kawin kawin corner : any thing pasal kawin

anything pasal kawin semua boleh post kat sini.jumpa ehem ehem kat mana,duit hantaran,lost love,wedding dinner  etc etc


matz always say matz is a simple guy,dulu when i was younger,matz kenal this girl,dia model, dia take part in  beauty contest dapat runner up.tinggi lampai,very nice body.matz punya chinese friend saw her,dia orang  keep asking why i reject her.very sori for this remark...my friend cakap in geylang you got to pay $250 for this kind of looks and body.mintak maaf again for this remark,but this is what they actually said.i mean no disrespect to any one,i was young jadi matz pass go lah.i like her as a friend,tapi tak love her.she likes to dress up for dates.matz pulak always in jeans.dia pernah complain jugak. now......

matz already MARRIED......macam cerita highlander....there can be only one

sutera_abadi

opppssss......
dah married rhopanyer  ...........   

so... macam mana bleh/cara jompe ngan isteri matz skarang ni !!!  

(kepoh nyer akuuuu....)

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 2004-3-12 12:24 PM:
matz already MARRIED...

virgomal

kawin bess aper..ekekekeke
:lol
sowi eh... 5 years lepas dgn sekarang...banyak sangat perubahan...
segi andamlah, hantaranlah...ekekekeke

nanti aku citer eh.... mood tarak...
matz... selamat pengantin baru... aku sajer nak ucapkan camni...
sebab all along aku ingat ko bujang lagi...

aku pon nak kepo gak... sut, camner ko kenal hubby ko eh...:pmuka:
:dia: :lol

sutera_abadi

Originally posted by virgomal at 2004-3-12 12:35 PM:
aku pon nak kepo gak... sut, camner ko kenal hubby ko eh......

V, Qepoh nyerrrrrrr lu..........  :bgrin:

eniway panjang storinyerrrr......

so sorriii to say.... wa dulu memang 'qerek', 'sombong', tapi tak la sampai menghina seseorang tu....
until one day, i got a friend bercouple ngan sorang mamat ni....
mamat ni came from "felda'....
so, my mentaliti that time.... kalau dari felda je mesti kehidupannya very back dated..... and 'less' standard..  (sori ya, wa tak de perkataan lain)

Walaupon gitu, i'm not a chossy person..... can befriend to everybody....
even before married to my hubby (skarang ni), i ever enggage to other people....

so.. nak jadikan cerita..... lepas putus tunang, wa sangkut ngan sorang mamat ni ..... dia baik... kampung type.... and hormat my family..... and nengok gaya, bleh dibawa 'ketengah' atau 'ketepi' bila dalam majlis.....
at last wa kawin ngan dia (my hubby skarang ni laa).... and for your info.... dia pon dari 'felda'.....  :bgrin:

moral of the story and pesanan buat semua, jangan pandang rendah pada seseorang......    

hahhhh.... V, ko dah tau crita wa, lu nyer plak macam manerrrr???? :cak: :cak:

virgomal

sepanjang kenalan lelaki yang aku jadikan boypren kebanyakkan kawan aku jalankan, maklumlah, aku ni cerewet banget... ekekeke... pemalu ler katakan...
so seselenger aku ni pon kenal ah dengan hubby aku ni, time tu aku tengah boring dok rumah, sebab baru berenti keje. biler kawan aku call dari Turi Beach dia kata suruh aku jumpa dia kat WTC yang sekarang ni harbourfront, dia kata nak kenalkan aku dgn someone. aku tak pk panjang terus terima ah pelawaan dia. sampai jer saner dia kenal kan aku dgn mamat ni, aku wat dek jer sebab dia ni joker ah... memang pada aku tak sematching langsung.... dan aku lupa terus pasal kenal mengenal ni... aku cuma assume dia ni tak ingin dan aku pon tak berkenan, tapi enjoy his company... dia ni kelakar...

so dah 2-3 minggu jumpa lagi, kali ni kat sentosa... pon aku still tak catch the ball yang mamat ni suka kat aku, really ah... kita memang berbeza... :bgrin:

sebab (sori eh, mukan niat nak hina sesiapa).. dia ni against jejaka impian aku, his dark skin, skinny, not that educated... and aku selalu have this feeling eh... he is the type yang pukul bantai bini, masuk, mata duitan... :bgrin:

sebab eh, my first sis pon kahwin orang camni gak... walaupon tak pukul bantai kakak aku, ex-hubby kakak aku tu bolot segala wang gaji kakak aku... lepas 8 bulan kakak aku bercerai dgn dia... i was happy then... kakak aku ceria semula...

then adik aku plak, tunang cam org gini, hampir

sutera_abadi

macam drama bersiri plak..... TO BE CONT'd....

cepat la V, sambung balek crita lu....

wa tengah excited ni......  :cak: ...

sementara menunggu cerita V, apa kata matz, lu crita cerita lu plak...  :bgrin:

Originally posted by virgomal at 2004-3-12 01:14 PM:
to be con't.... ader keje ah...

