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Kenapa some pasangan takmo ikut the other half?
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Reply #1 hairanaz's post
byk gak sebab nape taknak ikut pasangan.. maybe masalah susah nak tukar tmpt keja, sbb dah ada komitmen rumah, sbb nak duk dkt ngan makpak, sbb susah nak tukar anak2, sbb dah selesa ngan environment etc..
tiap pasangan yg PJJ mcm ni rasanya tak jadi masalah selagi setia dan memahami beban kerjaya pasangan.. rasanya kasih sayang tentu lebih erat bila jadi weekend husband/wife gitu.. cuma hati2 le takut si somi bukak cawangan baru  |
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Originally posted by faraway1 at 22-4-2009 02:16 
mungkin sbb arab saudi kot..
tu dia tak mau ikut.. mungkin dia pikir tak best..
cuba kata europe, us, canada ke..
kot dia yg mereng kalau tak dikasi ikut..
hmm...a'a kan.....mungkin jugak kan?
agaknyer kalau laki dia pegi tempat2 yg ada 4 seasons tu dah lama dia packing kot?
tp...kalau aku...beh jugak aper saudi arabia nih...dekat ngan mekah madinah...leh pegi wat aji senirik2 jer..
tak yah nak harap tabung haji.....nak wat umrah baper puluh kali pon bulih...
nak2 tgh masih muda belia nih......masih byk tenaga..... |
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Originally posted by mala0n at 22-4-2009 09:36 
aii tgk pic ankel ai kat turkmen...mmg cun2 opismetnye.
mungkin anti aii buat2 tak nmpk je pic tu seme 
hahahaa jgn tak tau ...ade kapel sampai wife mintak cerai kes tgk gambo cam ni!!
anti yu cerdik sket...takdenya nak sentap...
jgn repot ankel tauuu |
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Reply #64 hairanaz's post
ha ah ...ai penah tanya laki, kalau dia pegi on single status, boleh pircaya ke...stret 2 da point dia cakap kalau dia tak kawin lain pun, tak gerenti kalau dia tak buat benda jahat kat sana...air dah sampai telinga, pusing skit kuar kot telinga....tapi tak tau la laki org lain...
mcm member u ni kan...memang le kat saudi sume tudung litup, tapi kalau laki dia O&G...kedudukan geografinya kat sebelah teluk ni, cross the border leh sampai bahrain, banyak gak entrtaintment kat situ...
memang kat saudi lain sket kehidupan dia...my fren yg gi sana ikut laki hari hari dok ngadu pasal kekasaran org Arab nih, dah tu pempuan tak leh bawak keta...ambik masa la nak cope...dah kalau tak keja, nak buat apa biar laki gi sensorang |
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Tu yang my fren sentiasa tak hepi tu.
Dahlah sunyi tak de asben, sume dia nak kena setel.
Taim dia perlukan asben, asben jauhhhh di mata.
Tapi nak wat camana, tak de sapa yang boleh jaga mak dia. |
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salam...kakmin nak menyampuk gerk nie.
as for me my husband tak kasi ikut sama2 dia. masa tu he was suppose to be away for 3mths pending decision by his bosses.so 3 bulan i thought watper ikut, lagi pun my daughter schooling tak mau ganggu. then again he was given ticket to fly back once a mth or kakmin dgn anak boleh pergi visit dia.
3 bulan menjadi 6 bulan n skang nie dah melebihi setahun. dia mmg tak mau langsung kakmin pindah ikut dia kat sana, infact dia soh kakmin pulak pulang kemsia. so i sold my house in england, packed my stuffs sumer n balik semula kemsia setalah keluor mengikut suami hampir 3 dekad.
m still here n my husband still there. communications amat jarang sekali let alone berjumpa padahal he is only 2 hrs flight frm msia. m lucky cos i have my business, so i dont brood n think too much abt what happened. lagi pun our only child is here with me, so i tak sunyi sangat.
as for my hubby i leave him alone to decide what he wants in his life. ada masa tension yg amat, lonely, penat dll but i still have great responsibilities here. dok jauh dgn suami mmg menyeksakan lagi lah dia mmg tak mau kami tinggal bersama, puas sudah memujuk n merajuk.
