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korang baca ni tak? masuk paper hari ni...
pakai botol kicap woooo ;);)........ ni macam pun ada eh.
LELAKI YANG CEDERAKAN ISTERI DIJEL EMPAT MINGGU
Oleh
Khalid Khamis
SEORANG suami dipenjara empat minggu kerana menghentak kepala isterinya dengan botol kicap dan menendangnya berkali-kali di perut dan dada.
Perbuatan Zanial Arrifin Aziz, 21 tahun, itu sekali gus melanggar Perintah Perlindungan Peribadi (PPO) yang dikeluarkan Mahkamah Rendah ke atasnya ekoran daripada aduan ibu mentuanya, Cik Tijah Yaim, Jun lalu.
Di bawah PPO, Zanial dilarang menggunakan kekerasan terhadap isterinya, Cik Norhayati Ahmad, 21 tahun.
Mahkamah Rendah diberitahu semalam bahawa Cik Tijah, 43 tahun, membuat laporan polis pada 8 Januari lalu selepas Zanial mendera isterinya pada petang hari tersebut.
Dalam kejadian di flat sewa mereka di Kim Tian Place itu, Zanial, yang menganggur, menyuruh Cik Norhayati supaya mencarikannya kerja melalui telefon.
Usaha beliau itu tidak berhasil.
Selepas diberitahu, Zanial naik berang dan terus bersemuka dengan isterinya yang sedang membasuh pinggan dan menuduh beliau berlaku biadab terhadapnya.
Dia terus mencapai botol kicap dan menghentaknya pada kepala isterinya serta menendang perut dan dadanya sehingga Cik Norhayati tercampak ke dinding.
Zanial kemudian mengambil pula batang kayu dan memukul tangan Cik Norhayati.
Hakim Daerah, Encik Wong Keen Onn, menolak rayuan Zanial untuk didenda walaupun dia berjanji tidak mengulangi kesalahannya.
Zanial pernah dikenakan probesen dalam 1997 kerana berkumpul secara haram dan dimasukkan ke sebuah rumah bagi kanak-kanak nakal dalam 1998 kerana melanggar probesen.
Ketika ditemui, Cik Norhayati berkata: 'Saya dah tak boleh tahan kerana sebelum ini dia hanya pukul saya dengan tangan, tetapi pada hari itu dia gunakan barang bahaya.'
Cik Norhayati, yang sudah berkahwin hampir setahun, sedang menimbangkan kemungkinan meminta cerai selepas suaminya bebas kelak. |
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aku terpikir-pikir..... dulu masa umur aku 21 tahun.... aku tengah ape ehh.. ;)
apsal laa otak aku jem ni.... tak klor-kluor ni ape yg aku tengah enjoy masa tu....... :kant:
Originally posted by deaf4ever at 2004-3-31 03:46 PM:
Perbuatan Zanial Arrifin Aziz, 21 tahun, itu sekali gus melanggar Perintah Perlindungan Peribadi (PPO) yang dikeluarkan Mahkamah Rendah ke atasnya ekoran daripada aduan ibu mentuanya, Cik Tijah Yaim, Jun lalu.
Di bawah PPO, Zanial dilarang menggunakan kekerasan terhadap isterinya, Cik Norhayati Ahmad, 21 tahun.
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 31-3-2004 03:46 PM:
korang baca ni tak? masuk paper hari ni...
pakai botol kicap woooo ;);)........ ni macam pun ada eh.
LELAKI YANG CEDERAKAN ISTERI DIJEL EMPAT MINGGU
Oleh
Khalid Khamis
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Gila ke apa jantan ni??  nf: |
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matz_rockz This user has been deleted
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Originally posted by chicsee at 31-3-2004 04:51 PM:
Gila ke apa jantan ni?? nf:
dia tak LOVE bini dia ........ |
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Cakap pasal abuse ni, Chic teringat this email that I keep coz I think its a very good read...
I got flowers...
I was once told - no matter how much you love this man, no matter how much he may love you, but if ever he lifts a hand and hits you...he's not worth it. I do not think this is easy...but I guess it is true.....
I got flowers today. It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.
We had our first argument last night, and he said alot of cruel things
that really hurt me. I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he
said, because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. It wasn't our anniversary or any other special
day. Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me. It
seemed like a nightmare. I couldn't believe it was real. I woke up this
morning sore and bruised all over. I know he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today, and it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special
day. Last night, he beat me up again. And it was much worse than all the
other times. If I leave him, what will I do? How will I take care of my
kids? What about money? I'm afraid of him and scared to leave. But I know
he must be sorry. Because he sent me flowers today.
