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 Author| Post time 13-10-2009 08:34 PM | Show all posts
279# misy

dulu masa kat mrsm....ramai sgt kekawan yg scorer nie tauu
tensi duk dgn budak2 nie....dia tidur manjang!!...add math, score gak!

tapi bila tua2 nie jumpa balik....tertanya gak, eehh kat situ saja ke ko
apa yg tak kena ....teringin nak tanya, takkan masih kuat tido cam dulu kot
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 Author| Post time 13-10-2009 08:35 PM | Show all posts
nak tambah cerita einstein

dia nih pun ala ala drop out gak kan, cikgu sume kata dia lembab...walhal sebenarnya persekitaran tu tak sesuai dgn dia...
this apply to Bill Gate gak...derang bukan tak ...
misy Post at 13-10-2009 20:20


aa'hh...inspiring dgr citer2 camni kann
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Post time 13-10-2009 08:39 PM | Show all posts
jgn folo sgt my method as diff kid has diff thing gitu...anak sulung saya tak study pun..maintain As...sbb dia study smart..dari sek rendah lagi..sampai i heran pasai apa budak ni tak ada homework. time report card day cikgu dia kata oh anak u dlm class full concentration dia tak tidur tak main tak paling kiri kanan pun...lega dah..kadang i rasa senang ke ujian dia sokmo dpt 100%..sampai SBP dia jadi tutor dari form one lagi..ajar rakan2 sebayakan..so tak yah study gak..once u jadi tutor semua dah masuk dlm pala tu..dan dia juga aktif selalu tak ada sek...bila dia dpt incident lost memory masa form 5 tu baru nampak dia pulun study...tu i kata self motivated tinggi..dia jenis nak straight As..ayah dia pesan u must be better than your parents...tu spm 9A1..mak pak pun tak dpt straight As..
no 2 ni pun dah form 5 ni baru nampak dia study..pmr stil main2 gak semua jenis active sports and activiti usrah dia..tapi dia confiden bila tanya dah ready dah study..dia kata dont worry insyallah..9A gak pmr....ni baru apply darul quran last week guna spm trial.. pun dia kata insyallah lah boleh dapat nya...confident level memang tinggi..

hak girls ni tak blh lah treat same way mcm abang2..kalau potong belanja naya nak makan apa sbb jarang dpt A he he ..
yg form 3 kata kalau dpt 6A aja ok tak? saya jwab i 'll send u study religion in solo....dia kata lagi best..dah puas belajar ilmu dunia belajar ilmu akhirat lah pulak... awal2 dah study overc terror tu...abang2  pun next yr baru nak pi overc? larat dgr ?

conclusionnya diff kids has different style nak tackle fahami anak anda sepenuhnya dan cuba a few method sampai jumpa method yg sesuai dgn keupayaannya..

jiran saya ada anak yg hyperactive..ada sek khas for kids like this..kat putrajaya mula2 dia hantar gak lama2 tak larat now budak tu dok umah aja..tapi sekejap2 saya nampak dia lintas depan rumah..perempuan ni kalau pi masjid dpt solat satu waktu tu dah cukup baik dia tak duduk diam..pengasas mokhdar tu ada anak angkat hyper aktif ni umur 5 tahun tgk dia blh bentuk budak ni jadi pintar...dont ever gave up..mesti cari jalan yg sesuai utk anak2..dan jgn sekali2 compare anak dan sama kan anak2 each of them is unique...punya identity tersendiri..has his/her own specialties...anak bongsu saya ni sgt pandai jaga anak2 kecik..bayi kat nursery tu kalau tak nak dgn bibik tu asyik menangis dia sorang je boleh pujuk...dia selalu cerita mcm 2..ada one baby tu bantal busuk dia kalau orang ambil dia akan jerit kuat2 kalau anak saya yg ambil dia takkan marah...saya pun sembang2 dgn anak camtu baby( memang panggil dia baby) ambil bidang early childhood buka nursery lah senang...dia sampai dpt upah rm5, mak one of the baby bagi..sbb abang dan kakak baby tu cerita kat mak dia anak i yg sellau jaga baby tu ..

