How do you manage your time...as a housewife..

makcikmengamok · Post time 8-4-2009 03:51 PM

Originally posted by basikalgirl at 8-4-2009 15:37
habih tu ko nak penghargaan ape dari kakak ko?

dier maki hamun aku...and carut..
all i can say is...aku sedih..and i shed a tear..sikit..
plus my family...tak support aku...

aku cakap kat mak aku...
aku tak nak jaga anak dier nanti bila dier ada second child july ni..
sebab dier hanya tau mengangkang sedap jerk..
tak hargai apa yg aku pernah buat..akhir sekali dier akan carut2 maki aku..
org kat sini akan cakap aku pemalas..tak buat apa2...padahal...aku yg bagi baby tu mandi...feed him...angkat baby tu..masa dier nangis and segala..

kakak aku expecting her second child this july..and semua org expect aku jaga..

klu aku jaga pun...aku minta upah Rm500

no more free charge..

ok tak Rm500..or mesti lebey lagi..

mclaren · Post time 8-4-2009 03:52 PM

makcik, sebelum you are READY for it, memang you feel the weight of the baby is LEAD heavy.

me dulu masa teenager selalu tengok women yang dah ada anak kan, some of them bersila, letak baby atas riba, then henjut2 sebelah peha tau konon buaikan baby atas riba lah.
me tried many times (guna anak2 saudara yang babies), tak terhenjut kaki ku.. nak longlai.
lepas tu dukung baby pun kejap je, dah nak putus urat tangan.

TAPI once you are ready for it, your ARE a mom, all those macam comes naturally. u can hold your baby berjam2 baru nak rasa lenguh. this fact memang i took note masa mula2 dapat baby sebab i was comparing with my experience masa teen dulu.

so you don't worry about it. now memang caring for a baby raised the helluva havoc in your life, nanti, your own bundle of joy comes, it will be smooth, trust me. ada la sikit hiccups here & there, but it's not as bad as you think it will be. tak my word for it.

mclaren · Post time 8-4-2009 03:56 PM

laaa kesian nya..

sebab tu ke dulu you kind of let it out here when replying to some threads yang agak membengangkan with your old nick?

tak patut la dia balas macam tu, dah la orang tolong jaga tak kenakan bayaran lagi.. cuba hantar nursery or babysitter, dah how much tu.

dealova04 · Post time 8-4-2009 03:58 PM

Originally posted by kokong at 8-4-2009 15:21

betul betul betul....
kalau sehari kita sakit,rumah macam tongkang pecah
lebih2 lagi yg kat sinki

laaa..siannyer ...
x kan hb leh tgk jerk pinggan mangkuk berlonggok???

hb dh terbiasa lps mkn terus ke sinki & basuh pinggan sdr...
melainkan kalau dr table aku yg angkat pinggan tu...aku lah yg basuh...

skrg anak kecik2...so..kena tolak ansur..
selalu lps mkn..aku atau hb akan settle kan anak..bersihkan coz diorg mkn comot..
& sorang lg akan kemas table sampai ke basuh pinggan...

dealova04 · Post time 8-4-2009 03:59 PM

Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 8-4-2009 15:51

dier maki hamun aku...and carut..
all i can say is...aku sedih..and i shed a tear..sikit..
plus my family...tak support aku...

aku cakap kat mak aku...
aku tak nak jaga anak dier nanti ...

huhh..kalau mcm ni..better u keje la dr jd babby sitter kakak u...

makcikmengamok · Post time 8-4-2009 05:39 PM

Originally posted by ev700 at 8-4-2009 12:48

kesian ko... ko mengamok ke dgn anak buah ko tu?... itu psl ko bagi nick ko makcikmengamok yek..?

Dont worry makcik, one day bila ko ada baby sendiri baru ko rasa nikmatnya hidup jadi perem ...

takder la ngamok kat anak buah aku...
i loveeeeeeeeeeee my nephew....
aku sukaaaaaaaaaaaaa ngan baby...suka ngan toddler...

ala nick..ni...hehe...aku create...as a joke mula2..
inspire...ngan kelakuan makcik2 kat FD..hehe

makcikmengamok · Post time 8-4-2009 05:45 PM

Originally posted by mclaren at 8-4-2009 15:52
makcik, sebelum you are READY for it, memang you feel the weight of the baby is LEAD heavy.

me dulu masa teenager selalu tengok women yang dah ada anak kan, some of them bersila, letak baby a ...

so your body after birth...nifas and segala tu..
doesn't it makes you weak and tired...bila angkat baby ka apa..

