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kalau tiba2 suami cakap takde keja..
menangis jugakla
tapi masa itulah cita itu diuji
mampu ke saya?
hopefully mampu
takkan nak biarkan suami derita sendiri... |
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Originally posted by pak_itam at 9-6-2009 13:54 
ego ker pakcik???.... dikalangan saudara mara pakcik dikatakan "takut bini" mai kat forem.. dapat ego pulak... memacam kikikikikiki....tell u truth, if i were to tell u every bit n pc... i be ...
I told her every bit n pc, and EGO gak dia ulang kat sini.....maybe cara story kita berbeza kot.... |
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pompuan ni kalu nangis tuhh yg aku malas....x reti la nak buat pe.....cam sapa tulis tuhh, dah la aku tgh susah ati, pastu dia plak dok nangis2, merajuk2.....nak plak kena pujuk...dah tuhh ati aku ni sapa yg nak pujuk?? |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 9-6-2009 21:19 
pompuan ni kalu nangis tuhh yg aku malas....x reti la nak buat pe.....cam sapa tulis tuhh, dah la aku tgh susah ati, pastu dia plak dok nangis2, merajuk2.....nak plak kena pujuk...dah tuhh ati ak ...
alaaa bing....pompuan nie setangga saja matured than a kid, nie kata2 pak ajik
so kalo nangis...takyah cakap apa2, just peluk dia kuat2...kuat2
sambil kata.....kita harungi sesama k, insyaAllah.... |
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Originally posted by pak_itam at 9-6-2009 13:42 
seingat pakcik yg not born yesterday ni... belum pernah pakcik aibkan my ex... citer ngan gf pun sebab gf pandai korek.. so citer pasal keserabutan nak maintain life to make it flow as usual...
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correct me here if you think that am wrong in saying that confiding in a person that got NADA to do with your family, is akin to mengaibkan isteri, why I said so, bukan ke orang kata Perkahwinan itu ada lar satu pengkongsian hidup, you are telling me that your wife, whom you married is someone, who is not also your confidante? is it? FD ni menjadi salah satu medan untuk shin ' menimba' ilmu so to speak, terlalu byk tauladan dan juga pelajaran yg shin dapat dari sini
bermula sebagai confidante, a shoulder to cry bruhahah to, it might, escalate to something more, ia lar dgn isteri tak boleh nak berkongsi masalah, dgn orang luar boleh, mcm mana perasaan pakcik kalau isteri pakcik, bila di landa masalah berlari ke orang lain untuk meluahkan isi hati dia, doesn't that makes you feel like a loserrr? kenapa tak boleh cerita dgn pakcik, suami dia tu, kenapa lebih selesa dgn orang luar?
dalam apa saja relationship that 'marries' 'gel' two heart to become one, there should be no, i repeat NO secrets, apatah lagi yg bersangkut paut dgn something that directly have an influence towards your domestic life, mmg lar ada perempuan lembik, nak hidup senang, takmo dengar masalah suami, yg dia tahu perabiskan duit suami ( mostly) jenis perempuan tak bekerja, sedari kecil di ajar suami sebagai the sole breadwinners, ramai di sini terdiri dari golongan yg bekerja, tak kisah kerja apa, tapi they have a stake and a say in their marriage, I champion that
orang perempuan di jadikan Allah dgn kebolehan melahirkan anak, which is a feat if bestowed towards Adam, belum tentu mereka boleh melakukan, ini kan pula suami tak bekerja, lagi2 suami yg bergaji besar, tidak mustahil untuk dia mencari peluang baru, never give up, no one says that life is a bed of roses, there are torns along the way, DEAL WITH IT  |
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Originally posted by my-alja at 9-6-2009 21:26
alaaa bing....pompuan nie setangga saja matured than a kid, nie kata2 pak ajik
so kalo nangis...takyah cakap apa2, just peluk dia kuat2...kuat2
sambil kata.....kita harungi sesama k, insyaA ...
cara tu berkesan kejap jekkk, esok lusa kena buat lagik...pastu buat lagik....selagik aku tak dpt keje br, tiap kali dia susah ati aku kena buat camtuhh dan lagik dan lagik....ati aku ni sapa yg nak pujuk plakk? sendiri la pujuk....