...

virgomal

.......... dia kata... dah jodoh kau....
tapi kan... mak aku prefer arwah kawan aku tu... tapi, mungkin bukan jodoh kita... dia still doakan aku bahgia...:clap:

so time aku cakap kat mak aku tu yang aku berkawan rapat dgn hubby aku ni, dia memang tentang abis瞐n, kakak sulong aku pon samer gak... dia takmoh jadi cam dia... dan dia dah kahwin and with 2 daughters... new hubby... adik aku tu time tu dah selamat dah berkahwin dgn pilihan lain... now dah 2 anak dah...

so nak pendek kan citer, biler hubby aku tau yg mak aku ok jer... dia pon buat ah lamaran, tapi dia cam aku gak, nikah, buat majlis kecil瞐n cukup... tapi biasa ah, orang tua especially ibu mertua aku tu nak sambut menantu ..ehem

sutera_abadi

Belanja kawin sekarang memang mahal weeeiiiii....
hantaran sekarang je minimum S$ 7K.
adik aku nak kawin pon... dia kata nak pikir 2-3 kali... bleh gitu...


psstttt.....  salam kerok selalu korang kasi berapa ehhh???? saje je nak qepohhh.... :bgrin:

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 2004-3-12 12:24 PM:
kawin kawin corner : any thing pasal kawin

anything pasal kawin semua boleh post kat sini.jumpa ehem ehem kat mana,duit hantaran,lost love,wedding dinner  etc etc...

Originally posted by sutera_abadi at 12-3-2004 02:01 PM:
Belanja kawin sekarang memang mahal weeeiiiii....
hantaran sekarang je minimum S$ 7K.
adik aku nak kawin pon... dia kata nak pikir 2-3 kali... bleh gitu...


psstttt. ...

my first cousin kawin,we sort or grew up together .....salam $150.00

yang tak kenal $5 or $10, kalau nasi sedap kasi lebih sikit,
ex neighbours $30,parents punya sedara $20. kalau chinese friend $80 to $100

Originally posted by sutera_abadi at 12-3-2004 02:01 PM:
Belanja kawin sekarang memang mahal weeeiiiii....
hantaran sekarang je minimum S$ 7K.
adik aku nak kawin pon... dia kata nak pikir 2-3 kali... bleh gitu...


psstttt. ...

matz kawin.... one of my chinese friend kasi matz $500.00..

......terperanjat

ingat dalam ada $100 or $200,sekali $500 macam tak percaya..my chinese pals most of them salam $50.yang close malay buddies ada jugak salam $50 tapi tak banyak.gate collection cover my wedding dinner.

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 12-3-2004 02:11 PM:



my first cousin kawin,we sort or grew up together .....salam $150.00

yang tak kenal $5 or $10, kalau nasi sedap kasi lebih sikit,
ex neighbours $30,parents punya sedara $20. kalau chinese ...

Ini yang Chic tak suka.  Apsal ada nya double standards when it comes to weddings?  Apsal Malay wedding orang kasi sikit, chinese weddings kasi banyak dan mesti ikut market rate?  Apa orang melayu belanja kawin pakai daun kah? :agr:  (sowi ter over emo pulak)

pssstt....ah beng....wa ingat lu single wooo...

Originally posted by chicsee at 12-3-2004 03:00 PM:


Ini yang Chic tak suka.  Apsal ada nya double standards when it comes to weddings?  Apsal Malay wedding orang kasi sikit, chinese weddings kasi banyak dan mesti ikut market rate?  Apa orang mel ...

yang close chinese friend $80 is market rate.for them one table kat 5 star hotel i think one table around $600 to $800.itu hari kat four season,very nice place nak salam $20 paiseh lah.ni bukan double standard,i think that's the going market rate.kadang2 yang tak kenal pun jemput mat,terpaksa ikut parents just to tengokkan muka.kalau tak kenal nak salam $50  boleh pengsan.

