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[Cinta]
Sebelum you kahwin dengan your spouse, mcm mana you tau he/she is the one?
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Jeng jeng jeng.....jeng jeng |
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Tumpang tanya thread orang..salah ke kalau I pilih nak kawin dgn orang yg ada cancer. I nak ada dgn dia sampai ke penghujungnya. |
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Amandaminaj96 replied at 10-4-2021 11:02 PM
Hai mod bella, mcm mana dpt rasa tu? Perasaan yg mcm mana tu? Ada berdenting kah? Atau keluar lagu ...
entah la sis.. perasaan tu sukar utk diungkapkan dgn kata2..
cuma pick a man yg bila kita bersama, buat kita rasa warm, secure & protected.
dan paling penting, consistency how he's treating u. macam weols dalam masa 4y plus ni, sama je effort beliau before & after married
rezeki dan jodoh tidak akan pernah tertukar..
everything is written in Luh Mahfuz. Thank you Allah for this wonderful bless.
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callalily05 replied at 14-4-2021 04:48 AM
Tumpang tanya thread orang..salah ke kalau I pilih nak kawin dgn orang yg ada cancer. I nak ada dgn ...
tak salah pom sis. hidup kat dunia ni hanya sementara..yg kekal nya, akhirah.
reserve ur spot di samping suami u nanti kat sana. |
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sepanjang berkawan, dia yg lbh matang, i ni more to panas sket, dia sbg lelaki yg lbh berusia beza umur 9 tahun, lbh matang menangani kerenah gegirls yg mcm iols. kalau iols potpet2 bercerita, dia jd pendengar setia. i kuat memberontak bila gaduh, dia diam dan pujuk.
x bercinta, tp teman tapi mesra. so xde tarikh spesifik bila couple. tp bila dh sering whatsapp, call etc lama2 hati jd sayang. ape2 dia buat, mesti utamakan iols dulu. cth, nk mkn kat mana? nak pegi mana lps balik keja? nk jumpa jam berapa? pendek kata dia bg peluang kat iols pilih ape yg iols selesa nk pilih.
mcm mana chuolls tahu pasangan chuolls tu adalah teman hidup you sebelum menikah?
menjawab soalan ni, iols rasa yakin utk jadikan dia Encik Suami sb2 yg iols nyatakan di atas. means bertolak ansur, kita pun yakin dia x ada pmpuan lain selain pegi keja balik keja, utamakan kita dlm semua hal buat kita rasa dihargai, dan yg ptg family dua2 suka satu sama lain. gtuh je la komen iols.
girls, kalau lelaki asik nk menang dia asik belakangkan korang, better cabut! |
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Sehari sebelum Ramadhan, kaben cakap dengan anak yang sulung, kalau Ummi bz bf baby time sahur, nanti kakak tolong sediakan sahur ya. Dia kata ok. Lepas tu dia jawab, ingat tak tahun lepas setiap hari Abi sediakan sahur dan juadah berbuka? Ya I kata sebab masa tu I baru lepas bersalin. Anak sulung I kata, mana nak cari Abi yang baik sangat macam ni . Dia kata untung Ummi pandai pilih suami. Kaben kata bukan sebab Ummi pandai pilih suami, tapi sebab Abi tu memang baik. Kaben bgtau anak sulung nak cari suami, tengok mula2 nak tak dia jumpa mak ayah kita. |
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Edited by kuihbakar at 14-4-2021 10:52 AM
Kaben harap sampai saat di mana kami pencen bersama. Kaben dah bgtau Suami lepas pencen kaben nak round the world dengan dia. Jalan pegang tangan hingga akhir hayat. Kaben seloroh dengan anak2 , esok pencen Ummi dan Abi duduk obersi. Korang je duduk malaysia. raya baru Ummi dan Abi balik Malaysia. Hahaha. |
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Edited by ifanonline at 17-4-2021 08:47 AM
in life, you will never know the person you're marrying with...not 100%, be it man or woman...sebab tu org ckp love is blind...the heart chooses what the mind do not..
humans will never have perfection, hanya tuhan sahaja yg maha sempurna...manusia cuba sedaya upaya mencapai kesempurnaan, tetapi pastinya gagal..and fail you will...
sebab tu sekarang bilangan single people meningkat, lebih2 lagi andartu...waiting for the right time, right person, right circumstances, etc...tidak akan ada benda2 yg 'right' ni...jodoh, maut dan rezeki tuhan tentukan...god will choose the right things for you, not you who will make the choices...
some people get excellent spouses, some get below par...walaubagaimanapun, tuhan suruh manusia berusaha ke araha kebaikan...and god will decide whether that good deed is actually good for you or not...
kadang2 ujian dtg dari pasangan kita, pasangan yg jadi biawak, penghisap dadah, kaki pukul, curang, etc...this calamities may look bad but maybe, somehow somewhere this bad things happen to you for a reason...it is not your choice, but god may want to teach you something in order for you to become more holy (beriman)..
and good spouses can also become a test for you, you can be distanced from god as god test you with wealth and happiness...and eventually you may become kufur...kufur nikmat...
what men and women can do now is try and get the best partner for you...you may like him or her, but him or her may not be suitable for you..god decides, but you must work hard and pray... |
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ifanonline replied at 17-4-2021 08:44 AM
in life, you will never know the person you're marrying with...not 100%, be it man or woman...sebab ...
Betul sangat.... |
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sebelum you kahwin dengan your spouse, mcm mana you tau he/she is the one?
jawapan: takkan tau... perkahwinan adalah perjudian hidup
sekian |
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terma2nkondisi2 replied at 18-4-2021 04:37 AM
sebelum you kahwin dengan your spouse, mcm mana you tau he/she is the one?
jawapan: takkan tau... ...
So at this point of time, I guess you must have been winning with your bet so far on the gambling table?
kahkahkahkah
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You dont need to really know actually...coz life itself is a journey, not a destination....
dijadikan makhluk itewww utk mengabdi diri padaNYA...When we always have HIM in our thoughts....everything else will be nicely in placed.
kehkehkeeh |
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edayildiz replied at 10-4-2021 08:48 PM
yg jmpa kat forum takde ke
I jumpa my husband kat forum. Hari raya kenal both families, 6 months later tunang. Last year got married. |
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nazriatie replied at 20-4-2021 06:57 PM
I jumpa my husband kat forum. Hari raya kenal both families, 6 months later tunang. Last year got ...
Still with the same man today?
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callalily05 replied at 14-4-2021 04:48 AM
Tumpang tanya thread orang..salah ke kalau I pilih nak kawin dgn orang yg ada cancer. I nak ada dgn ...
siapa punya penghujung? dia atau kau? |
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edayildiz replied at 10-4-2021 08:48 PM
yg jmpa kat forum takde ke
banyak tapi nothing to rah rah about...
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Sebelum kawin semua manis.
Laki aku tak kaya. Tak hensem.
Tapi Laki lemah lembut.
Sabar dan selalu dengar je ckp aku.
Bila dah kawin.
Dia bertukar jadi panglima perang.
Aku buat kelakar pun dia buat derk je.
Nenek aku sayang dia. Sbb dia rajin melayan. Dengar je org tua bebel2.
Tak semua org boleh terima family aku yg kucar kacir tu. |
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