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Author: cold_shadow

kasih sayangku smakin pudar .... :(

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Post time 10-5-2009 03:27 PM | Show all posts
Originally posted by seri_air at 8-5-2009 20:01


Uh, brani mati punya nasihat!

Ni contoh bagaimana setengah owang lelaki menyelesaikan masalah buhsan dengan bini setelah 10 tahun kawen.


Berani ..nerani dan dah banyak kali mati pun..
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Post time 11-5-2009 11:10 AM | Show all posts
Originally posted by ana_una at 9-5-2009 10:11


berlaku kerana rutin harian puan sama sehingga ke akhir hari... juga berlaku kerana mungkin sudah puas becinta sebelum kawin.. pendapat saja..


aku rasa, aku pun sama dah pening masalah sebenar tuan umah nih...

kalau ikutkan, aku pun buat rutin harian yg sama jek.. tp aku tak bosan...
b4 kawin pun aku bercinta bagai nak rak.. tp aku tak bosan
so its depend la pada diri masing2

aku ada ckp kat laki aku suka yg romantik belai2 suma tu
tp its just not him.. setelah 9 tawun kawin, aku sedar yg aku happy je hidup ngan dia
laki aku tu garang & baran.. tp kelakau.. kalo aku merajuk ada je lawak dia aku tak jadi merajuk lah
aku bagitau aku sayang kat dia dan terima dia seadanya
mmg susah la nak ubah sifat2 semula jadi yg garang & baran tuh...
so aku ckp aku akan sentiasa cuba utk sesuaikan diri aku ngan dia...
pada masa yg sama dia jugak cuba hilangkan perangai dia tu alhamdulillah dah kurang byk...

so, apa2 pun harap puan rumah ni bincangla elok2 ngan hubby
apa kata puan rumah ni buat apa2 aktiviti ajak hubby
main dgn anak, masak, berkebun, gi surau suma buat sama2 hubby & anak2...
jadikan hubby u tu kawan rapat baru la tak bosan
itu cuma pendapat jela... sorry kalo tak betul
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Post time 11-5-2009 11:20 AM | Show all posts
tak reti nak komen... sbb aku kawin bkn sbb cinta... n skrg baru nak stat bercinta ngan hubby... aku pun baru 2 thn kawen...
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Post time 11-5-2009 11:23 AM | Show all posts

Balas #222 shimmy's\ catat

sayang kalo 10 tahun kawin tapi dah rasa bosan ngan rutin harian..anak2 pon dah besar.. tak tau le apa lg yg tuan umah harapkan.. maybe nak laki dia transform jadik optimus prime kot
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 Author| Post time 11-5-2009 11:27 AM | Show all posts
hi semua...

just nak update..

1st of all mekasih banyak atas semua pandangan dan nasihat...

sperti kata 99% u all kat sini, cold nih takde masalah bagai..

just nak mengulang skali lagi... i dah bosan yg membuhsankan ini dah nak setahun...

mcm u all juga kalo ada probs, cold dah mencari dan menggali knapa pulak gitu perasaannyaaa..
takdelaa dok confuse spanjang tempoh ini..

i masuk fd utk menclearkan hal2 yg mungkin cold terrlepas pandang..
sperti confront menda nih kat hasben.. jalan2 ujung minggu...
joking2 w hubby... macam menda2 remeh yg semua org tau tapi sebenarnya tak tau...
at least.. gitu lerr kes cold...

sapa yg ada terperasan, cold ada mention nak jumpa ustaz..
manalaa tau ada gangguan lain kann...

dan begitulaa..
setan dan suku sakatnya memang nak kacau jek org dah kawin nih..
half full glass jadik half empty..
serasi dan boleh baca minda hasben itu satu kelebihan .. tukar jadik perkara 'bosan'..

cold mengambil masa berbulan-bulan utk meminta pandangan dari aspek nih..
rupa-rupanya kat situ laa pula..

hasben tenang sajaa... cold yg sakan2 nangis..
dia cuma kata.. dugaan.. jangan risau sebab dia dah simpan dan jaga cold dan anak2 dalam hatinya.. apa maksud sebnar.. cold tak mau tanya panjang2...

oleh itu.. cold berazam dan berdoa, selain menghadapi 'situasi' ini dgn kaedahnyaa..
cold juga nak overhaul hubungan bergurau canda w hasben....

cik/puan/encik mod-mod... cold minta benang nih stop..
curtains down. tkasih u all warga FD.
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Post time 11-5-2009 11:29 AM | Show all posts

Balas #225 cold_shadow\ catat

muga kebosanan yg melanda tu berlalu pergi dgn berlalunya masa... good luck pn cold !
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Post time 11-5-2009 04:28 PM | Show all posts
semoga pn cold dapat cari jalan penyelesaian yang baik
sy doakan yg terbaik utk keluarga pn cold
gd luck
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Post time 13-8-2009 04:41 PM | Show all posts
Ya Allah...
Selamatkan lah Umat Muhammad S.A.W,hindarkannlah dari perbuatan keji dan mungkar
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Post time 13-8-2009 05:35 PM | Show all posts
Oh senang jer....the thrill, suspence & excitement is not there in your life anymore...

