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Tips from me:
1. Buat perjanjian sebelum kahwin:
- who's paying what, sewa rumah, bills, belanja dapur
- allow me to visit my family as and when
- don't force me to do things i don't like, such as cooking
2. Amalan bila dah kahwin
- i pay home bills, my car and 1 house instalment. He pays for barang dapur, his car and another house which is of course more than what i'm paying.
- i can visit my family with anak even if he decided not to come with me.
- he still cooks for me after 12 yrs
3. Lain2
- i make sure that i make his hot coffe 0 the moment he walks into the house ( after office) and his hot coffee is ready when he wakes up.
- i make sure that i wakes him up early morning if he wants to tee-off at 7 am
- i respect him and each and every one of his sibling, ipar and anak buah
- i tak membebel and tak mengungkit
- if he marah, i keep quite. if i marah, he keep quite
- we celebrate birthday and anniversarry with makan2 and gift.
- he calls me everyday betwen 5 - 6 pm and asked the same question, "bila nak balik?"
Last but not lease is to give him space to do what he wants.... |
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Originally posted by angketam at 8-8-2008 10:03 AM 
satu tips dari saya..
jgn cuba lari dari masalah rumah tangga... hadapi ngan fikiran terbuka...
THIS IS THE BEST TIP. TAKE NOTE. |
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Paling penting..if suami or isteri nak manja manja jangan tepis or tolak...sentiasalah layan..
Penting tuh.. |
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kena sentiasa ingat....itu la satu satunye buah hati kita...
so...tak yah lah nak cari yang lebih baik...
[ Last edited by shilo at 14-8-2008 02:12 PM ] |
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Reply #120 raducan's post
graduation..Oct.
wedding..nov.
now..autumn..
[ Last edited by bezita60 at 17-8-2008 12:59 AM ] |
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Reply #122 sribayu's post
noted..
part..5-6..specialnyer! |
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Reply #131 bezita60's post
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oh..rupanya ko blm nak graduate lagi..... |
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Post time 14-8-2008 11:28 AM
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