|
|
Love Doc: Q & A Here (Especially for the Ladies)
[Copy link]
|
|
|
yuyoi posted on 12-6-2014 03:15 PM 
honestly, i still care and love him. even not as much as i used to. baru break end of march 2014. ...
it is a normal for u to feel that way....dah terbiasa everyday jumpa dier kan? talk, laugh, sedih, makan, etc...than suddenly things change...but for the worst...
so your ex kantoi dgn girl lain? u cannot accept that right? yelah, org yg kita syg dan percaya menguris kepercayaan kita, mencurangi perasaan...mcm mane nak percaya lagi kan?
as i mentioned before, your ex ni dlm keadaan desperate, dlm "rebound" stage...so mane2 pompuan di akan sebat, pasal ape? sebabnya dier juga nak mengubati hati yg luka...dgn mengadakan hubungan dgn pompuan lain...that is how he cures and amend his heart...
but i believe, there is still room for u in his heart...dgn syarat, u dpt kan maaf kan dier dgn kecurangan dier tu...but let him cure his heart first, tak perlu u ganggu dier buat masa ni...if love is great, eventually dier akan cari u...and sekiranya jodoh ade dan di izinkan tuhan...the best thing for u to do now is pray and ask for forgiveness from god....
love is a miracle actually...
Last edited by ifanonline on 12-6-2014 03:25 PM
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 03:14 PM
to prove your love to someone can be in many ways, selain drpf ucap dgn kata2....pernah dengar lag ...
X ...  .
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Kan bagus kalau u answer i mcm ni
Ini i tanya soalan takdernya nak jwp betul2. Asik pusing around the bush aja |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
xoxlovexox posted on 12-6-2014 03:37 PM
X ... .
tak paham lagi?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Innrukia posted on 12-6-2014 03:38 PM
Kan bagus kalau u answer i mcm ni
Ini i tanya soalan takdernya nak jwp betul2. Asik pusing around ...
soalan ni kpd i ke inn?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 03:40 PM
soalan ni kpd i ke inn?
Hahaaa yes utk u.... Bila i tanya u mmg x answer mcm ni..... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Innrukia posted on 12-6-2014 03:56 PM
Hahaaa yes utk u.... Bila i tanya u mmg x answer mcm ni.....
bukan ke i jawab semua soalan u....
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 03:57 PM
bukan ke i jawab semua soalan u....
Yeahhhhhhh....
Doc Love bias tau, detail explanation to all ur patients.... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 03:39 PM
tak paham lagi?
I dun know wheater im confuse or understand ur answer .. Correct me if im wrong..
maksud u.. Kalau we love someone, we have to give and do everything in the name of LOVE?
by saying and action?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
xoxlovexox posted on 12-6-2014 04:21 PM
I dun know wheater im confuse or understand ur answer .. Correct me if im wrong..
maksud u.. Ka ...
yes...your understanding is correct...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 04:26 PM
yes...your understanding is correct...
So.. Adekah u bersetuju dgn.. Time bercinta i give u everything? ..just to show and proof how much our love is?
kalo gitu.. Patut ramai budak pompuan yg serah everything atas nama cinta? Dan budak laki request and demanding to have something to be secured in the name of love?
doc love pun berprinsip yg sama dan menyokong sebegitu ke?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
xoxlovexox posted on 12-6-2014 04:31 PM
So.. Adekah u bersetuju dgn.. Time bercinta i give u everything? ..just to show and proof how much ...
love goes both ways...lelaki berhak merasai cinta, dan wanita juga berhak merasai cinta...i know where your getting at...it is hard to secure feelings because feelings is not an item...it is not money...to secure...manusia ni ibarat "sekali air bah, sekali itu pantai berubah" there is no certainty in love...what is certain is only death and taxes...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 04:50 PM
love goes both ways...lelaki berhak merasai cinta, dan wanita juga berhak merasai cinta...i know w ...
Ur interpretation is hard to digest..
Which way u try to lead? Sorry i didint get it rite.. {:confuseo
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 12-6-2014 03:24 PM
it is a normal for u to feel that way....dah terbiasa everyday jumpa dier kan? talk, laugh, sedih, ...
thanks for your answer 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Hi doc, I need some advice regarding my probs.
