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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 3-3-2008 08:13 AM 
sesuatu yang baru, setiapnya menyeronokkan
yang baru memang seronot...ihik..ihik... |
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Reply #102 morpheus71's post
You're not alone, bro... But, most will write you off as a dreamer and just being unrealistic. I've been there, done that; all my life I've been judged from the way I look, the way I dress, even the way of my thinking. I've learned to ignore and do as I choose and act as I am. Anyway, I am who I am and I'm not gonna change just cuz of popular culture or community. I guess most people closed to me accept me as I am and seldom will they ask & want me to change to fit in into common practices etc.
"dah 7 tahun - i never got bored sebab lebih lama kenal dia..." That's cuz you look her not on the outside and her appearance alone... You learn to look deeper and recognise her inner beauty and that can never change! No matter how she aged and how the nature's course took her, you only see her inner-beauty; and that inner shine last a lifetime....
Sadly, not many will ever believe us dreamers... But then, believing in dream can't hurt; and in our case, help us continuing on living our way of life...
Good to know you bro... :tea: Damn, the teacup reminds me of me having deprived off mocha for a few days now. I'd better make my mocha now....  |
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Reply #107 Cretin.Penguin's post
hiya fellow dreamer.. wassup? 
1 mocha for me too, ok.. with hazelnut syrup.. |
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Roger that.... 1 nutty Mocha with a fresh hint of honey coming right up... Heheh, but you still have to come up here and get it. Sorry, no delivery as this is practically a non-career job. 
Do please bring along your loved ones to enjoy the coffee on me; romancing with your beloved hubby sipping over a hot-steaming mocha, shared-not-divide; and hot chocs for the kids...  :tea: :flower: |
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Originally posted by ajinomotonosuga at 3-3-2008 08:13 AM
sesuatu yang baru, setiapnya menyeronokkan
pertamakali, the beginning kenal itu ini, dapat itu ini.
segala macam nilai positif ada, nilai kepuasan, nilai kejayaan, nilai kesabaran , nilai k ...
i suka abg aji dlm "mode" camni...
brilliant.. |
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Saya bercinta lagi dgn suami dgn keluar dating berdua tanpa kehadiran anak-anak. Tengok wayang bersama, pergi spa dan makan-makan.
Tapi hakikatnya perasaan gembira itu tak terasa sgt kerana kami lebih suka keluar bersama anak-anak, rindu pulak tinggal anak kat rumah.
Kesimpulannya saya rasa dah tak mau keluar dating berduaan dgn suami lagi. lebih baik anak-anak ikut bersama.
Jadi saya fikir cara lain utk mengeratkan hubungan cinta dalam bilik tidur saja. sekarang ni gila beli costume sexy macam nurse, pakaian maid, dan school girl. sgt seksi and very romantic. |
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Reply #115 shidahameera's post
Yalah,shidah.Saya pun pernah terasa nak honeymoon dgn hubby,check in hotel..jalan2.. makan angin berdua...buat masa zaman sebelum takde anak2 dulu...tapi itulah,takut pulak teringat kan anak2 dan rasa kasihan sebab ditinggalkan... |
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Originally posted by be_nign at 5-3-2008 08:49 AM
Yalah,shidah.Saya pun pernah terasa nak honeymoon dgn hubby,check in hotel..jalan2.. makan angin berdua...buat masa zaman sebelum takde anak2 dulu...tapi itulah,takut pulak teringat kan anak2 dan ...
yalah kan, kami ni jenis rindu anak. kalau ada orang pergi bercuti ke luar negara tapi kami tak sanggup tinggalkan anak-anak kat rumah. |
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Agak2nya suami2 di luar sana nak ke tak bercinta balik dengan isteri memasing.Entah2 isteri aje kot yang beriya-iya nak bercinta balik dgn suami,tapi si suami lebih suka kalau jalinkan cinta dengan orang baru.. |
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CINTA suami/isteri, ikut pemahaman i...satu objek yg bergerak ikut kefahaman pasangan dan usia hubungan tu sendiri...
