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ha ha.. ada rumah baru ka??
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card_reader posted on 9-3-2013 11:07 PM 
moga akak leh jadi pembantu pada doc chenta tu..............
well said reader...akk & doc love tu sgt tak sherashi so takkan bleh jd pembantunya.
Betul tak @sue_0684 
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zehra2 posted on 9-3-2013 11:03 PM
ha ha.. ada rumah baru ka??
rumah lama dah penuh so iols bukak rumah baru...
lebih positive & sama2 berkongsi ilmu utk memantapkan diri.
lebih terbuka & search what can work to succeed..........
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Innrukia posted on 9-3-2013 11:13 PM
rumah lama dah penuh so iols bukak rumah baru...
lebih positive & sama2 berkongsi ilmu utk memant ...
rumah dah semakin bertambah.. umur pun makin tambah jugak.. he he...
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annehuda posted on 9-3-2013 08:20 PM
ehem... saje nk tumpang lalu...hehehe
thn dpn aku dah 30thn. maafla ye aku ckp ni. aku sbnrnye da ...
ler.. baru nak masuk 30.. kita ni dah 33 bulan dua hari tu...
jgn la putus asa dgn jodoh..
tp, kita pun kena paham.. payah nak explain kat kwn lelaki.. kenapa kita abiskan RM600 hanya utk makanan kucing..
klu kita dah kawen, tentu laki kita ckp, RM600 tu boleh byr duit keta/sewa rumah kan..
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Innrukia posted on 9-3-2013 11:09 PM
well said reader...akk & doc love tu sgt tak sherashi so takkan bleh jd pembantunya.
Betul tak @s ...
kalo x serasi nampaknya leh jadi rival yg sehat la nie............
sesekali ada point of view yg berbeda antara 2 jantina nampak lebih menarik dari pandangan sebelah pihak je...........
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ekceli akak... sbnrnye bukan pasal malu sgt.. tp pengalaman sy direject 2 kali membuatkn sy trauma (cuba amik dr sudut yg positif)... kalau kene reject lg kali ke3 kali ke4 dan seterusnye mau tekanan perasaan terus sy ni... n utk kembali kpd keluarga mayb agak susah sbb saya ni sbnrnye anak yatim... so please understand kalau sy nak guard hati sy it is because if i get heart broken again I don't have a family to run back to...karang silap2 sy jadi lesbian plak susah sgt lelaki nk terima aku ni cukup2 la kot sy merendahkan harga diri saya dgn mengoffer salam perkenalan tu.(ego huda begitu tinggi...belajar 'rukuk' skit sbb dlm relationship kena ada tolak ansur, mungkin pengalaman kena reject tu utk huda belajar tntang ni)
dan sy takut when the right time come it will be too late for me to start a married life (takut? better late than never, lain la kalau Allah tetapkan jodohnya disyurga, tp soalan akk, confirmkah kita masuk syurga?? mcm mana kalo duk neraka).. dah tua-tua baru nak kawen (tua tak takde hak utk kawen & bahagia kah?)...nk jemput kawan2 gi kenduri pun segan (perlukah fikirkan tentang org luar? they all yg nk kawen or u?) ape lg nk bergaya dpn kamera pakai gaun kembang ala ala cinderella.. alahai malunye (patut ada malu, tp kalau malu smpai terlepas apa yg kita nak, berbaloi kah?)... i mean seriously sy risau if kalau ditakdirkan la tetiba muncul la someone yg betul2 nak kt saya..adakah masa tu sy akan bersedia utk melepaskan zaman bujang berjimba-jimba sy (make up ur mind dear? what you want???)? adakah masa tu sy akan terima die sbb die sorg je yg nak kt saya padahal kitorg ni takde chemistry pun? sy pun teringin nk mencintai lelaki yg mencintai sy (tringin tp taknak try usaha..so camna? dia akan turun dr langit kah?)...yelah dah kertu kan watpe nk pilih memilih lg (sendiri menkertu kan diri..ermmm taktau la akk nk komen)...