[ Last edited by makcikmengamok at 8-4-2009 18:03 ]

mclaren · Post time 8-4-2009 05:53 PM

betul2 after birth tu, most babies pun tak berat mana (some je yang berat sikit like 4kg above). lagipun most of the time they sleep, plus kita pun immediately lepas deliver, tak perlu nak berdiri or berjalan banyak sambil dukung baby.

unless dapat baby macam mine lah, yang melalak aje masa me dalam pantang, tak nak tidur. kena lah jugak kejap2 pegang, dodoikan, bawak ke luar bilik, etc. tapi, tak lah sampai lenguh tangan, because as a mom, the ultimate thing you want at the time is for your precious child to be at peace, happy, contented.
so tak sempat nak ingat rasa penat lenguh etc.
tuhan takkan menguji hambanya kalau hamba tu tak ready, so kita dah jadi ibu tu, maknanya kita ready to handle motherhood.

makcikmengamok · Post time 8-4-2009 06:02 PM

Originally posted by mclaren at 8-4-2009 15:56
laaa kesian nya..

sebab tu ke dulu you kind of let it out here when replying to some threads yang agak membengangkan with your old nick?

tak patut la dia balas macam tu, ...

at that time tu memang la sedey2 la...
ko marah2...geram2...mengamok..

but...as years past by...
you get over it...
and then...see it as something positive..
anggap jerk sebagai ujian tuhan..

and then dari pengalaman tu...
it makes you even more stronger..and then wiser...

tuh lah...second child nanti tu..
ada twist sikit...
no more miss nice gal...no more free of charge..no more pity..

aku minta bayaran...

padan muka..
rasakan...

obelisk · Post time 8-4-2009 06:07 PM

ktk gaok kah?

makcikmengamok · Post time 8-4-2009 08:05 PM

mek bait....mek adalah org yg paling baiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttt sekali di dunia tok

hati mek suci and bersih...
sampei bila mek berak... taik mek kaler puteh and suci...daripada org2 lain

faraway1 · Post time 8-4-2009 09:16 PM

Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 8-4-2009 02:23

well..becos...of pity..
aku tak minta..

tapi mak aku salu...marah2 soh kakak aku bayar aku..

me ada jiran yg ada 3 anak kecik..
5 , 3 dan 5 bulan..
yg no dua tu kami dah start babysit sejak dia 6 bulan..
jadi rapat sangat sehingga dorang tak
malu malu nak buat kami berjanji bawak ke sana ke situ..
lain cam msia, bila kita janji nak babysit. parent tak kasi duit tau..
jadi dr pegi makan, cinema, toys ke apa.. guna duit sendiri..
tapi berbaloi sgt sbb love sangat bebudak ni..

Hanafie · Post time 8-4-2009 10:55 PM

Originally posted by makcikmengamok at 8-4-2009 20:05
mek bait....mek adalah org yg paling baiiiiiiiiiiiiiittttttt sekali di dunia tok
hati mek suci and bersih...
sampei bila mek berak... taik mek kaler puteh and suci...daripada org2 lain

dasat eh ..nang ada kaler ya indah..

mclaren · Post time 8-4-2009 11:04 PM

ni fara babysit setiap hari while the parents are at work ke (8-5)?

or just ad hoc requests? like, the mom is a homemaker, tapi sometimes they have to go out, so out of courtesy you babysit the kids?

faraway1 · Post time 8-4-2009 11:16 PM

Originally posted by mclaren at 8-4-2009 10:04
ni fara babysit setiap hari while the parents are at work ke (8-5)?

or just ad hoc requests? like, the mom is a homemaker, tapi sometimes they have to go out, so out of courtesy you babysit t ...

mom housewife dan dad work from home.
tak tetiap hari bila dorang ada hal tak boleh bawak anak.. kami tolong jagakan..
atau sometimes kami sendiri offer bawak jalan anak anak dia
supaya dorang laki bini ada masa bersama..

kuntakpindek · Post time 8-4-2009 11:20 PM

aku plak entahla..
keje..keje ..keje
basuh kain 2 kali seminggu..sekali sidai..dah mcm kilang dobi dah umah aku
masak pun ujung minggu je
sib baik asben memahami
anak br sorg tp memg penat la
dah la tgh further study..memg x cukup masa
kekdg stress jgk la

seri_air · Post time 9-4-2009 06:17 AM

Alah bisa tegal biasa.

Memula kawen memang rasa tak terbuat, tu sebab ramai yang surrender amik maid kot.

Tapi dah berbelas taun ni, rasa kalau tak buat apa2, melopong je kat rumah, macam orang sakit plak.

Sebenarnya jadi mak & jaga rumahtangga ni cabaran.
Manusia ni kalau tak suka cabaran baik kasi akal kat monyet.
Entahlah...sebenarnya kalau kita kreatif sikit, semua boleh jadi mudah.
Tapi penat tetap penatlah...but the rewards are boundless!
Tengok anak2 sihat & terurus pon dah rasa hilang penat tau.

Aku pon penah study part time. Masa nak exam & buat thesis memang rumah tak tentu arah, makan pon selalu beli aje. Normal la...jangan pikir sangat, sebab kita bukan superwoman. Asal anak tak terabai sudah.