anything to share,your thoughts,feelings anything under the sun....

Browneyes

Originally posted by guvnor at 23-9-2006 12:22 PM


rezki kat mana2 pon ada... mau rajin usaha jer~~~ kebayan luper ker yg dia pernah bertandang ke spore utk carik rezki??? apa salah nyer org spore gi mesia pulak??? wak kang ponz ada kat mesia,  ...

betul tu.. ni rezeki masing masing... Allah dah tetapkan...

Originally posted by alexandria_iz at 23-9-2006 12:12 PM
komen alex....

secara jujur, ada melayu di msia yg 'salah anggap' dengan orang melayu di spore....

alex guna perkataan 'salah anggap'..... sebab sebenarnyer, mereka kebanyakkan dengar cerita ...

alex... takmo apply kerakyatan sini ker??? masih syg kat bumiputra kott???

Browneyes

Originally posted by alexandria_iz at 23-9-2006 12:22 PM


melayu sri lanka?? alamak.... belum ada pengalaman laaa..... hahahahaha

melayu sri lanka dah tentu2 beza ngan melayu msia / spore.... diorang nyer cakap melayu pun lain sangat rasanyer.... e ...

kekekeke.....

teringat program about melayu sri lanka.. masa tu ada pengantin tengah atas pelamin bersanding.. sorang wakil baca doa dalam bahasa melayu.. aku faham sikit aje.. tapi doa dia merepek sikit

alexandria_iz

Originally posted by guvnor at 23-9-2006 12:24 PM


alex... takmo apply kerakyatan sini ker??? masih syg kat bumiputra kott???

xmo laaaa.... memang masih sayang kat bumiputra..... hahahahaha... jawapan iklas nih.....

but my hubby mmg plan nk tukar..... insya-allah, nx year..... kalo ada rezeki.....

alexandria_iz

Originally posted by Browneyes at 23-9-2006 12:26 PM

kekekeke.....

teringat program about melayu sri lanka.. masa tu ada pengantin tengah atas pelamin bersanding.. sorang wakil baca doa dalam bahasa melayu.. aku faham sikit aje.. tapi doa dia me ...

merepek camne?

Originally posted by alexandria_iz at 23-9-2006 12:28 PM


merepek camne?

agak nyer wak tu ajar doa 'bersatu' kott... tu yg merepek pada kak b~~~

dilah21

Originally posted by guvnor at 23-9-2006 12:14 PM


kebayan tu slalu kalah aku rasa... tu sebab dia sakit hati... kebayan, u r being SORE!!!! aku bkn sajer masih berpegang pada islam.. malahan aku ade niat nak mengislam kan manusia2 & jin2 y ...

alexandria_iz

Originally posted by guvnor at 23-9-2006 12:35 PM


agak nyer wak tu ajar doa 'bersatu' kott... tu yg merepek pada kak b~~~

hahahahahaha

Browneyes

Originally posted by alexandria_iz at 23-9-2006 12:28 PM


merepek camne?

susah lah nak explain.. dia cakap melayu macam style samy vellu

Browneyes

Originally posted by guvnor at 23-9-2006 12:35 PM


agak nyer wak tu ajar doa 'bersatu' kott... tu yg merepek pada kak b~~~

:siok:

fatz

Originally posted by Browneyes at 23-9-2006 11:56 AM
terfikir sejenak aku baca posting ni.. ambik dari bod CI.. thread Singapore: Malay Teens & Sex... aku cuma nak tanya  pendapat orang sini...

terer seh si kebayan ni.. baru tinggal  ...

kebayan ni sebenarnya dulu  ke boyan...bukan ke singapura...sebab tu yg dia nampak semunya boyan jer....

Browneyes

Originally posted by fatz at 24-9-2006 02:45 AM

kebayan ni sebenarnya dulu  ke boyan...bukan ke singapura...sebab tu yg dia nampak semunya boyan jer....

deaf4ever

yang topik tu aku baca pes page aku dah senyum sorang2..

siap ada mintak spore kena tsunami lagik, tapi cek nick, ooo no wonder.

