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Author: pbw2775

Jangan lupa jadi "ISTERI" setelah bergelar ibu (just my seposen)

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Post time 10-3-2010 09:34 AM | Show all posts
btul ka dia sendiri x terurus???
ada bukti ka???
pbw2775 Post at 10-3-2010 09:12




Siapa pbw?
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Post time 10-3-2010 10:01 AM | Show all posts
15# BingkaUbi

yup betul..
jadik suami nie kena berpada2 la..
jgn duk pk pompuan superwoman..
x salah pun kalau saling membantu..
lagi satu yg penting jadik bini jgn ambik kesempatan
atas kebaikkan suami tu!!!
man-man laaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...
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Post time 10-3-2010 10:38 AM | Show all posts
fadilah kamsah ni bagi maklumat/ilmu berdasarkan kajian dia
kalu benda tu tak menepati 100% spt kehidupan kita, itu bukan salah fadilah pun
kita ni ada akal. Allah dah bagi
ambik la mana yang baik, yang elok dan yang boleh ikut
yang tak baik, yang tak elok tak payah ikut
jangan la dok perlecehkan orang

peace V
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Post time 10-3-2010 10:45 AM | Show all posts
fadilah kamsah ni bagi maklumat/ilmu berdasarkan kajian dia
kalu benda tu tak menepati 100% spt kehidupan kita, itu bukan salah fadilah pun
kita ni ada akal. Allah dah bagi
ambik la mana yang baik, ...
tennis Post at 10-3-2010 10:38



Kajian punca penceraian ke?

Sebab bila di baca apa yang dituliskan ni, I rasa 95% tak menepati kehidupan berkeluarga masakini. Rata2 isteri sekarang sama2 bekerja membantu suami, menguruskan anak2 lagi, diri sendiri lagi dan si suami pula nak demand di layan melebihi anak kecil yang tak tahu apa2 tu. Bukankah seeloknya di buat teguran kepada si suami pula supaya jangan lupa jadi "BAPA" setelah ada anak2?

My seposen ....
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Post time 10-3-2010 10:54 AM | Show all posts
i nie tiap2 pagi dgr dia bebel kat dlm radio bila buat bekfas kat my kids

setahu i, dia cakap....dia akan sindir pihak sebelah lagik, tak pernah tidak
pasti 2-2 kena....kalo tak dia ngata diri dia....
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Post time 10-3-2010 10:56 AM | Show all posts
24# sarahmirza

post ke-2 kan dah ada pesanan untuk father-father

again, kalu tak setuju dgn fadilah pun takpe. ikut jer la style sendirik. polis tak tangkap pun selagi tak menyalahi undang2
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Post time 10-3-2010 01:22 PM | Show all posts
Kepada suami, sedarlah anda dah jadi seorang bapa maka berkelakuan sebagai bapa selain dari suami...
sarahmirza Post at 9-3-2010 18:16


yang dr padilah tu tak cakap ker ramai lelaki yang dah jadi suami malah bapak tapi pangai masih cam oang bujang, malah ada sampai keje dia ceramah sana sini tak ingat dunia tapi anak kene ejek di sekolah dia pun tak tau, last2 bini adu mahkamah mintak cerai baru dia sedaq dia ada pamili mengelar diri ostad plak tu..btui dak sarah?


kalo nak supaya bini tu sedar dia isteri so suami tu jadi ler suami

kalo nak bini tu sedar dia manusia so suami tu jadi ler manusia dan bukan haiwan

kalo nak bini tu sedar dia sudah ada anak so suami tu jadi ler soang bapa

tapi kalo dah jenis tak sedaq diri cam lelaki malaya walo ostad ka lebai kaa.. cakap apa pun tak guna yer dak sarah?
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Post time 10-3-2010 01:47 PM | Show all posts
23# tennis

agreed.

Dia belajar khusus bidang ni, jadi dia akan gunakan apa yg dia belajar dan sampaikan pd org lain. Kalau ada rumahtangga yg berjaya diselamatkan, kira berkesan lah cara penyampaian ilmu dia. Lebih kurang samalah dengan doctor yang merokok. Takkan kau dah nak mampus sbb radang paru2 contohnya, tapi still 'anal' pasal etika peribadi doctor sampai kau rela mampus dari berubat dgn doctor yg merokok tu wlupun dah terang2 dialah pakar bidang tu.