I met this one guy on a dating website around two months or so. Since im quit shy and im not really open to guys, i decided to make friends dkt website tu.
Masa mula2 chat tu, I tak brp suka dngn dia but then when time passed by i started to like him and idk why bcos its all so sudden. (Before this pernah kena game, so agak cautios la bab2 ni and susah nak percaya orng).
We chat for quite a while and i really like him a lot. Everytime we talked, i speak through my heart. No lies or etc and im only being myself. And so does he. Everything happened so naturally. And hes also that type of guy who respect women a lot. And bcos of that, for the first time ever I think im gonna go serious this time.
But the prob is, dia mcm main2 (dia agak social act, esp with girls). Lps tu kejap dia ada kejap dia hilang. I did confess to him saying that I was hoping for this relationship to be serious. And he said that he likes me too and was hoping the same. But the prob is, I cant seem to see his effort.
Sometimes dia langsung tak contact sampai 1/2 weeks. I know he was busy sbb final year deg but takkan takde time langsung. Kata nak serious? I mean, i takdela nak contact sampai hari2 or what it just that he keep me waiting. (lps tu bole pulak upload gambar dngn perempuan lain, keluar lepak, etc, which act shows that he got time).
How do i deal with it? Is it bcos of me? Do i move so fast? I really need help. Im still young baru 20 but since i dont wanna waste time, im really looking forward for a serious relationship. But then, it turns out to be like this. Help please!  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
lnakass posted on 20-6-2014 04:38 AM
Hi doc, I need some advice regarding my probs.
I met this one guy on a dating website around two ...
hi inakass,
cyber dating eh? well, first of all i would like u to be cautious, secondly, if both of u are really serious, meet up with him...tak pernah jumpa kan? chatting through cyberspance dose not contrued to a relationship...cuba tengok reaksi dier, kalu dier berdolak dalih tak nak jumpa, he is not being sincere...kalu dier serious, he will find time to see u...
kalu nak jumpa tu, pi la tempat public i.e shopping mall...
let me know the outcome of your dating...it is not considered a relationship if u don't go out for a date...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
ifanonline posted on 20-6-2014 04:54 PM
hi inakass,
cyber dating eh? well, first of all i would like u to be cautious, secondly, if bot ...
We actually do met for a couple of times sbb dia study dkt tmpt yng sama with my sis. But like i said la, he keep me waiting. And i dont like that. Plus dia social amat with girls. I dont wanna be cheated nor did i want to be heartbroken. I try to be cautios not to let myself fall for him that much since i only know him for a while.
I do think that this is too fast but i couldnt control what i felt for him as i believe that this is love at first sight. Im in dilemma right now wether to keep this or just move one with my life since i cant seem to see his effort at all. Last edited by lnakass on 20-6-2014 05:14 PM
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
lnakass posted on 20-6-2014 05:11 PM
We actually do met for a couple of times sbb dia study dkt tmpt yng sama with my sis. But like i s ...
i see, u dah jumpa dier la ni...so sepanjang berkawan dgn u ni dier ade ckp pasal hubungan u dgn dier tak? or is it just casual talk? anyways, org lelaki ni, kalu dier benar2 serius, dier akan cuba sedaya upaya mencairi masa utk bersama dgn u..sesibuk mane pun, dier akn re-schedule time dier...this is effort from the guys side, kalu dier masih susah nak bagi mase kat u, mungkin di anggap u 50-50 shj...antara nak atau taknak...to get your feeling straight...just ask him casually perhubungan korang...kena berani skit la...wanita yg berani selalu guys akan respect in a good way...
u pun baru kenal dier kan? give it more time, let say 3-4 months lagi...
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Just casual talk. Yeah. Thats what im tryna say. Mcm takde effort. He said that he was busy and stuff. I get it. But sometimes he left for so long without any notice and then suddenly he comes back. Mcm biskut pulak 
I was hoping for a good ending since he was such a nice guy. Yeah. Will do that. Mayb dlm hal ni i yng terlampau bnyk fikir kot? Hm. Idk. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
|
Author
Post time 12-6-2014 03:37 PM