I got flowers today. Today was a very special day. It was the day of
my funeral. Last night, he finally killed me. He beat me to death. If only
I had gathered enough courage and strength to leave him, I would not
have gotten flowers today.
*If you are against domestic abuse, please forward this.* |
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Originally posted by matz_rockz at 31-3-2004 04:56 PM:
dia tak LOVE bini dia ........
susah nak cakap ah matz kadang2....
bila dia tengah naik angin kan...mampos semua kena pukul, kena bantai...
kena maki makian...ko sebut la , apa je perkataan vulgar language...semua keluar vocabulary dia...
tapi lepas cool down...... nanti dia regret... menyesal...
besok lusa...mengamuk lagi....
ada pasal emotional kot, stress kot... , tapi ada jugak pasal pegi togok. Dah mabuk, pegi susahkan orang lak. |
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Originally posted by chicsee at 31-3-2004 05:02 PM:
Cakap pasal abuse ni, Chic teringat this email that I keep coz I think its a very good read...
I got flowers...
I was once told - no matter how much you love this man, no matt ...
ni cam soundtrack kehidupan tiap2 hari.. kat mana2 negara pun, kat mana kaum dan bangsa...mesti ada punya kes kes gini...
tapi kesian la yang wife dia....
yang anak2 pun tak payah cerita ah...
cam sapa tu cakap tu hari? super duper traumatized la seumur hidup  |
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Originally posted by chicsee at 31-3-2004 09:34 AM:
I have to agree with you on that, Matz. Chic ada beberapa kenalan yang belum kahwin and have very strict parents. And they are in such a hurry to get married, sampaikan macam desperate gitu. Bi ...
genggaman mak bapak?
aiyo..... hehehehe....... ;)
dalam relationship parents and children kan,
it takes two hands to clap ah....:clap:
kalo dua2 nak menang, dua2 nak tunjuk pattern champion, habis lah... :gado:
tapi cakap senang ah, nak buat sangat susah. |
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hehe...
yang opposite pon ader gak...
laki kena bantai bini.. hehehe...
tu sebab ke ko tak moh kahwin...
ampun deaf......:nyorok::nyorok::nyorok: |
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nixzanna This user has been deleted
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Kalau bak pasal kahwin nih lidahku kelu |
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Originally posted by deaf4ever at 31-3-2004 07:10 PM:
genggaman mak bapak?
aiyo..... hehehehe.......
dalam relationship parents and children kan,
it takes two hands to clap ah....:clap:
kalo dua2 nak menang, dua2 nak tunjuk pat ...
A'ah...ini masa mak bapak very strict, walaupun anak2 dah in their 20's diorang masih control. Ada curfew lah. Hari2 keluar kena marah. Demand bagi duit gaji sekian2 pada mak bapak, ada kawan salah, takder kawan salah dll....so diorang ni tak leh tahan dah. Adults but being treated like kids. So diorang stress nak kawin cepat2 so boleh keluar dari rumah mak bapak, stay on their own and live life without all the naggings and scoldings...;) |
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Originally posted by chicsee at 2-4-2004 09:43 AM:
A'ah...ini masa mak bapak very strict, walaupun anak2 dah in their 20's diorang masih control. Ada curfew lah. Hari2 keluar kena marah. Demand bagi duit gaji sekian2 pada mak bapak, ada kawan s ...
out of the frying pan and into the fire ..... being parents when you have kids is not easy...as a husband too ,you need alot of commitment.....ada couple tau buat anak......pat tangong jawab as parents ..... NIL
anjing and kucing bawa block ... lebih responsible than them..pelik pulak...
binatang tak ka kursus rumah tangga,but they know about RESPONSIBILITY
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kampung kampung dkt Malaysia selalunya bagi $5 /$10 dkt orang kawin (sebab belanja kawin dkt kampung tak mahal. Semua gotong royong.
