Coffee Date

Butterfly38

I nak sharing my coffee date.

Coffee date ni pada i cuma just casual meet. I kenal dgn date I ni thru online dating. And I jumpa orang ni for killing time je and biasanya I jumpa diorg once.

Ada juga kisah² kelakar… jom lah korang share juga pengalaman korang dgn coffee date ni.

Btw, I’m single & my age 38yo.
I pernah ada bf 2 years ago but seems he’s quite busy with his life dan tak blh nak spend time dgn i. He’s 5years older than me.

So I decide to kill time with coffee date which is I rasa good therapy for myself. I meet new people and I learn how to enhance my communication skill with stranger. Hahaha. I’m half introvert and I’m only talk with someone I want jer.

Butterfly38

(1) Mencari 2nd Wife

Dia suami org. Kononnya nak cari çalon for 2nd wife.
I agree to meet him coz I nak learn reading people.
But dia sgt gatal yea.

For me, dia bukan nak sgt cari 2nd wife. Dia cuma nak berpoya².

Butterfly38

(2) 10 years younger than me

Masa jumpa dia ni, mmg we both now our age. So it’s just casual meeting and he’s sharing pasal he’s work and his plan.

We continue friend coz he’s seem nice.
Dia ada ajak for coffee lagi tp belum ada masa yg sesuai.

Butterfly38

(3) Sugar Daddy???

He’s 8years older than me. He’s looking matured sugarbabe…

He’s also show off his ‘joint-saving’ .. a milllion ringgit. But hey., itukan joint saving dgn his wife. Dia yg control that account.. tak patut.

But all the time dia kena share live location with his wife. Tapi dia pandai replicate live location tu. Hebat² laki orang skrg ni.

Butterfly38

(4) Serious Relationship!!!!

He’s demanding serious relationship.
Eh, I tak kenal pun u siapa, then nak demand² serious relationship.

Dia betul² marah sbb I taknak. He’s delete all his text (delete for everyone tu) kat WhatsApp.. mcm
budak kecik je perangai.

Masa jumpa ni I baru tahu dia kerja as vendor Utk company I. But I tak ambil pot sgt. Sbb I fikir takkan dia nak cerita kat org opis I.

Tp tak.. masa ada site visit, my team attend dan dia ada. Team tersebut nama I, dan lepas event tu, dia jumpa team I dan bercerita pasal I..

Why bitter sgt dgn I…

Butterfly38

(5) apeni apeni….

Masa sebelum jumpa, I tot his age sebaya I. Bila jumpa, I tgk dia mcm muda sgt. So I tot dia mmg awet muda.

Bila berborak, baru tahu his age much much younger. Pastu borak pasal bisnes dia. Bisnes juta²…


Hujung² try nak pinjam duit I.

Catpaw

Butterfly38 replied at 16-2-2024 04:53 AM
(5) apeni apeni….

Masa sebelum jumpa, I tot his age sebaya I. Bila jumpa, I tgk dia mcm muda sgt.  ...

Haha plot twist sangat ending dia.

So, berapa u bagi kat mamat milionair tu

Catpaw

I suka thread ni, keep sharing ya  

MAri² semua masuk sini

Butterfly38

Catpaw replied at 20-2-2024 04:25 AM
Haha plot twist sangat ending dia.

So, berapa u bagi kat mamat milionair tu

Tak kuasalah nak bg pinjam. I minta dia pinjam dgn kakak dia.

Butterfly38

Catpaw replied at 20-2-2024 04:26 AM
I suka thread ni, keep sharing ya  

MAri² semua masuk sini

I will. Ada je lagi. Nanti I update.

Unfortunately, I kena banned kat dating apps yg I selalu lepak ni. I biasa dgn dating apps ni. So nak kena cari dating apps yang lain.

Hahaha

Butterfly38

(6) Tak Tinggi Sangat

Masa chat, he’s said his height more than 165cm.. so masa jumpa dia, I’m wearing heels.But he’s actually shorter than me.

Even for coffee date, I still concern about height (I’m sorry for my bad behaviour). And the truth, I’m quite shocked lah juga. So I beli new flat shoes and tukar kasut depan dia.

I’m never date guys shorter than me before. Maybe sbb tu I can’t accept. He’s nice guy but I jelah yg ‘jahat’ utk date ni.

Sorry Mr #6

adila39

seronok baca

NorAddin

great date idea ..
It’s casual and stress-free
It’s not the most romantic date idea
why not ..

Btw, I’m single & my age 38yo.
I pernah ada bf 2 years ago but seems he’s quite busy with his life dan tak blh nak spend time dgn i. He’s 5years older than me.

So I decide to kill time with coffee date which is I rasa good therapy for myself. I meet new people and I learn how to enhance my communication skill with stranger. Hahaha. I’m half introvert and I’m only talk with someone I want jer.

seem to me all your dates male gender ..
you never date same gender ke ?

p/s ..
refer here for my ABC
https://b.cari.com.my/forum.php? ... amp;fromuid=1848411
hati hati dengan ABC ..
all d'best with your therapy n communication skill ..

NorAddin

understanding about Coffee Date ..

p/s ..

puccafan

Meriah experience coffee date chuols. Kalo ada lagi, share la. Aku suka baca, sebagai panduan. Yg laki orang tu hamjad ye. Duit sharing dgn wife, perasan macam kaya sgt

ifanonline

just to share some references:

andartu junior 28-34 tahun
andaru senior 35-39 tahun
andartu forever 40 tahun keatas

thank you and god bless

MissWhiteRoses

[quote]Butterfly38 replied at 26-2-2024 07:02 PM
I will. Ada je lagi. Nanti I update.

GreySuede

Wah mcm2 experience tt dpt.. okla just casual meet..no attachment n commitment...slalu ngedate kat kedai kopi mana?

lilacomot

mmg seronok jumpe mcm2 org....tp tu laa iols dh fed up nk ngedate...asik jumpe jntan miang je...

NorAddin

wow .. haha ..
you make them Catch-22 in dilemma .. hehe

just to share some references:

andartu junior 28-34 tahun
andaru senior 35-39 tahun
andartu forever 40 tahun keatas

thank you and god bless

physical and number
your reference based on

• chronological age
• biological age
  

no physical and no number
forget not preference based on

• emotional age
• mental age
  

chemistry and maturity level more important ..

does love feel different as you age ?
as you age .. your perspective on love change ..
the kind of relationship you want often differs
from what you desired in your younger years ..
its more about finding d'right person instead of physical attraction .
you're more

• confident
• experienced
• have better idea
  

of what you want ..


p/s ..
well .. that what i see ..
may Allah bless us ..