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Post time 13-10-2009 08:48 PM | Show all posts
269# kudajantan77

ada orang hantu tv rupanya ya..tak boring ke mengadadp tv ni...i ni pun buka tv now tgk berita sambil tgk forum cari...2 jobs in 1 time..
tapi kalau rancangan agama tu i suka lah full concentration hafal pun bila time dia kuar tv mana kul brapa..yg lain2 tah cam hampeh je...weekend  pun tak selalu buka i akan bawa kids pi somewhere

now my youngest ni every nite ada kelas tuition...sblm puasa hari tu dari isnin-ahad dia ada tution..isnin - jumaat dari jam 8-930 or 10.00 sabtu ahad pagi...jgn kata i dera anak lak memang kena baut mcm ni sbb dia di rumah takkan buka buku..so its like doing homework but do it somewhere else with someone...kumon tu aja dia buat keja sekolah tak buat langsung kecuali cikgu BI yg garang tu..
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 Author| Post time 13-10-2009 08:57 PM | Show all posts
284# sunsuria3

huhu...tak penat ke dia cikgu?
sekolah pagi ka?....sekolah agama petang?...
pastu malam lagik...sampai kol 10pm
kol berapa dia tido?

sorry kalo i tanya, kalo cikgu tahu dan aware dgn kelebihan dia kat lain
why u push her too hard??...
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 Author| Post time 13-10-2009 08:59 PM | Show all posts
[size=+6]IntelligenceThe name "Einstein" is now-a-days synonymous with the word "Genius."And he was, by most people's standards, a genius. But why? Why wasEinstein able to conjure up relativity and not some other no-namedphysicist?
Until recently, it was thought that Einstein was physically the sameas everyone else (there were studies done in the '70's that said thatEinstein had more Gila cells than the average person; but that wasnever proved-The brain is very complex and mysterious).

There was a study done by scientists at McMaster University inHamilton, Ont. that proved that part of Einstein's brain was biggerthan normal, although the weight of his brain remained average. Thatspecific part of the brain is known as the Parietal Region. It isthought to control mathematical reasoning, image perception, andlogical thinking. In Einstein, the Parietal Region is 15% bigger thanaverage. And if you put two and two together, it becomes apparent whyEinstein was so intelligent.

    But that was not the onlydifference in Einstein's brain. There is a gap that runs from the frontof the brain to the back separating the two hemispheres called theSulcus. That is not the case with Einstein's brain. The Sulcus did notrun all the way to the back of the brain. From that, you can concludethat the two hemispheres of his brain, the right and the left, wereable to communicate better. And the more communication there is betweenthe two hemispheres, the more it contributes to intelligence.

  Einstein also had an excellent ability to concentrate underdifficult circumstances. But he was only able to concentrate on thingsthat interested him. Einstein was able to work very complex equationsone minuet and the next he would spend with his kids. That might notsound like much but it required an ability concentrate that not manypeople have.
  As for Einstein's IQ, I don't know.  I don't know if he even took an IQ test.  Although I did read somewhere that his estimatedIQ was around 180; average IQ is 100 and the scale is exponential(meaning the difference between 100 and 105 is far less than thedifference between 170 and 175).

iklan jappp....
benda yg kita tekleh ubah

  
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Post time 13-10-2009 09:21 PM | Show all posts
kami tinggal berdua aja now...kat umah dia tka buat apa pun...pagi pi sekolah, transit kat nursery pi sek agama, balik sek agama dia pi mengaji jap...balik umah dlm 630 dia main2 dgn rabbit dia....sblm ni main dgn anak jiran depan rumah ni...then i sampai umah kami dinner, mandi, solat pi tuition..balik..solat, minum ke makan sikit ke then terus tidur...

kalau u penah baca one study kids have enormous energy compared to adults..at this age lah mereka amat mudah menerima info2...kira brain mereka berkembang rapidly masa early age ni..dah melepasi sek men tu development tu berkurang sikit..ada ni dlm buku pakar psikologi boleh refer and read..
mana u nak tgk dia melepak depan tv ke or just main2 without doing anything? sebab dia takkan baca buku or study at home..simply baring conteng2 kertas pun dia blh buat...gunting2 kertas sepah rumah eeeee...
sekrang ni yg penting dia mesti jadi educated..jadi orang berilmu.nak buka nursery tu pun kena ada qualifications tu...lepas sek men baru decide ke mana arah tuju nya...kejap nak jadi chef...kejapnak jadi vet...dia pun suka animals...dia tgk anjing pun kata comel...dia nak bela kucing i tak bagi so i just bought her rabbits for her birthday yesterday..kalau tidak dia angkut kucing jalanan tu bawa balik bagi makan semua...i tak suka kucing merayap dlm rumah ni..rabbit tu dok dlm sangkar dan lepaskan kat taman sebelah rumah ni..tak perlu masuk rumah...abang dia tlg buatkan pagar utk kandang rabit tu..at leat bagi dia pikul tanggungjawab sikit...bagi makan, dia belai rabbit tu...sambil tunggu i balik rumah..
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 Author| Post time 13-10-2009 09:32 PM | Show all posts
287# sunsuria3

lepak for only ONE hour a day...tak kisahlah dia nak buat apa
i rasa she deserves it......

