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ada sikit artikel.. bole baca..
Antara kebaikan berpantang :
Dari segi kesihatan - doktor menggalakkan agar hubungan sex tidak dilakukan dalam tempoh 6 minggu selepas bersalin. Ini kerana si ibu ...
leotazz818 Post at 9-3-2010 08:36 
well 6 weeks X 7 = 42 days ini tissue luka dalam rahim ker aper aper untuk sembuh , kalau diabetic mothers kena jaga jaga
berpantang ni subjective yg tak nak ada intimate relationship tu fine. tapi pantang makan itu ini semua well...i dunno to me mmg tak masuk akal. |
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aku teringat citer bini dr.ellie 'hartawan' lebanon tu kan, yg cadang nak buat pusat kanser farina-ellie MAKNA tu. kata dia laki dia liwat dia masa dalam pantang.
adehhhh |
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Actually, wife aku ada rasa teringin gak, tapi dia takut. Aku buat posisi bagi dia yang main peranan, maknanya dia kat atas, tapi baru cecah je, dah dia takut. Dia macam fobia sangat-sangat. masa ...
hadi1978 Post at 9-3-2010 07:54
u have to communicate ler kot rasanya...well ini budi bicara sendiri
ya allah ..just empower her to
a) say stop when you think it is hurt
b) how do you want to go about it
c) let her decide
d) postive attitude helps |
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Actually, wife aku ada rasa teringin gak, tapi dia takut. Aku buat posisi bagi dia yang main peranan, maknanya dia kat atas, tapi baru cecah je, dah dia takut. Dia macam fobia sangat-sangat. masa ...
hadi1978 Post at 9-3-2010 07:54 
Macam black kata, bawak gi jumpa gynae buat post natal checkup... kalau semua ok, then maybe bila dgr dr mulut doktor baru hilang rasa takut tu... mintak advise gynae gak, jgn malu2... sampai bila mau tunggu, kan?  |
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actually i learnt quite a few things when reading this thread
hmmm tak senua ladies will verbally say that they want to have intimate relationship kan?
i see....hmm...so it is more on body language yer ...ni culturally determined or i dunno depends on individual yer.. sebba i guess those things ni knea take note jugak ek? sebab bukan depa bagi tau the way and how , when they want it verbally ...hmm...i now i know |
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actually i learnt quite a few things when reading this thread
hmmm tak senua ladies will verbally say that they want to have intimate relationship kan?
i see....hmm...so it is more on body language ...
mbhcsf Post at 9-3-2010 13:55 
mbhcsf...yup, no all women will verbally say they want sexs...me too...rsnya bkn jenis yg ckp...mummy wuka bg hint2 jer...tp yg xbest nya, sumtimes my hubby x faham...mummy tak sure hint mummy tu x cukup bgs or mmg hubby ada mslh nk faham...tp kdg2, bila mummy bg hint, n hubby faham, pastu dia direct je tnya, u nak ker? adoiiiiil.....malu aku nk ngaku...camana ek? |
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mbhcsf...yup, no all women will verbally say they want sexs...me too...rsnya bkn jenis yg ckp...mummy wuka bg hint2 jer...tp yg xbest nya, sumtimes my hubby x faham...mummy tak sure hint mummy tu ...
mummywiffy Post at 9-3-2010 14:05
camaner you asking me? well just simply say yes? logic kan? he is your husband and you are a lady of his life so? napa malu malu? hehheheheeh well it is the way the Adams interpreted the signals they are poor with nuances of language ni well nak buat cam ner sebab tu bhs dengan depa ni kena jelas and non accusative or directive sangat laaaa...[ cewah pandai jer I ..kahwin pun belum ] hahahahah |
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So, kaka-kaka kat sini, hadi nak tanya, selepas 60 hari, masih rasa sakit nyilu lagi ke? Atau perasaan trauma/ takut je? Kali pertama 'bersama' selepas pantang tu, memang rasa sakit ke?
Macam Hadi ni ...
hadi1978 Post at 9-3-2010 08:01 
lps 60 hari luka semer tu dah baik tapi like first time...ader la ngilu, pedih sket........mcm first night ler gak.....kene slow2.....cuit-cuit sket.....kalo dia bf baby mungkin kene ada bantuan lain sbb susah sket nak "basah"....memang dia rasa takut tapi kalu dia nak stop, stop jer la dulu sok terai lagik...step by step...banyakkan bersabar....... |
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masa anak pertama mmg ada rasa ngilu2 and phobia..tp bila dah lama tu ilang la...kena la ada first time kalau nak yg seterusnya kan..hehe |
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mbhcsf...yup, no all women will verbally say they want sexs...me too...rsnya bkn jenis yg ckp...mummy wuka bg hint2 jer...tp yg xbest nya, sumtimes my hubby x faham...mummy tak sure hint mummy tu x cukup bgs or mmg hubby ada mslh nk faham...tp kdg2, bila mummy bg hint, n hubby faham, pastu dia direct je tnya, u nak ker? adoiiiiil.....malu aku nk ngaku...camana ek?