btw, aku ader la pk contigency plan......byk btui spekulasi ler...walau kata dah recover pung aku susah nak caya.......tipu semata jekk tuhhh...cam sarah kata, kalu dpt keje sini pung takkan dpt cam dpt duluk2.......40%-50% less tuh dah konpem...sewa umah pung dah murah dahhh...jln pung dah makin x sibuk dahhh...ribu riban org dah balik negara dan akan balik.....tunggu budak abis skool jek ni kot, abis summer sepi la kot.......plan aku nnt ler aku kabar camner.....
alja, maybe time to blk mesia kot.........dok umah omak aku pung ok gak, dok umah sendri kat kl pung ok gak...cuma ko tau la alja my major concern ialah anak2 aku tuhhh....and their mak yg msh kat sini ni.....harus ader lagik sessi nangis2 yg aku kena hadap selain dr wife aku......dan yg aku paling bimbang blk mesia aku senang nak jdk boya sbb dah la ensem pastu ramai plak awek U yg ranggi2 suke layan somi org....hishhh...seramnya akuk...takutzz kena ngorat ni.....huhuhuhuu...... |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 9-6-2009 21:19
pompuan ni kalu nangis tuhh yg aku malas....x reti la nak buat pe.....cam sapa tulis tuhh, dah la aku tgh susah ati, pastu dia plak dok nangis2, merajuk2.....nak plak kena pujuk...dah tuhh ati ak ...
I think what sarah meant was, EGO dalam erti kata, maruah suami eh? jika tidak dapat memberi sesuap nasi pada isteri dan anak2 akan merasakan diri dia telah gagal dari segi memberi nafkah, shin tahu in this global meltdown ramai orang yg terkena tempias, that is the reason financial planning harus jitu from day one kita bekerja, and tiga bulan payout, we're nearing end of the year, send out resumes, banyak2, we got to stay competitive, jika ada peluang kerja baru, dgn potongan less than 30% dari apa yg kita pernah dapat, grab it abg bing, you are in O&G ke? it's picking up if you are directly involved with it  |
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exsen hensem...tunjok la pic...asik2 cakap diri tu ensem..
aku pun cantik...comel cam kucing..
aku tak bising2 pun. |
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Originally posted by OsHiN_hOnEy at 9-6-2009 21:43
correct me here if you think that am wrong in saying that confiding in a person that got NADA to do with your family, is akin to mengaibkan isteri, why I said so, bukan ke orang kata Perkahwin ...
hi oshin,
i love her so much and i dont wanna see her cry, i dont wanna hurt her.....i just wanna see her smile, that's all i want... |
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Balas #105 OsHiN_hOnEy\ catat
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I totally agreed with your comments. Why share problems with your GF when you have a wife? |
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Originally posted by lwyl at 9-6-2009 22:05 
I totally agreed with your comments. Why share problems with your GF when you have a wife?
rasanya bapak-bapak kat sini dah jawab dah. cuba baca balik |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 9-6-2009 22:03
hi oshin,
i love her so much and i dont wanna see her cry, i dont wanna hurt her.....i just wanna see her smile, that's all i want...
huwaaaaaaaaaaa  ...abg bing cakap ni shin yg cair
if only more mens are cut out from the same wood as you, syurga seh dunia ni buat perempuan2 yg di aniayai lelaki
you can touch my heart, a total stranger, sudah pasti abg bing boleh protect her from being sad, a little set back jer ni, happens to most men..cheer up ok? mesti dia understand, give her your contigency plans, lay it out nice and easy, so that dia boleh faham, if she kena adapt to the changes and all that
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huwaaaaaaaa....romantic nyaaaa abg bing
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Originally posted by lwyl at 9-6-2009 22:05
I totally agreed with your comments. Why share problems with your GF when you have a wife?
dia taknak isteri dia risau keterlaluan, tapi kalau isteri tahu suami dok luahkan perasaan berserabut dia tu, kat perempuan lain, lagi lar dia risau  |
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Originally posted by OsHiN_hOnEy at 9-6-2009 21:43
confidante...
ape maksud confidante?
saya tak tahu la. english saya lembab2 sket mcm siput.
(dah taip dlm microsoft word, tapi, takder)
ini second time terserempak dgn word itu. first time, dlm lagu paris hilton - stars are blind.
- jgn ler puan mod marah aku - huhu |
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Post time 9-6-2009 03:10 PM
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