Menyampaikan ceramah begini mmg dalam bidang tugas dia. Jadi, dia kena buatlah. Walaupun life dia sendiri tunggang langgang bercerai berai ngan bini, anak2 pun ntah kemana2 contohnya, tu semua diluar bidang kawalan dia. Dan kita sebagai orang yang beilmu dan boleh berfikir guna otak sendiri kununnya, tak payahlah nak sampai mempertikaikan private life dia, sbb dia tak dibayar untuk make his private life as if it was in a damned fairy tales, happily ever after, wife and children laughing and chatting on the lawn...to be exhibited as one of his job scopes.
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Post time 10-3-2010 02:11 PM | Show all posts
24# sarahmirza

post ke-2 kan dah ada pesanan untuk father-father

again, kalu tak setuju dgn fadilah pun takpe. ikut jer la style sendirik. polis tak tangkap pun selagi tak menyalahi und ...
tennis Post at 10-3-2010 10:56



post ke #2 tu dari Dr. Fadhilah ke? Cuba tanya TT..
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Post time 10-3-2010 02:15 PM | Show all posts
29# my-alja


yelah, macam satu mat saleh ni. Dia mmg expert dlm child protection and he works all around the globes including throwing himself in the thickest jungle and twice confined in the mosquito net due to malaria, just to ensure the children there are accessible to medical care even if he has to spend most of his entire life dedicating to this cause. But he's a gay. Yet, how many ideal and so-called perfect people would do this, for a tiny portions of money and the risks they have to take? Yet, they come out with stupid theories and analysis about other people, bitching around and while other people are busy making their lives better and people around them happier, these people will still stuck here.
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Post time 10-3-2010 02:20 PM | Show all posts
28# Core

typical m'sian culture ekk core...

they dun like the ideas...they make u look bad, sewel...segala macam
w/pun benda baik yg org tu buat....dia dah tak pandang daaa
heret plak citer  ...
my-alja Post at 10-3-2010 13:57




I tak sentuh pun peribadi dia, nak ambil tahu apa dah jadi pada anak isteri dia pun I tak berminat. I muak dengan ceramah segala, artikel segala yang asyik2 isteri sahaja yang kena mainkan peranan untuk mengharmonikan rumahtangga. Apapun, ikut selera masing2 la kan.... like I said dulu2, semuanya back to back, win win situation.. perumpamaan suami beri RM10, isteri kena pulangkan RM10 juga...Tak kurang, tak lebih...
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Post time 10-3-2010 02:29 PM | Show all posts
Post Last Edit by merz at 10-3-2010 14:30

Buang yg keruh, ambil yg jernih... apa2 yg boleh dimanfaatkan atau diamalkan, kita buat ler. dia bagi petua, kita guna la otak kita nak sesuaikan dgn situasi sendiri... lain benda lain org boleh buat, jadi dia compile semua tu utk dikongsi jer. kira sama la mcm info dlm forum2 ni... mana yg boleh pakai, ambik. x leh pakai, ignore je la...
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Post time 10-3-2010 02:47 PM | Show all posts
cakap pandai..

buat tengokkk
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Post time 10-3-2010 03:42 PM | Show all posts
32# sarahmirza

it is because.........

you see things from your favorite angle. That is why you failed to see others. You are blindly defensive and refused to open your eyes and take things in balance.

this is the same thing with feminism. Despites all their efforts throughout centuries fighting for equality for women, it left a thin line of impact on the society because they were driven by grudges and revenge, and some with own personal past history. Instead of working together or taking ideas from their rivals, which are men, they chunked them all out and had it their own way, one side, one angle.
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Post time 10-3-2010 03:47 PM | Show all posts
huhuhu takut pulak nak bg komen kat sini..panas2...
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Post time 10-3-2010 05:14 PM | Show all posts
32# sarahmirza  

it is because.........

you see things from your favorite angle. That is why you failed to see others. You are blindly defensive and refused to open your eyes and take things in ...
Core Post at 10-3-2010 15:42


that is the way narrow thinkers playing with their words...
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Post time 10-3-2010 05:23 PM | Show all posts
boboiiiii.... wuooooo pandei speking!
ankel banggeeee
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Post time 10-3-2010 07:56 PM | Show all posts
LOL...i stuju ape dato fadzilah tu pnyer kajian....
ni bkn nk ckp org k....ckp pd diri i jugak bahawasanya bile terasa kalo i tak setuju ngan mane2 tips ni i sebenarnyer mcm nk defence diri senirik je....dgn alasan skarang pompuan ngan laki dua2 keje ke ape ke kan....

padahal i bley je try berubah utk layan laki mcm tu kan...
its take two to tango....so kalo dpt laki yg sgt memahami jgn la smpai kite igt dia akn memahami smpai bile2....ade mase dia nk dilayan spt baby....

pada yg x memahami...sedar2 la diri dh jd bapak org k....
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Post time 10-3-2010 08:48 PM | Show all posts
uh tak faham gue,
tahun 2010 ni tahun malaysian berpanas panas hati ke..
salah tulis, ramai berpanas hati...
then lumba lumba tunjuk mana diri paling banyak ilmu
nak nyampaikan. kalau org tak terima,
ngata org ni camni camtu....

bosan gue...
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Post time 10-3-2010 09:33 PM | Show all posts
32# sarahmirza

sorry sarah....i tak maksudkan pd post u
i dah jawab pun sebelum nie....i tiap2 pagi dgr radio org tua si SY tu
pakcik padilah selalu bagi 2-2 belah pihak....baik isteri ataupun somi
sama saja kena....
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