What you need is an affair....mungkin tahap sms/calling2 jer or sampai ke katil..up to you.

Tapi at on ...
nighunter71 Post at 8-5-2009 18:56


entahlah..bila baca post pertama tuan rumah..
naluri i dah dpt rasa..inilah permulaan dugaan utk pn cold..
iyelah sebagaimana dugaan2 kawan forumer kat sini..
begitulah dugaan utk pn cold..

lglah bila bc 'advice' dr nighthunter..
mmg ianya ada possibility berlaku..
di mana akan leads pd sesuan 'dugaan' yg maha hebat lagik..

sesungguhnya Allah itu menduga hambanya dgn pelbagai cara..
kpd puan tanah..byk beringat2..tepuk dada tanya iman..
banyakkan bersyukur pd Allah atas segala nikmat yg u miliki..
suami yg baik,anak2 pendamai jiwa, kemudahan material..etc...
bayangkan kalau Allah tarik semuanya dlm sekelip mata...nauzubillah....
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Post time 14-8-2009 10:35 AM | Show all posts
forumers fd yg dihormati,

kat dunia maya jelaa cold nak luah masalah yg dok bmain kat otak nih..
hal nih bolehlerr kategori remeh tapi tak seremeh sampai boleh borak over tea time...

cold dah b ...
cold_shadow Post at 7-5-2009 16:57


setan/iblis tuh memang goda manusia  melalui kaum hawa.........
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Post time 14-8-2009 10:52 AM | Show all posts
setan/iblis tuh memang goda manusia  melalui kaum hawa.........
manakautau Post at 14-8-2009 10:35

does'nt that sound a bit like a  christian's believe..hmmm.. i wonder why i came away from christianity when Islam has the same thing or probably its just the trinity concept that i cannot grasp...hmmm..my of my..i think i better read the bible again!!
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Post time 14-8-2009 10:58 AM | Show all posts
does'nt that sound a bit like a  christian's believe..hmmm.. i wonder why i came away from christianity when Islam has the same thing or probably its just the trinity concept that i cannot grasp...h ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 10:52


yang membezakan penganut kristian dan Islam itu apa nyer yang hang tahu tupai??????
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:01 AM | Show all posts
Its not the teaching of Islam that i have a problem manak, its the concept that people seems to put it, sorry... i am still learning ..and i have a long way to go..I just hope Allah will forgive for who i was and hope that i will be guided on the straight path
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:11 AM | Show all posts
Its not the teaching of Islam that i have a problem manak, its the concept that people seems to put it, sorry... i am still learning ..and i have a long way to go..I just hope Allah will forgive for w ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 11:01


tidak ada satu agama itu yang mengajar penganutnya kearah kemungkaran...in short..........menuju kejahatan........I will leave you with that to ponder for now.......

everyone of us is learning......till malaikat maut dah kat kerongkong.....ekeekekeeke
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:14 AM | Show all posts
your are right..christianity is a beautiful teaching. so is islam..in reality its the same..but then its us human makes it a lot more different from what it is suppose to be..and Jesus i one of the gratest prophets..
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:17 AM | Show all posts
in my teen years i love reading the bible..and now its time for me to finish off with the quran..and i hope i am not too late...its great that someone has spark my curiousity to read of the the last prophet..otherwise i think the chances of me picking up your book of teaching will be rather on the slim side.. but that then again its all from the Almighty Allah
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:30 AM | Show all posts
in my teen years i love reading the bible..and now its time for me to finish off with the quran..and i hope i am not too late...its great that someone has spark my curiousity to read of the the last p ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 11:17


I like the term finish off....semoga kita semua pergi menemuiNYA dalam keadaan ISLAM...INSYAALLAH......
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Post time 14-8-2009 11:42 AM | Show all posts
Yes indeed If Allah is willing ..and all praise is due to Allah...
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Post time 23-8-2009 02:36 PM | Show all posts
akupunmengalami rasa yang sama.........nak gila dibuatnya masalah aku ni lebih besar dari kak cold..........malang lagi aku sebatang kara.................pada sapa insan yang betul2 jujur dapat mendengar masalah sensetif ni.....yang tak dapat dibualkan pd mana2 insan................aku kahwinpun atas dasar suka sama suka...masa tu kahwin umur 19 tahun suami 24.....sekarang umur dah 25.Anak masih tiada...........aku dah tak cintakan suami aku.......kesian jer.............Aku kalau boleh nak carikan calon isteri utk dia supaya dapat menggantikan tempat aku.............suami aku dingin kpdaku hubungan sex hanya 3 bulan sekali.........aku bosan la.....................aku minta cerai dia tak nak cerai.....aku dah buat hal pun dia tak nak ceraikan.............kalua aku cerai dia kata dia nak berhenti kerja.....pergi jauh2 dr sini............aku bimbang dia melarat plak.........tapi aku camna? aku mudalagi..............tapi dah dipetrlakukan begini
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Post time 23-8-2009 06:32 PM | Show all posts
1# cold_shadow

U ada syok kat mamat lain or his performance in bed menurun?



Kalau none of the above..jawapannya senang....u need an affair..kah3x..
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