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Originally posted by LostSoul at 15-8-2008 09:21 AM 
betulkan? apa2pun disalahkan perempuan..we women take the blame for everything.. and we do feel remorse.. contohnye, cite hzln tu, the lady called and she was remorseful. rasanye kalau laki dia c ...
ehhh lelaki curang pun bulih nangihhh apa...nangih sbb tatau nak pilih mana satu, ayang kat sini sayang, anja yg kat sana pun sayang jugak....dasar tamak....dua2 dia nak...walopon kudrat nak menanggung dua2nya tahap D atau pun F terus... |
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Originally posted by LostSoul at 14-8-2008 10:17 PM 
well, still, women always be blamed for mende2 nih.. kalau isteri curang, of coz, isteri akan dipersalahkan, even kalau lelaki curang, perempuan no.3 itu akan dipersalahkan.. we're living in men' ...
as i said bfor, it takes 2 to tango. we're genderly biased. but still pokok pangkal kat hati. sorang laki bole try berjuta kali utk menggoda tapi seorang pompuan bole decide apa yg dia nak buat dgn godaan tu. hanya kerana mahukan keseronokan dunia? hanya kerana mahu dibuai mimpi indah yg sementara? hanya kerana mahu belaian mesra yg palsu? hanya kerana mahu membalas dendam pd si dia?
caranya utk menangani sesuatu masalah itu pasti ada. samada susah atau payah. samada perit mahupun pahit. yg penting hati. mcm kes mak cik saya yg di fitnah dan dibuang suami, alhamdullilah dgn sokongan keluarga, walaupun penat turun naik pejabat agama, kaunseling dan akhirnya ke mahkamah (pembicaraan pun ambil masa berbulan), tapi akhirnya dia dpt kehidupan dia kembali, dan dia lebih bahagia dlm hidupnya. dan semoga dia berjumpa lelaki yg lebih baik selepas ini.
that's why pada saya alasan diabaikan, suami curang dan sebagainya itu adalah hanya 'alasan' bg membenarkan kecurangan. dah tau benda tu salah tapi duk nak buat juga. tu yg salah tu. ada jalan tak nak pakai. ada cara tak nak guna. duk ikut hati dan perasaan yg binasa diri sendiri juga akhirnya. bukankah skrg pompuan duk minta di sama tarafkan dgn lelaki. klu begitu ikutlah logik kepala dan jgn turutkan kata emosi.
just my 2 yen |
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Reply #625 hzln's post
oo itu airmata kesukaan.. well, still we're living in a man's world.. |
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apesal post aku tak kuar ek..penat2 aku reply..hehe |
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apesal post aku tak kuar ek..penat2 aku reply..hehe |
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Balas #633 kroeGand\ catat
that's why i said, we're living in a man's world.. same wrongdoing, but women got extra blame.. apa nak buat, dah cultural set camtu..
there are many reasons, reasons won't justify the act coz i agree with u, the act is still wrong no matter which way you turn it to. only that, many couples/spouses fail to see beyond the act despite having so much disscussions. so, the prob not solved, rather it intensifies.
so, to my exp, it takes 2 to tango too.. between you n hubby to resolve whatever issues you have.. and only if the hubby can put his ego down, and listen instead of judge.  |
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Originally posted by vitamin_c at 18-8-2008 08:41 AM 
Ha ha..aku ingat nak tobat dah..tapi godaan kuat la...
Tolongla..aku dah penat terperangkap dalam cinta 4 segi ni...
Aku tau takde untungnya...tapi tetap nak teruskan jugak..
Semoga ...
TUHAN MAHA MENDENGAR......jangan sampai tahap mencabar serta memperlekehkan DIA.
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Originally posted by manakautau at 18-8-2008 04:23 PM
TUHAN MAHA MENDENGAR......jangan sampai tahap mencabar serta memperlekehkan DIA.
Ko doakanla agar aku kembali ke pangkal jalan... |
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Kesimpulannya..dari pengalaman aku curang tak untung seposen pun..buat penat je nak cover kecurangan.. |
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Post time 17-8-2008 03:25 PM
