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Originally posted by nashra at 24-6-2006 02:52 PM
 lollol
lawak ler baca citer ko kiki...
citer pelik tapi benar, norsha :bgrin: |
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Originally posted by kikilalat at 25-6-2006 11:42 PM
aiks! macam perangai laki aku jer nih...
kalo aku cakap menda2 yg bukan2, dia tak suka layan...
dia kata, lagi aku tegur or kasik 'reminder'... lagik ler kasik idea kat dia utk buat jahat. ...
kalu taw tak per kiki.....
aku caya laki ko tak nakal kat luar tuh....
selagi ko paham nak cara dia....;) |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 25-6-2006 11:52 PM
kalu taw tak per kiki.....
aku caya laki ko tak nakal kat luar tuh....
selagi ko paham nak cara dia....;)
amin... :pray: |
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Originally posted by adiraa at 23-6-2006 03:08 PM
bagaimanakah perasaan anda bila terbaca sms jiwang suami. Berabang-abangan dan bersayang-sayangan.
Marahkah anda?? serang suami???
bagaimana nak mengatasi luluhan rasa ni?
i juz dun care.. |
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Originally posted by aja_cute at 24-6-2006 09:25 PM
Hisyyhhh eynda... complicated sgt idea tuh...:lol
Kalau Aja........................ panggil hubby dpn kita, terus tunjuk sms tu and cakap jer,"Nih haper nih!!!!! U jwb dgn i betul⊃ ...
Isshh...kalau serang terus kang lagi jadi tunggang terbalik.....
Lebih baik kita pasang perangkap dulu....
Lain org lain tindakannya...Tapi kalau eynda, eynda jenis perangkap dulu....baru la nak serang2.....
Tak pernah jadi lagi la kat eynda...kalau jadi nanti tak tau la cemana eynda punya tahap kewarasan heheh....
Lebih baik eynda cari jalan supaya tak jadi benda cam ni kat eynda hehehe....:pray: |
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Originally posted by kikilalat at 25-6-2006 11:42 PM
aiks! macam perangai laki aku jer nih...
kalo aku cakap menda2 yg bukan2, dia tak suka layan...
dia kata, lagi aku tegur or kasik 'reminder'... lagik ler kasik idea kat dia utk buat jahat. ...
:setuju:
Sama la dgn perangai hubby eynda........So eynda malas la nak pikir bukan2...jeles tak bertempat....aman dunia ni hehehe... |
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Tak suka serang2, lebih suka tanya baik2. Lebih suka make him feel guilty. So far, Alhamdulillah, tak pernah jadi so Shah tak boleh nak komen lebih2. Juz that I always feel that serang2 is not the best idea. Nampak kelam-kabut, and so tak cool. Biar kita nampak like the winning part by acting cool. |
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Originally posted by MamaIlya at 26-6-2006 06:39 PM
Tak suka serang2, lebih suka tanya baik2. Lebih suka make him feel guilty. So far, Alhamdulillah, tak pernah jadi so Shah tak boleh nak komen lebih2. Juz that I always feel that serang2 is not the ...
:setuju:
Kalau boleh bagi dia rasa malu pulak kat kita sebab dia yg dok cari pasal...:cak:
Kalau diserang selalunya balasannya menyerang jugak...so tak ke mana.... |
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Originally posted by eynda at 26-6-2006 05:53 PM
Isshh...kalau serang terus kang lagi jadi tunggang terbalik.....
Lebih baik kita pasang perangkap dulu....
Lain org lain tindakannya...Tapi kalau eynda, eynda jenis perangkap dulu....ba ...
Hehehe... Aja adalah seorg wife yg sangat jarang marah kat hubby..
Benda ni penah jadi kat diri sendiri.
Kalau kene kat batang hidung memang boleh hilang kewarasan seketika, are u sure u can take a deep breath, release it and thinking how to arrange a strategic planning...
Aja admit mmg itulah ayat yang Aja forward kat hubby after I read the sms.. Dia pun ternganga bila Aja serang dia mcm tu and he cannot talk at all.. Just say,"I am sorry dear.."
Apa² pun, seblum blame hubby kene cari kesilapan kita dulu.. mungkin ada yg tak kene pada kita menyebabkan dia cqari alternatif lain, but kalau kita dah buat yg terbaik but he still... mmg patut laa kene  |
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Perempuan memang fitrahnya emosional, jadi tak heranlah kalau reaksi bila nampak suami dapat SMS jiwang agak over. Bayangkan kalau orang yang kita sayang, bila kita dah serah jiwa raga, kepercayaan, etc. tiba-tiba betray our trusts.
