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nak tanya sikit,please answer truthfully.which is more hurting ??

1) hubby go geylang for his fun

2) hubby got affair outside,meaning dia ada simpan satu reserve.

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 08:19 AM:
nak tanya sikit,please answer truthfully.which is more hurting ??

1) hubby go geylang for his fun

2) hubby got affair outside,meaning dia ada simpan satu reserve.

Abg matz, pade pendapat SC , pula kedua2 nya memang very hurting. Mungkin pasal pada SC pulak, kita sebagai isteri laksanakan tanggungjawab kita dgn sempurna n bersikap dgn jujur dgn dia (suami),  hancuh hati kita org wanita ni bila dapat tau.......

If i ever find out dat my hubby ade affair w another woman n kalau nak kahwin lagi (for example aje), i 'll definitely leave him n if he still wants me dun want to let me go, i'm sure not to go back to him. I don't like people betray my trust n love for that person. :agr:

Lagi satu, kalau si suami suka gi ke geylang, dia tak takut ke boleh kena penyakit2 yg mudarat tu ke, hissh jauhkanlah tabiat2 mcm tu semua. :geram:
Dulu tempat my keje lama, ade juga kawan2 lelaki yg ade "spare-tyre" sewaktu dorang punya bini ngah mengandung. When they tell me, I ask them why must they do this, tak cukup dgn satu ke ....... n well they say they (lelaki) ni memang pade dorang tu just want to have fun n act mcm "mat romeo" ajelah.
Jauhkan ni semua i tak nak perkara2 mcm gini berlaku............:geram:

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 08:19 AM:
nak tanya sikit,please answer truthfully.which is more hurting ??

1) hubby go geylang for his fun

2) hubby got affair outside,meaning dia ada simpan satu reserve.

Satu lagi nak tanya sikit, do you all (men) sukatak kalau ur own wife do the same thing to you (men) like have an affair w other guy outside or go wild, come back late nights w frens & tak ingat tanggungjawabnya sbg isteri, begitu juga dgn kaum wanita, they have feelings too.........

i ada satu friend,bini dia warded kat hospital,dia gatal2 dengan nurse....

..........DIA BAWAK BALIK NURSE TIDOR RUMAH DIA ...........

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-6-2004 09:44 AM:

Abg matz, pade pendapat SC , pula kedua2 nya memang very hurting. Mungkin pasal pada SC pulak, kita sebagai isteri laksanakan tanggungjawab kita dgn sempurna n bersikap dgn jujur dgn dia (suami), ...

dunia ni kan pentas sandiwara.

matz ada friend,dorang ada affair ngan domestic helper...girlfren sampai pergi abortion.to them check in check out,perkara biasa.

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 09:48 AM:
i ada satu friend,bini dia warded kat hospital,dia gatal2 dengan nurse....

..........DIA BAWAK BALIK NURSE TIDOR RUMAH DIA ...........

apa nak jadi cari penyakit ni semua........:geram: :agr:

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 09:57 AM:


dunia ni kan pentas sandiwara.

matz ada friend,dorang ada affair ngan domestic helper...girlfren sampai pergi abortion.to them check in check out,perkara biasa.

apa nak jadi ni semua, dunia, dunia, bilang dorang tu taubatlah ......:geram:

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 08:19 AM:
nak tanya sikit,please answer truthfully.which is more hurting ??

1) hubby go geylang for his fun

2) hubby got affair outside,meaning dia ada simpan satu reserve.

Both hurts just the same. Just the fact that we (the wives) don't seem to be enough, hurts. It just goes to show that the husband does not take the vows seriously and that the sanctity of marriage means zilch to him.

