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mattzzx

Sanaa (Yaman): Seorang gadis berusia 18 tahun mati selepas menembak dirinya dengan pistol milik bapanya kerana berasa kecewa dilarang oleh keluarganya untuk berkahwin dengan lelaki yang menjadi pilihannya.

Ibu bapa dan abang remaja berkenaan memaksanya berkahwin dengan lelaki pilihan mereka tetapi mangsa berkata dia mencintai lelaki lain.


Jawapan itu menimbulkan kemarahan abangnya yang kemudian memukul remaja berkenaan.

Dia tidak diberi pilihan selain berkahwin dengan lelaki pilihan keluarga.


Selepas dipukul, remaja terbabit meluru masuk ke dalam bilik dan mengambil pistol milik bapanya lalu menembak kepalanya. Dia mati di tempat kejadian. - Agensi

jarikuku

sayangnya.. padahal muda lagi..

biggirlduncry

no nego2...padat jitu tindakan ko dek...

Hessa

alahai mak ayahnya pun..

znuyul

murahnye nyawa..

yusryimran

orang2 belah sana, anak perempuan mesti kahwin dengan pilihan family.. Kasihan tiada peluang membuat pilihan pasangan hidup.

epysha

dah mati...mak pak tak payah nak membebel lagi..RIP

DOUBLE7

settle masalah kat dunia...

mattzzx

Ruginya belum sempat merasa nikmat perkahwinan.....

ziash_13579

dah mati xyah lgi nak pikir pening2 paksa2 anak kawen

senang2 jer nak tamatkan nyawa hihi...

mesti si anak ingt mmng dah xda jalan lain...

ke ada sbb lain selain suka org len...?

anees~nuhara

adoiii...trus wat kputusan trburu2..x pk dlu

hatiluka

umur remaja macam nie memanglah suka memberontak tapi sayang nyawa jadi taruhan...............

pittjie

hambek kau bapak dan abangnya. menyesal ke tak gigih nak paksa2 org kawin dgn pilihan korang? tak bagi peluang dak tu pilih sendiri?

finesse

alaaa kat ereb ni budak kecik rebina pun diorg suruh kahwin...
kalau kes ni tak pelik pun.. mesti lelaki pilihan keluarga budak tu kaya.,,

Artemesiaa

Tak berjodoh juga akhirnya nyawa melayang dua2 pihak hanya mampu meratap hiba

nanacinta

kesiannya...ape nak buat, orang sana tu lain macam sikit...

khaira01

kesian ibu yg mengandungkan.

AcikLijah

amboi gigih nau abangnye nk paksa adik ko kawin, kena kat kau baru ada akai...

babydoll

kawan aku org jordan.dia ckp sepupu2 dia yg pompuan time umur cmni mmg pakcik2 dia kawinkan.kira umur 18-19 tahun ni 'line for sale' gitu utk family2 yg senang or kaya.tak anta sambung blaja pon lepas skolah.tp yg lelaki ade choice utk kawin bila2.so end up,yg bini muda gile,yg laki plak dh tua.

bila ayah kwn aku ni make a decision utk anta kawan aku sambung blaja kat mixed university,bagi keje,sedara mara dia semua menentang & question apsal ayah dia wat cmtu.patutnya ayah dia kene kawinkan je dia.including grandparents dia.tapi ayah dia wat pekak,suh jgk dia sambung blaja dan keje.

skrng alhamdulillah,dh kawin dgn pilihan hati dan ada anak.walaupon kawin time umur dia 24 tahun.happy je.dia ckp dia berterima kasih sgt2 kat ayah dia sbb tak wat cam cousin2 dia.

obelisk

Islam regards marriage as a right of the individual and therefore others cannot make the decision for them. If a woman/man is forced in marriage then the marriage would not be valid and would therefore need to be cancelled. However, daughters and sons should also recognize the rights of their parents and come to an agreed solution before the marriage takes place.

If this does not happen then those who forced the marriage and those who allowed it are both guilty and have committed a major sin. The following incident clarifies the position of forced marriages in Islam:

Khansa Bint Khidam said “My father married me to his nephew, and I did not like this match, so I complained to the Messenger of Allah (May Allah bless him and grant him peace). He said to me “accept what your father has arranged.” I said “I do not wish to accept what my father has arranged.”.

He said “then this marriage is invalid, go and marry whomever you wish.” I said “I have accepted what my father has arranged, but I wanted women to know that fathers have no right in their daughter’s matters (i.e. they have no right to force a marriage on them). (Fathul Bari Sharah Al Bukhari 9/194, Ibn Majah Kitabun Nikah 1/602).

Marriage is a sacred bond between a man and woman, which makes each other permissible for them to enjoy and live happily. Allah has described, in the most moving and eloquent terms, this eternal, natural relationship between man and woman, which is filled with security, love, understanding and compassion: -

"And among His signs is this that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: Verily in that are signs for those who reflect." (Quran 30:21).