anak cikgu memang takde istilah FREE time ka?...
bubble time in a tub?....my kids love this activity
dan i akan suruh depa berdua basuh toilet....
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Post time 13-10-2009 10:04 PM | Show all posts
ohh dia mandi paling kurang setengah jam.....bila buka toilet penuh bubble..kalau i tak ketuk pintu takkan habis mandi...
weekend she has all those kind of activities tu..siap invite kawan2 next door ni..our house corner lot buka tent buka plastic pool...i let her
dia dah ikut routine yg i set for her since last year so far so good ..bukan lah rigid sangat all the time but i considered it as her time table for the weekdays...dan as i mentioned memang ada a lot of improvement..ni baru blk tuition i tunggu dia habis ambil snakes..she told me tadi cikgu bagi test math dpt 30/40...ok lah tu...weekend memang free..
.tadi dia baru bg tau weekend ni blh hntr pi rumah kawan dia tak...nak main2 rumah dia ada byk barbie doll..she has too..lots of collections..tapi dia jarang main sendiri sbb she is the only one left ...beza dgn kakak pun 5 years..nak ajak kakak main pun tak mau nya..habis2 dia main cikgu2 dgn si kakak or main 'bintang rtm'

weekend dia kerap hilang pi rumah kawan...around this area lah..budak yg hyperaktif tu oneof  her bestfren gak..rumah dia byk kucing belaan yg bulu lebat ni..dia suka lepak situ..rakan sebaya dia ada depan rumah dan selang satu pintu sebelah rumah ni..tapi both kids kena kurung tak blh keluar rumah...lagi dasyat...kadang2 je parents dia orang bg keluar...

so weekdays time for studying weekend time for 'lepaking'

dekat maghrib balik, so that boleh pi masjid ..weekend je time pi masjid..weekdays busy..
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Post time 14-10-2009 07:43 AM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by misy at 14-10-2009 07:49
279# misy

dulu masa kat mrsm....ramai sgt kekawan yg scorer nie tauu
tensi duk dgn budak2 nie....dia tidur manjang!!...add math, score gak!

tapi bila tua2 nie jumpa balik....tertanya gak, eeh ...
my-alja Post at 2009-10-13 20:34


ade budak skolah aku , memang scorer, tapi kalau ko tgk dia cam down syndrome jek...kekadang tu dlm kelas leh nampak air liur meleleh masa cikgu ngajar, tapi memang terer a, kalau add maths paper 2 org pilih jawab 3 soalan, dia pi jawab semua, pasal apa dia kata sebab boring siap awal...nak keluar geng tak siap lagi...skrg nih aku dgr dia kat jepun buat PHd...org kata dia kena stay line R&D/akademik jek pasal tak leh nak survive dlm line industry/corporate...mybe gak kot hipotesis hang tu

aku jenis tak boleh stay up...exam ke tak exam ke aku kena tido awal...mcm terror sgt la tu tido awal
time dekat exam org lain pukul sepuluh bancuh kopi stay up, aku bancuh milo tido...bukan pasal aku scorer, tapi kalau aku stay up ,esok aku weng...pernah tiru derang berjaga, aku dpt D paper tuh
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 Author| Post time 14-10-2009 08:03 AM | Show all posts
289# sunsuria3

ok lah ada time lepak2 masa weekend....
kesian gak kalo takde lansung free time...
main2 tu pun part of learning...esp bila gunting2 paper
lukis2...i suka my anak  buat craft drp tgk TV...i mean in comparison

anak cikgu memang tuisyen dr kecik2 ekk....??
abang2 dan akak2 semua tu masuk tuisyen gakk...
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 Author| Post time 14-10-2009 08:11 AM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by misy at 14-10-2009 07:49



ade budak skolah aku , memang scorer, tapi kalau ko tgk dia cam down syndrome jek...kekadang tu dlm kelas leh nampak air liur meleleh masa cikgu ngaja ...
misy Post at 14-10-2009 07:43


semalam my son citer, thn nie saja...dlm bulan 10 nie
dia dah baca 80 bijik buku citer as recorded dlm buku nilam..
i cakap bagusss....dlm hati rajin gak budak ni
pastu dia sambung lagik....kawan dia lagi bagussss, budak tu dah baca 138 bijik buku
dlm thn nie...i mean setakat bulan 10 nie tauuu

