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Originally posted by peachRose at 12-1-2009 06:11 PM 
tunggu anak u besar...
nanti tinggal u berdua je dgn wife...
masa ni bleh le nak pi holiday the whole yr...
itu kalau anak2 tak kasi masalah kat mak bapak ler..
kalau kasi masalah..makbapak still kena tanggung lagi..makan minum..tak boleh bergerak langsung..
pastu..ada anak yg besar,tak cukup duit tapi, nak2 kawen cepat2 pulak pulak..mak bapak kena sponsor lagi..
wp nak buat simple2..tapi, nak gi meminang anak org tu..duit transportation perlu..duit toll perlu..pastu nak kasi lagi duit transportation & toll kat sedara2 yg mengikut sama..everything is not free or self sponsored..
kalau gi meminang yg sama mukim..sama negeri..maybelaa boleh kott save duit toll & transportation.. |
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Balas #41 Hana\ catat
akak selalu baca posting ko hana...memang TAK PERNAH tak mention pasal duit |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 12-1-2009 06:27 PM
akak selalu baca posting ko hana...memang TAK PERNAH tak mention pasal duit
kena laa berpijak pada realiti sket..
lagipun..highway DUKE dah bukak..itu another jalanraya yg guna tol..
kalau nak cinta cintun ajek..itu fairy tale boleh la..tak pakai duit..pakai cintunnn ajekkk.. |
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pk pk balik masa kawin lagi seronok sbb banyak dpt kebebasan
masa bujang ,nak duduk rumah sewa ngan kawan tak boleh, nak beli apa apa kena consult parents, nak gi jalan jauh jauh backpacking dgn member, NO-NO
masa kawin nak buat apa pun boleh dgn syarat ada hubby sama so rasanya lagi senang nak dpt approval |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 12-1-2009 06:19 PM 
masalahnya aji ada org kahwin tukar cara hidup 100% sebab nak please pasangan memasing...
i masih keluar tgk wayang dgn kawan2, masih shop dgn kawan...celebrate besday dgn kawan2...dgn family ...
u r lucky coz ur hubby kewl! not everyone r lucky like some of us here kan.. i ni jenis open n i boleh lepak wif my hubby frens tak kira ngan lelaki or pompaun.. pegi gig, men futsal or jz simply lepak minum n borak2 kosong... but my hubby cannot lepak wif my fwens... probably because of d diffrent mind interest.. nasib sayala kot..
rasanya its jz not fair.. i hv to left my parents, my fwens, my hometown, my hometown's foods and etc.. etc.. and nobody see and appreciate this sacrifice..
lepas kawin ni i admit la that byk kelemahan insan yg each of us dah ubah.. to be a better parent and person.. dats the best parts la |
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Originally posted by linaxman at 12-1-2009 03:59 PM 
Ada tak sesapa yg ada perasaan sama yg mcm sy rasa?
Sy dh kahwin n ada anak sorg.. mmg seronok bila dah berfamily ni.. especially bila dah dikurniakan cahaya mata... tapi kekdg rindu la zaman ...
dah tak bley ka nak lepak2m, men futsal, jejalan sana sini, mkn kedai, bla,...bla...bla....segala aktiviti tuhhh lepas kawin? ecehhh....pelik pulak cara idup ko yekkk.... |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 12-1-2009 06:39 PM
dah tak bley ka nak lepak2m, men futsal, jejalan sana sini, mkn kedai, bla,...bla...bla....segala aktiviti tuhhh lepas kawin? ecehhh....pelik pulak cara idup ko yekkk....
BingkaiUbi.. boleh terangkan apa yang pelik disini? i cuma rasa it's not that easy to jugle being a person.. a working wife and mum.. as a person for sure u need times wif ur frens and yourself kan..
maybe bukan u.. but i know i need that once in d blue moon..
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Originally posted by linaxman at 12-1-2009 06:38 PM
u r lucky coz ur hubby kewl! not everyone r lucky like some of us here kan.. i ni jenis open n i boleh lepak wif my hubby frens tak kira ngan lelaki or pompaun.. pegi gig, men futsal or jz s ...
