Badai Rumah Tangga Serina, Chef Wan Kecewa Dan Sedih

mrsLucky

By Gavin O’Luanaigh

When any couple is going through a divorce with a young family, it is never a happy time and certainly not to be celebrated.

It is the hope of any family that all other family members support the couple and help them as much as possible through this tough time by keeping matters private, especially when children are involved.

It was with great sadness therefore that certain comments about my family were released to the media, on my birthday of all days, about our marriage that both Serina and myself have been at pains to keep private and within the confines of our immediate family and friends.

As most people know, I converted to Islam in 2006, met Serina in 2009 and married in 2010, which was the happiest day in my life, prior to my children being born.

My parents have been happily married for over 47 years and although there are always ups and downs in marriage, I truly thought and hoped it would last forever. Marriage is not a gamble but about love, hard work, commitment and sacrifice.

As Serina has always been in the media line, I didn’t try to persuade her to leave that behind her as I feel that if you truly love someone you have to let them pursue what career makes them happy.

I knew she didn’t want to be a housewife and anyone who knows her, knows she is a fun, energetic person who was born to be a star, and I fully supported her choice and was very proud of her.


Throughout our married life I have diligently paid for everything for the family – providing a six-bedroom penthouse, paid all the family bills, maid, holidays and even made sure that both our children went to an international school so they could have the best education that I could provide, which I feel is the greatest gift that a parent can give their child.

As I was taking care of all the family expenses, Serina was earning a sizeable income, which she kept to do with as she wanted. I was fine with taking on all the expenses as this is my duty to the family and I am fully aware of my responsibilities as a husband and have provided accordingly.

I would have been surprised if Serina had asked for additional pocket money and indeed Serina, to her credit, never did and we had no issues.

Therefore, I was devastated when Serina decided to move out of the house in January 2016 and asked for a divorce.

I didn’t, and still don’t, understand the reasons why she left as she hasn’t told me. However, I hoped that a resolution could be sought and the marriage healed.

Despite not knowing where she went and where she is living, I do not believe any third party was involved and so did not give her a divorce as I believed in her and was willing to wait for her to think about her actions and about the family.

The children, Tristan (aged 6) and Isabella (5), have remained in the family home with me over the last 15 months and I have done everything in my power to remain positive and care for them as best as I can.

Serina and myself are still trying to resolve everything amicably and we both have the children’s best interests at heart.

I am deeply saddened that I have had to write these words in the public domain as my intention as well as Serina’s was always to keep this matter private.

I sincerely hope that any family member who really does have the best interests of their children and grandchildren at heart, can direct their questions to Serina and myself rather than feeling the need to tell the world.

At the end of the day my close family and friends all know the truth and these people are the only people who are important to me. One day we will all be judged by our actions and I know when that day comes, I can hold my head up high.

Once again, I would hope that the media and public could give our family space and time to work everything out and respect the fact that as small children are involved, and who will one day read all this, privacy is paramount.

Gavin O’Luanaigh is a British expat who has been working in Malaysia for the past 16 years.

kawahapi

Ex menantu terus Chef Wan tulis ya

mixed

npk serina mmg pakaian anak2 pn biasa2 je

maharani_gebu

Rase macam si Gavin ni berbinikan Chef wan plak sebb diorang dok berbalas2 komen...

Sarina aman2 aje dok mendebabkan badan...

momomikomiki

bapa penat keliling satu dunia nak cipta nama..
selalu angkat diri baik-baik dlm socmed tapi anak satu persatu bermasalah..
boleh rasa kepenatan dan keciwa CW ni..
dah nampak very defensive sgt cara dia...rasanye dia lagi parah
terluka dari serina ni..bykkan sabar CW

kikiharris

apa kata Chef Wan..tu la lain kali duduk diam2 aje,kalau dah tak tahan sgt nak melahar panggil ajelah dua org ni dtg mengadap..ha pot pet pot pet la kau sampai sudah. bukan kat soc med.
hal rumahtangga anak jangan masuk campur
hujung2 yang malu siapa..anak perempuan kau jugak.
outspoken tak kena tempat.

