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Penat belajar tinggi2, lps kahwin kena abdikan diri untuk suami??
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Originally posted by my-alja at 26-3-2009 11:37 
apa yg i nampak mc...
semua pompuan gakkkk salah ...bodoh, salah....cerdik, salah
keje, salah...dok umah, salah
beranak salah, tak beranak salah.....
khairy menang punnn, pompuan gak ...
aik??? apa kena mengena Khairy lam hal ni ek?
semua nak kaitkan dgn mamat rempit ni keh??? |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 25-3-2009 08:25 
lama tak nampak rock kat sini.....dah settled down kat mesia yekkkk........dah tambah anak ka? duluk2 rock citer ader baby girl slang british......dah de adik ka dia? made in msia?
hi bingka.. busy sikit menguruskan rumahtangga.. ni baru ada spare time sikit.. a'ah dah settled down kat mesia.. ada new baby boy... anak girl tu still ada slang british lagi..although BM dia pun dah terror skg ni.. paling terror le dlm class.. shocking!  |
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aiii relaaaaa..klo abang ai pailet ensem!! |
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"Penat belajar tinggi2, lps kahwin kena abdikan diri untuk suami??"
sendiri biar diri dibuli... jgn salahkan org lain kalau sendiri kena tindas..btw..syurga isteri di bawah tapak kaki suami (provided suami soleh) tapikan... kalau suami tuh tak soleh.. itu dia jawap dengan Yang Esa... kita pun manusia.. apa kuasa kita nak hukum sesama manusia..kalau rasa diri sendiri sukar nak dibentuk, sukar nak ikut perintah... jgn kawin laa.. |
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wahh menarik posting sini
ku rasa mcm aji sajer je provoke housewives sini, sbb semuanya bukan enibadi but somebady...paling paling semua ada degree sekeping |
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Balas #340 dahlia976\ catat
actually... kitaorg yg grad medic dr uk mmg dah boleh apply keje kat spital2 uk dr masa final yr student before final exams.. so by time grad mesti dah dapat tempat keje... unlike budak2 buat engineering, acctnt... houseman tu kira masih under tanggungjwb meds school .. .tapi jpa suruh balik m'sia utk buat hseman .. so ada yg balik ada yg tak... ramai yg tak balik end up keje lama kat uk.. sebab gaji mmg lumayan... on top of that.. kat m'sia ni docs esp houseman.. mcm tak de life... kenal patients lebih rapat dr sedara mara... 
sorry mod off topic.. tapi part of reality... |
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Balas #344 mclaren\ catat
susah cuti... kalau anak2 sendiri sakit... terpaksa suruh maid jaga... kita sibuk jaga orang2 lain yg sakit... tapi dlm kepala dok fikir anak yg tengah sakit tu... ni buat aku kekadang nak jadi surirumah... kekadang bila risau sangat anak semput kat rumah... aku bawa maid and anak2 semua tunggu kat hospital... sampai aku habis keje..  |
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Originally posted by annaKarenina at 26-3-2009 09:25
susah cuti... kalau anak2 sendiri sakit... terpaksa suruh maid jaga... kita sibuk jaga orang2 lain yg sakit... tapi dlm kepala dok fikir anak yg tengah sakit tu... ni buat aku kekadang nak jadi s ...
inilah sbb kenapa mostly doc nurse kat sini, terutama keja kat hospital tak da anak...
buat buat sini kan mana ada maid.. nursery yg boleh jaga anak orang 24 jam.. |
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Reply #389 annaKarenina's post
itulah, dalam your case (and other doctors) ni kira macam, one of the sacrifices lah.. macam tersepit kat tengah2 antara nak berbakti kat masyarakat (fardhu kifayah tu) and also nak bring your children up with your own hands & mold them with your values mostly.
i know doctors yang ikhlas serve masyarakat ni allah akan balas sebaik2 nya, setimpal dengan pengorbanan.