FYI, my hubby jenis anti-social....his frens are mine, and my frens are all mine ...tak hingin pun dia kenal...so peduli apa akuk!!..bila dgn family, i lupakan kawan2...bila dgn kawan2, lupakan family dan anak...u need to energize urself, penat gak sepanjang masa bawak tag wife cum mother cum driver cum maid tu merata-rata...
sama gaklah dgn hubby, kalo ada meeting old boys sampai 2-3 pagi...i tak hingin nak ikut, menyampah dengar citer keHEROan depa2 tu masa sekolah...jadi biar sajalah dia melepak, balik rumah jadi hubby dan bapak pd anak2...sesapa pun kena ada time out |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 12-1-2009 06:52 PM
FYI, my hubby jenis anti-social....his frens are mine, and my frens are all mine ...tak hingin pun dia kenal...so peduli apa akuk!!..bila dgn family, i lupakan kawan2...bila dgn kawan2, lup ...
u r still lucky la...ur hubby tak kisah u kuar lepak ngan ur fwens.. my hubby jenis yg he wants me and my son to follow him wherever he goes and he want to follow me wherever i go... aduyai!! so klau i nak kuar dgn my fwens hang out, boleh jer.. tapi kena pakej, need to bring him alongs... dats 'hidup berkeluarga' for him...
i mmg suka sgt spend times dgn my hubby and son.. but i do need my 'own' time as an 'individual person', once a year pon jadila... huhu
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Balas #50 linaxman\ catat
ermmm...paham, sian kat u
dia tak gi o/station ke? ...my hubby kat beijing sampai weekend, esok dah start nak ukur jalan... |
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Balas #51 my-alja\ catat
dulu dia rajin g outstation.. bila dah ada anak, dia tukar kerja.. so dat dia kurang outstation..
even though dia outstation pon i takde chance nak keluar hang out wif fwens cause sapa nak jaga my little boy.. i takde maid..(takut nak tinggal kat maid jgk klau ada pon) n i tak boleh nak tinggal anak i kat in-law.. apa pulak diaorg kata kang.. tinggal anak g jumpa kawan.. dahla my in-laws org kampung.. mana nak faham, lifestyle camni... n kawan2 i pulak bukan di sini.. i dah merantau ke sini.. n some of my frens dah merantau g oversea.. sedihnyer...
oklah.. i gtg.. nk balik umah jumpa my hubby and my son.. i will get back ere tomorrow.. |
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me tidak..
zaman bujang me memboringkan...
duk rumah save duit utk pi travel..
kekawan kahwin awal jadi dorang busy utk me..
travel sesorang...
dah kahwin, semua opposite...
love my kelamin life lagi dr bujang... |
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Originally posted by linaxman at 12-1-2009 06:44 PM
BingkaiUbi.. boleh terangkan apa yang pelik disini? i cuma rasa it's not that easy to jugle being a person.. a working wife and mum.. as a person for sure u need times wif ur frens and yours ...
sowi la......aku tak baca citer ko dr mula......aku baca 1st post jekk...awatnya kak?? dah kawin ada anak takde masa dah ka nak bersosiol bagai???? busy jaga anak ka? siannnnnn ko...anak umo berapa? nak jejln ngan kekawan bwk jek la anak tuhhh......takde salahnya pung.....susah antar ka nursery jappp...apa masalahnya? somi tak bg ka? tak bley jejln suka ria tanpa dia ka???? lorrrrr, ketinggalan zaman la somi ko tuhhhh.......siannnn ko...ni lelama ni dok bosan2 tak dpt jejln jumpa2 kawan lepak2 minum kopi, dok ngadap tenet jekk ada la potensi nak curang ni......
ko bg tau somi, antara caya ko ngan tak, antara sayang ko ngan tak endah.......ada ka dia sanggup layan ko cam banduan????? tu ini tak bley ??? siannnn ko...apa dayaku, ko bini org..tak dpt akuk nak bantu.....sabo jekk lerrr....
yg pasti aku tak penah windu zaman bujang....sbb zaman duda sama jek ngan zaman bujang....sikit beza, duda ada anak...takpa, bibiks bley tolong jaga....... |
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Originally posted by faraway1 at 12-1-2009 07:27 PM
me tidak..
zaman bujang me memboringkan...
duk rumah save duit utk pi travel..
kekawan kahwin awal jadi dorang busy utk me..
travel sesorang...
dah kahwin, semua opposite...
love my kela ...
kannnn.......dah kawin beshhh...ada teddy bear nak peluk mlm sejuk2 tuhhh..........
ko lain la para, laki ko omputih..........besh la..... |
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Balas #55 BingkaUbi\ catat
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apalaaaa....laki aku hitam pun, beshhh gak |
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Post time 12-1-2009 06:24 PM
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