THE CAB RIDE


Twenty years ago, I drove a cab for a living. When I arrived at 2:30 a.m.,
the building was dark except for a single light in a ground floor window.
Under these circumstances, many drivers would just honk once or twice, wait a
minute, then drive away.
But, I had seen too many impoverished people who depended on taxis as their
only means of transportation. Unless a situation smelled of danger, I always
went to the door. This passenger might be someone who needs my assistance, I
reasoned to myself.
So I walked to the door and knocked. "Just a minute," answered a frail,
elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor. After a
long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 80's stood before me. She
was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like
somebody out of a 1940s movie.
By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had
lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets. There were
no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks, or utensils on the counters. In the
corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.
"Would you carry my bag out to the car?" she said. I took the suitcase to the
cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly
toward the curb She kept thanking me for my kindness. "It's nothing," I told
her. "I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother
treated." "Oh, you're such a good boy," she said. When we got in the cab, she
gave me an address, then asked, "Could you drive through downtown?" "It's not
the shortest way," I answered quickly. "Oh, I don't mind," she said. "I'm in
no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice."
I looked in the rearview mirror. Her eyes were glistening. "I don't have any
family left," she continued. "The doctor says I don't have very long."
I quietly reached over and shut off the meter. "What route would you like me
to take?" I asked.
For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building
where she had once worked as an elevator operator. We drove through the
neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds.
She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom
where she had gone dancing as a girl.
Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner
and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.
As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, I'm
tired let's go now."
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building,
like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.
Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were
solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting
her.
I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was
already seated in a wheelchair.
"How much do I owe you?" she asked, reaching into her purse "Nothing," I
said. "You have to make a living," she answered.
"There are other passengers," I responded. Almost without thinking, I bent
and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.
"You gave an old woman a little moment of joy," she said. "Thank you"
I squeezed her hand, then walked into the dim morning light.
Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life. I didn't
pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For
the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an
angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift?
What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?
On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in
my life.
We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But
great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may
consider a small one.


PEOPLE MAY NOT REMEMBER EXACTLY WHAT 'YOU DID, OR WHAT YOU SAID, BUT THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL!
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as
well dance. Every morning when I open my eyes, I tell myself that it is
special. Every day, every minute, every breath truly is a gift from God!

WHY WE SHOULD GO HOME ON TIME...

Mr. Narayana Murthy is undoubtedly one of the most famous persons from
Karnataka. He is known not just for building the biggest IT Empire in
India but also for his simplicity. Almost every important dignitary
visits InfoSys campus. He delivered an interesting speech during an
employee session with another IT company In India. He is incidentally,
one of the top 50 influential people of Asia according to an Asiaweek
publication and also the new IT Advisor to the Thailand Prime Minister.


Extract of Mr. Narayana Murthy's Speech during Mentor Session:

I know people who work 12 hours a day, six days a week, or more. Some
people do so because of a work emergency where the long hours are only
temporary. Other people I know have put in these hours for years. I do
not know if they are working all these hours, but I do know they are in
the office this long. Others put in long office hours because they are
addicted to the workplace.

Whatever the reason for putting in overtime, working long hours over The
long term is harmful to the person and to the organization. There are
things managers can do to change this for everyone's benefit. Being in
the office long hours, over long periods of time, makes way for
potential errors.

My colleagues who are in the office long hours frequently make mistakes
caused by fatigue. Correcting these mistakes requires their time as Well
as the time and energy of others.
I have seen people work Tuesday through Friday to correct mistakes made
after 5 PM on Monday.

Another problem is that people who are in the office long hours are not
pleasant company. They often complain about other people (who are not
working as hard); they are irritable, or cranky, or even angry. Other
people avoid them. Such behaviour poses problems, where work goes much
better when people work together instead of avoiding one another.

As Managers, there are things we can do to help people leave the office.
First and foremost is to set the example and go home ourselves. I work
with a manager who chides people for working long hours. His words
quickly lose their meaning when he sends these chiding group e-mails
with a time-stamp of 2 AM, Sunday.

Second is to encourage people to put some balance in their lives. For
instance, here is a guideline I find helpful:
1)  Wake up, eat a good breakfast, and go to work.
2)  Work hard and smart for eight or nine hours.
3)  Go home.
4)  Read the books/comics, watch a funny movie, dig in the dirt, play
with your kids, etc.
5)  Eat well and sleep well.

This is called recreating. Doing steps 1, 3, 4, and 5 enable step 2.
Working regular hours and recreating daily are simple concepts. They are
hard for some of us because that requires 'personal change'. They are
possible since we all have the power to choose to do them.

In considering the issue of overtime, I am reminded of my oldest son.
When he was a toddler, if people were visiting the apartment, he would
not fall asleep no matter how long the visit was, and no matter what
time of day it was. He would fight off sleep until the visitors left.
It was as if he was afraid that he would miss some thing. Once our
visitors' left, he would go to sleep. By this time, however, he was Over
tired and would scream through half the night with nightmares. He, my
wife, and I, all paid the price for his fear of missing out.

