kawin kawin corner : any thing pasal kawin

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 17-8-2004 05:26 PM:


ko punya cousin cousin banyak ???

i have lots of cousins, tak bleh terkira, yg ade tinggal kat malaysia, australia, london, also bila waktu hari raya & ade majlis perkahwinan, fuyooooooo, ramai sungguh sedara mara, ni semua dari my dad's side. kalo my mum side ade tinggal kat indon. tapi best bila dah berjumpa & mcm kita berbual.
Infact, i ni dah ade ramai juga anak buah abt 30 like that. :ah:

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-8-2004 08:09 AM:

i have lots of cousins, tak bleh terkira, yg ade tinggal kat malaysia, australia, london, also bila waktu hari raya & ade majlis perkahwinan, fuyooooooo, ramai sungguh sedara mara, ni semua d ...

ko salam makcik2 hari raya terok??my close auntie me kasi $50 yang not to close $20 to $30...nasib baik tak banyak aunties and uncles.......

SweetCandy

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-8-2004 10:16 AM:


ko salam makcik2 hari raya terok??my close auntie me kasi $50 yang not to close $20 to $30...nasib baik tak banyak aunties and uncles.......

mcm gitulah abg matz, apa bleh buat, yg mana sc close i kasi $50 & tak close i selalu tanya abah mcm mana nanti, dia pun kata tak payah. :ah:

chicsee

A couple of my frens just spoke to me yesterday about problems with their hubby. Money problems.....I hope they work things out....

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:29 AM:
A couple of my frens just spoke to me yesterday about problems with their hubby. Money problems.....I hope they work things out....

hubby melencong  ???  i think my wife cannot take it, if i go melencong ..

i dare not break her heart...she's been very nice to me...

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-8-2004 10:34 AM:



hubby melencong  ???  i think my wife cannot take it, if i go melencong ..

i dare not break her heart...she's been very nice to me...

Bukan melencong, financial problems. Hubby tak kasi nafkah, draw lines when paying bills and stuff like that....

SweetCandy

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:39 AM:


Bukan melencong, financial problems. Hubby tak kasi nafkah, draw lines when paying bills and stuff like that....

kecian ur fren tu espe te wife, mana bleh mcm gini:ah:
it's the husband responsibility to provide the wife nafkah

me settle all bills at home...pakai giro senang lah.only sing tel and scv bayar
kat AXS machine....dah kawin mesti pandai budget,ko over spend this month  nanti next month ko short. live within my means,tak ada tak apa......jangan berhutang....

chicsee

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-8-2004 10:43 AM:

kecian ur fren tu espe te wife, mana bleh mcm gini:ah:
it's the husband responsibility to provide the wife nafkah

Yeah what to do? Some guys think just because the wife is working and has her own money, diorang terlepas dari tanggungjawab memberi nafkah dan sbg nya....I also dunno what to say to them....and I dun want to say the wrong things....

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-8-2004 10:48 AM:
me settle all bills at home...pakai giro senang lah.only sing tel and scv bayar
kat AXS machine....dah kawin mesti pandai budget,ko over spend this month  nanti next month ko short. live within m ...

Abg Matz cakap pasal ni, Chic nak citer sikit. Last weekend, Chic pegi rumah kawan Chic yang baru pindah. Diorang ni masa jenis tak nak kalah orang. Hari tu I found out, diorang ambik reno loan dari 2 bank sebab 1 bank tak cukup nak finance reno diorang. Beli plasma tv nak dekat 6K. Entertainment system, oven, microwave, semua Chic tak pernah dengar pun brand, all top notch. Tapi semua hutang. On top of that, ada kereta and maid. Anak dah masuk 2, duit honeymoon pun belum habis bayar. So sekarang ni, they are servicing 2 bank loans, plasma tv loan, entertainment system loan, kitchen appliances loan, car loan and maid every month. Belum termasuk duit api, air, perbelanjaan bulanan, anak2 dan sbg nya....