marriage of over 20yrs, mungkin berjauhan mcm nie ada pengajaran nyer. |
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Balas #68 minahsaudi\ catat
siannya.... ..sian anak gak kann
my fren pun cam kak min gak, dia kat UK....anak2 semua kat sana, my fren nie
chinese indon...hubby dia singaporean, anak2 serata dunia pergi sebab ikut hubby keje
last2 dia settled kat UK...anak2 dah masuk uni, yg kecik rasanya 11thn...
hubby keje kat asian country, based singapore.....dah tak terikut agaknya, dah berpuluh thn
ikut hubby...tiba masanya, anak2 plak yg jadi dominon factor bukan lagi hubby..
hari tu buat gathering jumpa the hubby....bulan 7 nie rasanya, dia balik sini utk bercuti |
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Balas #68 minahsaudi\ catat
kak min..u sound mcam dah putus harapan....I mean..mcm u dah malas dah nak pikir2 sgt benda ni kan..?
tak per la kakmin....at least u dah usaha.....sedih tu mmg sedey....u happy kan diri u lah kakmin..lagi bagus...do something for urself..... |
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Reply #69 my-alja's post
yup sian my daughter, menangis as though her heart is going to break when daddy dia berkeras tak mau kami tinggal bersama2 dia. tt was on 22/2/2009 when we last visited him.
kakmin cuma berdiam diri, luka dihati tak saper yg mengerti. 
been away too long frm msia, terasa seksa nya nak adjust my life back, especially being a single mum. but dengan adanya business glyco keep me going.
go glyco go:pompom: :pompom: |
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tak perl ah kak min....lagi pon ur doter dah besar kan..leh wat kawan....
enjoy jela ur single life nih.......agaknyer if u dok sesama....lain pulak citer nyer kan...?
tingat plak ngan my kazen....dia heran tiap kali laki dia pegi KL...atas urusan keje..tak pernah sekali husband dia nak bawak dia...padahal mak my kazen tu dok KL jugak....so kiranya..kalau nak kata menganggu keje dia tu...tader lah.....
sekali terbongkar rahsia....rupa2 nye the husband ada mistress kat KL..patut la asal bini nak ikut...ada jek alasannyer.....dpt tahu tu pon sbb anak dia yg lelaki omo 17 terjumpa gambar XXX bapak dia dalam tepong ngan sorang pompuan kat otel......ntah ler...omo bukan muder lagi pon the husband...dah 50....dah ada cucu dah pon sorang! my kazen tu plak.....masih lawa dan bergaya org nyer w/p dah omo 40 lebih....siyes tak nampak cam nenek2.... |
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alamak mcm mcm kesah ek..
for my case, i dah make clear to mr hb...kalau pegi 3rd world country, ku tanak ikot. i think malaysia is better than those country in terms of safety, nak besarkan anak2 and all.
lagipon, aku pon ada bond dgn company yg sponsor aku belajar dulu, dan skang depa sponsor lagik aku sambung buat profesional...so...im quite content with my life now.
tapi, kalau hb pegi negara2 maju........skang jugak i mintak unpaid leave atau resign, by all means, suruh ajek hb yg bayo balik bond dkt sponsored company...and.....abt pursuing my prof cert...itu mana mana ajek boleh ku sambung.....
itulah kan, kalau nak seribu daya, tanak seribu dalih..... |
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Originally posted by minahsaudi at 22-4-2009 10:30
salam...kakmin nak menyampuk gerk nie.
as for me my husband tak kasi ikut sama2 dia. masa tu he was suppose to be away for 3mths pending decision by his bosses.so 3 bulan i thought watper iku ...
kakmin, camana leh jadik camtue? u dah ikot suami hampir 3 dekad...lama tue...... |
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sayang ah nak tinggalkan keje kat mesia. boss ensem, mabeles...opismate sporting, pagi2 tlg
belikan sarapan skali...kwn2 pon ramai kat sini..leh ajak pi shopping. mamat melayu pon lom
abis carik lagi ...haiyooo...aku suke bumi mesia nih. |
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Originally posted by whitedove07 at 23-4-2009 17:58
sayang ah nak tinggalkan keje kat mesia. boss ensem, mabeles...opismate sporting, pagi2 tlg
belikan sarapan skali...kwn2 pon ramai kat sini..leh ajak pi shopping. mamat melayu pon lom
abis ...
ingatkan ko nak jawab "hujan batu dinegeri sendiri" |
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Post time 22-4-2009 09:36 AM
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