Tapi dkt Malaysia macm Singapore juga. Kalau pergi kawin orang cina duit tu mesti $50 ringgit (ni habis kokak) kalau less then that ''malu oi''. Selalunya envelope tu ada nama dia orang dkt belakang, jadi bila kita tau dia orang bagi $100 (style ni pun dia orang guna masa bagi duit angpau dgn close family) kita pun kena balas $100 bila dia orang buat kenduri. |
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Aku belum khawin.... kekeke
But kalau masa bersalam tu, selalu kasi between $10 - $1000, tengoklah sapa yg khawin. Kalau my staff, selalunya aku kasi $100 + company collection. Kekadang ada juga yang pakai adat cuci kaki, dimana tetamu akan menyiram kaki pengantin dan akan memberikan sedikit saguhati, ada yang beri duit, dan kalau keluarga yg mampu mereka akan memberi emas.
Cerita bab bab makanan, kat Brunei ada dua option, either ko nak gotong royong atau catering service. Jarang yg buat reception, sebab majlis selalunya dibuat kat rumah pengantin. Cara hidangan ala buffet, dimana kat satu kem, akan dihidangkan makanan berupakan, nasi putih & nasi minyak/beriyani, daging, ayam/ikan, sayuran dan pencuci mulut. Takde masalah nak tambah, sebab selalunya masakan akan dibuat secara berlebihan, dan kekadang nasib baik, ada yg memberi lebihan makanan kepada tetamu.
Majlis perkhawinan selalunya dibuat serentak dirumah pengantin lelaki dan perempuan. Then bila siap jamuan, pengantin lelaki akan berangkat kerumah pengantin perempuan untuk majlis bersanding.
Rate untuk hantaran kat brunei, between 5k - 10k. Mas khawin pulak antara 130 - 300. |
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Originally posted by chicsee at 2-4-2004 09:43 AM:
A'ah...ini masa mak bapak very strict, walaupun anak2 dah in their 20's diorang masih control. Ada curfew lah. Hari2 keluar kena marah. Demand bagi duit gaji sekian2 pada mak bapak, ada kawan s ...
ni dari observation aku ah......;)
setiap baby yang born kat dunia, orang cakap cam kain putih kan, its up to the mak bapak or guardians yang corakkan dia kan..
bila budak2 ni dah besar , aku ada yang masih kena herdik, kena maki hamun, kena perli, kena look down, kena compare ngan anak2 orang lain...
apa anak buat semua tak kena...
aku tak deny yang mak bapak tu memang ada hak kat atas anak dia...
tapi dorang kadang2 lupa ke... adakah dorang sendiri perfect?
dan masa anak dorang kecik2 tu adakah dorang raise the children up ngan sebaik nya?
jadi kadang2 tak boleh salahkan kalo kita banyak social problem pasal dari kecik mak bapak dah raise up that way...
dah besar baru nak tegur, susah ah...pasal hati dah keras hehehehe.....
ni observation aku je la....
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Originally posted by matz_rockz at 2-4-2004 09:57 AM:
out of the frying pan and into the fire ..... being parents when you have kids is not easy...as a husband too ,you need alot of commitment.....ada couple tau buat anak......pat tangong jawa ...
betul mat, ni aku sokong...ah ni ada artikel ni, latest punya....
masuk new paper semalam.
kecoh ah daddy/hubby ni seekor... nf:nf:nf:nf:
The beast of Taiwan
He rapes young daughter for five years
Bashes wife to death when she confronts him over daughter's rape
THE case shocked and outraged Taiwan - and no wonder.
Just look at what this farmer did.
He began raping his daughter when she was just 9 years old - and continued to torment her for another five years.
When she turned 14 and couldn't take the abuse any more, the schoolgirl begged her mother for help.
When his furious wife confronted him, she paid with his life - kicked and punched till near-death.
Then he dumped her on the bed, leaving her body to be discovered by their daughter and 17-year-old son.
The man was finally brought to justice when the son, who was often abused himself, called the police, reported Apple Daily Taiwan.
His lawyer argued in vain that he hadn't intended to kill his wife, but had hit her in a fit of temper.
The man, dubbed a 'beast' by the media, was sentenced to a total of 34 years' jail for manslaughter, aggravated rape and statutory rape on Wednesday.
But he will only serve the maximum jail term of 20 years, as stipulated by the law.
LIVED WITH MISTRESS
The court heard how the 58-year-old man even had a mistress, whom he lived with most of the time.
He was said to have a strong sex drive.
So he began stalking his daughter in 1996, when she was in Primary 3.
He would pounce on her in the bedroom, when no-one else was home, after she returned from school.
Too young to know about sex and too scared to fight back, the girl gave in.
He soon found excuses to be alone with her, sending his wife out and ordering his son to walk the buffalos or do some repair work.
When the girl went to Secondary 1 and became wiser about sex, she tried saying no to her predator.