Ni bukan mengata, sekadar mengingati sesama sendiri.....Chic dengar tercengang sekejap. All I can say is they very the daring....kalau Chic, malam tak leh tido beb....:gila:

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:48 AM:


Yeah what to do? Some guys think just because the wife is working and has her own money, diorang terlepas dari tanggungjawab memberi nafkah dan sbg nya....I also dunno what to say to them....an ...

husband dia gaji besar ???

i got a good friend,dia ni office boy. gaji ngan overtime plus allowance take home around $1500.dia ni family man,duit gaji semua kasi wife,then he take some spending money which is just enough for expenses to work.tak kaya raya,tapi tengok dia bahagia....

chicsee

Originally posted by matz_rockz at 18-8-2004 10:58 AM:



husband dia gaji besar ???

i got a good friend,dia ni office boy. gaji ngan overtime plus allowance take home around $1500.dia ni family man,duit gaji semua kasi wife,then he take some spe ...

I think average aje. Keje airport or something....memang betul Abg Matz, I think yang  paling penting mesti bermuafakat, baru hidup kita berkat dan insyaAllah bahagia....:ah:

Browneyes

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:56:


Ni bukan mengata, sekadar mengingati sesama sendiri.....Chic dengar tercengang sekejap. All I can say is they very the daring....kalau Chic, malam tak leh tido beb....        

not daring but stupid... sebenarnya orang yang kaya ialah orang yang takde hutang..

SweetCandy

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:56 AM:


Abg Matz cakap pasal ni, Chic nak citer sikit. Last weekend, Chic pegi rumah kawan Chic yang baru pindah. Diorang ni masa jenis tak nak kalah orang. Hari tu I found out, diorang ambik reno loan ...

sc takut2 pasal hutang sana sini:ah:
mcm baru2 ni, one of neigbours came over to my place & dia was shock to see me & hubby takde satu kerusi rumah pun kat rumah ni, say so simple nya my rumah & lagi2 dia kata me & hubby dua2 keje, den i say, takpelah lagipun me dah ckp dgn hubby tu semua nanti bleh beli, bila ade rezeki lebih.
memang tak nafikan rumah my jiran ni lawa & dia punya renovation & barang2 rumah semua hutang, wooooooo takutlah dgr:malu:

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 11:02 AM:


I think average aje. Keje airport or something....memang betul Abg Matz, I think yang  paling penting mesti bermuafakat, baru hidup kita berkat dan insyaAllah bahagia....:ah:

ni my friend ada anak, tak salah 4 ke 5 ..............bini dia housewife .........

chicsee

Originally posted by SweetCandy at 18-8-2004 11:05 AM:

sc takut2 pasal hutang sana sini:ah:
mcm baru2 ni, one of neigbours came over to my place & dia was shock to see me & hubby takde satu kerusi rumah pun kat rumah ni, say so simple nya my ...

Chic pun macam SC. Masa baru kawin dulu, rumah takder benda. Beli throw cushions aje campak2 untuk lepak2 tengok tv. Bila ada duit sikit baru beli barang sikit2. Cuma kesian orang tua bila datang rumah kena duduk bawah sebab takder kerusi....:lol

SweetCandy

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 11:14 AM:


Chic pun macam SC. Masa baru kawin dulu, rumah takder benda. Beli throw cushions aje campak2 untuk lepak2 tengok tv. Bila ada duit sikit baru beli barang sikit2. Cuma kesian orang tua bila data ...

samalah dgn sc, kalo tengok tv, ambik cushion besar & lepak2 kat situ aje:lol

Originally posted by chicsee at 18-8-2004 10:56 AM:


Abg Matz cakap pasal ni, Chic nak citer sikit. Last weekend, Chic pegi rumah kawan Chic yang baru pindah. Diorang ni masa jenis tak nak kalah orang. Hari tu I found out, diorang ambik reno loan ...

i rather not have then berhutang....kids education are more important...

berani mati  sekarang punya orang,nanti hutang keliling pinggang...baru dia

sedar..........

virgomal

Originally posted by chicsee at 2004-8-18 10:56 AM:
Abg Matz cakap pasal ni, Chic nak citer sikit. Last weekend, Chic pegi rumah kawan Chic yang baru pindah. Diorang ni masa jenis tak nak kalah orang. Hari tu I found out, diorang ambik reno loan ...

chics...
kenkadang eh, biler dengar citer orang jer eh, rasa seram sendiri
camner sey if my turn nanti... kenkadang rasa bersyukur that i
tak beli rumah baru. instead me buy over MIL hse. berang jugak ah
rumah kita, tapi barang

ada orang mau gaya....tak moh kalah.........