sy pilih parents sy sbg model ideal relationship sy sbb diorg tu baik buruk masing2 terima gak (bkn senang tp parents huda cuba yg terbaik).. tak puas hati ckp.. kalau rs salah sorg tu silap ha be honest terus. mlm ni settle siap2 problem tomorrow get over it. sy taknak jadi macam sesetgh isteri yg bile terasa hati ngan pasangan taknak berterus terang sbb takut pasangan berkecik hati then carik lain.
sy takdela memilih sgt tp... i just don't want to try again (taknak try so of cos takkan dpt...). just don't give up on me, that's all that i want from my prince (huda letak harapan kat org, tp diri sendiri camna? dah la taknak try...). kalau prince sy tu ade spm je pun sy tak kisah.
byk sungguh negative word dlm ayat2 huda. akk takbleh nk bantu huda. Tgk sndiri ayat2 yg akk highlight tu. Bykkan istighfar & cuba perbanyakkan kwn dgn org2 yg positif, bykkan membaca buku2/blog yg dpt motivasikan diri. Akk doakan yg terbaik utk huda.
Last edited by Innrukia on 10-3-2013 06:45 AM
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sambungan dari sebelum ni;
II. The Magical Thinking Stage
The feel -good hormones & endorphins begin to subside. Rather than seeing the reality of our similarities & differences, we try to gloss over them with magical thinking, rationalizing, & making excuses for ourselves & our dates. This is the thinking of a child – the wishful but unrealistic idea that somehow things will magically work out.
This is also the stage when many affairs occur. To succeed in relationship, you need to leave the wishing & hoping of magical thinking behind once & for all. If you want to develop love, climb into driver’s seat instead of being a passenger in your own relationship & hoping the car ends up where you want to go. People don’t want to do this because they’re scared. On the surface it appears safer & easier to be defensive & reactive than it does to be proactive. This is when you have to go ‘counterintuitive’ & do courageous things instead of the comfortable thing.
SMART HEART SKILL
Problem-solve & fight fair, problems that are ignored get bigger & cause temporary or permanent disconnection
Don’t wish or wait for your partner to change. When you change, he will change.
Don’t look for love in all wrong places, like so many people do. Having an affair, working late at the office, or avoiding your date/partner by other means will not solve the problems.
Learn to give to your partner because you want to make him happy, not because you expect something in return.
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cadangan saya, apa kata annehuda n akak rukia jumpa, dua2 dok penang dua2 dok seberang...........
senang nak berluah rasa n nasehat menasehati............ |
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card_reader posted on 10-3-2013 09:18 AM
cadangan saya, apa kata annehuda n akak rukia jumpa, dua2 dok penang dua2 dok seberang...........
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lor ya kah @annehuda duk penang???
boleh2 set date huhuuuu.... |
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Innrukia posted on 10-3-2013 10:00 AM
lor ya kah @annehuda duk penang???
boleh2 set date huhuuuu....
x silap dia dok area kepala batas gak.......
cer tanya dia..........
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card_reader posted on 10-3-2013 10:03 AM
x silap dia dok area kepala batas gak.......
cer tanya dia..........
takdela kepala batas pun... area sg 2 jah...
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annehuda posted on 10-3-2013 10:13 AM
takdela kepala batas pun... area sg 2 jah...
dekat2 la tu.......... |
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Innrukia posted on 8-3-2013 09:15 PM
skrg iols balik pada Pencipta map. Mintak Pencipta map bagi pencerahan pada iols & dia
Doa ...
kdg2 dia perlu dicari ...kdg2 dia dah ade di dpn mata ... cuma x sedar je ... either u x sedar ... or korang berdua tgh mutual coma  |
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Category: Cinta & Perhubungan
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Post time 9-3-2013 11:03 PM
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Post time 9-3-2013 11:07 PM
cth cik ta and zain tu...
