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Not Beauty Inside.. means?
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Post Last Edit by ParinAmat at 26-1-2010 08:59
Just need a point of view from dudes out there,
what does it means when my hubby said that i'm beautiful on the outside
but not in the inside?
To tell you the truth, i'm not that bitchy,
slutty or a woman that have ever involved in infidelity throughout our marriage,
I am very faithful to my hubby n have been scandal-free eventho they guys hittingo n me and all,
n in fact i have been an obedient wifey, but of course i still have flaws and all,
or well you know what they say, no one is perfect rite?
but when he said that it hurts like crazy....
Especially when i bumped into his ex once at an airport, (the clerk working at the check-in luggage in lcct)
so damn ugly n kampung-ish that once have an affair with him....
n she is already married with kids,
when i said to my hubs, like omg is that the person you betrayed me with
she is fugly, he admits that i am wayyyyyy prettier than her....
as a few weeks gone by, he said that dia tak pentingkan luaran but dalaman?
wtf does that mean????
i just don't get it, why does he says that to me...
please enlighten me,
or is it maybe he's trying to imply that i'm not good in bed? |
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pertama sekali perlu ke guna perkataan kurang sopan dalam tajuk?
kedua, since the comment came from him, why don't you ask him instead, kan lagi accurate jawapan nya, drp tanya orang kat sini.... |
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an apology to tuan tanah before i gave my opinion..dari tajuk maybe i dah bole simpulkan what type of lady are u........ bile ckp tntg pretty or beautiful inside...we talk about heart....and feeling.,.....dari cara penulisan prob u...nmpk mcm u ni jenis berlagak...perasan cantik...suke merendah2kan org lain.....(maybe jugak sbb u tgh marah)...tapi rasenye mmg u ni jenis show off...ego.....meninggi diri....ckp tak pkir perasaaan org lain......
tapi btol jugak kate mclaren...tnye la u hubby...ape yg tak cantik tu...and if u need him to cantiikan inside u..... |
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cube tanye u hubby...ape ciri2 yg die suke and yg die tak suke...and u make ur list too...dari situ u guys bole buat perbandingan....tak perlu la nak f**k sane sini.... cari jalan utk kebaikan kedua2 pihak and anak2.....terima teguran secara positif supaya kita jadi yg lebih baik dari yg baik..... |
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when you exult contemptuously over someone's physical appearance, dont you think you have insulting God's creature too, for Him had creating such a fugly human being??
masya allah! |
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what does it means when my hubby said that i'm beautiful on the outside
but not in the inside?
kecibung_abang Post at 25-1-2010 17:35 
as a few weeks gone by, he said that dia tak pentingkan luaran but dalaman?
I think your hubby has been very frank with you...
very clear message:
inner beauty!!!
in other words, dia memandang tinggi org yg mempunyai
nilai peribadi yg tinggi... in other words ATTITUDE!
cuba you buat penilaian diri, or if you still fail to find your weakness,
cuba tanya & mintak pendapat yg sincere drpd kawan2 yg rapat dgn you... |
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nie yg i rasalah k....senang nak carik org educated wt nice appearance
but diff to find people who are educated wt wisdom...
apa beza antara knowledge and wisdom?.... |
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when you exult contemptuously over someone's physical appearance, dont you think you have insulting God's creature too, for Him had creating such a fugly human being??
masya allah!
tina^^ Post at 25-1-2010 18:06
Yeap! Thats 1 point off for the attitude...
mmg la manusia secara semulajadi suka pada kecantikan...
but bear in mind, kecantikan fizikal ni kalau Tuhan nak tarik,
bila2 boleh tarik...
accident ke, melecur kena sambar api ke, or alllergic reaction ke...
banyak dah kes muka2 yg cun melecun hilang sekelip mata disebabkan spt yg disebutkan... |
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I think your hubby has been very frank with you...
very clear message:
inner beauty!!!
in other words, dia memandang tinggi org yg mempunyai
nilai peribadi yg tinggi... in other words ...
Equalizer Post at 25-1-2010 18:21 
yup....agreed wt you
inner beauty ....the way we perceive things around us |
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so damn ugly n kampung-ish that once have an affair with him....
n she is already married with kids,
ayat nie pun da tau TT mcm mana. sila lah ubah perangai apa yg patut dan rendah diri even TT lebey cantek dr siti nurhaliza pong. utk lebey afdal sila tanya asben apa dia. ckp baik2 jgn ler jerkah2 ke apa..
kesimpulan : hanya salah paham. masalah attitude sedikit. masih boley perbetulkan. insyaallah keluarga bahagia akan menjelma.  |
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Yeap! Thats 1 point off for the attitude...
mmg la manusia secara semulajadi suka pada kecantikan...
but bear in mind, kecantikan fizikal ni kalau Tuhan nak tarik,
bila2 boleh tarik...
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Equalizer Post at 25-1-2010 18:25 
aku pun. slalu pk mcm tu. tatutttt..kan klu allah tarik. sekejap je.kan. |
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Just need a point of view from dudes out there,
what does it means when my hubby said that i'm beautiful on the outside
but not in the inside?
To tell you the truth, i'm not that bitchy,
slutty or ...
kecibung_abang Post at 25-1-2010 17:35
no wonder your husband kata awak ni cantik kat luar je tapi buruk n busuk kat dalam.......maksud dia daging yang seketul itu...........hati..!! |
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Just need a point of view from dudes out there,
what does it means when my hubby said that i'm beautiful on the outside
but not in the inside?
To tell you the truth, i'm not that bitchy,
slutty or ...
kecibung_abang Post at 25-1-2010 17:35 
ok. sorry for being blunt...and here i go..