  CHIC...very sorry if i have offended you.  no heart feeling ya.

chic itu hari, hari raya,my close chinese colleague datang rumah,dia orang salam my children dapat $800.this is only a small group of about 12 people.
it all depends how close you are with them.chinese new year pulak matz kasi angpow $100 to one of my colleague punya anak,we are good friends,so macam good will lah.matz ada this chinese friend,pat hari raya dia kasi angpow $200 each to my kids.kita dah macam brothers.dia salam total $400 to my kids.

matz tak ada alot of malay friends,dulu opis banyak melayu,but for the  past 10 years matz  been working in a non malay enviroment.matz the only malay in this deparment.kalau jumpa members pun kat masjid,matz don't have many friends, kat school pun sama,sekolah sebesar sekolah cuma ada satu aja malay class mates,itu pun malay boy.i've never had a malay girl classmates
before.pat pre u ada 2 malay girls tapi jarang berbual.matz ni rascal lah.

sutera_abadi

another suprise.....
matz.... u dah ada 2 kids rhupenyer......  :bgrin: :bgrin:

Originally posted by sutera_abadi at 12-3-2004 03:56 PM:
another suprise.....
matz.... u dah ada 2 kids rhupenyer......  :bgrin: :bgrin:

matz ada bawak wedding photos dalam haversack...kalau jumpa matz kasi tengok....about my age pun no secret...you people guess nanti i kasi tengok i.c.

sutera_abadi

wahhhh.... tak sabo rasanya nak wat next gathering....

matz..., next gath join tau.... wa nak nengok gambar....  he... he... he...

psstttt....... kengkawan semue.... nak buat next gathering tak?  BILA ???

matz nikah pakai baju kurung color putih2 biege gitu,and kain samping color black.matz not color ful...very simple guy.pat berinai matz suppose to tukar2 baju and posing sana and posing sini.mak andam suruh matz tukar pakaian,
matz jelingkan dia....terus dia tak berani sound.after photo session....matz balik.my wife kena tukar costume ...kesian dia

                i choose to be simple..............don't complicate life

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 12-3-2004 03:36 PM:



yang close chinese friend $80 is market rate.for them one table kat 5 star hotel i think one table around $600 to $800.itu hari kat four season,very nice place nak salam $20 paiseh lah.ni buk ...

No heart feelings dun worry.  Its not your fault.  Itu cuma my honest opinion.  I think its a general perception that needs to be altered.  Sekarang dah banyak orang Melayu kita buat dinner pat hotel.  Nak kata almost all of my frens buat dinner pat hotel and my sis had hers at Pan Pacific Hotel. Itu pun kawan2 cina datang kasi $5-$20....????....:stp: Dun get me wrong, I know weddings are not money making ventures but why the double standards?  Thats what I mean when I said kita pakai daun ke bayar?  We pay what they pay (minus the alcohol and corkage charges of course) so sendiri mau ingat lah....

Frankly, when my Chinese frens ask what's the rate for Malay weddings I say same like your weddings lor....:bgrin:

Originally posted by chicsee at 12-3-2004 04:26 PM:


No heart feelings dun worry.  Its not your fault.  Itu cuma my honest opinion.  I think its a general perception that needs to be altered.  Sekarang dah banyak orang Melayu kita buat dinner pat ...

chic kencang seh....wedding sis pan pacific hotel......matz buat bawah block aja.

tak kan yang chinese salam $5.00......kalau matz paiseh lah,some more kalau good friends tak kan nak salam sikit...kita pun mesti understand sikit.matz ada this good chinese friend,kalau dia kawin matz MESTI salam dia $200...
dia fightkan matz punya gaji,bonus kat office...matz very indebted to him.even though matz the only malay, matz got the highest bonus and increment...matz thankful to him.once in a while matz ajak dia makan,matz respect dia...he's such a young guy,naik kereta camry, i think gaji dia kurang2
$10k  a month.

[ Last edited by matz_rockz on 12-3-2004 at 05:22 PM ]

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 12-3-2004 04:45 PM:



chic kencang seh....wedding sis pan pacific hotel......matz buat bawah block aja.

tak kan yang chinese salam $5.00......kalau matz paiseh lah,some more kalau good friends tak kan nak salam ...

Itu pasal lah Matz. I know from first hand experience.  Tapi nak salahkan diorang pun tak boleh sebab normally they would ask around and orang kita jugak lah yang cakap bagi sekian2 sudah...tapi as I said sendiri mau ingatlah...end of this month my fren punya dinner pat Raffles Hotel, terkopak beb....:gila:

Originally posted by sutera_abadi at 12-3-2004 12:29 PM:
opppssss......
dah married rhopanyer  ...........   

so... macam mana bleh/cara jompe ngan isteri matz skarang ni !!!  

(kepoh nyer akuuuu. ...

matz met her when she was 16 years old ,after  her O levels.....married her

when she was  20 ...... under age lagi...married below 21  ....ke!ke!ke!ke!