so aku pun koreklah....budak tu cemana, so dia citer...selalu dpt no.1 dlm kelas
tanya lagik, dia suka buat apa selain drp baca buku?....any hobbies?
anak cakap, ntah....dia cuma duk tempat dia saja dlm kelas...tak jalan2 pun
so i jawab pastu, takpelah u baca 80 bijik saja....tapi umi nak awak main dgn kawan2

aku takmau anak aku jadi ulat buku nauuu....agak2laaa...
sayang plak zaman anak2 dia kita sekat ..takleh tu, takleh ni
masa tu akan lepasss pergi....takkan dah besar2 nak main "bumi bergegar..."
cam zaman kita dgn thunder cats....anak2 zaman transformer plak kann
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 Author| Post time 14-10-2009 08:16 AM | Show all posts
290# misy

btw misy....pasal dia duk line RnD nie, bukan semua org bole buat
kena ada certain karektor to be able to stay...

selalunya jenis otak sorang2...introvert type, stand alone type
dia tak perlukan sesapa ....susah nak paham org2 camni
my hb dlm RnD....kalo jumpa kawan2 dia...i bole biol!!
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Post time 14-10-2009 08:28 AM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by misy at 14-10-2009 08:30

293# my-alja

aku rasa org org mcm nih bukan stand-alone atau work in silo...derang masih boleh communicate among their fraternity, mcm publish paper, journal etc...cuma org luar yg melihat jek mcm pelik

ekceli setiap org ada cara tersendiri utk belajar, kecerdikan seseorang tu pun sgtla subjektif...tgk aje einstein tuh
malangnya, cikgu sekolah nak semua budak pandai mengikut cara mereka , cara yg dah ditetapkan oleh sistem pendidikan
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 Author| Post time 14-10-2009 08:40 AM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by misy at 14-10-2009 08:30

293# my-alja

aku rasa org org mcm nih bukan stand-alone atau work in silo...derang masih boleh communicate among their fraternity, mcm publish paper, ...
misy Post at 14-10-2009 08:28


yupp...depa bole citer pasal benda yg specific to his job
so bila mingle dgn org luar dr kelompok...susah bawak diri

my son ada gak ciri2 nie...maybe kalo exposure dr sekarang lain
i can mould him a bit
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Post time 14-10-2009 08:45 AM | Show all posts
semalam my son citer, thn nie saja...dlm bulan 10 nie
dia dah baca 80 bijik buku citer as recorded dlm buku nilam..
i cakap bagusss....dlm hati rajin gak budak ni
pastu dia sambung lagik....k ...
my-alja Post at 14-10-2009 08:11 AM


my doter tak rajin membaca sgt, ade le tak sampai 20..
tp die dok request thick english book , payah nak cari yg sesuai dgn umur die..
pastu die tanya, ma, boleh dina baca novel mama? I said NO!!!!!..nanti mama carikan ..
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Post time 14-10-2009 08:54 AM | Show all posts
my doter tak rajin membaca sgt, ade le tak sampai 20..
tp die dok request thick english book , payah nak cari yg sesuai dgn umur die..
pastu die tanya, ma, boleh dina baca novel mama? I said NO! ...
MrsJohn Post at 2009-10-14 08:45



baik hang pi sorok novel M&B  hang tuh

jap...yg buku merah tu program buku nilam ke hapa...yg tu kena isi sendiri ek? tak tau pun, anakku punya kosong jek
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Post time 14-10-2009 08:58 AM | Show all posts
yupp...depa bole citer pasal benda yg specific to his job
so bila mingle dgn org luar dr kelompok...susah bawak diri

my son ada gak ciri2 nie...maybe kalo exposure dr sekarang lain
i can moul ...
my-alja Post at 2009-10-14 08:40



yu can expose dia kat dunia luar,maybe utk keseimbangan...but yu cant change his character ...totally
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Post time 14-10-2009 08:59 AM | Show all posts
baik hang pi sorok novel M&B  hang tuh

jap...yg buku merah tu program buku nilam ke hapa...yg tu kena isi sendiri ek? tak tau pun, anakku punya kosong jek
misy Post at 14-10-2009 08:54 AM


kene isi sendiri misy,
M&B ni zaman sekolah luks, layan ler
Byk novel omputih ni , x sesuai dgn umur die...paham2 je laaaa
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Post time 14-10-2009 09:12 AM | Show all posts
kene isi sendiri misy,
M&B ni zaman sekolah luks, layan ler
Byk novel omputih ni , x sesuai dgn umur die...paham2 je laaaa
MrsJohn Post at 2009-10-14 08:59


ooo ye ke...patutla tak ter -isi buku tuh


paham paham....ko bagi le Jane austen ke...anak ko suka fiksyen ek
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