cmf_jeangrey

Itu la silapnya mengomel kat socmed
Acik2 batu api tgh tunggu nk tumpang mencerca dgn harapan mereka cepat2 bercerai
Tiba2 ada je "oh gavin itu, oh gavin mabuk, gavin mintak 5k sila mention dlm ig"
Masalah dr 50-50 potensi nak berbaik tu ada now terus drop
Padahal kalau ditanya 2 org cucu tu dah tentu mereka nk ibubapa berbaik2
Nasib baik kanak2 lg, kalau dah faham agaknya makin stress dgn campurtangan org lain yg xde kena mengena pun dgn family ni...

getarsukma

mixed replied at 17-4-2017 05:02 PM
npk serina mmg pakaian anak2 pn biasa2 je

Mat saleh mmg ramai yg selekeh... tp dorg suka intellectual conversation, substance... bukan hadap dengan glamer nk tayang menayang semata...

Yg kita nmpk omputrh glamer segala tu hanya dlm hollywood movies and entertainment or fashion magazine... lain dr tu lifestyle dorg sangatlah sempoi... dtg. makan kt kedai pon ngadu mahal padahal ikjt duit dia kalau convert murah gila...

chazey

mrsLucky replied at 17-4-2017 04:57 PM
By Gavin O’Luanaigh

When any couple is going through a divorce with a young family, it is never  ...

Ok akak sokom Gavin. Go Gavin go!

mixed

versi BM


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"Rumah Tangga Adalah Isu Peribadi" - Menantu Chef Wan

Diterbitkan: Isnin, 17 April 2017 3:47 PM

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[size=0.75em]Serina dan Gavin Edward O'luanaigh atau nama Islamnya, Salahudin Ghafar bersama dua anak mereka.

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PETALING JAYA: Gavin Edward O'Luanaigh iaitu suami kepada pelakon Serina Redzuawan menggesa supaya isu perceraian membabitkan rumah tangga mereka tidak dihebahkan kepada umum.

Walaupun lelaki yang berasal dari Ireland itu tidak menyebut sebarang nama, umum mengetahui bahawa bapa mertuanya iaitu chef selebriti, Datuk Redzuawan Ismail atau lebih dikenali sebagai Chef Wan sebelum ini mengulas secara terbuka mengenai kedudukan rumah tangga anak perempuannya itu.

"Serina dan saya sendiri masih cuba untuk menyelesaikan segala-galanya dengan baik dan kami berdua mengambil kira kepentingan anak-anak.

"Amat sedih apabila saya terpaksa menulis mengenai perkara ini secara terbuka kerana hasrat saya dan juga Serina adalah untuk menjaga perkara ini sebagai isu tertutup dan peribadi.

"Saya benar-benar berharap agar ahli keluarga yang mengharapkan perkara terbaik untuk anak dan cucu mereka supaya boleh bertanya kepada Serina dan saya sendiri dan bukannya menyatakan secara terbuka kepada dunia luar," kata O'Luanaigh menerusi kenyataan pada Isnin.

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[size=0.98em]Serina dan O'Luanaigh ketika majlis pernikahan mereka pada 2010.

O'Luanaigh menjelaskan bahawa dia sentiasa menyokong kerjaya dan cita-cita Serina dan tahu isterinya itu tidak mahu hanya menjadi seorang suri rumah.

Tambah O'Luanaigh, dia sentiasa memastikan perbelanjaan keluarganya mencukupi dan membiarkan Serina berbelanja mengikut kemahuannya sendiri.

"Saya tidak kisah dengan semua perbelanjaan itu kerana ia adalah tugas saya untuk keluarga dan saya sedar mengenai tanggungjawab saya sebagai seorang suami untuk menyediakan semua keperluan dengan sewajarnya," katanya.

Bagaimanapun O'Luanaigh berkata segalanya musnah apabila Serina berpindah keluar dari rumah mereka pada Januari 2016 dan memfailkan perceraian.

"Saya tidak tahu dan masih tidak faham mengapa dia meninggalkan saya kerana tidak diberitahu.

"Bagaimanapun saya berharap penyelesaian terbaik boleh dicari dan perkahwinan ini dapat dipulihkan.

"Walaupun tidak tahu ke mana dia pergi dan di mana dia tinggal, saya percaya tiada mana-mana pihak ketiga terlibat dalam isu ini kerana saya percaya dengan Serina. Saya sanggup menunggu agar dia berfikir tentang tindakannya dan keluarga kami," katanya.

