Trap with a Spouse from Hell...and Now You're Screwed Forever...

demonagirl6

herro there...

komunikasi neh is a key to a happy marriage...
bagi yg belom kahwin..haku harap korg tak pilih...
org yg cepat merajok or melenting cam org giler
and tak pat control diri or kawal marah klu bawa berbincang..

that's just stupid...cos i have a friend...
ader byk2 pompuan..dier nak pilih yg tak pat bawa berbincang..
pastuh dier pi ngadu2 kat haku lagi...
pilih yg leh bawa berbincang...

ok..utk org yg dah kawen..
you guys are screwed
and trapped with this crazy ppl for the rest of your lives..
..and you have to lived with it..

maybe korg or spouse korg yg tak pat kawal marah cam org giler bila bawa berbincang..
dah kawen..ngan org tuh..dah terlambat..dah trap..
kita leh ngadu ngan org pasal spouse kita..
maybe on how to communicate better..

tapi...jangan la tanya.."ape suami kita nak"
why not ask him directly...different ppl have different wants and needs..
neh terhegeh2 jerk nak tanya kat org lain..

spouse neh dier kawen utk ape sebenarnya...
bukan tempat utk mencari ketenangan and mengadu(communicate) ker..
or korg kawen because you want somebody to lick your butthole at night?

so you have to ask yourself...nape engko berkawen in the first place?
is it because...sebab korg dah tua..nak tunggu umo 40 baru nak kawen..
is it because...sebab nak baby...
yeah..you know..like i said..
klu dah trap ngan whiny nagging bitches and ba$tards..dah terlambat..you're screwed..

bagi yg belom kawen..
you still have a chance to choose...
so like i said..choose wisely..
and think benar2..
and ask yourself why do you want to get married...
what's important..

nape haku cakap komunikasi neh penting lam rumahtangga..
sebab...klu la korg or spouse korg neh yg jenis tak pat bawa berbincang...
neh kpd pompuan k..korg bersuara besar kat suami korg...
sebab laki neh..dorg neh ego..
dorg maybe rasa tercabar...

and maybe..dorg dah tau...
if they try to talk to you...
korg akan bisin2 tak hingat dunia..
so they prolly keep it to themselves....

or...dorg will find another person utk mengadu...
contoh cam kat thread tadih haku baca..
cerita2 ngan member...akhir sekali..
dorg fall in love..ngan member dorg..

so...communication neh penting...
no.1 you cannot work things out without communicating with each other..

and i know that korg neh pandai and bijak lebey dari haku to know about this..
cos i've seen cara2 korg posting especially kat thread ayang...
and i hope you ppl can contribute some ideas..and feel free to correct apa yg salah lam discussion neh..

but even klu korg dah trap kawen ngan org sebegini..
there may be a way..kita leh buka kan...a path to communicate with our spouse..
so...skrang kita nak bincang cam ner nak tolong bukakan path to communicate better ngan org yg trap ngan spouse from hell..

and...klu korg salah sorg jenis yg tak bleh bawa berbincang...
kita leh berbincang..cam ner nak control diri...

[ Last edited by  demonagirl6 at 8-8-2008 10:39 AM ]

manakautau

Originally posted by demonagirl6 at 8-8-2008 12:05 AM
herro there...

komunikasi neh is a key to a happy marriage...
bagi yg belom kahwin..haku harap korg tak pilih...org yg cepat merajok or
melenting cam org giler and tak pat control diri or k ...

Dakwat ungu dah habis ke?

bezita60

pjgnya..berpinar2 mata aku nk baca

True-X

MARRIAGE NI GAMBLE...

kadang2 org tuh yg kita choose tp akhirnya nyesal kawen... kita takkan tahu dialah soulmate sampai bila2... ntah2 kawen lepas 20 thn bahagia bagai... esoknya tau partner ade affair selama ni ngan pompuan lain.. tak pe parah... :kant:

TP BAGI AKU YG PENTING... TIME MULA2 NAK KAWEN TUH.. MAKE SURE.. .. RELA DAN REDHA...

SOO KL ADE APE2 YG TAK BEST SETELAH BERKAHWEN..... AT LEAST KORUNK LEH KATER  " I CHOOSE HER/HIM.... BUKAN ORG LAIN YG SURUH... BUKAN SBB TERPAKSE......."

dan time tuh tak nyesal lah kawen even ade prob.....

[ Last edited by  True-X at 8-8-2008 10:02 AM ]

demonagirl6

Originally posted by bezita60 at 8-8-2008 09:44 AM
pjgnya..berpinar2 mata aku nk baca

yg neh dah ok ka?

manakautau

Originally posted by True-X at 8-8-2008 09:55 AM
MARRIAGE NI GAMBLE...

kadang2 org tuh yg kita choose tp akhirnya nyesal kawen... kita takkan tahu dialah soulmate sampai bila2... ntah2 kawen lepas 20 thn bahagia bagai... esoknya tau partner  ...

Ada dalam hadith atau Quran yang menyebut perkahwinan itu diibaratkan sebagai satu Perjudian???????

demonagirl6

Originally posted by True-X at 8-8-2008 09:55 AM
MARRIAGE NI GAMBLE...

kadang2 org tuh yg kita choose tp akhirnya nyesal kawen... kita takkantahu dialah soulmate sampai bila2... ntah2 kawen lepas 20 thn bahagiabagai... esoknya tau partner ade affair selama ni ngan pompuan lain..tak pe parah... :kant:

TP BAGI AKU YG PENTING... TIME MULA2 NAK KAWEN TUH.. MAKE SURE.. .. RELA DAN REDHA...

SOO KL ADE APE2 YG TAK BEST SETELAH BERKAHWEN..... AT LEAST KORUNKLEH KATER  " I CHOOSE HER/HIM.... BUKAN ORG LAIN YG SURUH... BUKAN SBBTERPAKSE......."

dan time tuh tak nyesal lah kawen even ade prob.....

oh i see....
then...ader gak ader org hipokrit...
dier kononnya jenis listening and understanding masa tengah dating...
just to get the girl...then when you're married...you're trap..

and there might be some changes throughout the marriage...
contoh mula2 baik..then akhir sekali melalut..
this happens to men biasanya..
cos...you know...pompuan neh..pas beranak bagai...biasala kan with those hips...they ain't going anywhere..

cibik75

aku setuju cakap ko...
nothing is certain in life
life is a mystery...
marriage life is also the same...
we can always plan...
but we do not know whats our future..tgh nie...petang nie...malam nie...esok...lusa...etc
so what's important...
appreciate the moment that u & ur spouse have everyday
& most of all don't take ur spouse for granted

demonagirl6

klu fomfuan hipokrit haku rasa lebey terok lagih...
mula2..berdating..she's an angel..mulut manis..marah2 control cute..
then biler kawen...dier jadih she-devil of a witch..teriak2 marah2
sora naik bunyi cam lembu mengemooo biler tak pat control marah...