa tubuh dan perkataan dia masa dia mintak tu? menjad ingat x?
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nanacinta posted on 16-2-2014 02:57 PM
menjad boleh ceritakan bahasa tubuh dan perkataan dia masa dia mintak tu? menjad ingat x?
Bese ler org nak guna duit... Ckp mcm bagus jer... Janji mcm2... Masa tu aku pun mmg nak guna duit sgt.. Jd percaya aja ler ... Skrg ni sesapa nak pnjam mmg aku susah sgt nak bg... Kecuali pada ahli kuarga jer... Yg len sori... |
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percaya tak cakap saya ramai lelaki yang suka menipu perempuan tentang kisah hidup mereka...berhati2 yer...jangan percaya ape yang dikata...buat2 percaya jer...saya dah kaji kebanyakan suami orang ni banyak gunakan teknik2 penipuan untuk memikat wanita...hohoho....sape percaya dia yang rugi.... |
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kesian,belangsungkawa,sadis bg ke orang,kalo adek2 aku/sahabat baik aku(2 orang cuma),aku sanggup bahagi dua apa yang ada atau berapa depa mita..
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Dewa19XKangen posted on 16-2-2014 03:13 PM
kesian,belangsungkawa,sadis bg ke orang,kalo adek2 aku/sahabat baik aku(2 orang cuma),aku sanggup ba ...
sorry...tak faham...
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Aku takat ni x pernh kna tipu..tp pernh nampk kwn aku kena tipu bf dia..huhu x taw la lau kwn aku perasan or saja buat2 x paham.huhu tp memang nampk sangat bf dia suka kikis kwn aku smpi rumah sewa n makan dia kwn aku yg byo.huh |
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QziraH posted on 16-2-2014 03:26 PM
Aku takat ni x pernh kna tipu..tp pernh nampk kwn aku kena tipu bf dia..huhu x taw la lau kwn aku pe ...
perempuan macamni selalunya low self-esteem qzirah...huhu..takut memulakan sesuatu yang baru...
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Tak penah kena tipu dan minta dijauhkan.. cuma penah jadi SR dlm satu forum yg femes satu masa dlu... ada forumer tipu forumer melibatkan wang yg banyak.... si forumer penipu tu pulak perwatakan dia dlm forum ala ala pompuan solehah....
aku follow je forum tu sampai selesai kes tu.. huhu
hati hati la dgn org bermulut manis nih |
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Syumaimah posted on 16-2-2014 03:40 PM
Tak penah kena tipu dan minta dijauhkan.. cuma penah jadi SR dlm satu forum yg femes satu masa dlu.. ...
yer syumaimah...setiap orang boleh jadi mangsa penipuan...jangan lihat cara mereka berpakaian tapi lihat body language, penulisan dia, perkataan dia..lupa nak cakap,kita boleh detect penipuan berdasarkan penulisan dia...tapi itu biarla rahsia...
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nanacinta posted on 16-2-2014 03:45 PM
yer syumaimah...setiap orang boleh jadi mangsa penipuan...jangan lihat cara mereka berpakaian tapi ...
Alaaa kongsi la... sebagai panduan forumer lain... sebab si forumer tu tipu kat banyak forum gak la....
aku nih kan suka berforum tp SR je la... huhu |
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Syumaimah posted on 16-2-2014 03:53 PM
Alaaa kongsi la... sebagai panduan forumer lain... sebab si forumer tu tipu kat banyak forum gak l ...
saya tak ingatla syumaimah...nanti saya cari balik buku tu...saya baca kat library...huhu...
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nanacinta posted on 16-2-2014 03:55 PM
saya tak ingatla syumaimah...nanti saya cari balik buku tu...saya baca kat library...huhu...
Okeh...  |
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Nak detect penipu ni yg penting observation.
Body language+ eye contact. Then make sure analyse cerita depa. Jgn emosi. Be real.
Thats why aku selalu komen, control emosi. If involve emosi then, pertimbangan akan goyah |
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Innrukia posted on 16-2-2014 04:02 PM
Nak detect penipu ni yg penting observation.
Body language+ eye contact. Then make sure analyse ce ...
yer...ini yang penting inn...terutamanya kita perempuan ni mudah kesian kat orang...
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Category: Wanita & Lelaki
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Post time 16-2-2014 02:15 PM
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