Of course, the best thing to do is to be in control of our own emotion. Tapi bagi aku tak fair kalau si suami expect isterinya to 'behave' tapi dia sendiri tak sensitif dgn perasaan pasangannya. It's common senselah pasangan akan cemburu bila suami dapat sms 'yang' and tindakbalas luar kawalan tu bukan kerana apa tapi disebabkan oleh sayang.
It's a different case kalau SMS tu hanyalah 'joke' atau utk org lain. Tapi kalau ianya betul-betul, I guess the husband should bear the consequence bila terkantoi. I believe, the wife has a right to be angry ... Berani buat berani tanggung ....:hatdown: |
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BTW this thing never happened to me so far ...na'uzubillah kalau terjadi... aku rasa aku akan merajuk berhari-hari sebelum aku confront dia. Kat rumah aku yang mulut murai... bila aku mogok, memang macam dilanggar gerudalah rumah tu. I think that's the worst punishment I could give him :bgrin:
Aku tak leh perang-perang... sebab aku tak pandai nak bertekak on the spot, nanti aku gak yang kalah...:bgrin: |
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aku ingat aku sorang jer mcm tu
kalau aku bertekak dgn laki aku, mesti dia menang w/pun dia yg salah
kadang2 aku ckp kat dia 'malas la nak gado2.. alih2 u jugak yg menang'
aku rasa orang lelaki ni panjang akal la.. pandai create alasan..
kadang yg tak munasabah pun jadi munasabah.. |
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oh....kalu sayer plak.....kalu bab bertekak sure saya yg menang....sbb hubby kalu gado ngan sayer....dia maleh nak ckp......sbb dia tak reti nak pusing2......muheheheeee.....
tapi saya paling tak sker gado ngan hubby sayer....tak besh laa......sayer ni plak jenih sker manje2 ngan dia....kalu gado pong nanti konon2 saye merajuk laa...takmo ckp ngan dia....but last2....sayer jugak la yg dok pegi menyendeh kat dia...baring kat lengan dia.......nanti kang dia pong cakap..."sori yang yer..."...kira nya win-win situation la....
eh...ni dah mcm off topic lak....sowiiii...! |
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oh....kalu sayer plak.....kalu bab bertekak sure saya yg menang....sbb hubby kalu gado ngan sayer....dia maleh nak ckp......sbb dia tak reti nak pusing2......muheheheeee.....
tapi saya paling tak sker gado ngan hubby sayer....tak besh laa......sayer ni plak jenih sker manje2 ngan dia....kalu gado pong nanti konon2 saye merajuk laa...takmo ckp ngan dia....but last2....sayer jugak la yg dok pegi menyendeh kat dia...baring kat lengan dia.......nanti kang dia pong cakap..."sori yang yer..."...kira nya win-win situation la....
eh...ni dah mcm off topic lak....sowiiii...! |
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Dulu Shah and hubby pun ada crisis macam ni last year, but melibatkan email and friendster. Setahu Shah, dia tak reti guna2 friendster ni. One day, Shah godek2 all his emails yg Shah tahu, saja2 je buat spotcheck  . In one of the email add, ada emails from perempuan. Emails yg diterima menunjukkan dia kenal that girl thru his friendster account. Siap that girl bagi gambar tu, but from that pic, I know the girl bukannya his taste. That girl nampak very young,awal 20an gitu, pakai tudung and spek. Nampak macam student U. Memang rasa frust masa tu. Tengah dok fikir2, tiba2 he called home. Terkejut Shah masa tu (iye la, tengah termenung panjang masa tu). Masa dia call tu, Shah ingat nak tanya, but takpe la, Shah decide nak tanya masa dia balik rumah nanti.
Masa dia balik tu, Shah layan dia macam biasa ie. buat jus oren sejuk for him, hidang makan etc. Tengah dia relaks2 tengok TV tu, Shah tanya dia pasal friendster. He said he knows about friendster but tak pernah guna pun. Takde masa, katanya. Pastu dia cakap, buat apa nak friendster2, Shah kan dah ada. Masa tu, rasa sedih la pulak, but he sensed something wrong, so he asked me what's going on. So Shah terus online and showed him the emails and 'his' friendster account. Mati2 dia tak mengaku masa tu, and he said that email add tu dah berbulan dia tak guna langsung. He looked at that girl's pic, and said ' Dear, you know me better, you ingat budak muda mcm tu ke my taste?' :hmm:
So both of us bincang2, dia still kata dia tak tahu apa2 pun about that emails and friendster. Okay, no prob. Me takde la marah2 him, but he was quite upset about it. Then he said he remember that ada satu driver kat office dia pernah pinjam his email add. He gave his email yg dia jarang sangat guna. I told him, he better clarify this thing cepat.
