Para Isteri Yg perlu Bekerja..............Do You really need that EXTRAS?????

LostSoul · Post time 22-4-2008 06:37 PM

heheheh minyak yuu yee ye dhia..?

LostSoul · Post time 22-4-2008 06:39 PM

mmm i would say, yeah.. you can enjoy your work and it can give you satisfaction that you needed, even though you are working to support your family.. it all depends on us..

BingkaUbi · Post time 22-4-2008 07:01 PM

Originally posted by diamante at 22-4-2008 06:36 PM
kita kerja untuk hidup

atau

hidup untuk kerja?

tak kisah pada asas apa kita bekerja

jawap dulu, esok dhia elaborate kan

keje tuk suka2......kalu tak keje nnt buhsan plakkk..........kalu aku tak keje, pak aku suh aku balik dok msia sambung business pak mertua aku yg dia kena jaga tuhhh.....aku takmo la plak nak balik msia.....aku bg alasan aku keje kat sini....ekekekekeke....ok ka jawapan aku??

yaszz · Post time 22-4-2008 08:51 PM

Originally posted by LostSoul at 22-4-2008 06:39 PM
mmm i would say, yeah.. you can enjoy your work and it can give you satisfaction that you needed, even though you are working to support your family.. it all depends on us..

It's sooo true... there's no difference after all...

manakautau · Post time 30-4-2008 10:40 AM

Originally posted by BingkaUbi at 22-4-2008 07:01 PM

keje tuk suka2......kalu tak keje nnt buhsan plakkk..........kalu aku tak keje

ah ah, yg suami tak bekerja pun tak kisah.......omak bapak kat sini bukan pun leh tahu......tu bagusnya dok jauh2 ni.........apa2 pun......"abg mad dah pergi kerja ayah, ni milah pun nak siapkan budak2 pi nursery sebelum langsung ke opis"...padahal.....suami tak bekerja dah berbulan........dan tang tu pun sedang terbongka depan TV tengok american football...

Bukan pun omak ayah boleh datang jengok tiap2 minggu kan bro????????

Bebanyok case camni bro.....

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manakautau · Post time 30-4-2008 10:43 AM

Originally posted by diamante at 22-4-2008 06:36 PM
esok dhia elaborate kan

Hang kata nak elaborate esok atau tahun depan?????

manakautau · Post time 30-4-2008 11:07 AM

Originally posted by yaszz at 22-4-2008 08:51 PM

It's sooo true... there's no difference after all...

.............TEKANAN nyer tentu lain antara org yg enjoy their work sebab ada tanggungan dgn org yg enjoy their work tanpa perlu fikir akan tanggungan.....

maiching · Post time 2-5-2008 12:16 AM

utg badan dpt laki kaya

kakak ku pun kira dpt laki kaya gak, income sebulan 20k salary, tapi dia masa kawin terus tak mo keje sebab gaji dia baru 800 aje,
so laki dia kata, kalau awak keje saya tak kasi allowance, tapi kalau berhenti, dia kasi 1.5k sebulan duit sopping tak masuk duit minyak kete,
duit lelain, kira duit dia aje..terus dia berhenti..(haku ckp kalau dia keje gak..memang hehehe). dia bukan kawin dgn laki tua kaya or laki orang,, laki dia 1st love kira dari zaman sekolah gitu tapi member pandai berbeza dgn kakak ku

..beruntung dia.

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manakautau · Post time 2-5-2008 11:27 PM

When the decisions have been made by the wives to go out and work, the following 3 conditions will automatically come into play......

Tuntutan pekerjaan.........tekanan serta cabaran yg bakal dihadapi oleh sang isteri dan tanggunjawab yg harus dipikul dengan penuh amanah, kerana melaui pekerjaan tersebut lah, mereka akan diberi gaji.

Masa anak2 yg masih memerlukan tangan ibu utk membelai akan berkurangan..........This the kids will have no say.........

Keperluan suami, makan minum perhatian dan sebagainya..........will be less looked into............

Kalau suami yg minta isteri sama2 keluar bekerja(utk membantunya) dan isteri bersetuju.......then it shud only be logik that suami tidak boleh mengharapkan masa serta perhatian yg isteri berikan padanya sama seperti jika isterinya tidak bekerja... Tapi bagaimana pula bagi isteri yg tetap mahu keluar bekerja dan suami mengizinkan walaupun suami itu mampu menyara isterinya itu serta anak2? Will it be logik then for suami itu diminta utk compromise oleh sang isteri?????

theflyinglady · Post time 3-5-2008 10:25 AM

I really don't understand how much attention do you need as a husband? Adakah anda kekurangan belaian dan kasih sayang semasa membesar?

manakautau · Post time 3-5-2008 10:38 AM

Originally posted by theflyinglady at 3-5-2008 10:25 AM
I really don't understand how much attention do you need as a husband? Adakah anda kekurangan belaian dan kasih sayang semasa membesar?

..........Sebagai Husband and sebagai Anak?????????? Tentunya tak sama kan dear???????

theflyinglady · Post time 3-5-2008 11:32 AM

Memang tak sama. But if received enough love and attention while we we're growing up, we will be a well-adjusted adult. We would not need so much attention instead we will be capable of giving attention to our loved ones. To me, lelaki yang nak isteri dia jaga makan, pakai dan semua urusan rumah tangga tu sebenarnya pemalas. Dalam Islam, isteri bukannya kena buat kerja rumah tetapi hanya supervise. Martabat wanita adalah lebih tinggi dari itu.

manakautau · Post time 3-5-2008 12:14 PM

Originally posted by theflyinglady at 3-5-2008 11:32 AM
Memang tak sama. But if received enough love and attention while we we're growing up, we will be a well-adjusted adult. We would not need so much attention instead we will be capable of giving ...

........be very careful bila you cakap pasal Islam kata tu........neeway it is good that you acknowledge the fact that the kind of love we received bila kita membesar sebagai anak dgn bila kita dah ada isteri atau suami tu berbeza sama sekali ????

Isteri kena buat kerja rumah......Mertabat wanita lagi tinggi dari ini.......... Is this your stand????? Think...think....and think...

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theflyinglady · Post time 3-5-2008 12:28 PM

Correct me if I'm wrong.  Dalam Islam wanita kena kemas rumah ke?

To me martabat wanita sebagai ibu dan isteri sangat tinggi.  Do not oversimplify things.

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manakautau · Post time 3-5-2008 12:34 PM

Originally posted by theflyinglady at 3-5-2008 12:28 PM
Correct me if I'm wrong. Dalam Islam wanita kena kemas rumah ke?

To me martabat wanita sebagai ibu dan isteri sangat tinggi. Do not oversimplify things.