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Originally posted by ana_una at 9-5-2009 10:11 
berlaku kerana rutin harian puan sama sehingga ke akhir hari... juga berlaku kerana mungkin sudah puas becinta sebelum kawin.. pendapat saja..
aku rasa, aku pun sama dah pening masalah sebenar tuan umah nih...
kalau ikutkan, aku pun buat rutin harian yg sama jek.. tp aku tak bosan...
b4 kawin pun aku bercinta bagai nak rak.. tp aku tak bosan
so its depend la pada diri masing2
aku ada ckp kat laki aku suka yg romantik belai2 suma tu
tp its just not him.. setelah 9 tawun kawin, aku sedar yg aku happy je hidup ngan dia
laki aku tu garang & baran.. tp kelakau.. kalo aku merajuk ada je lawak dia aku tak jadi merajuk lah
aku bagitau aku sayang kat dia dan terima dia seadanya
mmg susah la nak ubah sifat2 semula jadi yg garang & baran tuh...
so aku ckp aku akan sentiasa cuba utk sesuaikan diri aku ngan dia...
pada masa yg sama dia jugak cuba hilangkan perangai dia tu alhamdulillah dah kurang byk...
so, apa2 pun harap puan rumah ni bincangla elok2 ngan hubby
apa kata puan rumah ni buat apa2 aktiviti ajak hubby
main dgn anak, masak, berkebun, gi surau suma buat sama2 hubby & anak2...
jadikan hubby u tu kawan rapat baru la tak bosan
itu cuma pendapat jela... sorry kalo tak betul  |
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tak reti nak komen... sbb aku kawin bkn sbb cinta... n skrg baru nak stat bercinta ngan hubby... aku pun baru 2 thn kawen... |
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Balas #222 shimmy's\ catat
sayang kalo 10 tahun kawin tapi dah rasa bosan ngan rutin harian..anak2 pon dah besar.. tak tau le apa lg yg tuan umah harapkan.. maybe nak laki dia transform jadik optimus prime kot  |
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Balas #225 cold_shadow\ catat
muga kebosanan yg melanda tu berlalu pergi dgn berlalunya masa... good luck pn cold ! |
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semoga pn cold dapat cari jalan penyelesaian yang baik
sy doakan yg terbaik utk keluarga pn cold
gd luck |
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Ya Allah...
Selamatkan lah Umat Muhammad S.A.W,hindarkannlah dari perbuatan keji dan mungkar |
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Oh senang jer....the thrill, suspence & excitement is not there in your life anymore...
What you need is an affair....mungkin tahap sms/calling2 jer or sampai ke katil..up to you.
Tapi at on ...
nighunter71 Post at 8-5-2009 18:56 
entahlah..bila baca post pertama tuan rumah..
naluri i dah dpt rasa..inilah permulaan dugaan utk pn cold..
iyelah sebagaimana dugaan2 kawan forumer kat sini..
begitulah dugaan utk pn cold..
lglah bila bc 'advice' dr nighthunter..
mmg ianya ada possibility berlaku..
di mana akan leads pd sesuan 'dugaan' yg maha hebat lagik..
sesungguhnya Allah itu menduga hambanya dgn pelbagai cara..
kpd puan tanah..byk beringat2..tepuk dada tanya iman..
banyakkan bersyukur pd Allah atas segala nikmat yg u miliki..
suami yg baik,anak2 pendamai jiwa, kemudahan material..etc...
bayangkan kalau Allah tarik semuanya dlm sekelip mata...nauzubillah.... |
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forumers fd yg dihormati,
kat dunia maya jelaa cold nak luah masalah yg dok bmain kat otak nih..
hal nih bolehlerr kategori remeh tapi tak seremeh sampai boleh borak over tea time...
cold dah b ...
cold_shadow Post at 7-5-2009 16:57 
setan/iblis tuh memang goda manusia melalui kaum hawa......... |
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setan/iblis tuh memang goda manusia melalui kaum hawa.........
manakautau Post at 14-8-2009 10:35 
does'nt that sound a bit like a christian's believe..hmmm.. i wonder why i came away from christianity when Islam has the same thing or probably its just the trinity concept that i cannot grasp...hmmm..my of my..i think i better read the bible again!! |
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does'nt that sound a bit like a christian's believe..hmmm.. i wonder why i came away from christianity when Islam has the same thing or probably its just the trinity concept that i cannot grasp...h ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 10:52 
yang membezakan penganut kristian dan Islam itu apa nyer yang hang tahu tupai?????? |
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Its not the teaching of Islam that i have a problem manak, its the concept that people seems to put it, sorry... i am still learning ..and i have a long way to go..I just hope Allah will forgive for who i was and hope that i will be guided on the straight path |
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Its not the teaching of Islam that i have a problem manak, its the concept that people seems to put it, sorry... i am still learning ..and i have a long way to go..I just hope Allah will forgive for w ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 11:01 
tidak ada satu agama itu yang mengajar penganutnya kearah kemungkaran...in short..........menuju kejahatan........I will leave you with that to ponder for now.......
everyone of us is learning......till malaikat maut dah kat kerongkong.....ekeekekeeke |
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your are right..christianity is a beautiful teaching. so is islam..in reality its the same..but then its us human makes it a lot more different from what it is suppose to be..and Jesus i one of the gratest prophets.. |
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in my teen years i love reading the bible..and now its time for me to finish off with the quran..and i hope i am not too late...its great that someone has spark my curiousity to read of the the last prophet..otherwise i think the chances of me picking up your book of teaching will be rather on the slim side.. but that then again its all from the Almighty Allah |
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in my teen years i love reading the bible..and now its time for me to finish off with the quran..and i hope i am not too late...its great that someone has spark my curiousity to read of the the last p ...
cmf_tupaihangus Post at 14-8-2009 11:17 
I like the term finish off....semoga kita semua pergi menemuiNYA dalam keadaan ISLAM...INSYAALLAH...... |
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Yes indeed If Allah is willing ..and all praise is due to Allah... |
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akupunmengalami rasa yang sama.........nak gila dibuatnya masalah aku ni lebih besar dari kak cold..........malang lagi aku sebatang kara.................pada sapa insan yang betul2 jujur dapat mendengar masalah sensetif ni.....yang tak dapat dibualkan pd mana2 insan................aku kahwinpun atas dasar suka sama suka...masa tu kahwin umur 19 tahun suami 24.....sekarang umur dah 25.Anak masih tiada...........aku dah tak cintakan suami aku.......kesian jer.............Aku kalau boleh nak carikan calon isteri utk dia supaya dapat menggantikan tempat aku.............suami aku dingin kpdaku hubungan sex hanya 3 bulan sekali.........aku bosan la.....................aku minta cerai dia tak nak cerai.....aku dah buat hal pun dia tak nak ceraikan.............kalua aku cerai dia kata dia nak berhenti kerja.....pergi jauh2 dr sini............aku bimbang dia melarat plak.........tapi aku camna? aku mudalagi..............tapi dah dipetrlakukan begini |
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1# cold_shadow
U ada syok kat mamat lain or his performance in bed menurun?
Kalau none of the above..jawapannya senang....u need an affair..kah3x.. |
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