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Originally posted by Png_Prince at 14-7-2008 08:52 AM 
Nasihat aku, just duduk berbincang dgn awek u. Cuba ada understanding kenapa asyik gaduh, cari puncanya dulu. Understanding tu penting dalam sesuatu hubungan. Seandainya sikap mcm ni berterus ...
pernah mengalami situasi mcm tu ke?
biasanya apa yg menjadi punca pergaduhan? dan siapa yg mencetuskan pergaduhan itu?
apa yg kamu buat tuk handle mslh itu?
setelah kamu mencari punca dan penyelesaian.....adakah si dia sudah berubah? ATAU tetap ego jugak? 
TQ |
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jangan terburu2 nak tinggal maybe dia ada kelebihan kat lain, tu sebab ko pilih dia jadi awek kan?.
cuba la ignore 2-3 hari ker, nnti tgk mesti dia ngalah plak. kalau dia sayang ko, dia plak akan pujuk ko balik |
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flashback ...
blh di kata kan lebih kurang macam perangai aku jek zaman dolu2, pandai pulak bf aku 'handle' (now dah jadi somi ku terchenta). aku tatau lah dia guna taktik apa, but kekawan aku byk tertanya2 - "camna dia buat??" sampaikan aku menjadi aku yang lebih matang sekarang..  idak ler pulak aku ni queen control ke hape lepas kawin, so far baik2 jer..
tuan rumah, if u want her.. find a way, maybe she's worth it
otherwise.. tinggal ajer lah... |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-7-2008 05:24 PM 
tu laa..letih oo ngayat kan? leh sampai sumbeng , herot mulut asik nak ayat..
kendian penat2 kita ayat..dia melawan , tak pun dia cintan cintun jantan lain..musan seh..kita kasik makan oan ...
aji..
which one better..
sblum kawin tunjuk perangai..
atau dah lepas kawin..
lebih baik kita biasakan perangai dia sblum kawin..
kalau dah lepas kawin baru tau..
alamat payahla..
alooo.. bukan pompuan ajer suka simpan stock bf..
lelaki pun sama.. |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 13-7-2008 05:24 PM
tu laa..letih oo ngayat kan? leh sampai sumbeng , herot mulut asik nak ayat..
kendian penat2 kita ayat..dia melawan , tak pun dia cintan cintun jantan lain..musan seh..kita kasik makan oan ...
double posting
[ Last edited by bakawali_04 at 14-7-2008 03:52 PM ] |
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Originally posted by bakawali_04 at 14-7-2008 03:50 PM
aji..
which one better..
sblum kawin tunjuk perangai..
atau dah lepas kawin..
lebih baik kita biasakan perangai dia sblum kawin..
kalau dah lepas kawin baru tau..
alamat payahla..
aloo ...
ntah
mana ku taw..aku lom kawin hihihi |
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tinggalkan aje....byk pompuan melayu terakhir yg lemah lembut lagi....dari awal hangin...sampai ke sudah hangin manjang.....tak caya cuba try kawin tengok.... |
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alahh..hal kecik je ni....dikk oii
kalo tak gado nanti boring lakk.....
nanti kalo dh kawin, sure berubahnyerr....
selagi awek nko tu bukan bohsia,semayang x tggl,tau hormat org tua, suke budak2...kira dh ok ler tu....
kdg2 hal remeh pd lelaki, tapi pd pompuan tak...dia anggap mende tu penting |
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respect has to be earned dik...u can't just expect people to respect u or worse command people to respect u just because u're a man. what sort of qualities that u have in u that makes it worth to be respected for?
like what i wrote in another thread earlier, there's a clear distinction between being firm and being weak. in yr case, i think u've been the weaker one, willing to let her dictate be it minor or major decisions regarding the relationship, demi chenta katanya, i just let u have yr way. if u let this sequence to be repeated time and again, u have unconsciously led her to believe that she's always right.
what i can suggest is that u let her know what u can tolerate n what u can't, in what aspect u can compromise n what aspect u can't. a relationship with no set rules are a recipe for disaster. u must set boundaries here, let her know (and let yourself know) what behavior is acceptable and what is unacceptable to you, and stick with it. if she is unwilling to rise to the occasion, and to respect your values and needs, then it is time for you to make new choices for your life. to hell with love and all that nonsense...
[ Last edited by hzln at 15-7-2008 12:51 AM ] |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 14-7-2008 06:03 PM
ntah
mana ku taw..aku lom kawin hihihi
ialah.. ialahh..
salah org tanya..
lelaki mmg ,mudah tertarik pada wanita melayu terakhir..
yang depan org lemah lembut.. sopan santun.. perfect la..
tapi bila dah lama sama..
baru tau langit tu tinggi rendah..
so better lah berpada..
jgn nilai org dari luar.. |
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Originally posted by hasyim803 at 7-6-2008 06:01 PM 
Aku ade la sorang awek ni.. humnn maslahnye bile kiteorg gaduh asyik dia nak menang.. dulu dia tak macam nie.. tapi skang melampau2 perangai dia.. cam takde respect kat aku... aku tawla kadang2 a ...
kalo ko rase ko hensem dan berupaya mencarik awek lain... ko tinggalkan dia... tp jgn cite keburukan dia pade org lain
kalo ko rase ko nih tak hensem dan takkan dpt awek lain... ko kene mendiamkan diri dlm seminggu 2.. bior dia tertanya-tanya..
atau memang dia dah bosan ngan ko sebab dia dah ade kekasih lain
atau dia saje nak test ko.. tapi kalo dah selalu tu bukan test.. tu ade batu besar duduk dlm kepala dia.. |
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cari je la aweks lain..tutup kes.. |
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Post time 14-7-2008 11:25 AM