jadi kalo ada org nak tgk istilah cinta suami-isteri cam berdating sakan, merajuk-memujuk, hadiah belaka setiapkali sambut macam2 tarikh keramat...rasanya, ramai org2 lama dah tak bercinta...termasuklah diri i sendiri
nak hidupkan cas balik tu penting dlm hubungan tapi nak patah balik cam cinta lepas kahwin...rasanya tak mungkin, sebab anak2 nie nak disorokkan dimana... jadi i pilih utk bercinta dgn family |
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Originally posted by NtahSapaNtah at 5-3-2008 09:38 AM 
Biarlah dia carik orang baru... pastu kita pon carik gak orang baru... pastu gaduh.. pastu tebabo... pastu tulis dalam FD... pastu ramai-ramai jawap.... pastu gaduh dalam FD... pastu kerja ta ...
adoi..kelakar la ...
sib baik bos aku takder ni leh lepak2 kat cari jap..
aku rasa la ..si suami ni sikit sebanyak mesti ada perasaan nak bcinta semula dgn si isteri..takkan xde langsung perasaan mcm tu kot kan..diakan manusia gak..tapi aku sokong yg rasa cinta/sayang tu jgn la pudar lepas kawin..eh shidahameera mana ko beli kostum2 tu..aku dah muat nak pakai benda2 tu semenjak berat aku dah turun byk ni....(kang dia igt aku buang tebiat pakai baju2 gitu..demam ke bini aku ni?)....
kes aku lak, anak2 takkasik chance aku rapat dgn husband..baru dok sebelah dah kena jerit..ewah2...ctrl mama lak...
kdg2 aku hangin gak tak dpt nak manja2..byk halangan..tapi sabar jelah |
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Reply #120 my-alja's post
Saya ada terbaca satu tulisan tu..kat mana ntah...tak ingat..Katanya,anak2 tu bukan pengerat atau pengikat suami isteri..makin merenggangkan hubungan mereka adalah..
Alasan dia,dulu2 sebelum ada anak,masa dan kasih sayang 100% pada suami,now bila dah beranak masa untuk suami dah kurang..kemesraan dah kurang..any komen.. |
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Reply #122 be_nign's post
pulak...rasa mcm alasan jerk..
aku anak rapat2 aper....mmg la takde nak lomantik all d time
tapi msg2 paham....aku mmg suka manja2..tapi dia tak
so pepandai la give n take..ada lak kata anak tu perenggang hbgan?
nnt tuhan tarik balik sume anak2 dia br dia tahu tau...
anak2 kan kecik, dorang perlukan kasih syg+perhatian...yg dewasa kena la mengalah dan at d same time pepandai suaikan diri...nak jeles kat anak sendiri pun x guna maa....dalah laging sendili lor...haiyaa... |
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Reply #122 be_nign's post
IMO, org yang anggap anak2 ni merenggangkan hubungan ni org2 yg selfish. I just couldn't imagine kalau I dgn hubby seronok2 gi bercuti ke apa sekali anak2 kat rumah dok teringat2 kat kami. Cuba put urself in your kids' situation, how would you feel? Macam mak ayah x sayangje, kena tinggal. Huhuhu... sedih wo.
Klu dah namanya husband & wife, pepandaila take advantage masa anak2 dah tidoke, ambik leave time bukan cuti sekolahke kalau dah teringin sangat nak berdua-duaan. |
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Reply #122 be_nign's post
me paling lama boleh gi cuti cuti tak bawa anak cuma 2 hari....pastu rasa sedih bersalah etc etc...... so sebelum datang perasaan tu... enjoy habisan la utk 2 hari.
anak anak biar diorang spent masa kat tempat diorang suka, bukan terperuk kat rumah...for me hantar diorang gi rumah MIL |
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Post time 3-3-2008 10:15 AM
Post time 5-3-2008 02:06 AM
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