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aku ada came across her blog, aku dpt tahu dia org malaysia... perlu diselamatkan jgk ke?
petikan blog dia....
Apostate
Murtad Mama -
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Me and Islam
Before you read my story below, I would like you to know that a lot of details are omitted to prevent people finding out who I am, etc. Some individuals and organizations may use my detailed info to hurt me in some way |
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Arctic Wolf & MFM
By Rosina Kamis
When my husband and I broke up in February 2004, I could no longer handle Murtads from Malaysia (MFM). I was grieving. However, I got a new boyfriend, Arctic Wolf and trusted him to handle MFM. He is not a Murtad from Malaysia but a Dutch man, who had a Malay fianc?e. He wanted to have his own forum where he could do as he pleases and have control over people. We started off with the idea of having a website about survivors of spouse cheating but then, we just extended MFM. That is when MFM got the http://www.murtadd.org domain name.
In February 2005, Arctic Wolf decided he doesn't want me anymore as a girlfriend, therefore breaking his promise to marry me, etc. His decision was mostly based on the fact that I dumped him (which I didn't mean to do) just to get his attention to help me out through a difficult time. Coincidently, soon after I got to know a man, Amez who is an Amnesty International big shot. We had plans for me to present at Amnesty International to obtain help in regards to the situation among Murtads in Malaysia and perhaps funding for MFM. Unfortunately, I needed support from the people on MFM and had to post there. I felt bullied by Arctic Wolf. So, I decided to take over the whole forum and remove Arctic Wolf's (and his Euro friend) admin rights. I informed the MFM administration team that I would give Arctic Wolf his admin rights back, if that is what they wanted. However, since Arctic Wolf and his Euro friend are clever, they got their admin rights back. I felt powerless since Arctic Wolf had power over me and continued to say offensive stuff to me. Since no Murtad was supportive of my efforts to help them but were instead on Arctic Wolf's side, I decided to quit MFM.
Unfortunately, my name is usually tied to Murtads from Malaysia. People often contact me about MFM. So, I tried to destroy MFM as much as I can because I don't want Arctic Wolf and his gang of Murtads (who I think personally hate me) spoiling something with my name attached. At this stage, I deleted all the email accounts. Then, I learned that Arctic Wolf and his gang decided to ban every single Muslim on MFM. I was shocked and very upset. I always knew Arctic Wolf was a bigot (e.g. he said he would not hire someone who is Muslim) but I never knew he would be this overt. As a result, I was contacted because of this policy due to unhappy people. Fortunately, Arctic Wolf forgot to change his passwords from the MFM server. So, I destroyed MFM. After doing so, I called Arctic Wolf and asked him for MFM so that I shut can it down. He was making excuses about the no-Muslims policy (e.g. Muslims were saying hurtful things but I think the forum should be moderated since even non-Muslims can say hurtful things) and was calling me names (i.e. negative adjectives). Finally he agreed to give MFM to me. When I informed him the site has been removed, he got really angry, said that I should never ever contact him again and hung up on me.
It may seem as if I don't care for the wellbeing of Murtads by shutting down the website. That is completely not true. In fact, I put my life on the line for Murtads. When I started MFM, I started getting a lot of hate emails and death threats that troubled me. In addition, I lost my husband who I loved very much and I believe one reason among many is because I spent too much time with Murtads instead of him. Recently, I made arrangements to present to Amnesty International so that the situation with Murtads in Malaysia could improve and so that MFM could get extra funding. Unfortunately, the Murtads never bothered to thank me for all my efforts. One even accused me of being her enemy over something trivial and Arctic Wolf made her the admin of the forum. For all we know, Arctic Wolf and his gang are just turning MFM into a disaster to give me a bad name.
Right now, I am still helping Murtads by doing research in psychology, which many do not know about. And if any Murtad in Malaysia contacts me and needs help, I would always be there. If many do, perhaps I can start a MFM like website without the influence of Arctic Wolf or any bigot, which would cause the hate towards Murtads or Muslims to get worse.
I know I made a mistake in trusting Arctic Wolf with MFM, just like I trusted him with other things such as his promises to marry me. I am sorry for this mistake.
Note: The purpose of this article is to aid in explaing to others what happened to MFM without having to say the same things over and over to different people.
March 25th, 2005.