For that, she was savagely beaten and forced to bathe after every rape to 'wash away' any traces of evidence.
Her brother told the court: 'I have seen my sister in only a bra, wearing nothing else, running out of my parents' bedroom intears.
'My sister said she was raped.
'Every time my father asked her to go into the room, she'd be scared and would refuse.
'But she would obey because she was scared of getting beaten.'
The brother was helpless.
He said: 'Although I knew that father was bullying my sister, he was always violent and would beat me too.
'That was why I couldn't save sister.'
Then on Oct 2, 2002, the girl broke down and told her mother everything.
Furious, the mother rushed home and confronted her drunken husband.
Shouting 'Why drink when you have no money', she then begged him not to abuse their girl any more.
But he hurled an ashtray at his wife and grabbed her by the hair.
Then he yanked her around until she collapsed.
He stamped on her until there was internal bleeding in her head and abdomen.
Then he dragged his half-dead wife to the bed, where she was discovered by her children after school.
They rushed her to hospital, where she died.
Sick of the abuse, the son called the police.
Now they can finally see the last of the 'beast' they had to call 'dad' for years. |
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Originally posted by DARSITA at 3-4-2004 12:53 AM:
kampung kampung dkt Malaysia selalunya bagi $5 /$10 dkt orang kawin (sebab belanja kawin dkt kampung tak mahal. Semua gotong royong.
Tapi dkt Malaysia macm Singapore juga. Kalau pergi kawin oran ...
tu ah...
Sama jugak ah..... cam spore.
kalo kita ngan kita, sumbangan sikit je...
tapi kalo dah campur ngan cina, sumbangan terus naik... |
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Originally posted by Remy_3D at 3-4-2004 01:27 AM:
Aku belum khawin.... kekeke
But kalau masa bersalam tu, selalu kasi between $10 - $1000, tengoklah sapa yg khawin. Kalau my staff, selalunya aku kasi $100 + company collection. Kekadang ada juga y ...
sama jugak la eh... hehehehe.....
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masuk sokkabar hari ni,
aku heran ah.
tak de rasa berdosa ke, bersalah ke orang2 ni?
dah la cam nak cepat kaya je business habis tu
kalo pelamin roboh masa majlis? ngan ada orang cedera cammana eh?
Kalo aku dah kasi balik ah duit, tak pun pergi mintak maaf personally kat keluarga pengantin pasal merosakkan majlis orang.
duit nak, tapi keja macam :siok:
Forum : 3 April 2004
Mudah cetak | E-mel
NASIHAT AGAR HATI-HATI PILIH MAK ANDAM
MAJLIS perkahwinan saya baru berlalu.
Saya ingin mengetengahkan pengalaman saya dengan khidmat mak andam dan reka hias sebagai pedoman kepada bakal pengantin dan keluarga mereka.
Mak andam yang saya ambil merupakan jurusolek artis yang popular.
Saya mengambil pakej berharga lebih $2,600 untuk lapan helai baju.
Saya telah pun membayar wang pendahuluan $500 lapan bulan sebelum majlis persandingan.
Mak andam ini tidak pernah menelefon saya untuk memilih baju.
Setiap kali, sayalah yang terpaksa menghubunginya atau mengirimkan e-mel atau faks.
Apabila tiba masa memilih baju, banyak baju telah diambil orang lain sehingga tinggal beberapa baju 'eksklusif' yang kurang bermutu.
Bukan itu sahaja, ada bayaran tambahan untuk bergambar di studio - $100 bagi setiap pasang baju.
Sementara itu, pekerjanya pula bersikap acuh tak acuh apabila membuat pelamin.
Pada pagi Sabtu, pelamin roboh.
Apabila dihubungi, mereka memberi alasan sedang sibuk sehingga ibu bapa saya terpaksa membetulkan pelamin sendiri.
Kumpulan reka hias pula kerjanya tidak siap.
Bilik pengantin dihias separuh jalan.
Apabila kami bising mengenai perkara itu, barulah mereka menghantar seorang pekerja yang menghabiskan kerja sehingga 3 pagi!
Saya berharap bakal mempelai akan lebih berhati-hati apabila memilih mak andam dan syarikat reka hias.
Ini kerana majlis persandingan adalah majlis penting.
Bagi penyedia khidmat pengantin, lakukanlah kerja dengan baik, jujur dan sempurna agar tidak mencemari majlis orang lain.
Aryati,
Punggol Drive |
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