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facing up to losing a job
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i lost my job 2 weeks ago and i couldnt bring myself to tell my wife.......everyday I dress for work, kiss wife n kids goodbye and drive to beach/park where I spend most of the day sitting in the car listening to radio and reading book... am worried she will upset when she discover am broke....she gave up work when she married me, linked my ability to provide the family....
today, i just cant take it anymore.......i called my GF n told her everything, hoping she can throw some good advise...am in her office, dunno why am here knowing am not supposed in here....she told me to face up the difficult situation i find myself in.....am not pre-judge my wife but am afraid she cant together with me face uncertain future.....
Any advice? |
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wow, menakutkan.. 
Bini you garang ke?  |
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Balas #1 BingkaUbi\ catat
sedih aku dengar....
but realiti skrg ni...boleh dikatakan hari2 aku dgr pasal si polan ni..si polan tu kena vss..company bungkus....
but klu aku pun di dlm keadaan seperti ni..aku juga serba salah nak bgtau wife yg kita dah x de kerja....
bukan takut bini...but klu wife tau lg la menakutkan kita yg dah memang sedia takut nak hadapi mase depan...
but...bersabarlah ye...
that why selalu aku merungut dan meluat tgk ahli2 politik ni asyik nak berpolitik aje....cuba la ikhtiar sikit kerja lebih masa tuk fikirkan ape yg boleh bantu rakyat...
pasal GF tu..aku no komen.. |
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bing...GF tuh sekadar kwn atau spesel edision fren....
rezeki tuh bukan kite yg tentukan...mane la ko tau yg ko akan hilang kerje....so aku rs stendet la isteri rs a bit stress bout it....yer ls sbb punca dr ko sorang jek...tp jgn la buat isteri ko rs dia x leh bg sapot yg sepatutnye di saat nih.... aku rs kalaula bini ko tau yg ko p ngadu kat org lain psl nih...misti mende nih yg lagi menyakitkn....ape jua yg jd lam idup kite adalah dugaan samada kite dan pasangan leh face mende nih ngan baik atau berpecah belah dengan isu yg telah timbul...
bg aku sbg isteri...aku sedih bila tau somi aku x mo share mende2 penting yg jd lam idup dia...sbb aku terima dia sbg suami dan dia terima aku sbg isteri tuk sama2 menyenangkn dan mengharungi umahtangga bersama sebaik mungkin....cuba la bing tuk berterus terang...lg lame ko simpan lagi ssh ko nak eplen kat dia dan lagi byk emosi dia terganggu dek ape yg ko duk simpan... |
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Balas #4 mammavoque\ catat
aku setuju la dgn pandangan mama ni...
org lain tau dulu masalah kita sebelum partner..sure lg menyakitkan hati. |
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Originally posted by mammavoque at 3-6-2009 21:42 
bing...GF tuh sekadar kwn atau spesel edision fren....
rezeki tuh bukan kite yg tentukan...mane la ko tau yg ko akan hilang kerje....so aku rs stendet la isteri rs a bit stress bout it....y ...
GF tuhhh ialah kawan perempuan, not spesel edition just a friend.... |
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aku tak caya ler ini kisah ko bingka..
ko ambik dari email ekk.. |
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Balas #6 BingkaUbi\ catat
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bing cube la berterus terang lam ms terdekat...kang ko duk simpan2 kot2 bini ko kate ko tipu dia polak....sbb x gtau awal2....jd lg komplikated...aku harap bini ko x cam nih la...ko jek yg paham bini ko cam ner.... |
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cakap jer lah bing..
this is the time untuk ko tau bini ko tuh boleh di ajak susah senang bersama2..
kalau aku jadik bini ko.. atau dalam situasi bini ko.. aku tak akan marah melenting gitu.. maybe turut sama risau lah.. but thats it.. just risau..
mana ler tau kot2 bini ko tuh ok.. dia pujuk2 ka, dia tenangkan ko ka, kasik kata2 semangat ka, at least kurang sikit bebanan kat otak ko tuh..
yang penting, jangan prejudice duluk.. cakap aja lah.. tho satu masa nanti dia akan tau jugak.. dalam masa yang sama.. ko usaha ler carik kerja lain kan..
lain ler kalau ko nak mengangkang jer dok kat rumah tunggu kerja datang carik ko, memang patut ler kena sembur jah..  |
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i'm so sorry and i do hope that you will get a better job soon. one door closes, the other will open for you. |
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Originally posted by Hana at 3-6-2009 21:56 
aku tak caya ler ini kisah ko bingka..
ko ambik dari email ekk..
ambik dari email ke? kesal ada org mcm ni... |
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Reply #8 Hana's post
baru nak reply..
tapi terbaca post sis ni tak jadi nak comment.. |
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aku baru semalam aku lose aku nyer job...
3 hari jerk kerja
tak sampai seminggu dak kene sack..
it was embarassing...
[ Last edited by makcikmengamok at 3-6-2009 22:56 ] |
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aku teka ajek...aku tak caya ini kisah bingka.. |
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berapa lama nak menyorok bing. |
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Originally posted by Hana at 3-6-2009 09:55 
aku teka ajek...aku tak caya ini kisah bingka..
mungkin betul dgn ekonomi dunia hari ni....
laki me jugak tempat keja dia bermasalah.... |
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Aku nak pastikan bing punya kesah benar baru nak ngomen.
Tapi cam iye jek...bing pon dah lama nyorok kan? |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 3-6-2009 21:20
i lost my job 2 weeks ago and i couldnt bring myself to tell my wife.......everyday I dress for work, kiss wife n kids goodbye and drive to beach/park where I spend most of the day sitting in the ...
baka pun nak make sure..
nie kisah betul bing ker or cedok mana2..? |
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Post time 3-6-2009 09:20 PM
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