The next day, bila dia dah sampai office, dia tanya his driver friend tu. Rupa2nya, that fella guna his email add untuk balas2 email dengan his friendster girlfriends. Using my hubby's name, takut his wife find out. His wife is a receptionist kat a company nearby. Him pernah kantoi pasal email ni dengan his wife. My hubby was angry with him la, nasib baik tak kucar-kacir rumahtangga kami. After that fella said sorry to both of us, I apologized to my hubby, coz I shudn't godek2 his mails etc. And most of all, because after knowing him for 8 years, I still have doubt on him. Sedih sangat masa tu, nasib baiik Shah ikut kata akal, coz kalau ikut kata hati, agaknya dah meletus WW3. Alhamdulillah...
That's why Shah mentioned in the posting before, apa2 pun, better consult this kind of thing secara berhikmah eg. berbincang baik2 etc. Pasal tu dalam Islam ada menekankan konsep musyawarrah (dah jadi ustazah la pulak:nerd . Coz most of the problems can be solved thru discussion, not confrontation. Biar pun betul suami kita silap, kalau kita marah2, lagi tinggi egonya, so masalah takkan selesai. Silap2 haribulan, perbuatan kita tu boleh mencabar dia, lagi la dia buat benda2 yg bukan2.
Just my 2 cents..... |
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orang pompuan kalau tau suami buat hal.. terus nak terkam jer.. hehe |
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Originally posted by aja_cute at 26-6-2006 09:00 PM
Hehehe... Aja adalah seorg wife yg sangat jarang marah kat hubby..
Benda ni penah jadi kat diri sendiri.
Kalau kene kat batang hidung memang boleh hilang kewarasan seketika, are u sure ...
Eynda bercakap dari pengalaman........Tapi bukan kena mengena dgn bab curang laaa....Biasa la org lelaki ni banyak perangai notty....Dulu eynda tak pandai....cepat sangat melatah...serang tak kena tempat....Akibatnya, jadi makin teruk....
Orang lelaki ni egonya tinggi....pantang dicabar....bila diserang bak dirinya tercabar....Kalau benda tu dia tak buat, boleh jadi dia akan buat kemudian hari sebab lelaki juga ada yg pendendam.....
Alhamdulillah Allah kurniakan kewarasan kat eynda....bila eynda fikirkan balik cara eynda berdepan dgn masalah yg berkaitan dgn husband, eynda nampak kelemahan eynda.....
Sejak hari itu lah.....eynda tukar taktik....eynda tak akan serang tanpa usul periksa....eynda tak pernah dah tuduh macam-macam....Setiap problem eynda dah boleh handle dgn tenang....Kali ni husband dah tak mampu nak argue apa-apa...coz eynda guna taktik yg membuatkan dia cepat cair & nampaknya dia boleh perbetul sikapnya yg eynda tak gemar....
Bukan dgn cara kekerasan..... |
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Reply #57 eynda's post
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Haku setuju dan sokong....hehehe........(dari pengalaman gak muahahaha) |
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Originally posted by Pe4RL at 23-6-2006 03:15 PM
adiraa ,
hang cakap camnih...
"eh romantik ler abg nih
bersayang², manja gittuk
tapi eh.. eh.. nih bukan no saya nih
ni pong bukan nama saya nih...
explain plsssss"
kikiki
pearl
mungkin kan itu reaction orang yang tengah bertunang or tengah bf-gf. Tapi pass rasa kalau wife yang terjumpa sms tulis darling darling, abang abang tu semua mesti first reaction diorang hati berdebar debar and tak tau nak cakap apa. Maybe ada yang jeling sampai sakit mata or jerit terus minta explanation. Kadang kadang hipokrit ni bukan bagus, kita sakit hati tapi dia sedap sedap senyum. Lepas tu mesti buat lagi tak serik serik sebab konon dia fikir wife sporting. Tak boleh lah nak buat trick macam tu sekarang, zaman sekarang semua kena terus terang. |
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Reply #59 passenger57's post
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Pun setuju gak....(dari pengalaman) |
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Post time 25-6-2006 11:43 PM
