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Adikku Ketagih BDSM..

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 Author| Post time 14-7-2020 03:37 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 14-7-2020 03:26 PM
Cari pakar sakit jiwa ke atau mana mana badan persatuan, beri contact tu pada Aishah. Doakan bila di ...

bila umur dah 30..
mmg susah utk ditegur..
koala ada jugak terfikir nak bawak ke psikiatrist..
tp mesti kena ckp dgn dia dulu..
skrang adik lelaki dah pun tegur dia..
dia ugut utk tak balik kpg..


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Post time 14-7-2020 03:41 PM | Show all posts
koalabiru replied at 14-7-2020 03:37 PM
bila umur dah 30..
mmg susah utk ditegur..
koala ada jugak terfikir nak bawak ke psikiatrist..

no need, its her life and her choices. Lainla 13 tahun, u sebat je la. Ni 30. U dah nasihat and as well adik lelaki. Like i suggest find a contact no or apa apa info yg boleh triger her mind bila dah ready. Nanti u push lagi dia menjauh. So ni more to her personal apa dia suka and tidak her preference in sex etc. So its sensetive issue. Just let her be, be her sister and friend. Itu je, someone yg dia boleh count on. Good enaf
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 Author| Post time 14-7-2020 04:49 PM | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 14-7-2020 03:41 PM
no need, its her life and her choices. Lainla 13 tahun, u sebat je la. Ni 30. U dah nasihat and as ...

bila adik tanya pun..
dia kata nih life privacy dia..
takde orang ptt tahu..

mmg sedih bile tengok adik sndiri suka kena ikat..
bile adik sendiri jalin hubungan dengan suami orang..
bile adik sendiri kena sumbat botol dalam 'anu'
bile adik sendiri kena kecam sbb player..
bile adik sendiri layan jantan mcm tukar baju..

koala sendiri tak kuat sebenarnya..
dua tiga malam tak boleh tido..
mcm ada batu dalam dada..

koala sedih..

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Post time 14-7-2020 05:23 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
koalabiru replied at 14-7-2020 04:49 PM
bila adik tanya pun..
dia kata nih life privacy dia..
takde orang ptt tahu..

it is hard koala. Best u doakanlah and jgn give up nasihat dia.
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Post time 14-7-2020 05:38 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
As for now, just b her friends ,that is the best u can do now. Dont stop contacting her,buat mcam biasa.build the relationship,build the trust. Stop confront her about the sexual orientation for now. Lama2 if dia da selesa,dia sndri akn open up to you about this stuff.skang ni yg pting moga dia selamat,n tau there is always somebody will have her back n love her.which is you and ur lil bro..

Ckp kat adik laki u pon,stop dlu push her utk ikot dcsion korang even if u think it is good for her.ajk adik laki tu build a close relationship with her too. Borak, tnya khabar.lepak2 if kalau ada msa..p trun sana..just to show that u care about her. she needs perhatian i think..but unfortunately she gets it from a wrong channel.. its not her fault..mungkin msa dia menghrap dlu.this thing yg always appear the most in front of her..so she rely on this,just to make her feel loved.

So for now
-build the trust
-build a close relationship with her
-stop asking about the BDSM
-stop making dcsion for her
-always doakan adik u supaya Allah lindungi dia dri sebrang bencana since its quite risky(for me) apa yg dia buat skrang.

All the best,and no. U r not a bad sister.u r the good one.kalau tak u x risau mcam ni.u can just let her be.its her life after all.but u care about her instead..and its good.it is what sister suppose to do.It might require lots lots of time and patient to pull her from that path right now.sbb prkara bukn sehari dua..it has been yearss dia hidup gitu...i u have to understnd it is hard for her to change it immediately...

May Allah ease everything for u,Aisyah and your family..guiding u in finding a solution..till then,just remain close to her and u can try to be her best friend..the best of luck insyaAllah...
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Post time 14-7-2020 05:41 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
adila39 replied at 14-7-2020 03:41 PM
no need, its her life and her choices. Lainla 13 tahun, u sebat je la. Ni 30. U dah nasihat and as ...

True, be her friend first, then the rest will b easier.Aisyah ni mcam dah lost..so it takes time to find her way back..kakak kena byk sabar...
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Post time 14-7-2020 06:31 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
per706 replied at 14-7-2020 05:38 PM
As for now, just b her friends ,that is the best u can do now. Dont stop contacting her,buat mcam bi ...

yes.. agree dgn awak, kakak. May TT and sister diberikan pertolongan nanti. Matter of time. Have faith pada doa u tu.
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 Author| Post time 15-7-2020 01:04 PM | Show all posts
per706 replied at 14-7-2020 05:38 PM
As for now, just b her friends ,that is the best u can do now. Dont stop contacting her,buat mcam bi ...

terima kasih atas nasihat yang panjang lebar ini..
koala sgt hargai..
terasa beban di bahu lebih ringan..
moga ada sinar di sebalik semua ini..


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Post time 15-7-2020 02:30 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
koalabiru replied at 15-7-2020 01:04 PM
terima kasih atas nasihat yang panjang lebar ini..
koala sgt hargai..
terasa beban di bahu lebih ...