Stop acting all perasan, and please learn how to use correct english before putting down anyone else by calling them kampung-ish or fugly or whatsoever.
no wonder your hubby had an affair.
cermin diri, cari mana salah dan silap. being faithful to your husband doesnt mean you're a perfect wife. perangai luaran kena jaga. kalau setakat cantek je, muka cam aishwarya rai, tapi kalau attitude cam cipan, baek kurung diri dalam bilik.
paham? |
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10# qriecy
i think sesapa kalo marah pun akan terkeluar ayat2 camni
kinda shock...maklumlaaa dia cantikksss dan lawannya ala kadar...
so indirectly....heyyy, kalo ye pun nak beraffair cariklah yg cantik lagi dr ai
knowing men, 1001 alasan they can create....
gud to know and muhassabah but dun get too upset wt his comment
kita pun bole create jugakkannn...kalo nak! |
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there are things more to the eyes can meet
aku dah jumpe ramai awek kategori 'ugly'
but macam ada aura or tarikan buat kita sukaaaaaa nak kenal or approach dia walo sekadar bertanya
lazim lelaki sebut 'asal sedap mata mandang udah' , maksud nya lelaki tu cakap pasal inner beauty
salu lelaki suke 'isteri yang MEMAHAMI'
ramai model or supermodel baik lelaki or pompuan but fisikal je lawa but inside hampas
maksud suami cik kak ialah soal SUBSTANCE OVER FORM
inner beauty that radiating , effervescence keluar..u cannot see but U CAN FEEL IT
kalo nak tau..u kenal BABY DAN KANAK2 KECIL tuh..that is a real inner beauty..TULUS IKHLAS BERSIH FITRAH
another is thru NATURE, tuhan tak tokok dan tambah macam apa manusia tempek kat muke depa..what u see is what u get..luor tu dari dalam, macam u tenguk sunset petang2 and u feel exhilarating
some ppl ..bila u tenguk can make u feel 'lain', seme tu radiance dari DALAMAN
showing off seme ni actually oang tu cuba covering ego jek..ego defense
even when u write something cam dalam porem ni..kalo u tulis dari lubuk hati ikhlas, oang lain can feel it |
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sian TT ye.. datang sini nak mintak pendapat last last kene 'nasihat' balik...
takpe ye cik TT.. sabor.. ubah sket perangai.. care taip pun dah tau macamane.. slalu english style american ni memang dah bleh agak macmane rupe tuan punye tulisan.. tapi takpe.. ubah sla prangai macam si suami ko nak tu.. kalau ubah ikut forumer ape la dapat.. macam la forumer ni same taste dengan ko nye suami.. tanye la baik baik.. bincang.. jangan kalau die tengah berapi, jangan la lawan dengan ape.. marak la jadinye.. curahkan air ke api torsobut.. ko isteri die kan.. mesti tau camne... |
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10# qriecy
i think sesapa kalo marah pun akan terkeluar ayat2 camni
kinda shock...maklumlaaa dia cantikksss dan lawannya ala kadar...
so indirectly....heyyy, kalo ye pun nak beraffair cariklah ...
my-alja Post at 25-1-2010 19:20
betul la kak alja. eden pun kadang2 terlopeh juga ckp. hmm.. mungkin apa yg di expressi TT tu.. btul. tp bila ayat kaso dia type , kesimpulan terus org kata dia kaso gile. maap ler TT. anyway harap tanya asben baik2. okey. x mau gaduh2. |
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betul la kak alja. eden pun kadang2 terlopeh juga ckp. hmm.. mungkin apa yg di expressi TT tu.. btul. tp bila ayat kaso dia type , kesimpulan terus org kata dia kaso gile. maap ler TT. anyway ha ...
qriecy Post at 25-1-2010 19:51
standed laa qriecy.....
ayat2 dlm porem nie, w/pun cuma sebaris...org bleh pikir macam2
i bet kalo masuk bab affair somi nie....pompuan ayu2 pun bole jadi singa
unless dia takde perasaan....huhuhu |
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Just need a point of view from dudes out there,
she is fugly, he admits that i am wayyyyyy prettier than her....
as a few weeks gone by, he said that dia tak pentingkan luaran but dalaman?
wtf does that mean????
i just don't get it, why does he says that to me...
please enlighten me,
or is it maybe he's trying to imply that i'm not good in bed?
kecibung_abang Post at 25-1-2010 05:35 PM
meh dudette nak jawab...
Not beauty inside, wtf does that means? => It means, u r fugly in the inside. Do something fast, before fugly turns fuglier 
as a few weeks gone by, he said that dia tak pentingkan luaran but dalaman?
wtf does that mean???? => it means, he misses her -the fugly outside, but beautiful inside.(remember?)
or is it maybe he's trying to imply that i'm not good in bed? => may be, ask him.... |
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19# MrsJohn
keh keh keh.... fugly tu amende? adess
tt are you purposely write something that sound so diva-ish? to gain kutukan & maki-an... ? ntah la, kalu ye pun ko tgh hot, ambik napas panjang2...instead of ko nak melepaskan geram kat kampugish, fugly lady, you just sound so puakaish, etc etc
tell u what, ramai lagi acik acik kat sini yg laki dia ada affair, tapi masih lagi boleh kontrol kemarahan dia & dan berporem dgn penuh ilmiah
maybe ada org ckp altho u sound so puaka, but deep inside u r nice ...but then nape la nak hipokrit gitu, biarlah nice & sweet luar dalam... |
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Post time 25-1-2010 05:35 PM
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