Perhaps some people put in such long hours because they do not want to
miss anything when they leave the office. The trouble with this is that
events will never stop happening. That is life! Things happen 24 hours a
day.

Allowing for little rest is not ultimately practical. So, take a nap.
Things will happen while you are asleep, but you will have the energy to
catch up when you wake up.

Hence,

"LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE YOU
NEVER KNOW WHEN THE COMPANY STOPS LOVING YOU" - Narayana Murthy

[ Last edited by  matz_rockz at 27-9-2006 09:21 AM ]

Siapakah orang yang sibuk?
Orang yang sibuk adalah orang yang tidak mengambil berat akan waktu
solatnya seolah-olah ia mempunyai kerajaan seperti kerajaan Nabi
Sulaiman a.s


Siapakah orang yang manis senyumanya?
Orang yang mempunyai senyuman yang manis adalah orang yang ditimpa
musibah lalu dia kata "Inna lillahi wainna illaihi rajiuun." Lalu sambil
berkata,"Ya Rabbi Aku redha dengan ketentuanMu ini", sambil mengukir
senyuman.

Siapakah orang yang kaya?
Orang yang kaya adalah orang yang bersyukur dengan apa yang ada dan
tidak lupa akan kenikmatan dunia yang sementara ini.

Siapakah orang yang miskin?
Orang yang miskin adalah orang tidak puas dengan nikmat yang ada
sentiasa menumpuk - numpukkan harta.

Siapakah orang yang rugi?
Orang yang rugi adalah orang yang sudah sampai usia pertengahan namun
masih berat untuk melakukan ibadat dan amal-amal kebaikan.

Siapakah orang yang paling cantik?
Orang yang paling cantik adalah orang yang mempunyai akhlak yang baik.
Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang paling luas?
Orang yang  mempunyai rumah yang paling luas adalah orang yang mati
membawa amal-amal kebaikan di mana kuburnya akan di perluaskan saujana
mata memandang.


Siapakah orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit lagi dihimpit?
Orang yang mempunyai rumah yang sempit adalah orang yang mati tidak
membawa amal-amal kebaikkan lalu kuburnya menghimpitnya.
Siapakah orang yang mempunyai akal?
Orang yang mempunyai akal adalah orang-orang yang menghuni syurga kelak
kerana telah mengunakan akal sewaktu di dunia untuk menghindari siksa
neraka.


Siapakah org yg KEDEKUT ?
Orang yg kedekut ialah org yg membiar atau membuang email ini  begitu
sahaja, malah dia tidak akan menyampaikan pula pada org lain.

deaf4ever

ni ambik dari satu tulisan pasal Arsene Wenger , manager Arsenal.
tapi aku rasa relevan untuk semua , something for all of us to learn.



a gentleman rather than a well-groomed bully on his best behaviour.
A gentleman is someone who can be trusted.
A gentleman's word is his bond.
A gentleman has good manners and is public-spirited.
A gentleman has firm principles and unimpeachable integrity.
A gentleman has an aura of charm and intelligence.
A gentleman, above all, is someone who can demonstrate grace under pressure,

alexandria_iz

semalam alex pegi new house yg tgh under renovation.... dah 2 minggu x pegi jengah... patut nyer dah siap 10 hari lepas - tapi x siap2....

me, my hubby & my ID team met at the new house at 3 pm.... adoi!! memang sakit hati.... dah laa banyak lagi x siap, kabinet dapur & almari kat bilik tetamu - memang x senonoh.... lain yg kitorang cakap, lain yg dia buat.... dalam design yg diorang bagi, nampak elok... bila buat (x siap lagi tu!) lain dari apa yg dalam gambar.... alahai.... frust sangat2.... sakit jiwa pun ada....

my hubby dah bertekak ngan diorang.... dah laa buat keje cam siput - lembab giler... keje x memuaskan pulak tu.... arrrgghhh!!

alex pun selamba je cakap ngan diorang: 'if this is ur house, wud u want ur kitchen to look like this?? wud u even want to stay in this house?? (masa tu kitorang tengah x puas hati ngan dapur)....

entah laa.... renovate rumah bukan pakai sikit duit.... kitorang cari ID for nearly 1 1/2 months.... tengok harga / kualiti keje.... last2 terkena gak..... tensennyer.....

virgomal

alexandria_iz

Originally posted by virgomal at 3-10-2006 11:28 AM

jilbab pengaman tu apa? bahasa melayu singapore untuk 'menutup aurat' ye?