InsyaAllah dear sister, we will always pray to Allah for you and Aisyah... such a good name ur father choose for her...U have our support..be strong ya! Org hebat dugaannya pasti hebat juga.may u past this test with flying colours insyaAllah... ; )
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Post time 18-7-2020 07:02 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Baca kisah adik TT ni teringat kisah Arwah Noritta Samsuddin...

Jangan berhenti berdoa ya TT
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Post time 18-7-2020 09:19 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Tt sabar dan berdoa ya..
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 Author| Post time 27-7-2020 10:14 AM | Show all posts
Felycya replied at 18-7-2020 07:02 PM
Baca kisah adik TT ni teringat kisah Arwah Noritta Samsuddin...

Jangan berhenti berdoa ya TT

jgn kata awak.. koala pun teringat norita samsudin tu..
koala pun xnak adik koala terima musibah mcm tu..
mcm mana pulak nak bagi dia ingat mati nih boleh jadi bile2..
jgn ingat semua selamat..
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Post time 27-7-2020 12:21 PM | Show all posts
kalau la xde org yg nak ataujd pak sanggup,xpe aku ade ajukan diri....
semoga kola tabah menghadapi dugaan...

kola sendiri dah berpunya ke belum???
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Post time 27-7-2020 12:24 PM | Show all posts
giyomi replied at 18-3-2015 07:01 PM
sadis sungguh citernya. klu kawin pon blom tentu dia berubah silap aribln cerai berai jdnya sebab  ...

jenis mcm tu kena ada caranya,kena slow2 dan byk bersabar,biase la org cantik kena la cara lembut,
tp kalo muke huduh,mmg aku kasi tapak selipar kat muka hehehehhe
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Post time 29-7-2020 10:20 AM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
Koala, your sister dah tau tak pasal reporter tu contact u pasal dia? Benda ni dah jadi bertahun2 and nampaknya koala dah put aside and yet reporter ni contact u, as if benda ni alarming and crying for attention+action... Nak doa je pun boleh jadi risau kan, koala... And yet nothing else to do unless she's open to counselling.
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 Author| Post time 29-7-2020 12:03 PM | Show all posts
copy_paste replied at 27-7-2020 12:21 PM
kalau la xde org yg nak ataujd pak sanggup,xpe aku ade ajukan diri....
semoga kola tabah menghadapi ...

koala dah pun berkahwin..
anak dua dah pun..


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 Author| Post time 29-7-2020 12:05 PM | Show all posts
belilies replied at 29-7-2020 10:20 AM
Koala, your sister dah tau tak pasal reporter tu contact u pasal dia? Benda ni dah jadi bertahun2 an ...

adik koala yang lelaki tu ada nasihatkan dia..
tp dia ckp jgn campur urusan dia..
tu dia punya private life..
dan katanya dah lama pun cuci tangan..
dia dah lama xbuat benda2 gitu..

tp koala tak pasti kebenarannya..
adik lelaki ajak bersembang dan diskus..
dia bgtau dia xsenang.. dan xmau sembang pun hal ni..
dan lastly.. dia dah xnak balik kampung..

dia dah avoid diri dari family..
cuma mak ayah masih belum tahu hal ni..
hati koala tercarik2 sangat bile tau raya haji ni dia xbalik..
sdgkan dah plan elok sgt dah sambut raya sesama..


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Post time 29-7-2020 12:31 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
koalabiru replied at 29-7-2020 12:05 PM
adik koala yang lelaki tu ada nasihatkan dia..
tp dia ckp jgn campur urusan dia..
tu dia punya p ...

Td iols ada baca kat benang sebelah psl parents koala. I think better leave them out lh, xyah inform parents. Yg adik laki koala tu dah tau tu mmg buat aisyah tertekan sbb another member in the family dah tahu, jadi dia xnampak perlu nak balik kpg. Alangkan sibling yg perempuan pun sheols tanak dngar siap pakej pasang ceramah bahgai sheols rijek.... Counselling je lah caranya. Ada yg forummer cadangkan bagi air yg ada ayat2 tu kat aisyah pun boleh diusahakan. Tak boleh juga nak ignore bila ada petunjuk, yg paling besar tu pun bila reporter yg dm koala. Be strong ya, koala.
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 Author| Post time 29-7-2020 12:41 PM | Show all posts
belilies replied at 29-7-2020 12:31 PM
Td iols ada baca kat benang sebelah psl parents koala. I think better leave them out lh, xyah info ...

koala yakin Aishah tengah kusut dan mental tengah koyak teruk..
menangis dan malu.. tp dalam masa sama ego tinggi sbb takut parent tau..
dia hanya suspek koala tau.. tapi dia taktau koala mmg tau benda nih dari dulu lagi..
sebelum adik laki koala tau..

cuma adik lelaki koala ada keberanian nak ckp dengan dia..
mungkin sbb lelaki dan jugak sbb rasa patut selamatkan kakak yang terhanyut..
ibu ayah mmg rasa xpe dia tak balik..
dia bagi alasan kena kerja sbb kawan kerja accident..
xde pengganti..

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Post time 29-7-2020 03:49 PM From the mobile phone | Show all posts
koalabiru replied at 29-7-2020 12:03 PM
koala dah pun berkahwin..
anak dua dah pun..

Bukan kola, tapi adik kola yg bermasalah tu,
Aku boleh je tawarkan diri, kesian la dia xde yg bimbing tu,
Tapi kalau dia dah kawin, xpelah semoga laki dia leh bimbibg dia
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