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Utk Abah2 Sekelian: Betulkah anak mengubah segalanya?
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Reply #40 monreyes's post
well, thats the biggest move i have heard so far a father has done.. 
in that small being, contains the greatest power... |
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Originally posted by monreyes at 3-12-2007 01:30 PM 
My hubby quits smoking bila dapat tau I pregnant..padahal sebelum tu
punyalah liat...semata2 kerana anak...
kalau haku kawen and dapat anak
haku pon akan berbuat demikian
nekad! 
p/s purak2 alim |
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Salam semua..
kodok tumpang bc, sbb bujang lg..
Rs cam takut lak nk kawen ni..huhuhu.. |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 3-12-2007 06:12 PM 
 tipu la ko.....aku duluk2 pung camtuh gak..kononnye nak benti hisap rokok biler dpt anak sendri....2 hari jek pastu aku rasa mcm serba x kena....mcm jln2 sana sini bogel jekk.......last2 ...
pasal tu buat untuk diri sendiri, bukan untuk anak or isteri or sapa punnnnn
memula untuk diri sendiri..bila buat tu nanti otak tu berisi laa..bila otak tu berisi baru dia terang sikit..insyallah kalo apa kesulitan mai..otak terang tu leh jawap seme masalah
solitude cam nabi pi buat di gua hira' tu bukan sekali dua buat jek.. ari ariiii kene ada..esp masa2 nak tidor..duk pikirkan seme pekara, pikir anak isteri mertua mak ayah dunia bangsa kampung anjing kucing duit banjir krismas raya pose deepabali etc.
mana de pompuan pikir cam niii?
pompuan dia cam budak2..nak sonokkkkkkk jekk..dah itu nature depa , takkan nak salahkan depa, kalo misal bini ko nak manja2..nak libur2 santai2..jejalan..kene laa pahamm
so masa tu ko isap rokok bau tu busukkk..mana beshhh
serupa gak ngan baby..mana sihat..
sekali buat tu nampak macam buat untuk oang lain esp anak isteri..actually itu untuk kebaikan diri tu dulukk
apa pun manusia buat adalah untuk diri dia duluk..suke ke tidak , paham ke tidak, itu ler sebenonya berhasil.
anak mati, leh ada lai, bini mati leh carik baru..kalo diri ko mati???? haa jawap..apa ada lai??? amalan ko tu ler..kan? |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 3-12-2007 06:12 PM
tipu la ko.....aku duluk2 pung camtuh gak..kononnye nak benti hisap rokok biler dpt anak sendri....2 hari jek pastu aku rasa mcm serba x kena....mcm jln2 sana sini bogel jekk.......last2 ...
ala plan B la nih...kuikuikui |
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Reply #45 ajinomotonosuga's post
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aji... ada jugak org laki nak sonok je tau...aha.. tgk thread sebelah... |
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benar .. perangai panas baran aku hilang lepas dapat anak.
kalau wife pregnant .. aku tk larat pun aku gagahkan jugak buat keje rumah atau pegi kedai beli lauk sbb aku tau beban die mengusung anak aku dlm perut .. |
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Reply #49 kudajantan77's post
another yes... aha... betul jugakle apa yg ditulis dlm novel tu ye...  |
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Oops lost, sori aku terlepas pandang thread ko yg ini...
Personally, aku takde la selalu gaduh dgn wife aku. In fact, she became pregnant early on in our marriage....
Jadi, memang dari awal lagi aku dah rasa sangat sayang pada dia when I saw the difficulty she went through during pregnancy. Masa nak bersalinkan our first son, she was in labour for 2 days. Doktor siap induce lagi... itu pun baby takmo keluar. Sampai doktor boleh bagi dia balik rumah dulu..... tapi tak berapa jam tiba kat rumah, dia start sakit balik dan aku pun hantar lah dia semula ke hospital. Whew, what an experience!
Two other pregnacies followed, each with its own story to tell. The early years were relatively happy... setakat selisih faham yg kecik tu biasa le...
The first major crisis happened when the kids were at school-going age, i.e. they were no longer babies. She was already a full-time Minister of Home Affairs by then. That's when I started to lose attention.... not her fault.
Nowadays, to remind myself of the pain and scarifice she went through, I just have to look at my sons. She has raised them well, I'm proud of her.
So, to answer your question, I would say yes. My children have made me appreciate the family that I have, appreciate my wife for bringing them to life and raising them, and appreciate my parents for the trouble they have gone through in raising me.... |
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Reply #1 LostSoul's post
itupun kalo abahnya nak mikorkan ank tu..sepatutnya mmg le dia kena fikirkan anak setiap kali nak buat apa2 sbb dia yg bertanggungjawab menyebabkan anak tu lahir ke dunia bukan ank tu sendiri yg minta dijadi dan dilahirkan.
tp, selalunya abah2 ni kat rumah je rasa diri tu abah..bila kat luar dah rasa mcm diri tu abg je bila tgk anak2 gadis cantik badan melentik..
nyibuk jap bagi pihak abah anka2 aku.. |
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Reply #52 nighunter71's post
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baik2 nigh..jgn sampai bermenantukan anak sendiri nanti.. |
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Reply #57 nighunter71's post
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sian anak2 kau nanti nigh..bila anak kau kenalkan bf/gf depa kat kau je..mende yg mula2 kau tanya sapa nama mak dia..? bukan nama gf/bf dia. kang kalo ada nama yg serupa mcm nama ex2gf ko..ko reject le pulak..err..dlm malaysia ni byk org nama serupa tau nigh..susah jugak tu..jgn lupa mintak gambo mak dia masa muda2 dulu tau! |
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Reply #59 nighunter71's post
hampehh punya bapak! |
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Post time 3-12-2007 04:12 PM
