Why do men take second wives?

misy

Another view on ploygamy....huhuhu




Why do men take second wives? by DINA ZAMAN


Polygamy has nothing to do with culture or religion. Men, and women too, cheat because they can.

WHEN a male friend told me he planned on taking a second wife, all I could do was try not to choke on dinner. Are you serious, I asked. He said yes, he had fallen in love with a single mother, but it was not his fate to marry her.

Thinking it was perhaps due her compassion, her earnest desire to bring up her sprogs in a Godly way and that life was indeed a struggle, I choked on my dessert when my friend told me the first thing he noticed about her was that she owned a great set of jugs.

Now, my friend takes his religious obligations very seriously. His first wife wears the hijab. So to hear him admit that it was his paramour抯 cleavage that caught his heart was quite shocking.

It was due to women like me, whose so-called Western, secular and feminist ideas of polygamy that pushed it underground. I then asked him, whether his equally-pious wife agreed to him taking on another wife, and he said no. She gave him an earful.

But our friend was on a roll. Now that his journey into polygamy was thwarted, it was all our fault. We modern Malay women, be they religious or not, were forcing men like him to marry in Thailand or Iran, where they practised nikah Muta抋h.

He was emulating the steps of our good Prophet Mohamed, he argued.

揧ou have got your Islamic history upside down! Nabi married war widows, and his first wife was older than he. Aishah was the youngest. And I don抰 think our Prophet married any woman because she had great breasts!

nazijo

menyalurkan nafsu ke saluran yg halal...mencegah melakukan maksiat....

bnyk sebab yg lain bergantung pada tujuan lelaki itu sendiri..wallahuallam..

misy

dah mcm norm lak skrg nih...baik poly dari bermistress

halal halal gak , hak & tanggungjawab jgn dilupakan

chayroul

terjebak kott...mula ingat nak sonok sonok tapi dah terkedepan..tersuka..(kata terlanjur kang lain lak meaning nyer)....benda yang baru nie memang sonok buat mainan perasaan ...nampak indah jer...Bagi yang hati kering dia blah jer bila sonok dah kureng...tapi yang berperasaan nie yang teruskan niat tuuuuu....anyway perkataan baik nyer " Dah Jodoh nak buat camneer"

misy

terjebak maybe...ikut trend pun ya...join the bandwagon, org lain ada, saya pun nak

chayroul

Originally posted by misy at 10-10-2008 09:21 PM
terjebak maybe...ikut trend pun ya...join the bandwagon, org lain ada, saya pun nak

orang cmnie biasanya hati kering...kalau aku mula fikir itu la ini laa ...org kampung sedara mara..sumer ada....tak sanggup rasa nyer...tapi tak tau la plak kalau dah ada kekuatan

misy

kalau dah mabuk cinta suma boleh lupa, mcm muda kembali

norsha

aku rasa suami yg beraffair sana sini lagi ramai dr suami yg berpoly..sb poly comes with responsibility...tapi aku tengok org lebih berminat discuss suami yg berpoly dr suami yg beraffair sana sini...sedangkan suami yg berpoly tu kebanyakannya relax jerrr...takde masalah..

chayroul

Originally posted by norsha at 11-10-2008 08:46 AM
aku rasa suami yg beraffair sana sini lagi ramai dr suami yg berpoly..sb poly comes with responsibility...tapi aku tengok org lebih berminat discuss suami yg berpoly dr suami yg beraffair sana si ...

yerr kerrr....dunia nak terbalik ko tak tauuu...sana menyerang sini...sini menyerang sana...luaran nyer nampak okay..kawan aku yang wat camner cakap kat aku, kalau tak kuat mental dan fizikal...baik jangan diterus niat suci tuuu....asyik sibuk memanjang, lari kesana kemari....bukan senang nak menjinakkan singa2 tuu.....ajak minum teh ...asyik takder masa jer...kalau yang affair niee..kurang sikit commitmentnyer..masing2 adahal, kena paham geran tak dapat lagi...masih takder tali nak tarik tengkok..cuma nak memadu kasih jer berjumpa bila tak tahan.

[ Last edited by  chayroul at 11-10-2008 08:56 AM ]

misy

aku rasa artikel ni bukan utk attack org berpoli,tapi bincang yg lelaki skrg memang bukan 1 woman man

misy

org laki berpoli tenang sbb halal

org berafair tak tenang sbb haram & takut kantoi...ada setgh org ckp thrill

pilot

banyaknya la topik camnih..ramai emosi bab ni tp minat nak bincang nape ek??

p/s: soal jodoh...rahsia Allah...ada berani ke menafikan?

chayroul

Originally posted by misy at 11-10-2008 09:07 AM
org laki berpoli tenang sbb halal

org berafair tak tenang sbb haram & takut kantoi...ada setgh org ckp thrill

dari sudut agama nyer...dari sudut hidupan hariannyer...bak affair nie memang thrill..asyik kemaruk jer

misy

takde emosinya kalau takde sesi cucuk mencucuk

pilot

tu la pasal...kadang2 yg tak lalui sendiri yg lebih2 emosinya pulak

misy

Hahaha nak thrill lagi tunggu akhirat..(bagi yg kes affair tahap tegar laa)

misy

perempuan biasa laa...jiwa sensitif

monreyes

duit dah banyak..
1st wife pun dah takde sebab nak halang..

nazijo

duit laki dah banyak boleh poligami....

but skang ramai pempuan yg lebih bnyk income dr suami...so x boleh nak poligami..dorang curang la pulak...aiyoooo...

nazadiyah

Originally posted by norsha at 11-10-2008 08:46
aku rasa suami yg beraffair sana sini lagi ramai dr suami yg berpoly..sb poly comes with responsibility...tapi aku tengok org lebih berminat discuss suami yg berpoly dr suami yg beraffair sana si ...

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