lain lah mcm other non critical fields (nowadays even engineers pun dah ramai so eventhough engineering is listed under critical fields, i think tak lah as critical as medicine), if para ibu tu decide nak quit & serve rumahtangga instead, besarkan anak2, rasanya it doesn't directly affect productivity negara pun, plus indirectly it sort of helps our country jugak (kalau we mothers at home ni succeed in producing excellent children lah). |
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i am not looking down at my own career field dulu, cuma, too many of us out there now, so me quitting didn't make the company roll up & close down. |
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Balas #392 mclaren\ catat
for me, tak kisah la keje apa sekalipun....kecik ke besar, penting atau tidak semuanya menyumbang pd masyarakat selagi niat bekerja kita tu btul...
doktor pun profession cam keje2 lain....so apa2 keje dtg dgn tanggungjawab dan amanah....w/pun sebagai penyapu sampah, it does carry some weight ... |
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Reply #394 my-alja's post
so bersalah lah ni quit kerja demi mendidik anak?
mendidik anak tu pun pekerjaan jugak kan?
what is the issue here exactly?
aji dok tekan, tak patut quit sebab tak menyumbang kat masyarakat, wasting tax payers' money paying for our tuition dulu. 
i'm merely saying, though i am not directly contributing to the society macam doctors tu, i am indirectly contributing, by molding my children not to become the menace of the society. tak gitu?
and i've weighed my options before quitting -- there are prolly tens of thousands out there with the same qualification as i, so quitting my job to help educate my kids, did not make a HUGE adverse impact to the industry (alja i didn't say my job dulu TAK PENTING  ).
takde pun insinuating hanya kerjaya doktor tu penting, yang lain2 tak penting. tapi we all know, doctors are scarce here (yang nak jumpa doktor pulak, berderet, penuh govt hosp), compared to other professions of equal importance, thus making doctors a highly critical profession in this country.
tu yang me nak sampaikan.
bkn nya puji melambung kerjaya doktor sahaja, yang lain tu tak penting... |
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Originally posted by mclaren at 27-3-2009 07:57 
so bersalah lah ni quit kerja demi mendidik anak?
mendidik anak tu pun pekerjaan jugak kan?
what is the issue here exactly?
aji dok tekan, tak patut quit sebab tak menyumbang kat masy ...
i dah jelaskan, kita menyumbang indirectly....
yg buat ur post sound out of pitching, when u said the doctors must stay and others can go
if they wanna quit, they also can....
bukan sebab kerja tu penting atau tidak....
u choose.... |
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yerlaaa..tenguk industan jek laaa macikk oiii
telenobela spa Q kee..spa Z ke...drama astro ..drama korean kee...berangan sampai tua.. |
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Balas #397 ajinomotonosuga\ catat
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spa Q dah habissss....merdeka aku |
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Reply #391 faraway1's post
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maybe... |
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Reply #396 my-alja's post
no lah alja.. silap faham tone tu if my post make people confuse, i apologozie.
i didn't say doctors MUST stay, others can go.
who am i to paksa2 orang nak kerja or nak quit  kalau i'm the hubbies of all those women, ada lah kuasa nak say that (tu pun aji sudah marah la suami paksa isteri quit kerja)
tapi like i say, doctors are scarce here. i believe, most of them, masa buat decision nak study medicine, sudah pun fikir all these factors... and why they want to be doctors (of course ada yang sebab glamour ). selain minat mendalam, they know it comes with a highly demanding hours & needs.
macam aji cakap, kalau dah PLAN nak jadi housewives, kenapa nak belajar tinggi kan? some of us, maybe up to a point of our lives, ada kot terfikir, hmm i work until maybe SM level or GM level, then i may consider quitting, to focus on my marriage & children.
tapi macam doctors ni, once they step into med school, they already know how much they will be needed nanti. unless, we can keep producing hundreds of great docs every now & then & keep them in this country, so that ada pelapis.
i guess i tak reti nak put out in words lah my opinions on this. sebab baca, jadi lain my bad.
anyway.. here's something to ponder :
I HAVE A LIFETIME TO WORK, BUT MY CHILDREN ARE YOUNG ONLY ONCE.
cheers. |
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Post time 26-3-2009 01:30 PM