Sebelum ini Chef Wan menerusi laman Instagram miliknya mengulas secara terbuka mengenai isu perceraian Serina termasuk berhubung tanggungjawab menantunya itu.

Pasangan itu berkahwin pada Januari 2010 dan mempunyai dua orang anak.

"Anak-anak kami iaitu Tristan (enam) dan Isabella (lima) berada di rumah kami dan sejak 15 bulan lalu saya telah melakukan segala-galanya untuk menjaga mereka sebaik mungkin," kata O'Luanaigh lagi.

Selain itu dia melahirkan harapan agar pihak media dan orang ramai supaya memberi ruang kepada keluarganya.

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getarsukma

Lagi satu berbalik pada hollywood movies, kalau chuols tgk european or canadian or ozzy movies takde yang melampau2 potray kemewahan kehebatan macam hollywood buat...

Cer tgk cinema world, ada french movies, german movies, italian, mexican, algerian movies segala.. tp kisah berpijak di bumi nyata tanpa efek berlebihan meletop sana sini, kejar sana sini, tembak sana sini... juga takde glamer sana sini melebih2.. even movie abt coco chanel pun sangat organic and realistic.. maknanya asli lah...

Org asian tgk mat saleh ingat lubuk duit padahal dorg pun ekonomi dah parah... pakat2 blaja mandarin nk cari peluang di. China... dlm hal ni shila amzah cerdik..

goss79

dari cerita chef wan and gavin, iols rasa story gavin lebih teratur, and penuh berhemah... chef wan menulis  -  terus kata org tu salah. mcm anak dia xde salah lgsg. kita mana nak tau dlm rumah tangga derang yg sebenar.

sian anak2... dahlah comel masing2 dpt keturunan ayah yg ensem kokesen...

shityfans

chef wan downgrade himself
dah macam pprt dah...adoiii

chazey

siputsedut replied at 17-4-2017 03:01 PM
Nah..@mixed dan lain2

Akak sebagai grammar nadzi pening kapla lehat grammar chepwan berterabor tanpa batasan. Grammar sebegini akak kasi gred Ui jah for gross errors jika ia disubmit untuk es pi yem.

chazey

goss79 replied at 17-4-2017 05:38 PM
dari cerita chef wan and gavin, iols rasa story gavin lebih teratur, and penuh berhemah... chef wan  ...

Kan. Bahasa jiwa bangsa.  

siputsedut

chazey replied at 17-4-2017 05:54 PM
Akak sebagai grammar nadzi pening kapla lehat grammar chepwan berterabor tanpa batasan. Granmar se ...

Haha memang pon..sambil menaip sambil menceceh menghamun sambil terjuih mulut...tu blom campur lagi dgn ejaan zaman purbakala...eiiiiiii

ALDRIN

Tunggu je laharan Chef Wan vol 2. Orang tua tu bukan boleh kalah....mesti ada susulan apa yg Gavin tulis. Chef Wan selalu ckp tak payah sibuk jaga tepi kain orang...check sendiri dlm kain korang yg serabut tuu....skrg dag jadi lain..

chazey

siputsedut replied at 17-4-2017 05:56 PM
Haha memang pon..sambil menaip sambil menceceh menghamun sambil terjuih mulut...tu blom campur lag ...

Ponen menaip memang bahasa tak pernah nak teratur. Sama je macam diva makhayam AA.  

idakamaruddin

chazey replied at 17-4-2017 06:08 PM
Ponen menaip memang bahasa tak pernah nak teratur. Sama je macam diva makhayam AA.

sama la kita kadang2 terpikir aku ni bodoh sgt ke english mcm x paham sgt duit tulis apa

redliner

chef wan mulut tu bawak2 la simpan sket. anak2 cucu2 jugak yang tanggung malu. dulu kemain ko hina si arwah hani mohsen tu. skrg ko hina menantu ko pulak.
semuanya anak ko je yg betul. anak orang lain semua salah. tengok anak laki ko tu pon ape jadi. 2 kali kawen pon ade masalah jgk.
bawak2 la tone down diri tu sket. belajar merendah diri dlm setiap perkataan yg keluar dr mulut tu.
kaya dah tentunya kaya, tapi mulut tu jgn busuk sgt please. dari orang sanjung2 terus naik meluat nnt.