Speak a good word or remain silent ...

anikarma · Post time 19-5-2017 10:16 AM

When u got nothing nice to say just stay quiet...

nolly_2311 · Post time 19-5-2017 10:33 AM

depends on situation.
some needs you to remain silent and some other times yg u have to speak.
tak semua orang faham ape yang kite rase..tau ape yang kite fikir.
so the best way is to talk..to avoid any misunderstanding and drag things jadi lagi worse.
after cakap and keadaan still same thennnnn lantak kau..

Qnqn · Post time 19-5-2017 02:25 PM

I chose to speak a good word, dare to explain and bear to listen. So there'll be kind of give and take. Wont remain silent cause giving such silent treatment might as well killing me slowly (my opinion)

faztee · Post time 19-5-2017 02:32 PM

silence is golden..knw whn to be

IxoraP · Post time 19-5-2017 03:44 PM

Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
- Martin Luther King

Ciksayang · Post time 5-7-2017 08:16 PM

Silent is the best treatment to those who are unwanted.

nut.legacy · Post time 6-7-2017 11:38 AM

i have not regretted my silence once as for my speech i have regretted it over and over again

seribulan · Post time 6-7-2017 01:52 PM

choahra · Post time 23-8-2017 03:00 PM

“Speak a good word or remain silent"
because once they are said, they can only forgiven not forgotten
remember that

Ayyn · Post time 5-9-2017 10:44 AM

Edited by Ayyn at 5-9-2017 10:45 AM

"A meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words"

anikarma · Post time 5-9-2017 01:34 PM

Loginlogoff replied at 3-2-2017 01:08 PM
Remain silence jika i merajuk. Tak mintak dipujuk cukup 3 hari i kembali normal

Eh samalah kita....silent treatment gitu...tapi selalu kena marah Ngan tok laki...sebab dier kata dier tak tahu kita sakit ke ok ke or anything sebab diam jeeee....dier kata dier lebih rela kena marah dari kena silent treatment..

nazzse · Post time 5-9-2017 04:02 PM

I pilih silence if orang tu orang yang i sayang. for me, hati ni sakit takpa as long as hati pihak sana tak terluka. Yup, this is not a good decision, but I know I tak reti nak keluarkan perkataan yg betul or any exact words yg sesuai dengan situasi tu, so better kalau I diam je.

But untuk diri sendiri, I always looking for words untuk tenangkan hati. Hati sendiri kita tahu mcm mana nak ubat, but hati orang..hurmmm..tak kira berapa banyak maaf diucap, seikhlas mana pun kita , relationship kita dan dia lepas tu takkan sama lagi, akan ada barrier.

addina · Post time 6-9-2017 01:38 PM

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addina · Post time 6-9-2017 01:39 PM

marla69 · Post time 6-9-2017 02:30 PM

Silence is the best medicine

MsIda · Post time 6-9-2017 09:32 PM

" A slip by the FEET  will break BONES... BUT a slip by  the TONGUE  will break  HOMES "....
  so be careful with your words... its advisable to remain silent then saying something that would hurt
  others...and u might end regretting a bit too late :-

It brings the same meaning as the phrase below :-

Grab a plate and throw it on the ground.
-Ok, Done.
Did it break?
-Yes.
Now say sorry to it.
-Sorry.
Did it go back to the way it was before?
-No
Do you understand?

adaris · Post time 7-9-2017 09:31 AM

Sometimes it is best to stay quiet, indeed. But professionally speaking, if you have not done anything wrong, speak up!

separasedar · Post time 7-9-2017 10:14 AM

Edited by separasedar at 7-9-2017 10:20 AM

Sorry. I cannot choose silent because i need to tell where i stand for.
But if after i tell wheres i stand for and peoples still have the bad opinion and bad assumption to me, then only i choose to remain silent.
At least i have voice out whatever on my thoughts and the rest is up to them.

Is it okay to be like this? Or not?