? Copyright 2005. Rosina Kamis. |
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Murtad Mama? Cantik sungguh nama tu...  |
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[img]http://individual.utoronto.ca/rosinakamis/31March3.jpg[/img]
Rosina Kamis
Honours Bachelor of Science (Psychology Research), University of Toronto
Post Secondary Education Duration Program Institution CGPA
Sep 2002 - July 2007 Honours Bachelors of Science (Psychology Research) University of Toronto, Canada 3.70
Aug 1999 - May 2001 Bachelor of Science (Environmental Engineering) - Transferred to University of Toronto Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, NY, USA 3.91
Jun 1998- Jun 1999 American Degree Foundation Program Universiti Teknologi MARA, Malaysia 3.77
Awards related to Post Secondary Studies only
Awards Date Awarded
U of T Faculty Arts and Science Dean's List Scholar June 2006
U of T Faculty Arts and Science Dean's List Scholar October 2004
Golden Key International Honour Society Membership November 2003
Rensselaer Dean's List All Semesters
National Dean's List USA 2000
Rensselaer Dean's Scholar Aug 1999
Head of PPP's Award Spring 1999
PETRONAS Scholarship June 1998-May 2001
Research Interests
My main interest is the psychology of religion in general. More specifically, I am more interested in the following areas:
(1) Leaving organized religions from the perspective of those who are still in the religions, those who left the religions and others.
(2) Changing organized religions from the perspective of those who changed their religions and others.
Besides the psychology of religion, I am also interested in other areas in social psychology such as interpersonal relations, group processes, cyberpsychology, social influence, prejudice, discrimination and diversity.
Undergraduate Thesis
Apostasy-Phobia: An Extension of The Black Sheep Effect
In Preparation for Publication
Packer, D. J., Kamis, R., & Chasteen, A. L. (In preparation). The blackest of sheep: How group members react to individuals who leave their group.
Conferences
Date & Location Conference Presentation
April 28, 2006; University of Waterloo 36th Annual Ontario Psychology Undergraduate Thesis Conference Apostasy-Phobia: An Extension of The Black Sheep Effect
Posters
Chasteen, A. L., Packer, D. J., & Kamis, R. (January, 2007). The blackest of sheep: How group members react to individuals who leave their group. Poster presented at Society for Personality and Social Psychology Conference, Memphis, TN.
Selected Work Experience Duration Title Employer Job Description
July 2007 -Current Support Group Organizer Centre for Inquiry Ontario Creating and facilitating the Toronto Break-Up Support Group
Aug 2005 - May 2006 Student Researcher Social Cognition Lab Working on my undergraduate thesis in the Social Cognition Lab
Feb 2004 -Current Support Group Facilitator Humanist Association of Toronto Creating and facilitating the Coping Without Religion Support Group
Jan 2004 - Feb 2004
Sept 2004- Nov 2004
Undergraduate Research Volunteer - Volunteered for Professor Kenneth L. Dion's lab at the University of Toronto
Jan 2001 - May 2001 Suplemental Instruction Leader Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute Held sessions to help students with their course material for Introduction to Engineering Analysis
Jan 2001 - May 2001 Tutor Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute Tutored a student that had trouble with Introduction to Engineering Analysis
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semoga dia kembali ke pangkal jalan.... |
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islam itu indah...tapi masalahnya manusia itu yang merosakkannya... |
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Reply #10 berusjamban's post
ni ker dia...
aku tak baca la.. panjang sgt hingga wat aku punya mata juling la |
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Ini rusina khamis dah lama murtad, orang kelantan sekarang tinggal dan dah jadi rakyat Canada.. dengan lantang minta diberikan kebebasan supaya orang islam boleh murtad dengan mudah... |
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yeap dia la ni...sadly to say she was my batchmate mase sekolah rendah and menengah dulu...dulu dia pernah ader crush dgn this one malay teacher...sampai nangis2 dia  |
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Reply #12 kupia's post
hello..sorry dia bkn org kelantan...
dia org kampong aku...
maybe pak dia kot kelantan...
mak dia omputih |
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Biarlah...tepuk dada tanya iman |
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dah namanye jande..
harusla ketandusan kaseh sayang |
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semoga menjadi iktibar... |
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Post time 6-5-2008 11:44 AM
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