mummywiffy Post at 9-3-2010 14:05
Bini aku direct skit la, tapi kalau kat living room dia cuma ajak aku tido atau naik atas dgn dia... paham2 je la tu 
Kalau dah dlm bilik tu, the hands will do the talking... baik aku, baik dia... selalu respon mesti ok, kalu tanya pun bukan la nak ker, tapi larat ker? |
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agak2 takut nak make love, blow job ajo laki tu..org laki ni mana bole tahan lama2..saket pale kalau air tak kuar..
mcm aku ni..laki aku dah pesan, kot saket2 nt pas pantang, die mtk blow job smpi pancut pun jadi la.. fobia gak nak main pas pantang nt..rabak balik ke kan.. |
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BJ..maybe dirty to some ppl
tp pendapat aku..rasanya better buat drpd suami meleleh2 air liur tgk pompuan lain dan air penuh kt kepala...
(wife boleh perasan kalau suami tu tak tentu arah semacam je)
nape nk mengharamkan benda yg tak haram? (lainla kalau main blkg yg mmg sah2 HARAM..) betul tak en. kuda?
wife en hadi dh habis pantang 100 hari ke?
en. hadi, aku kene 2X vacuum+epi repair+ czer..(sakit xleh nk ckp)
honestly...ku pantang x sampai 100 hari pun..tp lepas 44 days la.
hb ku mmg tido x pernah renggang...even dlm pantang.
hal dlm bilik tido..asal tak haram dan menjejaskan kesihatan tu...boleh adjust lg..
yg penting...kerjasama.. |
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BJ..maybe dirty to some ppl
tp pendapat aku..rasanya better buat drpd suami meleleh2 air liur tgk pompuan lain dan air penuh kt kepala...
(wife boleh perasan kalau suami tu tak tentu arah semacam je)
nape nk mengharamkan benda yg tak haram? (lainla kalau main blkg yg mmg sah2 HARAM..) betul tak en. kuda?
bezita60 Post at 10-3-2010 11:01 
en. merz tak kata haram .. dia cuma kata tak digalakkan sbb tk ikut adab .. pandangan yg betul kita kena la hormati .. dah dia laki bini selesa mcm tuh, bagus la .. good for them ..
bagi kita2 yg pernah merasa nih, mmg tak lengkap la kalo tk oral .. aku penah dengar ada yg sampai bercerai sbb salah sorang refuse to do oral sex .. haru betoi .. |
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aku rasa.. ko kene slowtalk dgn wife ko... suarakan kerisauan ko... ada sesetengah pompuan.. lepas bersalin.. nafsu dia mmg down abis. aku pernah alami semua tu. mmg risau... cubala suruh wife amalkan apa2 supplement yg baik utk wanita ni. n mintak dia doa sungguh2... moga Allah permudahkan segala urusan. insyaallah semuanye ok. kadang bkn sbb masalah suami tak main peranan awal dgn baik.. tp mmg wanita tu, hormon dia dah berubah.. mmg takde nafsu langsung... sebulan tak dpt pon no hal. so doala bnyk2... n usahala... chaiyok2.. |
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75# kudajantan77
kalau ikut adab...melihat kemaluan masing2 pun xleh..
lg2 org yg tgh menuntut ilmu...
emmm..apa2 lah...
janji bahagia.. |
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kalau ikut adab...melihat kemaluan masing2 pun xleh..
lg2 org yg tgh menuntut ilmu...
emmm..apa2 lah...
janji bahagia..
bezita60 Post at 10-3-2010 13:51
betul... tak dinafikan... nobody's perfect, asalkan yg haram tu x buat pun elok dah... |
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pnhla cuba nak ngikut segala adab nih... sudahnye x enjoy langsung....... so mulai dr hr tuh..... buat jer mcm mana pun asal sesedap rasa,.... berdosa tak cemtuh? huhu.. |
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3# matabelalang
kalo kena tunggu 100 hari mmg meleleh air lior .. no way babe .. mesti aku terus bungkus kain baju suruh hantar balik ke rumah mak bapak aku ..
kudajantan77 Post at 8-3-2010 10:11
memang dasar kuda,,, tahunya nak menutuh aje..hampesssss!!!! |
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Post time 9-3-2010 10:02 AM
