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shitzzz happen |
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if i'm the wife, i would have accepted it as dugaan from allah.
rezeki tu ada di mana2.
kenapa pulak kena berlakon depan wife macam tu? a wife is a husband's best friend, closest friend. she must know everything, 1st hand. bukan disorok2.. whether good news, or otherwise. |
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mmm...berterus terang jer lah... |
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Balas #1 BingkaUbi\ catat
kesah ni aku mcm penah bace jer....sejibik ayat & karangannya...kat FD pun ada skali dolu..
tak per arr...aku nak posting gak...
sat2 aku nak tanya...ko bing kan ke enjinier kat negara arab mana tah kan..?
kira bertahun gak la ko dok keja sana...gaji pun ribu riban ngalahkan gaji kat mesia...
dgn akal ko yg so called cerdik tu...takan ko tak saving langsung..?
aku bet koman2 saving ko ada dlm 50K - 100K..
apa tgg lagi..? balik msia la...duk kpg sat...ehh ko anak tunggalkan..? for sure byk reta punya tinggalan famili..apa kesahkan..???
balik jer la msia...msia pun makmur apa...keja pun melambak gak..mau tak mau jer.. |
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Pagi ni macam malas nak g kerja............. bila fikirkan ada orang yang kena buang kerja... kena bangun jugaklah... kena rajin.. sementara ada kerja.... |
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whether this is bing's story or not...
if i were bing, the 1st person i'd turn to is my spouse .... of course leeee  |
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Me oso waiting Bingka reply uols posting..baru ku percaya..
Tapi ku percaya., sekiranya benar...Bingka x perlu susah hati...
Seorang Isteri yg baik..akan sentiasa bersame suami dimasa susah/senang..sihat/sakit
Dan sentiasa ingat rezeki ader dimana-mana..yang penting..usaha.Kerana aper.,
Kerana aku dolo pun penah menghadapi situasi begini...Laki ku dibuang kerja..so aku tahu perasaan nye gimana. |
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losing up a job is i think one of the worst thing that can happen to someone regarded as the bread winner in a family
penah lost a job before and nothing could be worse masa tu sbb mmg a job was like the most priceless thing to me masa tu
dunia mmg gelap jap but life needs to move on, so gelap jap je and continue looking for a new job after that to fill up the void, tak kira la whatever job as long as can bring some money back...
as for bing, i would advise u to better inform yr spouse earlier/soonest or else dia akan feel sad yg u tak nak share one of yr saddest/depressing moments in yr life. Being the other half like me, i rasa "needed" n feel apprecited klu i become the first person my partner go to when he has good or bad news nak share.
so p/s inform yr wife soonest abt it then u can discuss together what is yr next move |
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Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 3-6-2009 21:20 
i lost my job 2 weeks ago and i couldnt bring myself to tell my wife.......everyday I dress for work, kiss wife n kids goodbye and drive to beach/park where I spend most of the day sitting in the ...
haha...
notty bing..!!
still waiting 4 his next comment..
next pls...
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nanti lama2 isteri akan tau jugak..
nak sorok sampai bila?
sian isteri tuh kena tipu...tak bek tauuuu
~ mana bing neh? ni kesah hidup ka kesah dr emel? |
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Reply #32 maizana's post
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jawapanmu tepat |
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Balas #24 koko2\ catat
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yup.... mcm penah baca jee cite nie........ sebijik plak 2..... |
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aku baca thread ni dgn rasa berderau derau darah aku.. nauzubillah..
aku suggest, cari keje lain CEPAT2.. at least grab few interviews then baru ckp kat wife.. jgn la lama sgt.. sementara takde keje ni, gi la part time mana2.. at least masa ko ckp dgn wife and ko ada interim plan, plus show to her that u are really working on something to get a job back, she will be convinced..
tp kalau ko rasa wife ko cukup strong to accept the reality, ko boleh consider bgtau dia sekarang and discuss sama2 way forward camna.. |
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try buat online biz ..bingka.. |
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aku baca citer ni mula2 tadi pun ingatkan kisah dari email..
tapi bila baca statement bing kata..GF tu..just a friend.. mungkin betul gak le..
* teringat kisah laki bree (Desperate Housewife) yg orson tu.. haritu pun takde kerja gak.. tapi pura2 gi keje.. pakai kot, tie segala..alih2..lepak kat taman bunga.. |
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Aku sebagai isteri dah mengalaminya tahun lepas.
Guess what, shit happens but it's not the end of the world!
Yang penting kena optimistik selalu. Jatuh bangun balik. Jangan cepat mengalah.
Rezeki ada kat mana2 bagi orang yang positip nak mencarinya.
Bing, tak yah lah sorok2 dari wife hang, cakap je yang benar.
Peh tu cariklah keja lain, atau start biz sundri. |
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ak xpercaya ianye berlaku kpd bingka, tp situasi ni mmg berlaku sekarang..
ramai yg kene buang kerja.
so pd ak thread ni bgs untuk sesiape yg telah dibuang kerja untuk cari jln penyelesaian |
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Post time 4-6-2009 08:33 AM
bukak topik or tumpang topik ini..