The other thing is, suami tu kan ketua keluarga dan pembimbing. Suami memikul tanggungjawab yang besar dalam mendidik isteri dan anak2. How do we look to them for guidance kalau perangai macam gitu? Hilanglah rasa hormat si isteri pada suami....:no:

i know of people who married for the wrong reasons.

i got a friend,she left her family for a rich expat...anak dia pun dia tak nak

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 11:22 AM:
i got a friend,she left her family for a rich expat...anak dia pun dia tak nak

:geram: kesian betul pade anak dia,tak baik taknak anak dia

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-6-2004 11:26 AM:

:geram: kesian betul pade anak dia,tak baik taknak anak dia

expat kaya tinggal condo...loaded lagi .....

matz ingat budak2 and wife ....  i dare not do .

nanti,wife nangis tak berlagu.

deaf4ever

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-6-2004 09:46 AM:

Satu lagi nak tanya sikit, do you all (men) sukatak kalau ur own wife do the same thing to you (men) like have an affair w other guy outside or go wild, come back late nights w frens & tak in ...

ni aku sokong, pasal dunia cam magic gitu, kita buat orang, pusing2 pusing2, nanti datang balik kat kita....

aku kasi contoh la eh, terus terang berbual la...

macam kat tempat keja ke, tempat forum ke, kita berbual unsur2 tease dah sampai tahap vulgarity,
so kita enjoy la kan.... pasal orang pun layan kita berbual gini...syok rabak!

tapi kalo sapa dah ada bini or gelpren, orang lain berbual chat vulgar ngan bini dia/gelpren dia, dia marah tak?

dia tak bleh marah apa, pasal dia ngan bini orang, anak dara orang, janda orang semua dia berbual kotor apa...

ni aku cakap facts... sapa tak pernah jumpa orang cam gini, temberang ah.

deaf4ever

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 11:22 AM:
i got a friend,she left her family for a rich expat...anak dia pun dia tak nak

aku heran tau manusia kejar harta dunia, sampai tahap gini...

ok la, kata orang tu kaya cam sultan brunei la...


so ko tinggalkan anak, so ko syok la, hidup fairy tale.... tapi sampai bila?

limit2 aku kasi dia hidup maybe ngan doktor2 expert, hidup lagi 60 - 70 tahun, lepas tu tua krepot, mampos jugak...harta dia tak bawak satu sen pun...

tapi kalo dia tak lupakan anak dia, maybe eh, dia enjoy real life pleasure,
kalo dia mati, anak dia doakan dia ke, sedekah2 sikit, dapat jugak dia pahala...

hubby dia kerja salesman,gaji pun tak seberapa....tuhan kalau balas,dia kena AIDS ....mati slowly kasi dia suffer...nanti dia terlantar kat katil...baru dia ingat,perbuatan dia kat dunia...ko nak nagis ayer mata darah pun no use...

deaf4ever

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-6-2004 10:05 PM:
hubby dia kerja salesman,gaji pun tak seberapa....tuhan kalau balas,dia kena AIDS ....mati slowly kasi dia suffer...nanti dia terlantar kat katil...baru dia ingat,perbuatan dia kat dunia...ko nak n ...

zaman dulu love love lain eh?
kalo suka, kais pagi makan pagi kais petang makan petang pun bahagia je aku nengok atuk nenek zaman dulu...

anak berlambak, makan beras hancur ngan kicap...happy je... loving couple..


tapi zaman sekarang love love lain sikit...

1st nengok ada $$ tak, kalo takde $$, habis la....

mok_nik

Originally posted by deaf4ever at 18-6-2004 10:13 PM:



zaman dulu love love lain eh?
kalo suka, kais pagi makan pagi kais petang makan petang pun bahagia je aku nengok atuk nenek zaman dulu...

anak berlambak, makan beras hancur ngan kicap...h ...

itulah orang kata ada $$ adik sayang
tak ada $$ adik melayang

ada pulak dah multi millionaire pun ,kawin hidup tak bahgia.
heran jugak...you got all the money in the world

....but you can't find your happiness.

deaf4ever

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 19-6-2004 12:57 AM:
ada pulak dah multi millionaire pun ,kawin hidup tak bahgia.
heran jugak...you got all the money in the world

....but you can't find your happiness.

kadang2 tengok orang2 kaya, tahu2 tiba2 jatuh bankrupt ke, rugi perniagaan ke,  nak rasa kesian pun ada..


lagi sedih kalo nengok cam ada family problem, anak2 shoplifting ke, anak2 join geng genster...


dekat flat rumah aku, aku tengok kat carpark, ada satu mercedez benz besar gile wooo.....   Heran jugak bleh muat kat car lot tu...

tapi terlebih panjang, jadi bila parking bontot mercedez tu selalu terkeluar ring..   

rezeki sesetengah orang eh..:hatdown: